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Do you have to love yourself before you can others,?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have heard this saying Many times suppose it could have some validity to it "
And you here some say oooo he or she is really up them self s as in loving them selfs ... you cant win . lol  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Having dated somebody when I was younger who was full if hang ups and issues around themselves totally lacking in any self confidence it is definitely true. It was very wearing constantly having to reassure her that she was beautiful and that I loved her for herself. |
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By *ky19Man
over a year ago
Plymouth OYO Hotel |
"Having dated somebody when I was younger who was full if hang ups and issues around themselves totally lacking in any self confidence it is definitely true. It was very wearing constantly having to reassure her that she was beautiful and that I loved her for herself."
Yeah I agree with this, having been like that a lot of my life, and still am a bit. Maybe put it this way, if a person doesn't respect themself they're probably not going to respect you. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"I totally agree, as someone that suffers from depression it's very hard to love someone else when you're constantly beating yourself up and on a self destruct mode. "
She pushed me away in the end saying that I was too good for her. I was both heartbroken and relieved at the same time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think ppl know what true love is these days, as I we live in a society where things come and go so easily we're spoilt.....you have to love yourself not over the top tho and be big headed about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah you do.
I see so many women in unhappy relationships who are there because their self esteem and confidence are so low they don't feel they can be alone, the same goes for some who just skip from relationship to relationship. I'd rather be single forever rather than be unhappy with the wrong person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah you do.
I see so many women in unhappy relationships who are there because their self esteem and confidence are so low they don't feel they can be alone, the same goes for some who just skip from relationship to relationship. I'd rather be single forever rather than be unhappy with the wrong person. "
Well said. This is true for a lot of men I know too.
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Loads of people love others but not themselves. So many people have low self esteem it shocks me sometimes. Yet having high self esteem or valuing yourself which is essentially loving yourself in my opinion, seems to be frowned on.
If more people loved themselves and took care of themselves as they would a loved one more relationships would be successful I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read you have too love you before others .? To find true LOVE.?"
Not necessarily but if you get 2 people who are happy and content and confident it makes a relationship something special x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads of people love others but not themselves. So many people have low self esteem it shocks me sometimes. Yet having high self esteem or valuing yourself which is essentially loving yourself in my opinion, seems to be frowned on.
If more people loved themselves and took care of themselves as they would a loved one more relationships would be successful I think."
This x100  |
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