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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do u think if you found someone on fab u could have a relationship with you'd give up meeting people or would u try and make it so u both played with others |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I wouldn't want to change from this lifestyle. I would expect that we would play as a couple and would discuss having solo meets as well.
Communication is the key. I can't see me wanting to go onto a monogamous monotonous relationship ever again. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Yeah, it would depend on the person and the dynamic. Me? If I were in that position, I would normally be clear that I am poly and therefore would prefer to continue playing with others. On the other hand, I can’t say that I would never give up playingn with others. I have in the past. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought I could do the fab relationship thing but the lady I want to do it with has another guy in tow and wants things on her terms and has gone Mardy because I think if she can see this guy then why can't I see another woman so my dilemma is do I accept her wishes or be my own man and did as I please either way I think I'm going to be the loser I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought I could do the fab relationship thing but the lady I want to do it with has another guy in tow and wants things on her terms and has gone Mardy because I think if she can see this guy then why can't I see another woman so my dilemma is do I accept her wishes or be my own man and did as I please either way I think I'm going to be the loser I think"
Trying to bend to fit someone else's wishes if it isn't what you want won't end well. That's my experience. You have only one life. Go with what would make you happiest. You aren't losing out if you aren't wanting the same things. It means you aren't compatible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought I could do the fab relationship thing but the lady I want to do it with has another guy in tow and wants things on her terms and has gone Mardy because I think if she can see this guy then why can't I see another woman so my dilemma is do I accept her wishes or be my own man and did as I please either way I think I'm going to be the loser I think"
Fab relationships are built on respect and wanting the same thing. It doesn't sound you both want the same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's hard enough trying to find one guy I want to sleep with. If I found one that happened to want a relationship no way would I be looking for other meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met someone on Fab, didn't intend to get in a relationship but feelings grew.
We have had a couples profile and decided we were happy meeting as a couple or meeting individually if it was just for a social. Now I'm back initially for the forums and the socials but we may visit clubs or meet together if the opportunity arose.
Anything we do is discussed with openness, communication is key for couples on Fab |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"It's hard enough trying to find one guy I want to sleep with. If I found one that happened to want a relationship no way would I be looking for other meets.
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Oops, just realised I should of foot noted that I'm not wanting to sleep or have a relationship with men,it would be just one lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are in a fab relationship and thinks are fab,but currently we're trying to find a compromise because I would prefer to have him for myself and Cute likes this lifestyle too much to give up on it. So we're talking about it a lot and trying to find a way to keep both of us happy.
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i probably wouldn't, I enjoy the lifestyle but the way id want to swing as part of a couple would be pretty pointless, may as well just have a partner and fuck buddy on the side.
The majority of couples I know/see that met through here tend to mainly be looking for single females, which I find odd as the woman was at one stage interested in single guys. I would never be interested in meeting women and would probably not want to meet couples as a 4 way attraction can be fairly difficult. I also wouldn't want to watch my partner with someone else, as I'd get bored and walk off.
So, with that taken into consideration there'd be no point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Communication is the key. I can't see me wanting to go onto a monogamous monotonous relationship ever again. "
Monogany doesnt need to be monotonous. I have found swinging pretty montonous at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought I could do the fab relationship thing but the lady I want to do it with has another guy in tow and wants things on her terms and has gone Mardy because I think if she can see this guy then why can't I see another woman so my dilemma is do I accept her wishes or be my own man and did as I please either way I think I'm going to be the loser I think"
Do as you please and be your own man!! Relationship on one person’s terms is not a relationship , it’s one person using another for their own benefit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am on here because I like the life style. I have been in both open and poly relationships in the past. The last person I met who asked me to be a relationship woth them made that dependant on being monogamous so I said no. I'm not here just to get laid whilst I'm single, I like 3somes and group sex, watching and being watched. I find monogamy very hard. Not that I ever did much when I was in open relationships but I like that if a went out and met someone I actually liked I could kiss them or more and not have to feel guilty or restrain myself |
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Speaking from experience it definitely can work we met through the lifestyle that was 8 years ago now happily married yes things have changed before we thought of ourselves and our own needs. Now we share our likes and dislikes it works for us |
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