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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So what do you consider to be too many verifications
Lots of people have lots of social veris and often veris aren’t even displayed. So maybe those that have lots are actually very open and honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not put off by too many verifications. I know how easy they are to amass from simply saying hello to someone in a club or at a social. My last profile had 130+ I think.
A veri is just one person/couples take on what they thought of you. It may influence whether I meet the recipient if it is a decent, well written and positive writeup. However it may not.
Like TripAdvisor. Be honest. We read them but only really get entertained by the rubbish reviews. Unlike TripAdvisor, the recipient chooses what we see.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think the only time I'd possibly think a large number of veris would put me off would be if they were over a very short space of time and all very obviously sex meets, as opposed to social, and indicated that the owner wasn't particularly selective, not out of any kind of judgement, but because that doesn't match what I am looking for personally.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's face it people have casual sex away from fab... it's more about the content for us. We show only show social verifications.. would happily share others with anyone who asked for them but we like to hold back a bit on what we get upto  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the content. If there were a lot of sex veris, then it would put me off. I think it's more because I would like to meet someone who prefers a more regular type of meet. I wouldn't want to meet a serial shagger haha. There's nothing wrong with that. People are free to use the site how they see fit. It just wouldn't fit into what I'm hoping to find on this site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of verifications we hav are from when me..mazza..has been in clubs and hav spoken to people, not all played meets xx"
Like the lovely social Veri you gave us  |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
There is no such thing as too many in my eyes - it shows the person is real because lots of people have seen them. Wether they were wearing clothes or not at the time is none of my business  |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
Your wildest Dreams |
"The majority of verifications we hav are from when me..mazza..has been in clubs and hav spoken to people, not all played meets xx
Like the lovely social Veri you gave us "
Wel I do try  xx |
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A lot of mine are from socials which never went anywhere, organised large social events (ones from organisers often contain dates of upcoming events do I onjy display until they've passed by) several from friends joking around,a few multiples plus couple UNLOS.
I don't show my summary as the numbers don't tally.
I wouldn't personally be put off by a number, but the content & following a trail might |
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"It depends on the content. If there were a lot of sex veris, then it would put me off. I think it's more because I would like to meet someone who prefers a more regular type of meet. I wouldn't want to meet a serial shagger haha. There's nothing wrong with that. People are free to use the site how they see fit. It just wouldn't fit into what I'm hoping to find on this site "
x storm x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the veri content / trail that’s more off-putting then the actual number.
However, multiple veri’s displayed (over short period of time) from the same person is a bit of a thumbs down from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would only "judge" based on content and possibly who they'd met with.
And by judge I mean decide that they are /aren't what we're looking for, not look down my nose at anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sufficiently aware that veries will have little or no value in determining how I may interact with another.
Neither party to said veries will ever have the same dynamic as if I meet another... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like veris. They shows that the person actually turns up for meets and with a bit of reading between the lines gives an indication of the type of person they are.
Of course it’s not an accurate prediction but on balance I think they are a good thing. The number of veris matters not to me |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
Your wildest Dreams |
"I like veris. They shows that the person actually turns up for meets and with a bit of reading between the lines gives an indication of the type of person they are.
Of course it’s not an accurate prediction but on balance I think they are a good thing. The number of veris matters not to me "
This xx |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I'm sufficiently aware that veries will have little or no value in determining how I may interact with another.
Neither party to said veries will ever have the same dynamic as if I meet another..."
Deep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try not to do them but then people give you one and that's it 
Haha wheesht your noise
Erm how do you know that was aimed at you young lady?
You just like moaning poppet"
See totally wrong impression sweet cheeks |
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By *ikkaMan
over a year ago
Manhattan |
"I’m not put off by too many verifications. I know how easy they are to amass from simply saying hello to someone in a club or at a social. My last profile had 130+ I think.
A veri is just one person/couples take on what they thought of you. It may influence whether I meet the recipient if it is a decent, well written and positive writeup. However it may not.
Like TripAdvisor. Be honest. We read them but only really get entertained by the rubbish reviews. Unlike TripAdvisor, the recipient chooses what we see.
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apt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone has more than 4 sex veris on show/ visible on their profile it puts me off meeting them. "
I'm the same when all they have is social veris. I don't want to meet for endless tea and cake! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone has more than 4 sex veris on show/ visible on their profile it puts me off meeting them.
I'm the same when all they have is social veris. I don't want to meet for endless tea and cake!"
Coffee and biscuits yeehaw!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone has more than 4 sex veris on show/ visible on their profile it puts me off meeting them.
I'm the same when all they have is social veris. I don't want to meet for endless tea and cake!
Coffee and biscuits yeehaw!!"
Prosecco and chocolate darling   |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"If someone has more than 4 sex veris on show/ visible on their profile it puts me off meeting them.
I'm the same when all they have is social veris. I don't want to meet for endless tea and cake!
Coffee and biscuits yeehaw!!
Prosecco and chocolate darling "
Eeewwww...Prosecco and chocolate is just horrible.....chocolate needs to be accompanied by a sweet drink...a desert wine or a nice liqueur... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone has more than 4 sex veris on show/ visible on their profile it puts me off meeting them.
I'm the same when all they have is social veris. I don't want to meet for endless tea and cake!
Coffee and biscuits yeehaw!!
Prosecco and chocolate darling
Eeewwww...Prosecco and chocolate is just horrible.....chocolate needs to be accompanied by a sweet drink...a desert wine or a nice liqueur... "
Oh god! Not together! Prosecco for afters.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone has more than 4 sex veris on show/ visible on their profile it puts me off meeting them.
I'm the same when all they have is social veris. I don't want to meet for endless tea and cake!
Coffee and biscuits yeehaw!!
Prosecco and chocolate darling
Eeewwww...Prosecco and chocolate is just horrible.....chocolate needs to be accompanied by a sweet drink...a desert wine or a nice liqueur... "
Champagne & truffles are good together. |
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I show most of mine with the hope that if someone reads them they can have a better idea of what’s on offer.If someone is put off by the number of them then they wouldn’t up my street anyway and saves wasting time. |
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"If someone has more than 4 sex veris on show/ visible on their profile it puts me off meeting them.
I'm the same when all they have is social veris. I don't want to meet for endless tea and cake!"
Agreed I’m not on here to keep Costa in business |
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Haha funny this thread popped up. I genuinely had someone say I had too many veri's as a piss-poor excuse to not want to meet.
If you wanna see how many I have by all means go check my profile and tell me if that is too many |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know it’s a Swinging site and hey, we’re all non-judgemental here and all that, but it’s not so much the number of veris, it’s the volume. If there’s one or more appearing literally every other day then (and shoot me for this!) that does turn me off a bit. 
I don’t want to become yet another notch in the conveyor belt of fucks that a serial shagger has knowing full well that later that day or tomorrow she’ll be on to the next one and I’ll be distant memory.
Having said that any veri would be nice, sat here as I am on a big fat zero!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I consider them to be tarts if they have too many! "
That reminds me, I’m sure you still owe me a cake! Or tart, to make it fit in with your comment. I haven’t forgotten!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I consider them to be tarts if they have too many!
That reminds me, I’m sure you still owe me a cake! Or tart, to make it fit in with your comment. I haven’t forgotten!! "
You are a tart!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it’s a Swinging site and hey, we’re all non-judgemental here and all that, but it’s not so much the number of veris, it’s the volume. If there’s one or more appearing literally every other day then (and shoot me for this!) that does turn me off a bit.
I don’t want to become yet another notch in the conveyor belt of fucks that a serial shagger has knowing full well that later that day or tomorrow she’ll be on to the next one and I’ll be distant memory.
Having said that any veri would be nice, sat here as I am on a big fat zero! "
You have to actually meet to get a veri x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I know it’s a Swinging site and hey, we’re all non-judgemental here and all that, but it’s not so much the number of veris, it’s the volume. If there’s one or more appearing literally every other day then (and shoot me for this!) that does turn me off a bit.
I don’t want to become yet another notch in the conveyor belt of fucks that a serial shagger has knowing full well that later that day or tomorrow she’ll be on to the next one and I’ll be distant memory.
Having said that any veri would be nice, sat here as I am on a big fat zero! "
I'm going to be in Birmingham next week and could do a social at the station before I hope on the train home.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know it’s a Swinging site and hey, we’re all non-judgemental here and all that, but it’s not so much the number of veris, it’s the volume. If there’s one or more appearing literally every other day then (and shoot me for this!) that does turn me off a bit.
I don’t want to become yet another notch in the conveyor belt of fucks that a serial shagger has knowing full well that later that day or tomorrow she’ll be on to the next one and I’ll be distant memory.
Having said that any veri would be nice, sat here as I am on a big fat zero!
I'm going to be in Birmingham next week and could do a social at the station before I hope on the train home. "
Awww - thanks my lovely, however there’s a Snow Armageddon on the way and I hear that Siberian Snow is the wrong type for the tracks so fear your train may be delayed!  xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I consider them to be tarts if they have too many!
How many is too many? "
From your earlier post, it would be four.
I've been verified by 171 people, apparently. I don't know what that makes me.
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"I consider them to be tarts if they have too many!
How many is too many?
From your earlier post, it would be four.
I've been verified by 171 people, apparently. I don't know what that makes me.
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Someone I’d be interested in meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too few, too many, too frequent, too graphic, etc etc who really should give a crap, they are what they are and those that judge and draw false conclusions from them, your loss
And if you’ve got tons why pander to the judgemental by saying oh they are mostly socials? No one should care
So go swinging, get lots of veris and enjoy yourself
PS having loads works as an excellent filter, timewasters, dreamers, non swingers, snobs, idiots, socialites etc etc just don’t message you, so you can get on talking and arranging real meets. Win, win |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I consider them to be tarts if they have too many!
How many is too many?
From your earlier post, it would be four.
I've been verified by 171 people, apparently. I don't know what that makes me.
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4 displayed is too many for me but I didn't say they were tarts.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too few, too many, too frequent, too graphic, etc etc who really should give a crap, they are what they are and those that judge and draw false conclusions from them, your loss
And if you’ve got tons why pander to the judgemental by saying oh they are mostly socials? No one should care
So go swinging, get lots of veris and enjoy yourself
PS having loads works as an excellent filter, timewasters, dreamers, non swingers, snobs, idiots, socialites etc etc just don’t message you, so you can get on talking and arranging real meets. Win, win "
But you judge people on their views. You judge people on the type of verifications they show or the type of people they want to meet. You are being rude by saying people are snobs or idiots. Do you have a guilty conscience? |
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just to be controversial- I actually prefer if a guy has morectgan a couple. means to me that he enjoys himself and is open minded. and they are especially helpful if you are looking for someone who has experience in certain areas.
I get suspicious if all they have are social meet verifications. are they not up for actually having some fun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the only time I'd possibly think a large number of veris would put me off would be if they were over a very short space of time and all very obviously sex meets, as opposed to social, and indicated that the owner wasn't particularly selective, not out of any kind of judgement, but because that doesn't match what I am looking for personally.
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Whether they were very selective or not would depend on who they met to get those verifications surely? If someone set us up at a party with 5 intelligent, sparklingly charming and sexy to us couples who matched all our kinks and dirty desires then I'm sorry, but we're going to fill our boots! With the lot if possible. Doesn't mean that we're not selective, just that they all matched our criteria? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have alot of verifications, mostly from play meets, when they were displayed they rarely put guys off of wanting to meet me, infact quite the opposite, which is why they are hidden now I am not looking for single guys. I had some grief from single females tho...if people want to judge me on how many people have verified me that is fine by me, it works as a filter for me too |
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Lots of people saying lots of veris in a short time period puts them off, what if the peson has been on fab a few years but then left and then rejoined so they know alot of people that then give them a new one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of people saying lots of veris in a short time period puts them off, what if the peson has been on fab a few years but then left and then rejoined so they know alot of people that then give them a new one? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too few, too many, too frequent, too graphic, etc etc who really should give a crap, they are what they are and those that judge and draw false conclusions from them, your loss
And if you’ve got tons why pander to the judgemental by saying oh they are mostly socials? No one should care
So go swinging, get lots of veris and enjoy yourself
PS having loads works as an excellent filter, timewasters, dreamers, non swingers, snobs, idiots, socialites etc etc just don’t message you, so you can get on talking and arranging real meets. Win, win
But you judge people on their views. You judge people on the type of verifications they show or the type of people they want to meet. You are being rude by saying people are snobs or idiots. Do you have a guilty conscience? "
Not sure how you’ve jumped to those accusations, but clearly untrue and totally unfounded |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too few, too many, too frequent, too graphic, etc etc who really should give a crap, they are what they are and those that judge and draw false conclusions from them, your loss
And if you’ve got tons why pander to the judgemental by saying oh they are mostly socials? No one should care
So go swinging, get lots of veris and enjoy yourself
PS having loads works as an excellent filter, timewasters, dreamers, non swingers, snobs, idiots, socialites etc etc just don’t message you, so you can get on talking and arranging real meets. Win, win
But you judge people on their views. You judge people on the type of verifications they show or the type of people they want to meet. You are being rude by saying people are snobs or idiots. Do you have a guilty conscience?
Not sure how you’ve jumped to those accusations, but clearly untrue and totally unfounded "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I show most of mine with the hope that if someone reads them they can have a better idea of what’s on offer.If someone is put off by the number of them then they wouldn’t up my street anyway and saves wasting time."
Exactly. |
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