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over a year ago
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Hate the whole idea behind "friend zoning", it has an air of sexism and entitlement to it.
This woman isn't interested in you sexually, that's the bottom line and there is no changing that unless she feels there is a change. |
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"How do you get out the friendzone? Asking for a friend  "
I've changed my mind and taken people out of the friend zone before now, so I would never say never! 
However, you are powerless to bring about any change yourself in my opinion lol, all you can do is be a good friend and hope!  |
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over a year ago
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Urgh i hate the term friend zone. Just accept they dont want anything more than friendship from you. (And they may just be being polite even offering that!) |
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Been friend zoned a few times..... by being just too damn nice.
Oh and don't forget the immortal words..... "If we sleep together it will ruin our friendship"..... And .... "I've always seen you like a big brother "..... Sucks dude. |
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"Count yourself lucky that you found a woman that does not want you just for your body.
I'd kill to find women like that.
What's your cooking like?"
I can grill some chicken, and I can grill some burgers, and grill some steak. I can toast burger buns, and boil eggs and umm cook rice and quinoa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been friend zoned a few times..... by being just too damn nice.
Oh and don't forget the immortal words..... "If we sleep together it will ruin our friendship"..... And .... "I've always seen you like a big brother "..... Sucks dude."
Sorry to burst bubbles but that's usually what women day to let someone down gently that we don't find them attractive.
It's so much easier to say I don't want to ruin our friendship than to say I don't fancy you. 
And of course men say it too, I've heard similar lines more than once and I'd rather they say I don't fancy you or you're not my type  |
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I had a few male friends try it on once I became single and I truly regarded them as my friend, unfortunalty it put me right off them as I never thought of them as anything but friends to me, be careful she doesn’t bin you all off together if you try to make a move, not everyone fancies everyone in this world, you might just end up with one less friend.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been friend zoned a few times..... by being just too damn nice.
Oh and don't forget the immortal words..... "If we sleep together it will ruin our friendship"..... And .... "I've always seen you like a big brother "..... Sucks dude.
Sorry to burst bubbles but that's usually what women day to let someone down gently that we don't find them attractive.
It's so much easier to say I don't want to ruin our friendship than to say I don't fancy you.
And of course men say it too, I've heard similar lines more than once and I'd rather they say I don't fancy you or you're not my type "
Yeah i have said similar..... and bubble has been burst   |
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Pfttt, I think my "friends list" should be renamed my "friend zoned list". Most don't even chat, never mind want to meet.
Apart from my new friends that is. Now they definitely want sex. |
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"Pfttt, I think my "friends list" should be renamed my "friend zoned list". Most don't even chat, never mind want to meet."
See, I was going to post on here to rant about the concept of the 'friend zone'...personally, the whole idea is a complete train wreck that feeds into this ridiculous stereotype that men - particularly straight men - are incapable of 'just being friends' with a woman, and actively RESENT the idea of having a platonic relationship with a woman...
However, you just hit on one of my pet peeves about this and many other social networking sites...WHAT THE FUCK is the point of having thousands of 'online friends'? You're never going to be able to keep in touch with them, much less build up the kind of connection one usually associates with 'friends'...
That's why my friends list is pruned on a regular basis... |
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"Count yourself lucky that you found a woman that does not want you just for your body.
I'd kill to find women like that.
What's your cooking like?
I can grill some chicken, and I can grill some burgers, and grill some steak. I can toast burger buns, and boil eggs and umm cook rice and quinoa."
I can't cook rice. You're hired |
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"Pfttt, I think my "friends list" should be renamed my "friend zoned list". Most don't even chat, never mind want to meet.
Apart from my new friends that is. Now they definitely want sex. "
I only have friends who I've met or arranging to meet and a couple of forum users I chat to occasionally. I hate clutter. |
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"Pfttt, I think my "friends list" should be renamed my "friend zoned list". Most don't even chat, never mind want to meet.
Apart from my new friends that is. Now they definitely want sex.
I only have friends who I've met or arranging to meet and a couple of forum users I chat to occasionally. I hate clutter. "
Snap... My friend's list gets a periodic pruning too where if I've lost touch with someone I'll just remove them. |
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"Pfttt, I think my "friends list" should be renamed my "friend zoned list". Most don't even chat, never mind want to meet.
Apart from my new friends that is. Now they definitely want sex.
I only have friends who I've met or arranging to meet and a couple of forum users I chat to occasionally. I hate clutter.
Snap... My friend's list gets a periodic pruning too where if I've lost touch with someone I'll just remove them. "
I rarely accept a friend request and never from someone I just started chatting to. It's a very short list, at the moment. |
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over a year ago
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The term friendzone is so yuk
It implies that being in a platonic relationship with a women is some sort of punishment.
If a woman is friends with you and all you think of getting out of the 'friendzone' do her a favour and stop being friends with her |
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Nothing wrong with the friend zone 80% of people at clubs and large parties are in the friend zone and socialise but don’t play with others attending, getting people out of the friend zone is the difficulty, but as adults a bit of play and see what happens won’t harm either of you x |
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"The term friendzone is so yuk
It implies that being in a platonic relationship with a women is some sort of punishment.
If a woman is friends with you and all you think of getting out of the 'friendzone' do her a favour and stop being friends with her "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The term friendzone is so yuk
It implies that being in a platonic relationship with a women is some sort of punishment.
If a woman is friends with you and all you think of getting out of the 'friendzone' do her a favour and stop being friends with her "
BOOM! |
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"The term friendzone is so yuk
It implies that being in a platonic relationship with a women is some sort of punishment.
If a woman is friends with you and all you think of getting out of the 'friendzone' do her a favour and stop being friends with her "
But, to play Devil's advocate, I rather enjoy the sexual frisson I have with my male friends, they joke about wanting to grab my boobs or saying we're going to get married one day - I rather enjoy it! |
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"The term friendzone is so yuk
It implies that being in a platonic relationship with a women is some sort of punishment.
If a woman is friends with you and all you think of getting out of the 'friendzone' do her a favour and stop being friends with her
But, to play Devil's advocate, I rather enjoy the sexual frisson I have with my male friends, they joke about wanting to grab my boobs or saying we're going to get married one day - I rather enjoy it! "
That's not really relevant to my comment though is it?
I was referring to the guys who think there s something wrong with being in a platonic friendship with women when all they want to do is have sex with her |
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"The term friendzone is so yuk
It implies that being in a platonic relationship with a women is some sort of punishment.
If a woman is friends with you and all you think of getting out of the 'friendzone' do her a favour and stop being friends with her
But, to play Devil's advocate, I rather enjoy the sexual frisson I have with my male friends, they joke about wanting to grab my boobs or saying we're going to get married one day - I rather enjoy it!
That's not really relevant to my comment though is it?
I was referring to the guys who think there s something wrong with being in a platonic friendship with women when all they want to do is have sex with her "
And I am saying I LIKE having friends like that too, always have had, as long as they respect the boundaries I set. I don't think the OP thought it was wrong per se, he just wants someone who's friend zoned him I reckon. |
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"The term friendzone is so yuk
It implies that being in a platonic relationship with a women is some sort of punishment.
If a woman is friends with you and all you think of getting out of the 'friendzone' do her a favour and stop being friends with her
But, to play Devil's advocate, I rather enjoy the sexual frisson I have with my male friends, they joke about wanting to grab my boobs or saying we're going to get married one day - I rather enjoy it!
That's not really relevant to my comment though is it?
I was referring to the guys who think there s something wrong with being in a platonic friendship with women when all they want to do is have sex with her
And I am saying I LIKE having friends like that too, always have had, as long as they respect the boundaries I set. I don't think the OP thought it was wrong per se, he just wants someone who's friend zoned him I reckon."
You like having friends who don't actually want to be friends with you, but just have you around in the hopes that one day you'll let them have sex with you?
Well to each their own I suppose |
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"How do you get out the friendzone? Asking for a friend "
Don't bother. Just leave the bitch and move onto the next victim.
If you still want her, get some who is better looking than her and make yourself visible when you're with her to this girl and you having a good time. May not work but if she starts to show Interest, ignore her advances. Ice her and she will.go crazy, that alone will give you a big high.
If you do fuck her, take her to a hotel then when you're done, take her shit and toss it out of the room, grab her and kick her out or bang her outside and c all over her face and hair then do one. |
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"The term friendzone is so yuk
It implies that being in a platonic relationship with a women is some sort of punishment.
If a woman is friends with you and all you think of getting out of the 'friendzone' do her a favour and stop being friends with her
But, to play Devil's advocate, I rather enjoy the sexual frisson I have with my male friends, they joke about wanting to grab my boobs or saying we're going to get married one day - I rather enjoy it!
That's not really relevant to my comment though is it?
I was referring to the guys who think there s something wrong with being in a platonic friendship with women when all they want to do is have sex with her
And I am saying I LIKE having friends like that too, always have had, as long as they respect the boundaries I set. I don't think the OP thought it was wrong per se, he just wants someone who's friend zoned him I reckon.
You like having friends who don't actually want to be friends with you, but just have you around in the hopes that one day you'll let them have sex with you?
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Well, you can present your very negative view of the friend zone - I have a much more positive one I want to present. I know my male friend all want to be friends with me anyway, and a bunch of them over the years were hoping that one day we might get physical. I'm cool with that, I would have slept with several of them were I not attached, I fancied them too! |
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"How do you get out the friendzone? Asking for a friend
Don't bother. Just leave the bitch and move onto the next victim.
If you still want her, get some who is better looking than her and make yourself visible when you're with her to this girl and you having a good time. May not work but if she starts to show Interest, ignore her advances. Ice her and she will.go crazy, that alone will give you a big high.
If you do fuck her, take her to a hotel then when you're done, take her shit and toss it out of the room, grab her and kick her out or bang her outside and c all over her face and hair then do one."
I'm really hoping this is a joke  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you get out the friendzone? Asking for a friend
Don't bother. Just leave the bitch and move onto the next victim.
If you still want her, get some who is better looking than her and make yourself visible when you're with her to this girl and you having a good time. May not work but if she starts to show Interest, ignore her advances. Ice her and she will.go crazy, that alone will give you a big high.
If you do fuck her, take her to a hotel then when you're done, take her shit and toss it out of the room, grab her and kick her out or bang her outside and c all over her face and hair then do one."
You just made me feel dead with your words. |
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I wish I knew, I get on famously with a lovely girl at work, we have each in stitches constantly and we are great friends, we have cried on each other’s shoulders for various reasons and we turn to each other in times of need, yet I’m friendzoned even tho she tells me I’m amazing and far too good to be on my own. It’s a cruel world. |
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