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Can ORAL be taught to someone?
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"You either got it or you aint! Who agrees?"
Having read Cosmo for several years which says that the only way to get decent oral is to tell the guy what you like, I reckon people can be taught. |
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I only gave my ex two bj the whole time we were married - 20 years ! but since then i've practiced very hard and told I'm not bad now.
I'm self taught - watched porn for technique and just went with what felt good for me and from the reactions from the guys - what was good for them hehe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was rubbish at giving head to Men until about 5 years ago when i was 'trained' lol and now im pretty good so yes you can be taught.
Ive always, instinctively, known what to do with women though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you listen to the individual.. Deep throat is not so much something some people can do.. but many women dont like it.. I personally do..and have been told I am reasonable at it.. but I enjoy it and that shows.
Not every guy likes it the same.. so being very good at seeing what each little thing you do does to the guy, you can make it good for each guy.. to be fair if its in a gang bang situation I tend to do it how I want.. as well.. its all about me..
But yes I do think that women can be taught but not all want to do it how a man may want it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I'm giving oral to a woman for the 1st time I make a point of gauging their reaction to what I do so that I can find their sweet spot. As far as wifey's bj's are concerned she does a great job and everyone she's met has enjoyed them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hubby always enjoys it, i just do what i like doing, he cums pretty quick. Other men i have met have asked me to do different things. That way you learn about it, and by reading sex manuals. If your with a man you dont fancy or like that much, you dont enjoy doing it in the same way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are all different and like it in different ways, so I would say that a man who learns to observe a womans reaction and act on that is one who gives great oral and same relates to any sexual act.
My OH is fantastic at oral, in my opinion, and never fails to make come and thats because he knows to read my reactions. He tries different techniques and I either pull away a little or, if im really enjoying it, ill grab his ears  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You either got it or you aint! Who agrees?"
Its like anything you do, you have a 'natural' or 'starting' ability, but this can improve with practice & experience. |
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i love giving BJs and would love to deep throat but no matter how hard i try i just cant seem too 
but over all i beleive that every expereince is a learning oppitunity,, what works for one person doesnt work for another ..
and practising is so much fun.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people are'nt comfortable with showing someone the best way to hit your buttons or to be shown how to help someone else acheive total pleasure then they will continue to give and receive shite oral forever 
Surely the whole purpose is about maximum pleasure fro everyone? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If people are'nt comfortable with showing someone the best way to hit your buttons or to be shown how to help someone else acheive total pleasure then they will continue to give and receive shite oral forever
Surely the whole purpose is about maximum pleasure fro everyone?"
Absolutley |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not all women like the same technique, so by listening and adapting you learn what your partner likes and what she doesnt, and at times a helping hand to guide you to the correct spot never did any harm.
I am always glad to learn something new |
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By *DSRMan
over a year ago
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yep, anyone can learn to improve on their technique, anyone can get batter than they were, BUT.. Everyone is unique, like one football player is better than another one who get's the same training etc... Anyone can be good, but NO ONE... can be as good as me
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I win
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