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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me that seems to send messages without even a polite rebuff reply? How hard is it to simply type not interested and hit enter? Far too many poorly mannered people |
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"Is it just me that seems to send messages without even a polite rebuff reply? How hard is it to simply type not interested and hit enter? Far too many poorly mannered people "
How do you come to the conclusion that the people are bad mannered ? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Is it just me that seems to send messages without even a polite rebuff reply? How hard is it to simply type not interested and hit enter? Far too many poorly mannered people "
Very!  
How hard is it for you to read the site faqs?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people get thousands of messages dude.. Its impossible to reply to everyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not hard at all but sometimes I just can't be arsed |
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I think it is nad mamners to join a site and not read the FAQ. How long does that take? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Send your messages, but never, ever, ever, ever look in the sent box. It will drive you mad!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has been done to death, no reply=not interested, it's not hard to understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that seems to send messages without even a polite rebuff reply? How hard is it to simply type not interested and hit enter? Far too many poorly mannered people "
You are aware that any profile you reply to is the exempt from any future filters you apply? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've been here 9 months. How have you not read the faq's yet? Perhaps reading that will give you a good idea of whether it is bad manners or not |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Is it just me that seems to send messages without even a polite rebuff reply? How hard is it to simply type not interested and hit enter? Far too many poorly mannered people "
Not everyone doesn't reply. Plenty of us do, to every message however silly, rude or lame.
The thing is the site has made it clear that no response means 'no thanks'.
Stop looking at your sent mailbox, send the message and forget about it... if you get a reply its a nice bonus. |
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There you go OP
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum-search/Manners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you've found the forums but not managed to read the hundreds of other threads on this topic?
If you can't be arsed to see if this has been discussed before, why do you expect others to reply to hundreds of brief crappy messages demonstrating no specific interest in the recipient or reflecting any understanding of their profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What difference does "no thanks" make? They still arent interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, a polite reply doesn't always work. Some want to know why you are not interested, and Some can get abusive. Not everyone does that, but you can't know which ones will accept the rejection and not take it personally. It's really not worth the stress |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
Some people answer, some don't. If you accept this your time on the site will probably be more enjoyable |
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