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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a baby means no to penetration, you could go wild and try affection and intimacy between nappies and feeding and washing and generally bonding with the baby. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"congrats on the new baby.. but why does that mean you can't have sex for 6 weeks, when my kids were born, I was having sex the next day... it's good for the muscles..
Devil  "
Ssshh she's probably told him that so she can ave a rest xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this thread serious? "what should I do?". How about you help you "mrs", who for the last 2 or 3 months has probably been feeling a bit of a lump, has been tired, can't cough incase she has a wee, and in general has wanted this "bloody thing out of her".
You have a third in your relationship now, time to build new bonds..... |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"congrats on the new baby.. but why does that mean you can't have sex for 6 weeks, when my kids were born, I was having sex the next day... it's good for the muscles..
Devil
Ssshh she's probably told him that so she can ave a rest xx "
lol soapy.... wouldn't blame her esp if it's their first one.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poor woman ..... hope she hasn't had to have stitches too ...... cos you'll be wanking for longer!
Congratulations on the birth of your baby, and take the next few weeks to just bond with baby and reassure your wife that she is still lovely and loved. Her hormones will be all over the place for a few weeks too (don't say I didn't warn you!)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oi girls I know the blokes seemed a little insensitive and I've even had a little dig myself
But I actually am givin him the benefit of the doubt when I say he's secretly made up and wants the world ta know how happy he is
But like most blokes he wades in wi his size nines in a tounge in cheek way lol xx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for the congrats i am supportive more than any of yu could beleive.
it was meant light heartedly.
so why the judging?
whats to say i havent done this before and know what to do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thanks for the congrats i am supportive more than any of yu could beleive.
it was meant light heartedly.
so why the judging?
whats to say i havent done this before and know what to do? "
I know how shocking for a forum to be judgemental 
Congrats on the birth, maybe show mum the thread and see if she judges you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thanks for the congrats i am supportive more than any of yu could beleive.
it was meant light heartedly.
so why the judging?
whats to say i havent done this before and know what to do? "
Then let me be the one to apologise first fir my "harsh" words, having lost my own, I know what this can do. Congratulations on your newborn, may mother and baby continue to make you proud beyond heart bursting, congratulations to you all.
P xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"congrats on the new baby.. but why does that mean you can't have sex for 6 weeks, when my kids were born, I was having sex the next day... it's good for the muscles..
Devil "
What about the bleeding though worse than a car crash worse still is if she has stitches boobs filled with milk and very tender. Let her rest and be patient and congrats on baby (boy or girl) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"congrats on the new baby.. but why does that mean you can't have sex for 6 weeks, when my kids were born, I was having sex the next day... it's good for the muscles..
Devil "
same ere x i was pregnant again 7 weeks later  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Congrats on the baby but as we're on Fab theres usually a kicker . It sounds like your first so think on this Youngest didnt leave home till he was 30 and i still give both of them cash now and then. O,the joys of parenthood. But you would not swap em for the world. |
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"Is this thread serious? "what should I do?". How about you help you "mrs", who for the last 2 or 3 months has probably been feeling a bit of a lump, has been tired, can't cough incase she has a wee, and in general has wanted this "bloody thing out of her".
You have a third in your relationship now, time to build new bonds....."
Well said...i expect the OP to start a new poor married male my wife has gone off sex single profile very soon!
OP you are a father now...that isnt about the depositing of sperm,which anyone can do but caring,teaching,loving,sharing the broken nights,the first smile,holding this new life in your arms and realising you heart will break if anything ever happens to it.
Grow up,the fact you are even thinking about your sexual needs right now....words cannot express how i feel without getting myself banned  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this thread serious? "what should I do?". How about you help you "mrs", who for the last 2 or 3 months has probably been feeling a bit of a lump, has been tired, can't cough incase she has a wee, and in general has wanted this "bloody thing out of her".
You have a third in your relationship now, time to build new bonds.....
Well said...i expect the OP to start a new poor married male my wife has gone off sex single profile very soon!
OP you are a father now...that isnt about the depositing of sperm,which anyone can do but caring,teaching,loving,sharing the broken nights,the first smile,holding this new life in your arms and realising you heart will break if anything ever happens to it.
Grow up,the fact you are even thinking about your sexual needs right now....words cannot express how i feel without getting myself banned p"
Few years ago heard a late night phone in with an agony aunt. Guy said wife wasnt interested in sex after the birth of a child. Ag aunt said when was baby born,he said last week. Jesus,did she rip his lungs out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Congratulations.. New babies are lovely...
Some women get over the physical quickly and long for the touch of their man as much as a man does his lady.. but..... really... dont worry about it... enjoy your new baby as 6 weeks is a blink of the eye as a new baby grows so fast..
And you maybe lucky and she may jump you early. I know I only ever wait for the bleeding to stop.. but.. thats just me.. and my reaction is rare..
So if your really keen to help in every way..and trust me.. it would help in the sexual sense too.. Remember your wife is going to be tired, and tiredness can leave women feeling unsexy and not wanting anything.. but dont do it because your hoping it leads to something.. DO it because you love her and want to.
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i cant have sex with the mrs for six weeks as shes just had our baby. what to do in the mean time "
ooooo lovely, you are both so fortunate - congratulations.
You won't see the time as it flies by and your baby and the love grows. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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jemima you obviously havent read all the posts becauser ive already stated ive done this before and it was a light hearted post. our daughter passed last year at a few weeks old and was feeling a little down so posted in here for a bit of fun to have a little bit of a laugh!!! maybe you should read before jumping up on your high horse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"jemima you obviously havent read all the posts becauser ive already stated ive done this before and it was a light hearted post. our daughter passed last year at a few weeks old and was feeling a little down so posted in here for a bit of fun to have a little bit of a laugh!!! maybe you should read before jumping up on your high horse"
I seriously am smacking the side of my head trying to make any sense of this post... how could anyone want to have a laugh and a joke about something so sad??? My head hurts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"jemima you obviously havent read all the posts becauser ive already stated ive done this before and it was a light hearted post. our daughter passed last year at a few weeks old and was feeling a little down so posted in here for a bit of fun to have a little bit of a laugh!!! maybe you should read before jumping up on your high horse
I seriously am smacking the side of my head trying to make any sense of this post... how could anyone want to have a laugh and a joke about something so sad??? My head hurts "
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"jemima you obviously havent read all the posts becauser ive already stated ive done this before and it was a light hearted post. our daughter passed last year at a few weeks old and was feeling a little down so posted in here for a bit of fun to have a little bit of a laugh!!! maybe you should read before jumping up on your high horse
I seriously am smacking the side of my head trying to make any sense of this post... how could anyone want to have a laugh and a joke about something so sad??? My head hurts "
i have been thinking about this...my thoughts...the op was never joking,when he discovered he wasnt going down well he disappeared.
A married male profile will appear soon,as any "real" swinging couple he wud have to explain why he had closed the profile.Showing her this thread....
lets just hope he gives his wife the support she needs and enjoys their new baby. |
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