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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh no! Definitely ditch him for someone who's at least honest with you!
If it were me I'd be understanding of "I'm really sorry I forgot I'd made plans with friends tonight" and rearranging. Can't abide liars though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So he bailed for a night out with his mates.
There's a saying in Scotland. What's for ye will nae go by ye.
It's true that "
I may have balled that up. (corrected) |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot! "
Sorry to hear op
Hus head must not be screwed on right to pass on someone as sexy as yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Screen shoot it and send it to him wishing him a great night out with his mates. He's a total numpty "
My friend said do that but I’ve just unfollowed and won’t respond now, though I don’t know if I should call him out on it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well you know what to do now when he contacts you again.
Trust and believe me that I'm shit hot at advice for other people but can't follow my own.
When he gets back in touch to see if he can arrange the date you have two options really, make plans that he could keep or could let you down again but in doing so you are telling him that it's fine for him to have no respect for you, that he can pick you up and drop you whenever you want, that you aren't high value, that you have no respect for yourself. You can take that first option because it is hard to say no to when you really want to see the guy and may feel like you're punishing yourself by not having the date, but moving forward you'll ruin how he views you and once that's done you won't be able to change his mind.
The second and probably hardest option is to not contact him, if he contacts you just say you're not feeling it anymore, you were up for meeting the first time and the second but just say you have your own rules that you can't break. He'll other try harder and harder in which case let him work for it.
Again I'm good at advice but if it were me I'd have already turned up on his night out and smacked him in the mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot! "
there's only one idiot and it's not you. Had this myself. All set to head to see a lass after work only to be told she's knackered. Twenty minutes later she's Snapchatting about going of to an Ann summers party  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot! "
What an absolute tool! It's his loss don't feel bad.
Big boobie hugs x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well you know what to do now when he contacts you again.
Trust and believe me that I'm shit hot at advice for other people but can't follow my own.
When he gets back in touch to see if he can arrange the date you have two options really, make plans that he could keep or could let you down again but in doing so you are telling him that it's fine for him to have no respect for you, that he can pick you up and drop you whenever you want, that you aren't high value, that you have no respect for yourself. You can take that first option because it is hard to say no to when you really want to see the guy and may feel like you're punishing yourself by not having the date, but moving forward you'll ruin how he views you and once that's done you won't be able to change his mind.
The second and probably hardest option is to not contact him, if he contacts you just say you're not feeling it anymore, you were up for meeting the first time and the second but just say you have your own rules that you can't break. He'll other try harder and harder in which case let him work for it.
Again I'm good at advice but if it were me I'd have already turned up on his night out and smacked him in the mouth. "
Love this. Definitely going for the second honey, thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot!
What an absolute tool! It's his loss don't feel bad.
Big boobie hugs x "
Booby hugs!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll get used to it OP
There are a lot of men that think of women on here as free prostitutes.
he'll want to meet you after he's been out with his mates. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You'll get used to it OP
There are a lot of men that think of women on here as free prostitutes.
he'll want to meet you after he's been out with his mates. "
Thanks honey. It’s not actually someone off here but someone from offline xx |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I’d be tempted to text tomorrow and ask how his night went and then send him a pic of you and some part of a man’s anatomy and say, here’s what I was doing I had the best night ever. Then block his ass all over!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot! "
He's the idiot. You are stunning! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot! "
You obviously like him enough to have tried twice
But sometimes enough is enough x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d be tempted to text tomorrow and ask how his night went and then send him a pic of you and some part of a man’s anatomy and say, here’s what I was doing I had the best night ever. Then block his ass all over! "
Hahahahahahaha YESSS!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People don't say it's his loss cos it's not his loss, gripes me when people say that. He's not lost fuck all,he had the chance to meet and he didn't want to, rather go with his mates instead the 'loser' is the person wanting to meet him. The op looks attractive so I'm guessing the dude is equally as attractive.
This can be salvageable though if the op just hangs back now and see if he works his way back to her. Keep busy and get on with stuff, don't initiate any contact, if he messages don't have to ignore but maybe respond with one word answers or worse an emoji  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot!
You obviously like him enough to have tried twice
But sometimes enough is enough x "
Yep. Done now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot!
You obviously like him enough to have tried twice
But sometimes enough is enough x
Yep. Done now "
You look yummy u would and could have plenty of replacements  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People don't say it's his loss cos it's not his loss, gripes me when people say that. He's not lost fuck all,he had the chance to meet and he didn't want to, rather go with his mates instead the 'loser' is the person wanting to meet him. The op looks attractive so I'm guessing the dude is equally as attractive.
This can be salvageable though if the op just hangs back now and see if he works his way back to her. Keep busy and get on with stuff, don't initiate any contact, if he messages don't have to ignore but maybe respond with one word answers or worse an emoji "
Lol wouldn’t have thought I was a loser, I just try and see the good in people and give them another chance. I get life gets in the way but I can see now he wasn’t honest about it! But yes, cracking on with stuff! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot!
You obviously like him enough to have tried twice
But sometimes enough is enough x
Yep. Done now
You look yummy u would and could have plenty of replacements "
No offers as of yet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot!
You obviously like him enough to have tried twice
But sometimes enough is enough x
Yep. Done now
You look yummy u would and could have plenty of replacements
No offers as of yet lol "
Haha u don't have to ask... I'm already fancying ur ass lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People don't say it's his loss cos it's not his loss, gripes me when people say that. He's not lost fuck all,he had the chance to meet and he didn't want to, rather go with his mates instead the 'loser' is the person wanting to meet him. The op looks attractive so I'm guessing the dude is equally as attractive.
This can be salvageable though if the op just hangs back now and see if he works his way back to her. Keep busy and get on with stuff, don't initiate any contact, if he messages don't have to ignore but maybe respond with one word answers or worse an emoji
Lol wouldn’t have thought I was a loser, I just try and see the good in people and give them another chance. I get life gets in the way but I can see now he wasn’t honest about it! But yes, cracking on with stuff! X"
You're not a loser just people on here always say it's the guys loss when it's not, it's mine or in this case yours cos you wanted to meet him. Also cos we've got nice tits and arse then the men must be insane to not want to meet when it goes a hell of a lot deeper than that!
You can claw your situation back though, I wouldn't mention seeing his instagram and that he's gone out. Just hang back and get on with stuff and let him work.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d be tempted to text tomorrow and ask how his night went and then send him a pic of you and some part of a man’s anatomy and say, here’s what I was doing I had the best night ever. Then block his ass all over! "
Be sure to block him on eBay too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do a thread asking for people's hottest men and then cherry pick your way through the names?
Oooooh I like your way of thinking!"
Don't worry about what might have been, think about what you could have now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who misses out on a date with a gorgeous lady like you?
A fucking retard.
He’s really lost it "
Yep. No more chances. I have the worst luck with men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who misses out on a date with a gorgeous lady like you?
A fucking retard.
He’s really lost it
Yep. No more chances. I have the worst luck with men "
sorry to hear u been let down he a real big idiot i would say best of wish to u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he really was busy at work and wouldn't be finished in time for the date.
Then he finished late, his mates asked him to go for a beer and he wanted to drown his sorrows of a busy work week. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe he really was busy at work and wouldn't be finished in time for the date.
Then he finished late, his mates asked him to go for a beer and he wanted to drown his sorrows of a busy work week."
I like your optimism but I don’t have high hopes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot! "
He’s a fool x |
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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago
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"I’d be tempted to text tomorrow and ask how his night went and then send him a pic of you and some part of a man’s anatomy and say, here’s what I was doing I had the best night ever. Then block his ass all over!
Hahahahahahaha YESSS!!"
Yes this is exactly what you should do lol |
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"For those who saw my post about being stood up twice by this man for a first date due to work commitments...he has since posted on his Instagram he’s on a night out with his friends.
Feel like a massive idiot! "
Don't you dare feel like an idiot!!!
You knew he was full of shit. That's why you were questioning his actions.
Don't waste another second on that fool xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe he really was busy at work and wouldn't be finished in time for the date.
Then he finished late, his mates asked him to go for a beer and he wanted to drown his sorrows of a busy work week.
I like your optimism but I don’t have high hopes "
It's possible. |
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You're not a massive idiot.
However it was a first date, no relationship established and you've found out before you even got to a date that he's not that interested(not meant in a harsh way) and if he's of the "treat em mean to keep em keen" way of thinking he's found out it won't work with women who have self respect.
Its nobody's loss but you've gained in experience.
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