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Your peak with regards to attractiveness
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"At what age do you think you were at your peak with regards to attracting others?"
Surely it depends where you are hoping to attract others?....if it is on a night out, on a website, or just on a daily basis?
I make no effort when working as I am self employed, and would not want to attract people when I am working .....so I would say my attractiveness at my age now whilst working is zero lol....but if you were to compare this to visits to Chams I would say I get quite a lot of attention, and am more attractive now and this is down to being a lot more confident now than I was earlier on in my life....
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"At what age do you think you were at your peak with regards to attracting others?
I think I have attracted more women (and of more different ages) during my 40's..."
After my divorce I found it totally hilarious that I was sleeping with the same kind of guys I was before I was even married lol!! 
However, still being able to attract hot tottie is not quite the same as being at my peak of attractiveness - I am under no illusion!  |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"At what age do you think you were at your peak with regards to attracting others?
I think I have attracted more women (and of more different ages) during my 40's...
After my divorce I found it totally hilarious that I was sleeping with the same kind of guys I was before I was even married lol!!
However, still being able to attract hot tottie is not quite the same as being at my peak of attractiveness - I am under no illusion! "
I think men and women find the opposite sex attractive for very different reasons, so actually, in the case of men, I do believe many are perceived as more attractive as they age a bit....it's not just physical traits but importantly it is also mental traits which attract women to men as they get older - IMO
....perhaps women of all ages just like men who are a bit more 'grown up'..lol..  |
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"At what age do you think you were at your peak with regards to attracting others?
I think I have attracted more women (and of more different ages) during my 40's...
After my divorce I found it totally hilarious that I was sleeping with the same kind of guys I was before I was even married lol!!
However, still being able to attract hot tottie is not quite the same as being at my peak of attractiveness - I am under no illusion! "
Nor I. I'm aware that my attractiveness is dependent on context and perceived gain  |
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"At what age do you think you were at your peak with regards to attracting others?
I think I have attracted more women (and of more different ages) during my 40's...
After my divorce I found it totally hilarious that I was sleeping with the same kind of guys I was before I was even married lol!!
However, still being able to attract hot tottie is not quite the same as being at my peak of attractiveness - I am under no illusion!
I think men and women find the opposite sex attractive for very different reasons, so actually, in the case of men, I do believe many are perceived as more attractive as they age a bit....it's not just physical traits but importantly it is also mental traits which attract women to men as they get older - IMO
....perhaps women of all ages just like men who are a bit more 'grown up'..lol.. "
Oh men do age better in my view - everyone gets 'coarser' looking as they age due to hormonal decline, but that just looks more masculine, so men can get away with it more - the hairy craggy look doesn't suit most women!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not sure I peaked at any age, but I was off the market for over 22 years when I was married. Now I don’t know if I’m attractive but I’m having more luck now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm past mine now I think haha.. don't seem to attract much .. need to buy a can of lynx, do a pic and see if I can get the lynx effect and start beating them off with a stick haha |
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Good post, OP
If we are talking physically... probably when I was in my twenties.
To me attraction is about personality as much as anything and being more mature, grounded and having a bit of life experience... I believe I am more attractive now than ever before.
But for that I guess, people have to have a conversation with me, get to know me a little... even on a swing site. |
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"I'm past mine now I think haha.. don't seem to attract much .. need to buy a can of lynx, do a pic and see if I can get the lynx effect and start beating them off with a stick haha "
You do realise that the Lynx effect was just nurses running up to the guys trying to tell him not to use it as its really bad for him, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dunno. I think I must be really gorgeous currently because three guys hung out of a white van and shouted "look at the state of that!" at me yesterday "
You had your Ugg boots on, didn't you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it's different for different people we are probably more physically fit then we were in our mid to late 20s plus the experience we now have probably makes us a little more exciting than we were back then.
But still think it's all down to personal taste some girls/guys don't like gym lads some do and that's the way things are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm past mine now I think haha.. don't seem to attract much .. need to buy a can of lynx, do a pic and see if I can get the lynx effect and start beating them off with a stick haha
You do realise that the Lynx effect was just nurses running up to the guys trying to tell him not to use it as its really bad for him, right?"
Hey nurses running towards me ain't a problem haha |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I actually "feel" the most attractive now that I ever have felt - for years I didn't think of myself as anything special (and still don't) but a combination of weight loss and a realisation since stepping into *this* life that some people do find me attractive has changed my self-perception a little  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably my early twenties although when I was 14 I had a few guys wanting me. I do okay now and not just on Fab. I get chatted up when out with my friends. |
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Oddly enough now, at the ripe age of 34. My body is not as fit as it used to be but I feel more attractive and my think my features are more interesting as time goes on. My body and face tells a tale that was not present in my youth. I find these days women are more interested than when I was young. Although maybe this is more to do with confidence and self assurance that comes with time and experience rather than physical attributes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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37 and still going. I always looked too young, so people would always tell me how 'cute' I was. I think I finally have that 'woman look', which some seem to like and I like. So perhaps it's more that I feel better in my skin now, so am more confident about how I look and people are attracted to that confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably mid teens to early 20's, I never had to chat women up because they hit on me. I also made a ton of money working on cam sites when I was a student. Now I'm lucky if I get 2 matches a week on tinder! I'm also a lot more fussy who I sleep with these days so that probably doesn't do me many favours haha.
I have lost a lot of weight the past few years though. Trying to get back in shape so hopefully I'll end up bouncing back in my 30's :D |
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By *ky19Man
over a year ago
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Ohh this is an interesting thread.
27-28 definitely, my body was far fitter, also stronger and more muscular. More attention than I could handle.
But had absolutely no confidence, I didn't even have my first date till 27 (Sept 2011).
I am now at the worst point in my life, been ill for years but still had to work like a dog, n looking after someone who's ill, not afford to buy enough food etc until recently.
In the circumstances I'm really proud of how I've kept my body while I was sick, only picked up a very small amount of softness, lost maybe a stone of muscle through atrophy, but pushed like crazy to actually gain some back in 2016.
I'm proud that because I stubbornly refused to give up and let myself go, my body isn't too bad at all. I tell myself imagine how good I will be when I get back to normal.
The only real black mark is that I'm now smoking usually 5-10 a day which is a lot for me, when before it was only extremely light/socially/hardly at all. I'm not quite strong enough to deal with it just yet but I know how to and I will.
(Yeah yeah excuses I've been told at work, I'm going to die etc but I know better than to let that get me down, it's a test to build resilience) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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19 - out and about everywhere,no worries about starting conversations,girls were as game,every Fri and sat was a garunteed shag,meaningless but fun.
22-29 text message troubles/house nightclubs. realising you can make people want you,feel for you or get them to be so horny and dirty by just messaging that you end up destroyin each other,especially friends girlfriends who you end up dirty dancing with after a week or two of texting.
Now - just getting sad and old and have to beg.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At 18-20 at the height of my gothic phase and now. I spent the last 10 years feeling really unattractive and this last year i have started to feel really good in myself x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At 18-20 at the height of my gothic phase and now. I spent the last 10 years feeling really unattractive and this last year i have started to feel really good in myself x "
Goth teen girls,why oh why did she have to move away. |
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"Early to mid 20s I think. Between husbands
Nita"
Though I actually seem to be doing surprisingly well at the moment.
Swinging distorts things given the potential for sex, but I've been unexpectedly complimented in vanilla life on more than one occasion in recent months.
Maybe it's the extra confidence that comes with maturity and being comfortable in your own skin.
So I might have to change that age to 44
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
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I think I peaked when I was forty but I don't feel sad about it. I am getting older (such is life) and my options are greatly reduced not necessarily because of the way I look but because I am clearer now about what I want and don't want. I am the most confident I've ever been now and I am happy. |
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"I think I peaked when I was forty but I don't feel sad about it. I am getting older (such is life) and my options are greatly reduced not necessarily because of the way I look but because I am clearer now about what I want and don't want. I am the most confident I've ever been now and I am happy. "
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