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Is there any genuine women who actually want fun?
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Had no luck as of yet on fab. I know a lot of ladies just get spam mail or constantly get cock pics. And it ruins it for genuine guys looking for some swinging fun. But I’ll stick it out for a little longer. Would love to get to know some women on fab? |
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"Had no luck as of yet on fab. I know a lot of ladies just get spam mail or constantly get cock pics. And it ruins it for genuine guys looking for some swinging fun. But I’ll stick it out for a little longer. Would love to get to know some women on fab?"
You've only been on 3 weeks and you have one picture and barely any bio |
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"Junk mail. I get the picture lol. I need to be more involved in socials "
And stop insinuating people aren’t genuine. Some have been here years and worked hard to build up friendships/relationships. |
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"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!
Do you want to claim ppi??"
Have you been injured at work and it wasn’t your fault? |
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"Junk mail. I get the picture lol. I need to be more involved in socials "
i've never seen any junk mail in messages, or heard anyone ever mention it...thats nonsense..stupid excuse |
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"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!
Do you want to claim ppi??
I want a millionaire prince to give me money!! "
Oh snap!
One just emailed me this morning.
Will I forward on his details?  |
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"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!
Do you want to claim ppi??
I want a millionaire prince to give me money!!
Oh snap!
One just emailed me this morning.
Will I forward on his details? "
Oh yes please! Could do with a couple of million this month |
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"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine. "
I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall. |
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"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.
I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall. "
You will be using the block button alot then. |
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We've posted on quite a few a similar threads but what seems to come across is that most seem to think that just sending out messages is the key to success on here. It's not.
As I've said many times before, FAB is just another tool in your box, sometimes useful, sometimes not, but you need a hell of a lot more to complete the job, along with a bit of patience and a lot of luck.  |
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"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.
I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall. "
I do the exact same already. Or professional  or the brilliant ‘I make 50 shades look tame’ damn, you’re going to stalk and abuse me aren’t ya?  |
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"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.
I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall.
You will be using the block button alot then."
I will have RSI by the end of it. Better not use my fave wank finger. |
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"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.
I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall.
I do the exact same already. Or professional or the brilliant ‘I make 50 shades look tame’ damn, you’re going to stalk and abuse me aren’t ya? "
Sod it. Might add ‘dom’ in there.
So you once pulled someone’s hair and called them a bitch... check you out, you mad man. |
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"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.
I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall.
I do the exact same already. Or professional or the brilliant ‘I make 50 shades look tame’ damn, you’re going to stalk and abuse me aren’t ya?
Sod it. Might add ‘dom’ in there.
So you once pulled someone’s hair and called them a bitch... check you out, you mad man. "
Oh you spanked your ex girlfriend? Come get me  |
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No one is ruining anything for you.
Women not replying doesn't mean they aren't genuine.
Claiming to be genuine is meaningless.
Understand why those 3 points are true and you'll be fine on here  |
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I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging |
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"I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging "
I think it's more to do with the fact that, because they are not having fun with you, then they must not be genuine or not be fun. That's how the title heading reads OP. Men need to stand out in their messages/profiles. Otherwise it can be a non starter for many. We don't get spam. We just get some who stand out more than others and gravitate towards those people, depending on our personal preferences |
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"I still don’t know what a ‘genuine guy’ is
I think they're the same as 'nice guys'
Ohhhhh okay gotcha
What are nice guys? "
The ones who don't get meets... Apparently. |
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"I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging
I think it's more to do with the fact that, because they are not having fun with you, then they must not be genuine or not be fun. That's how the title heading reads OP. Men need to stand out in their messages/profiles. Otherwise it can be a non starter for many. We don't get spam. We just get some who stand out more than others and gravitate towards those people, depending on our personal preferences "
OP had you asked for advice rather than accusing the people you want that advice from of not being genuine then the responses could well have been very different |
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"I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging "
Sometimes you're just the wrong post at the wrong time. There are a lot of similar posts on the forums & occasionally you catch someone's wrath because of something on a previous post. Don't take it to heart.
It takes time to build up a profile & connections with people. Some newbies seem to think they'll be knee deep in women the second they set up a profile & then get huffy when it doesn't happen like that!
Chat on forums, go to clubs & socials & get to know people. Swinging is a social scene for people who like to have sex. Doesn't mean they are desperate or aren't choosy about who they play with. Make friends, the fun will follow!! |
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"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!
Do you want to claim ppi??
Have you been injured at work and it wasn’t your fault?"
If I get a message on here from Parky or Gloria Hunniford about over 50's life insurance, I'm off!! |
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"Nobody is ruining anything for anybody,if anything,some are actually making it easier for others."
That’s such a good comment, never thought of it that way but your right.
As thanks to the idiots and time wasters, you make it a lot easier for me |
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"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.
I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall. "
Ive been a fantasist, it was fun. Dreamer sounds a bit wishy washy  |
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"I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging "
Youll soon learn the trigger words that cause upset, dont worry. We were all new once. Ps dont ask about bareback, squirting or being married for another few weeks  |
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"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?! "
Yeah have you not had your shopping vouchers come through for next tesco and BnQ yet |
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"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol
I like games
Scrabble? "
Don't knock scrabble... odd the people you find unexpectedly bowling into your life from such a deviant game |
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"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol
I like games
Scrabble?
Don't knock scrabble... odd the people you find unexpectedly bowling into your life from such a deviant game "
I'm dyslexic.. Half my words don't count |
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"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol
I like games
Scrabble?
Don't knock scrabble... odd the people you find unexpectedly bowling into your life from such a deviant game
I'm dyslexic.. Half my words don't count "
They should and I bet they score highly. |
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"What is a genuine guy? "
I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...
I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next' |
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"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol
I like games
Scrabble?
Don't knock scrabble... odd the people you find unexpectedly bowling into your life from such a deviant game "
I would never knock scrabble. I love it. And the tiles would go everywhere. |
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"What is a genuine guy?
I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...
I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next' "
Nice genuine guys are so fun |
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"What is a genuine guy?
I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...
I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next'
Nice genuine guys are so fun "
Nah; too vanilla |
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To be fair I’m about as genuine as they come and it does knock you back a bit when you send a message to a woman and they delete it . But keep going mate you’ll soon get a meet |
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"What is a genuine guy?
I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...
I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next'
Nice genuine guys are so fun
Nah; too vanilla "
True. We need a Christrian Grey |
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Keep your chin up pal your meets will happen there’s plenty of decent ladies on fab you just need to hang on in there a lot of guys get there mail deleted and some woman just blatantly block you for no reason but I rise above it and think to myself it’s there loss not mine,just give it time it will happen. |
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"What is a genuine guy?
I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...
I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next'
Nice genuine guys are so fun
Nah; too vanilla
True. We need a Christrian Grey"
But he is a character in a work of fiction, ergo; he's not genuine |
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"What is a genuine guy?
I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...
I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next'
Nice genuine guys are so fun
Nah; too vanilla
True. We need a Christrian Grey
But he is a character in a work of fiction, ergo; he's not genuine "
Oh, snap! |
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