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over a year ago
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So....I'm rubbish at any kind of relationship stuff and have steered clear of anything that is not NSA for years!
My dilemma is this, i had a date arranged for Saturday night. On Tuesday everything was fine, however, he has now gone quiet and not responded to last 2 texts grrr. Do i just leave it or do i text him and ask why he is now ignoring me?
Why is dating so hard?!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So....I'm rubbish at any kind of relationship stuff and have steered clear of anything that is not NSA for years!
My dilemma is this, i had a date arranged for Saturday night. On Tuesday everything was fine, however, he has now gone quiet and not responded to last 2 texts grrr. Do i just leave it or do i text him and ask why he is now ignoring me?
Why is dating so hard?!?"
Na fuck it just come with me to Chams tomorrow! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So....I'm rubbish at any kind of relationship stuff and have steered clear of anything that is not NSA for years!
My dilemma is this, i had a date arranged for Saturday night. On Tuesday everything was fine, however, he has now gone quiet and not responded to last 2 texts grrr. Do i just leave it or do i text him and ask why he is now ignoring me?
Why is dating so hard?!?
Na fuck it just come with me to Chams tomorrow!"
Chams was plan b  |
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Maybe there’s an obvious reason I’m overlooking here…. But whats wrong with simply phoning instead of texting….!.
It would seen a reasonable option and it could help eliminate any uncertainty over whether his phone is switched on or off..... plus there a chance he might just answer it too.....    |
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"Maybe there’s an obvious reason I’m overlooking here…. But whats wrong with simply phoning instead of texting….!.
It would seen a reasonable option and it could help eliminate any uncertainty over whether his phone is switched on or off..... plus there a chance he might just answer it too..... "
Because im a wimp and have some weird idea that he may think im some kind of stalker if i call him... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I text anyone, family, friend etc and they don't respond I leave it as my name would have shown on their phone...they'll get back to me.
The quickest way to piss me off is sending another message, so I don't do it.
You've sent a couple of messages, any more and you'll look needy...not good.
Of course, that's just my _iew as I'd feel stalked...I've blocked for less. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I text anyone, family, friend etc and they don't respond I leave it as my name would have shown on their phone...they'll get back to me.
The quickest way to piss me off is sending another message, so I don't do it.
You've sent a couple of messages, any more and you'll look needy...not good.
Of course, that's just my _iew as I'd feel stalked...I've blocked for less. "
exactly! Ive sent 2 texts with no reply, i already feel like a bit of an idiot! I just dont understand the silence! |
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"Maybe there’s an obvious reason I’m overlooking here…. But whats wrong with simply phoning instead of texting….!.
It would seen a reasonable option and it could help eliminate any uncertainty over whether his phone is switched on or off..... plus there a chance he might just answer it too.....
Because im a wimp and have some weird idea that he may think im some kind of stalker if i call him..."
Well that’s certainly a reason… !!!!  |
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"So....I'm rubbish at any kind of relationship stuff and have steered clear of anything that is not NSA for years!
My dilemma is this, i had a date arranged for Saturday night. On Tuesday everything was fine, however, he has now gone quiet and not responded to last 2 texts grrr. Do i just leave it or do i text him and ask why he is now ignoring me?
Why is dating so hard?!?"
i'd leave it for abit,he may be busy,and some people are just crap at returning texts.
However if you fancy some NSA fun with a bi geordie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know if I am keen on someone I would text back within a few hours, if I am not I wouldn't. Maybe he has lost his phone, but can he contact you any other way? Email, internet site?
If I sent 2 texts and no reply then I would just leave it.
Hope it works out for you either way x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So....I'm rubbish at any kind of relationship stuff and have steered clear of anything that is not NSA for years!
My dilemma is this, i had a date arranged for Saturday night. On Tuesday everything was fine, however, he has now gone quiet and not responded to last 2 texts grrr. Do i just leave it or do i text him and ask why he is now ignoring me?
Why is dating so hard?!?
i'd leave it for abit,he may be busy,and some people are just crap at returning texts.
However if you fancy some NSA fun with a bi geordie "
grrr why does everyone have to be so far away? |
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"If I text anyone, family, friend etc and they don't respond I leave it as my name would have shown on their phone...they'll get back to me.
The quickest way to piss me off is sending another message, so I don't do it.
You've sent a couple of messages, any more and you'll look needy...not good.
Of course, that's just my _iew as I'd feel stalked...I've blocked for less. "
This! |
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"I know if I am keen on someone I would text back within a few hours, if I am not I wouldn't. Maybe he has lost his phone, but can he contact you any other way? Email, internet site?
If I sent 2 texts and no reply then I would just leave it.
Hope it works out for you either way x"
no, he only has on mobile number. I think i'll take everyones advice and just leave it, its a shame but i cant be doing with the stress!  |
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"Maybe he's on here too... and on a meet...
lol no, he definitely isnt on here! Its someone i met through work. "
How do you know? Have you seen every member? Afterall, your on here.. Why can't he be too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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M What are you doing woman!!!!
Then again i know this minx in Nuneaton who is shocking at replying to texts!!!
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shut it you! I always always reply to texts from certain people from York lol |
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"Maybe he's on here too... and on a meet...
lol no, he definitely isnt on here! Its someone i met through work.
How do you know? Have you seen every member? Afterall, your on here.. Why can't he be too? "
Well i could be wrong, but i doubt it  |
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"Maybe he's on here too... and on a meet...
lol no, he definitely isnt on here! Its someone i met through work.
How do you know? Have you seen every member? Afterall, your on here.. Why can't he be too?
Well i could be wrong, but i doubt it "
Always expect the unexpected!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think of it this way, if another female had put up the same post...would you advise them to halt with the texts?, I am guessing (hoping) you would, so heed your own advise and leave him to it, if he doesn't come back to you, go with the great cliché of 'his loss' |
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"Think of it this way, if another female had put up the same post...would you advise them to halt with the texts?, I am guessing (hoping) you would, so heed your own advise and leave him to it, if he doesn't come back to you, go with the great cliché of 'his loss' "
Firstly i'm not arrogant enough to believe its 'his loss'
Secondly i absolutely know what advice i would be giving friends etc in this position. Taking my own advice is a different matter!
I just think its a bit weird that he cant just say he doesnt want to go out anymore? |
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"Think of it this way, if another female had put up the same post...would you advise them to halt with the texts?, I am guessing (hoping) you would, so heed your own advise and leave him to it, if he doesn't come back to you, go with the great cliché of 'his loss'
Firstly i'm not arrogant enough to believe its 'his loss'
Secondly i absolutely know what advice i would be giving friends etc in this position. Taking my own advice is a different matter!
I just think its a bit weird that he cant just say he doesnt want to go out anymore?"
A cliché is overused and overrated, so it wasn't meant to imply you were arrogant, much more the opposite. Sometimes things are taken as intended, sometimes taken out of context, but we live and learn
I wish you luck, with your abandonment quest |
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"I know if I am keen on someone I would text back within a few hours, if I am not I wouldn't. Maybe he has lost his phone, but can he contact you any other way? Email, internet site?
If I sent 2 texts and no reply then I would just leave it.
Hope it works out for you either way x
no, he only has on mobile number. I think i'll take everyones advice and just leave it, its a shame but i cant be doing with the stress! "
The trick is to live in the moment...there need not be stress,just concentrate on the moment.
You had a nice night out,better than stuck in front of the tele |
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