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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.
Would you look?
If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?
On this profile I haven’t made any private notes yet, but when I was here before I used it occasionally to note the real names etc of people I was friendly with. I’m quite sure I’m not on the radar of anyone sufficiently to warrant any notes about myself (unless it’s hate mail! ), but what about you?  |
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What other people think about me is their business. 
I’m not interested in reading whatever someone here wrote about me (if anything) unless of course it’s how fabulous I am.
I can count on one hand the people who actually know me. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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I dont use the notes... the new mailbox holds all past conversation and i cant be ased making notes from what folk say in forums.
I would be very surprised if anyone had any notes on us... we are not forum famous and dont do anything outstanding or noteworthy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly, I think I’d look and I can imagine I’d be a little hurt. But it’s likely that people tend to use the notes to remind themselves re the things they are not so keen on about someone - hence you’re likely to find the “bad”. And whilst it’s just someone’s opinion, it’s their truth of you and no more right or wrong than your truth.
It’d be a good self flagellation session. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
No, I’m not interested. Not sure I’m prominent enough for anyone to form any real opinion, I think I likely fade in with the masses.
I started using it to register people’s names and now I just make a note if anyone particularly behaving like an arse on the forum. Some consistently behave like an arse so no note necessary |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sadly, I think I’d look and I can imagine I’d be a little hurt. But it’s likely that people tend to use the notes to remind themselves re the things they are not so keen on about someone - hence you’re likely to find the “bad”. And whilst it’s just someone’s opinion, it’s their truth of you and no more right or wrong than your truth.
It’d be a good self flagellation session. "
 I think you’re right, when I was here on the rare occasions I made a note about anything other than a real name or someone’s birthday etc, it was only to record something negative if someone had been particularly vile!
The thousands of positive transactions I had with people were rarely noteworthy! Human nature I guess! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Sadly, I think I’d look and I can imagine I’d be a little hurt. But it’s likely that people tend to use the notes to remind themselves re the things they are not so keen on about someone - hence you’re likely to find the “bad”. And whilst it’s just someone’s opinion, it’s their truth of you and no more right or wrong than your truth.
It’d be a good self flagellation session. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't use that tool. I wouldn't read them. I'm guessing it's used as a tool for negative, so I'd rather not know to be honest. Only a select few truly know me from here. Their opinion is the only one that counts and I would hope I'm not in their private notes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I’m not interested. Not sure I’m prominent enough for anyone to form any real opinion, I think I likely fade in with the masses.
I started using it to register people’s names and now I just make a note if anyone particularly behaving like an arse on the forum. Some consistently behave like an arse so no note necessary "
Oh shit   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What you were here before...ffs what was your name Dan? "
I was previously here as ToyBoyRoy (catfishing as a 21 year old), briefly returning as KoiBoi, until I realised the term ‘Boi’ was what was causing all that interest from fellas |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What you were here before...ffs what was your name Dan?
I was previously here as ToyBoyRoy (catfishing as a 21 year old), briefly returning as KoiBoi, until I realised the term ‘Boi’ was what was causing all that interest from fellas"
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"No, I’m not interested. Not sure I’m prominent enough for anyone to form any real opinion, I think I likely fade in with the masses.
I started using it to register people’s names and now I just make a note if anyone particularly behaving like an arse on the forum. Some consistently behave like an arse so no note necessary
Oh shit "
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"Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.
Would you look?
If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?
On this profile I haven’t made any private notes yet, but when I was here before I used it occasionally to note the real names etc of people I was friendly with. I’m quite sure I’m not on the radar of anyone sufficiently to warrant any notes about myself (unless it’s hate mail!), but what about you? "
I use notes for all sorts of things
Previous usernames being one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only use private notes with people who I've messaged with a view towards meeting (so, not really people on the forums). And even those I stopped doing over a year ago.
And I'd probably only look at what a few people have written about me if I could. There aren't many people whose opinions I'd want to know, even less whose opinions I'd care about |
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"No, I’m not interested. Not sure I’m prominent enough for anyone to form any real opinion, I think I likely fade in with the masses.
I started using it to register people’s names and now I just make a note if anyone particularly behaving like an arse on the forum. Some consistently behave like an arse so no note necessary "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.
Would you look?
If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?
On this profile I haven’t made any private notes yet, but when I was here before I used it occasionally to note the real names etc of people I was friendly with. I’m quite sure I’m not on the radar of anyone sufficiently to warrant any notes about myself (unless it’s hate mail!), but what about you?
I use notes for all sorts of things
Previous usernames being one "
That's actually a good idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only used the private notes once to put a note on a profile I kept looking at but when I read through it they weren't my type, otherwise I just keep message threads |
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"Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.
Would you look?
If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?
On this profile I haven’t made any private notes yet, but when I was here before I used it occasionally to note the real names etc of people I was friendly with. I’m quite sure I’m not on the radar of anyone sufficiently to warrant any notes about myself (unless it’s hate mail!), but what about you?
I use notes for all sorts of things
Previous usernames being one "
The constant changing of usernames confuses the hell out of me |
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"Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.
Would you look?
If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?
On this profile I haven’t made any private notes yet, but when I was here before I used it occasionally to note the real names etc of people I was friendly with. I’m quite sure I’m not on the radar of anyone sufficiently to warrant any notes about myself (unless it’s hate mail!), but what about you?
I use notes for all sorts of things
Previous usernames being one
That's actually a good idea "
Haha I occasionally have the odd one |
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I Use the Box to add repeat messages with the date.
Randomly sent c&p from them on a regular basis. It is quite hilarious to see men are so shallow they say the same old thing to every one.
Just find it helpful tho I dont say nasty things.
User names help me whe so many change except we the blighters actually go UNLOS
I imagine I would be thought a grumpy person, been told that often enough once you say no thanks.
I wouldnt look more than likely,not too bothered what they think |
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"I Use the Box to add repeat messages with the date.
Randomly sent c&p from them on a regular basis. It is quite hilarious to see men are so shallow they say the same old thing to every one.
Just find it helpful tho I dont say nasty things.
User names help me whe so many change except we the blighters actually go UNLOS
I imagine I would be thought a grumpy person, been told that often enough once you say no thanks.
I wouldnt look more than likely,not too bothered what they think"
I use it for this too and it really does make me chuckle when 12 months after being horribly rude they come back and want in my pants. I tend to have a bit of fun with that. |
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"It's a good tool to use before blocking someone...so you remember what the feck you blocked em for  "
I wish I remembered to do this ... I forget it's there most of the time and do occasionally wonder why I've blocked someone.
I honestly don't imagine many, if any, people know me well enough on here to bother making notes and, hopefully, I've not offended anyone badly enough for them to want to either. So even if I could, I don't expect there'd be anything for me to read. |
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"I Use the Box to add repeat messages with the date.
Randomly sent c&p from them on a regular basis. It is quite hilarious to see men are so shallow they say the same old thing to every one.
Just find it helpful tho I dont say nasty things.
User names help me whe so many change except we the blighters actually go UNLOS
I imagine I would be thought a grumpy person, been told that often enough once you say no thanks.
I wouldnt look more than likely,not too bothered what they think
I use it for this too and it really does make me chuckle when 12 months after being horribly rude they come back and want in my pants. I tend to have a bit of fun with that. "
Haha snap !!! I rarely block mainly because I like to toy with them cat and mouse when they message again |
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I can imagine what they would say and no, I wouldn't look.
Years ago a guy asked everyone in our friendship group if they wanted to know what he thought of them, I was the only one who said no. I didn't really care what people thought of me then and I care even less now. |
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"What other people think about me is their business.
I’m not interested in reading whatever someone here wrote about me (if anything) unless of course it’s how fabulous I am.
I can count on one hand the people who actually know me. "
This |
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"I dont use the notes... the new mailbox holds all past conversation and i cant be ased making notes from what folk say in forums.
I would be very surprised if anyone had any notes on us... we are not forum famous and dont do anything outstanding or noteworthy"
And this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can guess what some people of me. But as unlike so many on here I've never craved popularity I genuinely couldn't care less what the vast majority of people think of me, so no I wouldn't be in the slightest bit interested. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"I Use the Box to add repeat messages with the date.
Randomly sent c&p from them on a regular basis. It is quite hilarious to see men are so shallow they say the same old thing to every one.
Just find it helpful tho I dont say nasty things.
User names help me whe so many change except we the blighters actually go UNLOS
I imagine I would be thought a grumpy person, been told that often enough once you say no thanks.
I wouldnt look more than likely,not too bothered what they think
I use it for this too and it really does make me chuckle when 12 months after being horribly rude they come back and want in my pants. I tend to have a bit of fun with that. "
Dirty my note on you says must use translator when speaking and uses funny money (if anyone else says that’s rude, it is but I have know dirty for years),
Your one on me would be a fooking pain in the ass
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I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.
Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food. |
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"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.
Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food. "
Well said |
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"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.
Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food. "
Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!
Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!
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"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.
Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food.
Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!
Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!
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No. Nor the battery from the phone, nor the lock from your diary.
We were talking about reading notes given the opportunity.
Mind you ....... if it was some rich person who wouldn't suffer from monetary loss and there was enough in there to feed someone..... I know which way my moral compass would swing. Circumstances n all that....... DON'T you JUDGE Meeeeeeeeeeeeee........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.
Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food. "
So would I.
I’m nosey that’s why, and knowledge is power |
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"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.
Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food.
Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!
Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!
No. Nor the battery from the phone, nor the lock from your diary.
We were talking about reading notes given the opportunity.
Mind you ....... if it was some rich person who wouldn't suffer from monetary loss and there was enough in there to feed someone..... I know which way my moral compass would swing. Circumstances n all that....... DON'T you JUDGE Meeeeeeeeeeeeee........ "
Yeah but reading notes about you on here isn’t like reading someone’s diary. I’d hate someone to read mine (not that I have one) so I’d apply the same logic and not read theirs.
Oh I’m judging Granny... how do you know the person is rich? It may be all the money that they have in the world, just cause it’s all in their wallet it’s not for you to decide how it should be spent. You never know what’s going on in someone else’s world. |
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"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.
Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food.
Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!
Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!
No. Nor the battery from the phone, nor the lock from your diary.
We were talking about reading notes given the opportunity.
Mind you ....... if it was some rich person who wouldn't suffer from monetary loss and there was enough in there to feed someone..... I know which way my moral compass would swing. Circumstances n all that....... DON'T you JUDGE Meeeeeeeeeeeeee........
Yeah but reading notes about you on here isn’t like reading someone’s diary. I’d hate someone to read mine (not that I have one) so I’d apply the same logic and not read theirs.
Oh I’m judging Granny... how do you know the person is rich? It may be all the money that they have in the world, just cause it’s all in their wallet it’s not for you to decide how it should be spent. You never know what’s going on in someone else’s world. "
Well she would have dropped it in her castle grounds whilst the footman was tupping her against a gold leafed downspout only to be discovered by her husband as he landed in his ivory helicopter causing him to let slide the baluga from the crystal fucking nosebags they were wearing cos they'd misplaced the silver tongs......... AND....... she dropped it so that i'd bend over to pick it up causing her husband to go arse over tit so she could finish her illicit fuck in peace.
That's how I know she's rich. If we want to take hypotheticals to the hype. |
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"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.
Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food.
Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!
Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!
No. Nor the battery from the phone, nor the lock from your diary.
We were talking about reading notes given the opportunity.
Mind you ....... if it was some rich person who wouldn't suffer from monetary loss and there was enough in there to feed someone..... I know which way my moral compass would swing. Circumstances n all that....... DON'T you JUDGE Meeeeeeeeeeeeee........
Yeah but reading notes about you on here isn’t like reading someone’s diary. I’d hate someone to read mine (not that I have one) so I’d apply the same logic and not read theirs.
Oh I’m judging Granny... how do you know the person is rich? It may be all the money that they have in the world, just cause it’s all in their wallet it’s not for you to decide how it should be spent. You never know what’s going on in someone else’s world.
Well she would have dropped it in her castle grounds whilst the footman was tupping her against a gold leafed downspout only to be discovered by her husband as he landed in his ivory helicopter causing him to let slide the baluga from the crystal fucking nosebags they were wearing cos they'd misplaced the silver tongs......... AND....... she dropped it so that i'd bend over to pick it up causing her husband to go arse over tit so she could finish her illicit fuck in peace.
That's how I know she's rich. If we want to take hypotheticals to the hype. "
Thanks Granny!
I’ve just read a post on FB from some woman going nuts at her local council for not clearing her street of snow... she is in the high council tax bracket and is furious! She’s been properly roasted with suggestions her butler should clear it with his gold leafed shovel. It’s properly made me laugh. You could actually have written it! |
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