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Why is it so hard on this site to chat to people

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've been on this site for a few months I haven't met no one yet just wondering what am I doing something wrong or I'm just not that good looking or something lol

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

Have patience my son.

Why it took me three years before I got my first picture fab.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Have patience my son.

Why it took me three years before I got my first picture fab."

I’m sorry I was so slow.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

You’re verified ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

most women will look at your profile before deciding to respond to a message..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been on this site for a few months I haven't met no one yet just wondering what am I doing something wrong or I'm just not that good looking or something lol"

Lots of single guys to women/couples. Not sure of the exact ratio but high proportion of men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This discourse became soured by power imbalances quite some time ago. It's why we aren't fussed about finding meets any more. The forums are still good though, for the most part.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"Have patience my son.

Why it took me three years before I got my first picture fab.

I’m sorry I was so slow.

Got there in the end my sweet

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Have patience my son.

Why it took me three years before I got my first picture fab.

I’m sorry I was so slow.

Got there in the end my sweet

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By *hythmic DriverMan over a year ago

Croydon

"I've been on this site for a few months I haven't met no one yet just wondering what am I doing something wrong or I'm just not that good looking or something lol"

You're chatting now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been on this site for a few months I haven't met no one yet just wondering what am I doing something wrong or I'm just not that good looking or something lol"

Put some more sexy pictures

get us girls interested

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By *unnoisseurMan over a year ago

Stratford

Girl to guy ratio is extremely poor. You are competing on a 1000/1 ratio and the ladies get inundated with messages. I’ve found the best way is to attend events and chat in person. Then you gain fab buddies

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah I am verified but that was a social meet for about five minutes to help someone out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah it's good to know people are nice on here

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

"most women will look at your profile before deciding to respond to a message.."

I always read a profile before I look at a message and will not respond if there if nothing there to interest me.

Perhaps this is where the OP's problem lies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So do you think I need to improve on my one then

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"So do you think I need to improve on my one then"

Well what kind of profiles appeal to you? Then compare yours and see what obvious differences there are. Eg. Number of photos ...

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By *wansfeetCouple over a year ago

Guisborough

Personally I wouldn't take a second look at your profile. Only 1 visible picture. Very small write up about yourself which has no punctuation and doesn't really explain who you are or what you're after. There are no reasons for me to think you're any different to every other single male on here

No offence, just fact.

Mrs S

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By *ANDA2Couple over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Yeah I am verified but that was a social meet for about five minutes to help someone out

Yet the verification says she met you a few times !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So do you think I need to improve on my one then"

go back and try again, take your time though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I don't know but if I'd only know you from your profile - so maybe people aren't finding what they need, when they browser yours, compared to other profiles?

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