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We won't interact with profiles if I can't see the guy.
I understand that couples have many valid reasons for not showing his picture but I have many valid reasons for wanting to see what he looks like.
It's different if only the women play but I'm straight. |
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This is why we have single profiles now and meet other couples at clubs/socials.
As nice couple said, we don't reply to profiles where there are no pics of the male,as I too am straight and feel like they don't care what I think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to add....
A FOUR way attraction is soooo much harder than a three way attraction... dynamics between everyone can be such hard work... for women it's easy, but for the blokes it's like we all have to be a Channing Tatum lookalike and have a six pack to match.
Sorry to disappoint ladies... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to add....
A FOUR way attraction is soooo much harder than a three way attraction... dynamics between everyone can be such hard work... for women it's easy, but for the blokes it's like we all have to be a Channing Tatum lookalike and have a six pack to match.
Sorry to disappoint ladies... "
How is it easy for women? And who is Channing Tatum? |
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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago
Fareham |
"So many couples proiles don't have pictures of the man, or maybe just a close up penis picture.
Are women expected to be left guessing? "
We don't have many public pics of M, but always share pics of us both when chatting and looking to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is.
Absolute tosh"
What other reason could it be? If women were allowed an opinion, surely couples looking for couples with bi women would have pics of both of them?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is.
Absolute tosh
What other reason could it be? If women were allowed an opinion, surely couples looking for couples with bi women would have pics of both of them? "
'If women were allowed an opinion..??' Sorry got no idea what world you're living on, certainly isn't ours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to add....
A FOUR way attraction is soooo much harder than a three way attraction... dynamics between everyone can be such hard work... for women it's easy, but for the blokes it's like we all have to be a Channing Tatum lookalike and have a six pack to match.
Sorry to disappoint ladies...
How is it easy for women? And who is Channing Tatum?"
Really? You don't know who 'he' is?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to add....
A FOUR way attraction is soooo much harder than a three way attraction... dynamics between everyone can be such hard work... for women it's easy, but for the blokes it's like we all have to be a Channing Tatum lookalike and have a six pack to match.
Sorry to disappoint ladies...
How is it easy for women? And who is Channing Tatum?
Really? You don't know who 'he' is?? "
I've Googled 'him' but I'm no wiser. I don't fancy that type of man. |
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It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.
We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is. "
We understand where your sarcasm is coming from, so many couples completely hide the male half. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is.
We understand where your sarcasm is coming from, so many couples completely hide the male half. "
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would like to think you can see enough of both of our bodies in our public pics to work out if you want to chat. We are always happy to exchange face pics early into messaging so as not to waste anyone's time too, but won't display face pics publicly as last time we did that I bagged a stalker and there's enough odd in the world without it being on your doorstep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We would like to think you can see enough of both of our bodies in our public pics to work out if you want to chat. We are always happy to exchange face pics early into messaging so as not to waste anyone's time too, but won't display face pics publicly as last time we did that I bagged a stalker and there's enough odd in the world without it being on your doorstep. "
You profile is good. It’s nice to see couples together too.  |
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"We would like to think you can see enough of both of our bodies in our public pics to work out if you want to chat. We are always happy to exchange face pics early into messaging so as not to waste anyone's time too, but won't display face pics publicly as last time we did that I bagged a stalker and there's enough odd in the world without it being on your doorstep.
You profile is good. It’s nice to see couples together too. "
Yours looks pretty good too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We would like to think you can see enough of both of our bodies in our public pics to work out if you want to chat. We are always happy to exchange face pics early into messaging so as not to waste anyone's time too, but won't display face pics publicly as last time we did that I bagged a stalker and there's enough odd in the world without it being on your doorstep. "
That's our approach. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.
We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message."
Some couples seem to be taken aback if you ask for pictures of the male. It has become easier not to ask. |
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This one's been done before.
In our case we're only looking for men for MFM threesomes, so absolutely no need to advertise me (hubby). Although we do share pics of us both when we get chatting to men.
Having said that, we are off to our first couples-only social soon and it's looking like our menu might be broadening. If/when we start looking for other couples we'll have to get some 'me' pics in our public gallery.
I'd better have that bath. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.
We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message.
Some couples seem to be taken aback if you ask for pictures of the male. It has become easier not to ask."
My very first comment on this thread was only half joking.
"The women are bi... they'll put on a show for the men... then they all pile on..." It's a cliché but seems to be expected.
Of course couples only looking for straight men for MMF wouldn't need a public pic of the guy on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This one's been done before.
In our case we're only looking for men for MFM threesomes, so absolutely no need to advertise me (hubby). Although we do share pics of us both when we get chatting to men.
Having said that, we are off to our first couples-only social soon and it's looking like our menu might be broadening. If/when we start looking for other couples we'll have to get some 'me' pics in our public gallery.
I'd better have that bath."
The thread does say couples fourway. We agree that three way is a different dynamic. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"So many couples proiles don't have pictures of the man, or maybe just a close up penis picture.
Are women expected to be left guessing? "
When messaging we include face and body pics of us both. |
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"It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.
We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message.
Some couples seem to be taken aback if you ask for pictures of the male. It has become easier not to ask.
My very first comment on this thread was only half joking.
"The women are bi... they'll put on a show for the men... then they all pile on..." It's a cliché but seems to be expected.
Of course couples only looking for straight men for MMF wouldn't need a public pic of the guy on their profile. "
Loads of pics of me on our profile because we are looking for straight women and couples. I'm also a massive tart 
M |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.
We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message.
Some couples seem to be taken aback if you ask for pictures of the male. It has become easier not to ask.
My very first comment on this thread was only half joking.
"The women are bi... they'll put on a show for the men... then they all pile on..." It's a cliché but seems to be expected.
Of course couples only looking for straight men for MMF wouldn't need a public pic of the guy on their profile.
Loads of pics of me on our profile because we are looking for straight women and couples. I'm also a massive tart
M"
A photo tart  |
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