Hello I have always found spreader bars enticing and now I'm looking to purchase one.
Ideally it would incorporate cuffs but I know most can be adapted for this.
Could anyone recommend one. I've seen one on lovehoney which gets great reviews.
Thanks and stay kinky
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"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.
I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point"
The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well  |
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My advice is always buy your kit from a shop so you can check it out. Buying BDSM kit online is a bit hit & miss as the quality can be low/cheaply made which will mean it not only feels rubbish but won't last long either.
I don't know your area so can't advise on location, but in my experience a lot of the gay sex shops have all the best equipment.
For travel, there is a really good spreader bar made from neoprene & velcro. Very light with cuffs as well. Look for the Sportsheets bondage bar.
For a higher quality one have a look on the Requlation (based in Angel, north London) website. |
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"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.
I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point
The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well "
I once bought a long paddle smacky thing and they discreetly wrapped it in a bag. It fell out of the bag in the middle of town. 
My kind man friend helped out by running away.  |
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"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.
I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point
The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well
I once bought a long paddle smacky thing and they discreetly wrapped it in a bag. It fell out of the bag in the middle of town.
My kind man friend helped out by running away. "
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"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.
I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point
The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well
I once bought a long paddle smacky thing and they discreetly wrapped it in a bag. It fell out of the bag in the middle of town.
My kind man friend helped out by running away. "
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The lovehoney one is very good if it's the same one, I've had mine for years, so unless they have changed the design or materials used that's the one I would recommend |
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"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.
I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point
The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well "
Glad to hear it |
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"My advice is always buy your kit from a shop so you can check it out. Buying BDSM kit online is a bit hit & miss as the quality can be low/cheaply made which will mean it not only feels rubbish but won't last long either.
I don't know your area so can't advise on location, but in my experience a lot of the gay sex shops have all the best equipment.
For travel, there is a really good spreader bar made from neoprene & velcro. Very light with cuffs as well. Look for the Sportsheets bondage bar.
For a higher quality one have a look on the Requlation (based in Angel, north London) website."
Thanks for taking the time to reply. I'm in the north east and will look for a local shop |
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"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.
I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point
The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well
I once bought a long paddle smacky thing and they discreetly wrapped it in a bag. It fell out of the bag in the middle of town.
My kind man friend helped out by running away. "
I'm clumsy as hell so that would be me all day long |
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"The lovehoney one is very good if it's the same one, I've had mine for years, so unless they have changed the design or materials used that's the one I would recommend "
Excellent as I imagine it is the same one |
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"What you should do is make yourself some stocks - far kinkier by far...  ...you can just get a glimpse of the pair I made, being put to good work in one of my public pics... "
I like those... a lot... they have hand holes in the middle too? |
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We just bought one from a sex shop. It's great but a bit awkward trying to sneak it though hotel reception up your coat sleeve when the chains are all jangling around |
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"We just bought one from a sex shop. It's great but a bit awkward trying to sneak it though hotel reception up your coat sleeve when the chains are all jangling around "
Thread it through both sleeves and nonchalantly stroll through with both arms sticking out sideways. It might prove difficult in the lift though |
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"We just bought one from a sex shop. It's great but a bit awkward trying to sneak it though hotel reception up your coat sleeve when the chains are all jangling around
Thread it through both sleeves and nonchalantly stroll through with both arms sticking out sideways. It might prove difficult in the lift though "
I guess if anyone asks I'm just on my way to a scarecrow conference. |
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"We just bought one from a sex shop. It's great but a bit awkward trying to sneak it though hotel reception up your coat sleeve when the chains are all jangling around
Thread it through both sleeves and nonchalantly stroll through with both arms sticking out sideways. It might prove difficult in the lift though
I guess if anyone asks I'm just on my way to a scarecrow conference."
Exactly! What could possibly go wrong? |
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