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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"The ghost has become corporeal again?!
Thanks for my fab sweet cheeks xx  "
It's a pic that summarises up your penchant for mischief in a simple and effective manner. Visual succinctness. I enjoyed it muchly.  |
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"I need briefing.
I need debriefing. 
I need de-briefing, then briefing then re-briefing.
Will it be brief?
And to the point.
Where are you aiming?"
I've seen the vids, always up the nose and in the eyes. I don't make the rules. BUT I WILL ADHERE TO THEM WITHOUT MERCY!! |
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"The ghost has become corporeal again?!
Thanks for my fab sweet cheeks xx
It's a pic that summarises up your penchant for mischief in a simple and effective manner. Visual succinctness. I enjoyed it muchly. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it good he's back or is he still a Brian? "
Contact was sent, with a want to talk/explain. So I don’t yet know what was occurring. This will unravel tomorrow.
Let’s hold the decision. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I need briefing.
I need debriefing.
I need de-briefing, then briefing then re-briefing.
Will it be brief?
And to the point.
Where are you aiming?
I've seen the vids, always up the nose and in the eyes. I don't make the rules. BUT I WILL ADHERE TO THEM WITHOUT MERCY!! "
And don’t I nose it, eye eye Captain |
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"Is it good he's back or is he still a Brian?
Contact was sent, with a want to talk/explain. So I don’t yet know what was occurring. This will unravel tomorrow.
Let’s hold the decision. "
I see. I prefer groundless prejudgement, but have it your own way.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it good he's back or is he still a Brian?
Contact was sent, with a want to talk/explain. So I don’t yet know what was occurring. This will unravel tomorrow.
Let’s hold the decision.
I see. I prefer groundless prejudgement, but have it your own way. "
Oh let’s do that!
He’s not dead, so the judgement has to be PRICK, yeah?  |
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"Is it good he's back or is he still a Brian?
Contact was sent, with a want to talk/explain. So I don’t yet know what was occurring. This will unravel tomorrow.
Let’s hold the decision.
I see. I prefer groundless prejudgement, but have it your own way.
Oh let’s do that!
He’s not dead, so the judgement has to be PRICK, yeah? "
Oh yeah, i forgot you're a liberal. I was going with a Brian. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The ghost has become corporeal again?!
Thanks for my fab sweet cheeks xx
Gimme a sweet cheeks too!!
You can have rosy red cheeks..
Whereabouts?
Basingstoke. "
The 1940s sweet store in the Milestones Museum? |
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"The ghost has become corporeal again?!
Thanks for my fab sweet cheeks xx
Gimme a sweet cheeks too!!
You can have rosy red cheeks..
Whereabouts?
Basingstoke.
The 1940s sweet store in the Milestones Museum?"
Hmmmm, i don't really *do* sweets.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it good he's back or is he still a Brian?
Contact was sent, with a want to talk/explain. So I don’t yet know what was occurring. This will unravel tomorrow.
Let’s hold the decision.
I see. I prefer groundless prejudgement, but have it your own way.
Oh let’s do that!
He’s not dead, so the judgement has to be PRICK, yeah?
Oh yeah, i forgot you're a liberal. I was going with a Brian. "
Bloody Kipper. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The ghost has become corporeal again?!
Thanks for my fab sweet cheeks xx
Gimme a sweet cheeks too!!
You can have rosy red cheeks..
Whereabouts?
Basingstoke.
The 1940s sweet store in the Milestones Museum?
Hmmmm, i don't really *do* sweets...."
I heard you liked fudge. |
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"Is it good he's back or is he still a Brian?
Contact was sent, with a want to talk/explain. So I don’t yet know what was occurring. This will unravel tomorrow.
Let’s hold the decision.
I see. I prefer groundless prejudgement, but have it your own way.
Oh let’s do that!
He’s not dead, so the judgement has to be PRICK, yeah?
Oh yeah, i forgot you're a liberal. I was going with a Brian.
Bloody Kipper."
Fawcoff! Im no lefty! |
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"The ghost has become corporeal again?!
Thanks for my fab sweet cheeks xx
Gimme a sweet cheeks too!!
You can have rosy red cheeks..
Whereabouts?
Basingstoke.
The 1940s sweet store in the Milestones Museum?
Hmmmm, i don't really *do* sweets....
I heard you liked fudge."
Its true. But it was a Christmas job and i developed RSI. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it good he's back or is he still a Brian?
Contact was sent, with a want to talk/explain. So I don’t yet know what was occurring. This will unravel tomorrow.
Let’s hold the decision.
I see. I prefer groundless prejudgement, but have it your own way.
Oh let’s do that!
He’s not dead, so the judgement has to be PRICK, yeah?
Oh yeah, i forgot you're a liberal. I was going with a Brian.
Bloody Kipper.
Fawcoff! Im no lefty! "
You’re so right, you’ve looped back round - I’m going to wear my Jeremy Corbyn pants for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The ghost has become corporeal again?!
Thanks for my fab sweet cheeks xx
Gimme a sweet cheeks too!!
You can have rosy red cheeks..
Whereabouts?
Basingstoke.
The 1940s sweet store in the Milestones Museum?
Hmmmm, i don't really *do* sweets....
I heard you liked fudge.
Its true. But it was a Christmas job and i developed RSI."
Didn’t you mean STD? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That Sunday was the last time you'd heard, had you sent him anything since that it was a strict no contact from you and he's just got in touch off his own back? What's his reasons for radio silence? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is when i realise i need to spend more time on here again - off to follow the green arrow doodar
I think it’s dropped off my 30 - sorry!  "
think it has -  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That Sunday was the last time you'd heard, had you sent him anything since that it was a strict no contact from you and he's just got in touch off his own back? What's his reasons for radio silence?"
On the Sunday I assumed nothing untoward. So there was a message from me on the Wednesday asking simply if all was okay. No pressure.
I don’t know reason yet. Speaking tomorrow. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"this is when i realise i need to spend more time on here again - off to follow the green arrow doodar
I think it’s dropped off my 30 - sorry!
think it has - "
Atropos’ comment will shed a light. Ghosting was the topic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That Sunday was the last time you'd heard, had you sent him anything since that it was a strict no contact from you and he's just got in touch off his own back? What's his reasons for radio silence?
On the Sunday I assumed nothing untoward. So there was a message from me on the Wednesday asking simply if all was okay. No pressure.
I don’t know reason yet. Speaking tomorrow."
You done well to keep it to the one message. If there's been nothing from you and just over two weeks since you last sent him any contact I think you've just given him the gift of missing you.
I WISH I could hold my tongue in similar situations, I probably could have salvaged some good stock if I'd just given them a grace period and not shown my crazy.
My best friend and I use the abacus analogy. Any romantic relationship is an abacus with 9 beads, beads symbolise power. You never both equally share it, he's given you some beads back now by getting in touch. If his excuse is valid enough it's obviously up to you what you do with the information and him, but it's good you've got some beads back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is when i realise i need to spend more time on here again - off to follow the green arrow doodar
I think it’s dropped off my 30 - sorry!
think it has -
Atropos’ comment will shed a light. Ghosting was the topic. "
righty - im on it now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That Sunday was the last time you'd heard, had you sent him anything since that it was a strict no contact from you and he's just got in touch off his own back? What's his reasons for radio silence?
On the Sunday I assumed nothing untoward. So there was a message from me on the Wednesday asking simply if all was okay. No pressure.
I don’t know reason yet. Speaking tomorrow.
You done well to keep it to the one message. If there's been nothing from you and just over two weeks since you last sent him any contact I think you've just given him the gift of missing you.
I WISH I could hold my tongue in similar situations, I probably could have salvaged some good stock if I'd just given them a grace period and not shown my crazy.
My best friend and I use the abacus analogy. Any romantic relationship is an abacus with 9 beads, beads symbolise power. You never both equally share it, he's given you some beads back now by getting in touch. If his excuse is valid enough it's obviously up to you what you do with the information and him, but it's good you've got some beads back. "
Well he’s indicated that something significant has happened but wants to speak directly for explanation, but we shall see what transpires. To be honest, I felt so surprised by it all I didn’t want to chase, if it is a “dick” move, then it’s not someone I’m interested in associating with and was so far out of whack with my experience of him, that would concern me how well I was duped so I’d steer clear - that quite honestly I was more worried something major had happened and therefore chasing wouldn’t have got me anywhere. Regardless, I have closure even at this point and happy knowing he’s alive, whatever comes next, and pleased to receive an apology. The rest...we shall see. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"this is when i realise i need to spend more time on here again - off to follow the green arrow doodar
I think it’s dropped off my 30 - sorry!
think it has -
Atropos’ comment will shed a light. Ghosting was the topic.
righty - im on it now "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah just hear him out that's all you can do.
I wish I had left it after that dude wanted to meet me again, instead I met him another 6 times, started liking him even more and then he cut everything off! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah just hear him out that's all you can do.
I wish I had left it after that dude wanted to meet me again, instead I met him another 6 times, started liking him even more and then he cut everything off!"
There’s always a leap of faith, and hindsight is easy to beat yourself up with. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmmm, I like the abacus theory. I’m glad you’re being level headed and giving him a chance for an explanation but not jumping into giving him carte Blanche to get away Scot free x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hmmm, I like the abacus theory. I’m glad you’re being level headed and giving him a chance for an explanation but not jumping into giving him carte Blanche to get away Scot free x "
Nice pun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm, I like the abacus theory. I’m glad you’re being level headed and giving him a chance for an explanation but not jumping into giving him carte Blanche to get away Scot free x
Nice pun "
Sorry, I tried thinking of a different phrase but that fit so aptly x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hmmm, I like the abacus theory. I’m glad you’re being level headed and giving him a chance for an explanation but not jumping into giving him carte Blanche to get away Scot free x
Nice pun
Sorry, I tried thinking of a different phrase but that fit so aptly x "
I liked it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Be like Mac. Keep the walls up but the gate a tiny little bit ajar.
Lots of love x
Is your gate your cunt?! 
Thanks Mack xx
Speculation dearest
*yes*"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That Sunday was the last time you'd heard, had you sent him anything since that it was a strict no contact from you and he's just got in touch off his own back? What's his reasons for radio silence?
On the Sunday I assumed nothing untoward. So there was a message from me on the Wednesday asking simply if all was okay. No pressure.
I don’t know reason yet. Speaking tomorrow.
You done well to keep it to the one message. If there's been nothing from you and just over two weeks since you last sent him any contact I think you've just given him the gift of missing you.
I WISH I could hold my tongue in similar situations, I probably could have salvaged some good stock if I'd just given them a grace period and not shown my crazy.
My best friend and I use the abacus analogy. Any romantic relationship is an abacus with 9 beads, beads symbolise power. You never both equally share it, he's given you some beads back now by getting in touch. If his excuse is valid enough it's obviously up to you what you do with the information and him, but it's good you've got some beads back.
Well he’s indicated that something significant has happened but wants to speak directly for explanation, but we shall see what transpires. To be honest, I felt so surprised by it all I didn’t want to chase, if it is a “dick” move, then it’s not someone I’m interested in associating with and was so far out of whack with my experience of him, that would concern me how well I was duped so I’d steer clear - that quite honestly I was more worried something major had happened and therefore chasing wouldn’t have got me anywhere. Regardless, I have closure even at this point and happy knowing he’s alive, whatever comes next, and pleased to receive an apology. The rest...we shall see."
What if he's met someone? 
He better have a good excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Things are making sense. And I’m pleasantly surprised.
Been talking all night.
Was he running away from feelings?"
Something very sad happened, and yes, a lot of things were being shut out as a consequence. There’s more to talk through and we’ve time to do that gently, cautiously. I’ve already had one freak panic run and he handled that by doing something that genuinely took my breath away.
I’m remaining open.
Honestly, I’m just so relieved he’s safe - whatever else happens. The lingering sad of “what if he’s dead?” was really present. Which I know is extreme but it left me not knowing how to process this as “he chose to go blah blah” or whether I was tarnishing the memory of him. Sorry, hard to explain. |
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"Things are making sense. And I’m pleasantly surprised.
Been talking all night.
Was he running away from feelings?
Something very sad happened, and yes, a lot of things were being shut out as a consequence. There’s more to talk through and we’ve time to do that gently, cautiously. I’ve already had one freak panic run and he handled that by doing something that genuinely took my breath away.
I’m remaining open.
Honestly, I’m just so relieved he’s safe - whatever else happens. The lingering sad of “what if he’s dead?” was really present. Which I know is extreme but it left me not knowing how to process this as “he chose to go blah blah” or whether I was tarnishing the memory of him. Sorry, hard to explain. "
I understand what you mean. Or it makes sense from my experiences anyway. You need to know if you can be pissed off at him or not.
Really glad he came back. Really glad. That empty ghost feeling is horrible. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Things are making sense. And I’m pleasantly surprised.
Been talking all night.
Was he running away from feelings?
Something very sad happened, and yes, a lot of things were being shut out as a consequence. There’s more to talk through and we’ve time to do that gently, cautiously. I’ve already had one freak panic run and he handled that by doing something that genuinely took my breath away.
I’m remaining open.
Honestly, I’m just so relieved he’s safe - whatever else happens. The lingering sad of “what if he’s dead?” was really present. Which I know is extreme but it left me not knowing how to process this as “he chose to go blah blah” or whether I was tarnishing the memory of him. Sorry, hard to explain.
I understand what you mean. Or it makes sense from my experiences anyway. You need to know if you can be pissed off at him or not.
Really glad he came back. Really glad. That empty ghost feeling is horrible. "
I’ve not actually felt angry at any point, sad - yes, and sad for him, even if had been an utter dick, that he would be choosing to or feeling he had to live his life being a dick!
But you’re right. The ability to breathe out and not have empty wondering is huge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Things are making sense. And I’m pleasantly surprised.
Been talking all night.
Was he running away from feelings?
Something very sad happened, and yes, a lot of things were being shut out as a consequence. There’s more to talk through and we’ve time to do that gently, cautiously. I’ve already had one freak panic run and he handled that by doing something that genuinely took my breath away.
I’m remaining open.
Honestly, I’m just so relieved he’s safe - whatever else happens. The lingering sad of “what if he’s dead?” was really present. Which I know is extreme but it left me not knowing how to process this as “he chose to go blah blah” or whether I was tarnishing the memory of him. Sorry, hard to explain.
I understand what you mean. Or it makes sense from my experiences anyway. You need to know if you can be pissed off at him or not.
Really glad he came back. Really glad. That empty ghost feeling is horrible.
I’ve not actually felt angry at any point, sad - yes, and sad for him, even if had been an utter dick, that he would be choosing to or feeling he had to live his life being a dick!
But you’re right. The ability to breathe out and not have empty wondering is huge. "
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