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Sending dick pics - Just another form of sexual harassment?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It pisses me off on Badoo, which is meant to be a dating site. I think that could be classed as harassment, the owners of that site should either re launch it as an adult site or get tough on cock/pussy pic sending on there XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It pisses me off on Badoo, which is meant to be a dating site. I think that could be classed as harassment, the owners of that site should either re launch it as an adult site or get tough on cock/pussy pic sending on there XXX"
all dating sites are adult sites to my knowledge..the best they can do is ban members who send shots of their members |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about boobs or a growler?
You sent me a face pic years ago Ruggers, now I wanna see your growler 
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I thought her growler was her face pic!!!..
runs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Stina Sanders appears to be calling for a change in the law and claims that being sent a photo of a penis is just the same as someone flashing in public.
Both scenarios are unwanted and therefore harassment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Context is everything.
On a hook-up site - no.
On Facebook - yes
Dating sites - probably"
Signs up to swinging site....receives unrequested boabie pics...Shock horror. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about boobs or a growler?
Lol love that word (growler) x
Me too, I had never heard of it until someone said it on this site I love fud too"
Is fud short for something xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Context is everything.
On a hook-up site - no.
On Facebook - yes
Dating sites - probably
Signs up to swinging site....receives unrequested boabie pics...Shock horror."
I want that boaby spit session u promised me..I mighta made that up |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Stina Sanders appears to be calling for a change in the law and claims that being sent a photo of a penis is just the same as someone flashing in public.
Both scenarios are unwanted and therefore harassment. "
Where is she getting them sent to do you know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Context is everything.
On a hook-up site - no.
On Facebook - yes
Dating sites - probably
Signs up to swinging site....receives unrequested boabie pics...Shock horror.
I want that boaby spit session u promised me..I mighta made that up"
I really shouldn't drink, should I?
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"What about boobs or a growler?
Lol love that word (growler) x
Me too, I had never heard of it until someone said it on this site I love fud too
Is fud short for something xx"
Dunno but it is Scottish so paddy might know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Context is everything.
On a hook-up site - no.
On Facebook - yes
Dating sites - probably
Signs up to swinging site....receives unrequested boabie pics...Shock horror.
I want that boaby spit session u promised me..I mighta made that up
I really shouldn't drink, should I?
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one must keep warm in these hazardous conditions..a wee warming of the belly n brain always helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about boobs or a growler?
Lol love that word (growler) x
Me too, I had never heard of it until someone said it on this site I love fud too
Is fud short for something xx
Dunno but it is Scottish so paddy might know"
Ah ok thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about boobs or a growler?
Lol love that word (growler) x
Me too, I had never heard of it until someone said it on this site I love fud too
Is fud short for something xx
Dunno but it is Scottish so paddy might know"
I think its possibly just something like thud...but just became scottish..as we pronounce th as F lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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weirdly I think fud is just another word for fanny- when you call someone a fanny , you can call them a fud..like we call people pussies lol...
I suppose its a way of saying a guys a girl..
very sexist..ya bunch of cunts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about boobs or a growler?
Lol love that word (growler) x
Me too, I had never heard of it until someone said it on this site I love fud too
Is fud short for something xx
Dunno but it is Scottish so paddy might know
I think its possibly just something like thud...but just became scottish..as we pronounce th as F lol"
Cheers xx |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"weirdly I think fud is just another word for fanny- when you call someone a fanny , you can call them a fud..like we call people pussies lol...
I suppose its a way of saying a guys a girl..
very sexist..ya bunch of cunts "
lol yeah I knew the fanny connection but didn't know why |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Stina Sanders appears to be calling for a change in the law and claims that being sent a photo of a penis is just the same as someone flashing in public.
Both scenarios are unwanted and therefore harassment.
Where is she getting them sent to do you know?"
Mentions dating sites. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sites like this- it's annoying but to be expected considering the types of pics on profiles etc.
On dating sites etc then yes it's the same as flashing."
What if someone specifically says on their profile 'no cock pics' or words to that effect.
Does that take away any implied consent (if there is any) by just being on this type of site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sites like this- it's annoying but to be expected considering the types of pics on profiles etc.
On dating sites etc then yes it's the same as flashing.
What if someone specifically says on their profile 'no cock pics' or words to that effect.
Does that take away any implied consent (if there is any) by just being on this type of site?"
I have it written on my profile 9out of 10 messages I get are with dicks 
I just delete then
To me it means 1 they didn't read the profile
2 they don't care/respect me asking no dick pics
3 they chance their arm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sites like this- it's annoying but to be expected considering the types of pics on profiles etc.
On dating sites etc then yes it's the same as flashing.
What if someone specifically says on their profile 'no cock pics' or words to that effect.
Does that take away any implied consent (if there is any) by just being on this type of site?"
Good question. I do agree that it takes away any implied consent but most men that send cock pics either don't care about consent or don't read profiles.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"weirdly I think fud is just another word for fanny- when you call someone a fanny , you can call them a fud..like we call people pussies lol...
I suppose its a way of saying a guys a girl..
very sexist..ya bunch of cunts "
Calling people a pussy annoys me actually. Nothing weak and feeble about my fanjo! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sites like this- it's annoying but to be expected considering the types of pics on profiles etc.
On dating sites etc then yes it's the same as flashing.
What if someone specifically says on their profile 'no cock pics' or words to that effect.
Does that take away any implied consent (if there is any) by just being on this type of site?
Good question. I do agree that it takes away any implied consent but most men that send cock pics either don't care about consent or don't read profiles. "
Most women don't open the message to see the pic. Deleted and blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sites like this- it's annoying but to be expected considering the types of pics on profiles etc.
On dating sites etc then yes it's the same as flashing.
What if someone specifically says on their profile 'no cock pics' or words to that effect.
Does that take away any implied consent (if there is any) by just being on this type of site?
Good question. I do agree that it takes away any implied consent but most men that send cock pics either don't care about consent or don't read profiles. "
Profiles have readable wordy stuff on them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sites like this- it's annoying but to be expected considering the types of pics on profiles etc.
On dating sites etc then yes it's the same as flashing.
What if someone specifically says on their profile 'no cock pics' or words to that effect.
Does that take away any implied consent (if there is any) by just being on this type of site?
Good question. I do agree that it takes away any implied consent but most men that send cock pics either don't care about consent or don't read profiles. "
If they don't care about consent that maybe cause for concern.
I think it wouldn't cross most guys minds that it could be considered harassment in any way. I think most would believe that consent is implied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sites like this- it's annoying but to be expected considering the types of pics on profiles etc.
On dating sites etc then yes it's the same as flashing.
What if someone specifically says on their profile 'no cock pics' or words to that effect.
Does that take away any implied consent (if there is any) by just being on this type of site?
Good question. I do agree that it takes away any implied consent but most men that send cock pics either don't care about consent or don't read profiles.
Most women don't open the message to see the pic. Deleted and blocked."
How do they know it's a cock pic and not a face pic without opening the message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sites like this- it's annoying but to be expected considering the types of pics on profiles etc.
On dating sites etc then yes it's the same as flashing.
What if someone specifically says on their profile 'no cock pics' or words to that effect.
Does that take away any implied consent (if there is any) by just being on this type of site?
Good question. I do agree that it takes away any implied consent but most men that send cock pics either don't care about consent or don't read profiles.
If they don't care about consent that maybe cause for concern.
I think it wouldn't cross most guys minds that it could be considered harassment in any way. I think most would believe that consent is implied. "
Agree. I've had loads of men lately trying to persuade me that the reason I gave for not wanting to meet them is irrelevant and that I'll have a great time anyway. 
So I've started asking why it doesn't matter what I want, especially when they won't take "no" for an answer. Many just carry on trying to persuade me to meet.
Thankfully a few have appeared genuinely apologetic. Still worrying that so many keep on and on asking to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Context is everything.
On a hook-up site - no.
On Facebook - yes
Dating sites - probably
Signs up to swinging site....receives unrequested boabie pics...Shock horror."
If someone was repeatedly sent cock pics,despite specifically asking the sender not to send them,then I would guess that could be construed as sexual harrassment.
Just being sent a dick pic as a one off,at random? Well.I wouldn't feel harrassed by that.Some might.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Context is everything.
On a hook-up site - no.
On Facebook - yes
Dating sites - probably
Signs up to swinging site....receives unrequested boabie pics...Shock horror.
If someone was repeatedly sent cock pics,despite specifically asking the sender not to send them,then I would guess that could be construed as sexual harrassment.
Just being sent a dick pic as a one off,at random? Well.I wouldn't feel harrassed by that.Some might.
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Repeatedly being sent, yes, I agree with you there. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I’m at a loss why anyone would send an unsolicited dick pic, sex site or not! It’s just strange behaviour isn’t it!?  "
Because some of us don't mind them, if we don't want to see them we just delete it.
No harm done |
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"I’m at a loss why anyone would send an unsolicited dick pic, sex site or not! It’s just strange behaviour isn’t it!?
Because some of us don't mind them, if we don't want to see them we just delete it.
No harm done"
I don’t mind them either, they’ve been a source of much amusement in the past. However, that doesn’t mean sending unsolicited explicit pics is acceptable does it? I’m currently getting splinters as I can’t decide if it’s ok in this environment. I’m thinking the answer is the option to block receiving pics via pm. Then everyone is happy
Yes you read that right folks, everyone on Fab WILL be happy  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I’m at a loss why anyone would send an unsolicited dick pic, sex site or not! It’s just strange behaviour isn’t it!?
Because some of us don't mind them, if we don't want to see them we just delete it.
No harm done
I don’t mind them either, they’ve been a source of much amusement in the past. However, that doesn’t mean sending unsolicited explicit pics is acceptable does it?
-D
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I suppose that could be said for mail too if that is the case...Surely people should expect adult content on an adult site? |
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"I’m at a loss why anyone would send an unsolicited dick pic, sex site or not! It’s just strange behaviour isn’t it!?
Because some of us don't mind them, if we don't want to see them we just delete it.
No harm done
I don’t mind them either, they’ve been a source of much amusement in the past. However, that doesn’t mean sending unsolicited explicit pics is acceptable does it?
-D
I suppose that could be said for mail too if that is the case...Surely people should expect adult content on an adult site?"
I agree and I have laughed so much at the adult content in some of the first messages I’ve received. These splinters are starting to hurt, I know some find these messages quite distressing and it’s claimed the messages ruin their experience on Fab. So who’s wrong, prudes being on an adult site or those sending first messages with unsolicited explicit sexual content? I can see this from both sides  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m at a loss why anyone would send an unsolicited dick pic, sex site or not! It’s just strange behaviour isn’t it!?
Because some of us don't mind them, if we don't want to see them we just delete it.
No harm done"
Everyone is different and I accept that but my personal starting point is to assume, unless explicitly asked for in a profile, that people’s default position is not to want unsolicited gratuitous nudity sent to them.
If someone asks for it then fine.
I get the ‘but it’s a sex site so you should expect sexual content’ argument, but similarly in a sex club environment I wouldn’t just walk up to someone unsolicited and thrust my cock in front of their face and think ‘ah but it’s a sex club so they should expect that’.
To me it’s essentially the same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m at a loss why anyone would send an unsolicited dick pic, sex site or not! It’s just strange behaviour isn’t it!?
Because some of us don't mind them, if we don't want to see them we just delete it.
No harm done
Everyone is different and I accept that but my personal starting point is to assume, unless explicitly asked for in a profile, that people’s default position is not to want unsolicited gratuitous nudity sent to them.
If someone asks for it then fine.
I get the ‘but it’s a sex site so you should expect sexual content’ argument, but similarly in a sex club environment I wouldn’t just walk up to someone unsolicited and thrust my cock in front of their face and think ‘ah but it’s a sex club so they should expect that’.
To me it’s essentially the same thing. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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but most men that send cock pics either don't care about consent or don't read profiles.
Wow that first bit is a bit strong"
I meant consent as in they didn't ask for a cock pic so why send one. The same as flashing. Or dangling a cock in someone's face in a club without asking if that's ok. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m at a loss why anyone would send an unsolicited dick pic, sex site or not! It’s just strange behaviour isn’t it!?
Because some of us don't mind them, if we don't want to see them we just delete it.
No harm done
Everyone is different and I accept that but my personal starting point is to assume, unless explicitly asked for in a profile, that people’s default position is not to want unsolicited gratuitous nudity sent to them.
If someone asks for it then fine.
I get the ‘but it’s a sex site so you should expect sexual content’ argument, but similarly in a sex club environment I wouldn’t just walk up to someone unsolicited and thrust my cock in front of their face and think ‘ah but it’s a sex club so they should expect that’.
To me it’s essentially the same thing. "
It's difficult not to agree with that logic.
This could one day prove to be an interesting dilemma for sites like this one.
How would they deal with someone who complains about harassment, support the supposed victim or the supposed person doing the harassing?
It could become a minefield. |
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