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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
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If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
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over a year ago
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
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i would try to get there and let them know i am going to be late as one thing i hate is being late |
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
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Not at all, but then; I am a Northerner.........  |
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
Not at all, but then; I am a Northerner......... "
See that's my thinking.
Add in the fact it's not a random fab meet but someone you apparently love....
Can see me being all alone in a hotel Tomorrow night at this rate |
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
Not at all, but then; I am a Northerner.........
See that's my thinking.
Add in the fact it's not a random fab meet but someone you apparently love....
Can see me being all alone in a hotel Tomorrow night at this rate"
He may be thinking about getting back incase there's any problems with the road's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
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Nope - only my son would really become between me and sticking to arrangements - it’s just basic manners!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I would. Especially a snow one. I wouldn't risk my safety or expect them to. But I'm a southerner.... Not used to the snow where I live  "
I'm a careful driver so would set off at the appropriate time so I can get there safely and still enjoy my time there |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
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No but I'm the tipe that wood risk getting stranded just to go to work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends.
Do they have far to travel? You don’t want to leave home and be stranded somewhere. That would be hard to explain anyway if the meet has a partner back home.
How are they getting to the meet? You don’t want to risk death on the roads and you don’t want to fork out dosh for a rail ticket if the trains cancel.
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Yes I would, and if they loved or cared for you they would understand, that travelling in shit weather could be life threatening maybe not their driving but other toss pots on the road. And their safety is worth more than a jump |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I would. Especially a snow one. I wouldn't risk my safety or expect them to. But I'm a southerner.... Not used to the snow where I live "
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We almost never got to motorway last time it snowed at Chams, car got stuck & we left early - good local people to the rescue. Putting bag grit & shovel in boot ready for Xtasia trip on Saturday. So somethings don't go to plan ?? Fi xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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they always say add extra time when travelling in difficult conditions, which is what i’d do, leave earlier to hopefully get there on time, and keep the person updated as to where i am. |
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"Yes I would, and if they loved or cared for you they would understand, that travelling in shit weather could be life threatening maybe not their driving but other toss pots on the road. And their safety is worth more than a jump "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I would, and if they loved or cared for you they would understand, that travelling in shit weather could be life threatening maybe not their driving but other toss pots on the road. And their safety is worth more than a jump "
This.
OP it's supposed to rain after the weekend. Better to postpone than lose him forever. |
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
Not at all, but then; I am a Northerner.........
See that's my thinking.
Add in the fact it's not a random fab meet but someone you apparently love....
Can see me being all alone in a hotel Tomorrow night at this rate"
Once you're both in the hotel, who cares about what's going on outside? |
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"Yes I would, and if they loved or cared for you they would understand, that travelling in shit weather could be life threatening maybe not their driving but other toss pots on the road. And their safety is worth more than a jump "
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"We almost never got to motorway last time it snowed at Chams, car got stuck & we left early - good local people to the rescue. Putting bag grit & shovel in boot ready for Xtasia trip on Saturday. So somethings don't go to plan ?? Fi xx"
can always visit me instead |
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"We almost never got to motorway last time it snowed at Chams, car got stuck & we left early - good local people to the rescue. Putting bag grit & shovel in boot ready for Xtasia trip on Saturday. So somethings don't go to plan ?? Fi xxcan always visit me instead "
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
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as seen alot of the weather and been in it over the years I know better
people in cars can get stuck same as wagons but wagons are better equipped than cars.
how many of you carry shovels sleeping bags hot water/ a way to boil a kettle to make a drink and enough food in car to last days
these are all the things you should carry in a car for a long journey or get stuck in bad weather
the answer would be no unless traveling a day early to get there to avoid it |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes I would, and if they loved or cared for you they would understand, that travelling in shit weather could be life threatening maybe not their driving but other toss pots on the road. And their safety is worth more than a jump "
This
Added to the possible awkwardness of explaining their whereabouts when they getstranded to the wife, girlfriend or boss |
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"Yes I would, and if they loved or cared for you they would understand, that travelling in shit weather could be life threatening maybe not their driving but other toss pots on the road. And their safety is worth more than a jump
This
Added to the possible awkwardness of explaining their whereabouts when they getstranded to the wife, girlfriend or boss"
Or even the cats  |
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
as seen alot of the weather and been in it over the years I know better
people in cars can get stuck same as wagons but wagons are better equipped than cars.
how many of you carry shovels sleeping bags hot water/ a way to boil a kettle to make a drink and enough food in car to last days
these are all the things you should carry in a car for a long journey or get stuck in bad weather
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And a candle apparently - they put out significant heat. I recommend autosocks and a shovel, I carry those as well as a blanket, boots and several jackets.
I've travelled a day early to avoid snow - it just depends how far and how bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I wouldn't risk it.
I crashed my car in January 2009 in -8 temperature and black ice, alright it was a rear wheel drive car but it's still made me cautious and way more respectful to weather than I used to be.
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
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I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
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I would get my skis out but i think it be a waste of time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I had to get 3 night buses home from London, in the snow once, because the trains were on strike.
I'm not risking being caught in snow again. It's also dangerous to drive in snow, ice and torrential rain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
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Would you feel ok if he crashed his car, on his way to see you for sex? |
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Weather? What weather?
I grew up in the Peak District, we're experts are extreme weather driving, digging ourselves out of snowdrifts, and worse case scenario, always prepared to bunk down in the car overnight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Weather? What weather?
I grew up in the Peak District, we're experts are extreme weather driving, digging ourselves out of snowdrifts, and worse case scenario, always prepared to bunk down in the car overnight. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can honestly say the weather has never stopped me doing anything. Agirl at work is always saying “there’s no such thing as bad weather, just the wrong clothes” |
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
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I don't do snow. All day friends and family have been taking the piss.
I used to take my annual leave in January and February in case it snowed. Didn't go to my dad's funeral because of snow...in fairness no family went due to snow.
But you get the idea I don't do snow, so even if Jason Statham, Daniel Craig, Gerald Butler and Channing Tatum were up for it would be a rain check!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can honestly say, right here and now, that there is no way i’d risk life and limb and the prospect of leaving my kids without a mum, for the sake of schlepping across Country/Town/Borough for a bit of nookie.
No matter if they were Brad Pitt, the love of my life or the bloke from Camelot with my Euromillions winnings.
Call me a soft Welsh bint, but i just wouldn’t do it and given the recent weather pics and the fact that a few folk have already been killed, i’d be fairly understanding (albeit dissapointed and gutted and probably a bit moody!!) if someone cancelled on me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id like the idea of being holed up in a hotel during adverse weather. But the resultant fall out if he has another family wouldnt be worth it in the end x |
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
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You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!! |
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"I can honestly say, right here and now, that there is no way i’d risk life and limb and the prospect of leaving my kids without a mum, for the sake of schlepping across Country/Town/Borough for a bit of nookie.
No matter if they were Brad Pitt, the love of my life or the bloke from Camelot with my Euromillions winnings.
Call me a soft Welsh bint, but i just wouldn’t do it and given the recent weather pics and the fact that a few folk have already been killed, i’d be fairly understanding (albeit dissapointed and gutted and probably a bit moody!!) if someone cancelled on me too."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I understand what sort of idiots take silly unnecessary risks. I feel sorry for the emergency services when people don't heed advice "
It's a weather warning, which is probably over-hyped anyway. I have a 4x4 and I know how to use it.. |
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!! "
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy |
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!!
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy"
What were you really expecting from an attached person? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd rather arrive later in this life than early in the next
If it's a bit of rain light snow ect then fair enough but I think I'd pick people that would agree with me on leaving it for another night
I'd be gutted and sexually frustrated but I suppose the sex would be even better when you do meet |
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!!
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy"
You don't think you deserve better otherwise you'd realise it's him that's not worthy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
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Definitely not with you, no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd rather arrive later in this life than early in the next
If it's a bit of rain light snow ect then fair enough but I think I'd pick people that would agree with me on leaving it for another night
I'd be gutted and sexually frustrated but I suppose the sex would be even better when you do meet "
good thing we don't live far from each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was possible to wait until nearer the time to assess things then I would do that but if it was a case of losing deposits and things if I didn't cancel based on a warning then I would.
It's all good saying how much I love and want to see that person but I also don't want to die on the road or be stranded in a train station and I hope to never be with someone who would expect me to take that risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!!
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy"
Unworthy! Of him going against advice... running the risk of getting stranded or having a serious accident. I wonder if his wife is keen on him proving his love by risking his life. You seem to have no regard for his safety (or his relationship) seems a selfish attitude... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would never put the girl at risk.
But for the right person I would take the risk and travel and keep in contact during the journey in case I had to abandon it for reasons I couldn't control. I've never had to abandon a journey yet.
But this, it's the UK, if the will is there it's usually possible to get to most places.
We're not dragging ourselves across the tundra in a troika..
And if we ended up in front of a log fire in a hotel watching the storm outside drinking eating laughing talking and then.....
It would be so worth it.
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!!
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy
Unworthy! Of him going against advice... running the risk of getting stranded or having a serious accident. I wonder if his wife is keen on him proving his love by risking his life. You seem to have no regard for his safety (or his relationship) seems a selfish attitude... "
No more selfish than him wanting me to himself and his life at home.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!!
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy
Unworthy! Of him going against advice... running the risk of getting stranded or having a serious accident. I wonder if his wife is keen on him proving his love by risking his life. You seem to have no regard for his safety (or his relationship) seems a selfish attitude...
No more selfish than him wanting me to himself and his life at home...."
Don't do it then. It's you that decides to be exclusive to him. |
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!!
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy
Unworthy! Of him going against advice... running the risk of getting stranded or having a serious accident. I wonder if his wife is keen on him proving his love by risking his life. You seem to have no regard for his safety (or his relationship) seems a selfish attitude...
No more selfish than him wanting me to himself and his life at home...."
A situation you enable... That's the life of "the other woman". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!!
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy
Unworthy! Of him going against advice... running the risk of getting stranded or having a serious accident. I wonder if his wife is keen on him proving his love by risking his life. You seem to have no regard for his safety (or his relationship) seems a selfish attitude...
No more selfish than him wanting me to himself and his life at home...."
I don’t think there’s a winner on the selfish scale.
Stop for a minute and imagine a friend saying this to you now, how does it sound & what would you reply with? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just think for a moment. There's weather warnings, people advised not to travel unless necessary, if he has managed to make up an excuse to his wife/partner that enables him to sneak out for a few hours to meet you, chances are she's going to keep tabs on him and want updates on his journey, it's just what people do, text me when you get there, text me when you're leaving etc. Then what if he does get stranded and he's in a place miles away from where he said he was going to be. |
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As hard as it is to hear, if he wanted to be with you he would be.
He doesn't so he isn't.
It's your choice whether you accept the crumbs he throws you or whether you walk away.
You know you deserve better right?
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"If you really wanted to see someone. You're both apparently looking forward to it. You know they have to go to a lot of effort to make it happen.
Would you let a weather warning stop you without even trying?
Never!!
I'm Northern...we just put our "big coats" on
Not at all, but then; I am a Northerner......... "
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"Just think for a moment. There's weather warnings, people advised not to travel unless necessary, if he has managed to make up an excuse to his wife/partner that enables him to sneak out for a few hours to meet you, chances are she's going to keep tabs on him and want updates on his journey, it's just what people do, text me when you get there, text me when you're leaving etc. Then what if he does get stranded and he's in a place miles away from where he said he was going to be. "
Exactly this, it ain’t worth the risk of any kind.. |
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"I can honestly say, right here and now, that there is no way i’d risk life and limb and the prospect of leaving my kids without a mum, for the sake of schlepping across Country/Town/Borough for a bit of nookie.
No matter if they were Brad Pitt, the love of my life or the bloke from Camelot with my Euromillions winnings.
Call me a soft Welsh bint, but i just wouldn’t do it and given the recent weather pics and the fact that a few folk have already been killed, i’d be fairly understanding (albeit dissapointed and gutted and probably a bit moody!!) if someone cancelled on me too."
Schlepping is one of my favourite words. |
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"I know if it was me I'd say "don't come, there's a weather warning. I love you, and a night in a hotel is not worth the risk". "
I messaged my LTP earlier and told him not to come to me tomorrow, because he has to drive across London and it's going to be minus 3. |
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"As hard as it is to hear, if he wanted to be with you he would be.
He doesn't so he isn't.
It's your choice whether you accept the crumbs he throws you or whether you walk away.
You know you deserve better right?
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He doesn't deserve to risk his life in treacherous weather for a fuck. She isn't his wife or child. |
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"As hard as it is to hear, if he wanted to be with you he would be.
He doesn't so he isn't.
It's your choice whether you accept the crumbs he throws you or whether you walk away.
You know you deserve better right?
He doesn't deserve to risk his life in treacherous weather for a fuck. She isn't his wife or child. "
Quite. |
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!!
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy"
But then you could also flip it around. I wouldn't want to meet someone who claimed to care about me, but was happy for me to risk my personal safety for sex. There have been 20 car accidents and 3 deaths already, because of the weather. I don't mean to sound harsh, but someone who cares for /loves someone, would never expect someone to risk themselves like that. |
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"I know if it was me I'd say "don't come, there's a weather warning. I love you, and a night in a hotel is not worth the risk".
I messaged my LTP earlier and told him not to come to me tomorrow, because he has to drive across London and it's going to be minus 3. "
Lol ... oh my goodness imagine all manner of dangerous things that could happen having to drive with the temperature outside an arctic minus 3 ..
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"I can honestly say, right here and now, that there is no way i’d risk life and limb and the prospect of leaving my kids without a mum, for the sake of schlepping across Country/Town/Borough for a bit of nookie.
No matter if they were Brad Pitt, the love of my life or the bloke from Camelot with my Euromillions winnings.
Call me a soft Welsh bint, but i just wouldn’t do it and given the recent weather pics and the fact that a few folk have already been killed, i’d be fairly understanding (albeit dissapointed and gutted and probably a bit moody!!) if someone cancelled on me too."
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I'm a Northener and I've got more than one competition-spec Land Rover,I'm yet to encounter weather,conditions or terrain that have stopped me getting where I want to be |
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"I know if it was me I'd say "don't come, there's a weather warning. I love you, and a night in a hotel is not worth the risk".
I messaged my LTP earlier and told him not to come to me tomorrow, because he has to drive across London and it's going to be minus 3.
Lol ... oh my goodness imagine all manner of dangerous things that could happen having to drive with the temperature outside an arctic minus 3 ..
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You mean like a lorry hitting you from behind and pushing you into the lorry in front, squashing your car and killing you? |
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"I know if it was me I'd say "don't come, there's a weather warning. I love you, and a night in a hotel is not worth the risk".
I messaged my LTP earlier and told him not to come to me tomorrow, because he has to drive across London and it's going to be minus 3.
Lol ... oh my goodness imagine all manner of dangerous things that could happen having to drive with the temperature outside an arctic minus 3 ..
You mean like a lorry hitting you from behind and pushing you into the lorry in front, squashing your car and killing you? "
There's roads in London where lorries can go fast enough for that to happen??I jest,to be fair though that can and does happen when it's not cold and icy out |
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"I know if it was me I'd say "don't come, there's a weather warning. I love you, and a night in a hotel is not worth the risk".
I messaged my LTP earlier and told him not to come to me tomorrow, because he has to drive across London and it's going to be minus 3.
Lol ... oh my goodness imagine all manner of dangerous things that could happen having to drive with the temperature outside an arctic minus 3 ..
You mean like a lorry hitting you from behind and pushing you into the lorry in front, squashing your car and killing you?
There's roads in London where lorries can go fast enough for that to happen??I jest,to be fair though that can and does happen when it's not cold and icy out"
Of course there are. My partner uses the A13 to get to me. There were fatal accidents on it last year in fair weather. Thousands of lorries use it daily. |
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"If I was meeting I’d still go f*^k the weather I’m on route nothing worse than letting someone dwn ITS WRONG "
Dying? Crashing your car then having to explain to your wife why you were on that road? |
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Not at all! But I'm that person who still makes the 40 mile drive to work on a morning in the snow when people who live around the corner from work are phoning in saying they can't get in
If I really want to see someone there isn't much that would stop me. |
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"It's no point putting anyone in danger we would prefer to delay meet until its safe to drive... Just looked out of window and there's at least 1cm of snow...we're on our way!! "
A whole centimetre....
That's almost half an inch...
I've driven through deeper rain |
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"I know if it was me I'd say "don't come, there's a weather warning. I love you, and a night in a hotel is not worth the risk".
I messaged my LTP earlier and told him not to come to me tomorrow, because he has to drive across London and it's going to be minus 3.
Lol ... oh my goodness imagine all manner of dangerous things that could happen having to drive with the temperature outside an arctic minus 3 ..
You mean like a lorry hitting you from behind and pushing you into the lorry in front, squashing your car and killing you?
There's roads in London where lorries can go fast enough for that to happen??I jest,to be fair though that can and does happen when it's not cold and icy out
Of course there are. My partner uses the A13 to get to me. There were fatal accidents on it last year in fair weather. Thousands of lorries use it daily. "
I know the A13 well,been along it quite literally thousands of times over the years was merely a light-hearted comment in reference to the seemingly constant crawling pace of London traffic,didn't realise attempts at humour (however poor) were frowned upon |
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http://www.itv.com/news/2018-02-27/freezing-conditions-and-heavy-snowfall-sweep-into-uk-bringing-treacherous-road-and-travel-conditions/
I'm just going to leave this here for all you "I can drive" "I know better, I'll take the risk" types. |
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The place i work is closing tonight from 20:00 through to 06:00 on Monday. And that's only if the snow has melted. Its going to cost thousands and thousands of pounds! All for the safety of staff travelling.
Grow up. |
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"I understand all the points however this is the man that "apparently" loves me. A little effort would have been nice, as opposed to just not even trying.
Still as the other woman I of course deserve to be let down... Again!
You expect him to get possibly stranded for you?!!
You honestly believe the lies he tells you?!!
No but that doesn't stop me wanting to.
After this long I'm left wondering why I'm so unworthy
Unworthy! Of him going against advice... running the risk of getting stranded or having a serious accident. I wonder if his wife is keen on him proving his love by risking his life. You seem to have no regard for his safety (or his relationship) seems a selfish attitude...
No more selfish than him wanting me to himself and his life at home...."
If it makes you unhappy, do something about it. You can only be treated how you ALLOW yourself to be treated.
Unfortunately, when you choose to be "the other Woman/Man" in someone's life, you're not likely to be a priority. |
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"If I was meeting I’d still go f*^k the weather I’m on route nothing worse than letting someone dwn ITS WRONG "
Would you say that if you were married with a family? Chance driving in adverse weather conditions for a casual fuck?!! Really?!! |
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"The place i work is closing tonight from 20:00 through to 06:00 on Monday. And that's only if the snow has melted. Its going to cost thousands and thousands of pounds! All for the safety of staff travelling.
Grow up. "
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"Well hopefully he's not on the M80,some of the poor bugger's have been on there for 15 hour's with no movement in sight! People who travel in this weather when advised not to are just plain dumb."
Agreed, and worse than that, they could be responsible for the death or injury of others including members of the emergency services. Morons |
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"I know if it was me I'd say "don't come, there's a weather warning. I love you, and a night in a hotel is not worth the risk".
I messaged my LTP earlier and told him not to come to me tomorrow, because he has to drive across London and it's going to be minus 3.
Lol ... oh my goodness imagine all manner of dangerous things that could happen having to drive with the temperature outside an arctic minus 3 ..
You mean like a lorry hitting you from behind and pushing you into the lorry in front, squashing your car and killing you?
There's roads in London where lorries can go fast enough for that to happen??I jest,to be fair though that can and does happen when it's not cold and icy out
Of course there are. My partner uses the A13 to get to me. There were fatal accidents on it last year in fair weather. Thousands of lorries use it daily.
I know the A13 well,been along it quite literally thousands of times over the years was merely a light-hearted comment in reference to the seemingly constant crawling pace of London traffic,didn't realise attempts at humour (however poor) were frowned upon "
I missed the bit where you said I jest. You should use smileys for us skim readers/short sighted people |
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"The place i work is closing tonight from 20:00 through to 06:00 on Monday. And that's only if the snow has melted. Its going to cost thousands and thousands of pounds! All for the safety of staff travelling.
Grow up. "
I think your area is going to get hit bad over the next few days. We wouldn't want anything bad happening to you for the sake of a few thousand pounds. |
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"I wouldn't want someone I cared about to travel in conditions that could be unsafe.
Me neither,I want them safely indoors."
Me too. I would never ask or expect that. It’s just pure stupidity and no sex is worth taking risks for. |
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"The place i work is closing tonight from 20:00 through to 06:00 on Monday. And that's only if the snow has melted. Its going to cost thousands and thousands of pounds! All for the safety of staff travelling.
Grow up.
I think your area is going to get hit bad over the next few days. We wouldn't want anything bad happening to you for the sake of a few thousand pounds. "
I ment cost to the company not to me. Xx |
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"The place i work is closing tonight from 20:00 through to 06:00 on Monday. And that's only if the snow has melted. Its going to cost thousands and thousands of pounds! All for the safety of staff travelling.
Grow up.
I think your area is going to get hit bad over the next few days. We wouldn't want anything bad happening to you for the sake of a few thousand pounds.
I ment cost to the company not to me. Xx"
The company won't be there as a substitute husband or father if something bad happens to you. I'm a firm believer in "Better safe than sorry" x |
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"The place i work is closing tonight from 20:00 through to 06:00 on Monday. And that's only if the snow has melted. Its going to cost thousands and thousands of pounds! All for the safety of staff travelling.
Grow up.
I think your area is going to get hit bad over the next few days. We wouldn't want anything bad happening to you for the sake of a few thousand pounds.
I ment cost to the company not to me. Xx
The company won't be there as a substitute husband or father if something bad happens to you. I'm a firm believer in "Better safe than sorry" x"
Exactly . And they're still paying me. |
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