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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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.....to be able to make a man cum just from oral sex??
We've had a couple of meets with a mutual friend who as of yet we are unable to convince to join the site, but play is always fun so she's under no pressure in that sense.
However, I've noticed that she can make him cum just from sucking his cock!
Can other women do this and how d'you do it??
It's a great sight to see her make him finish in her mouth in just a couple of minutes and relationship wise it's not causing any problems but I'm curious as hell if tuners a knack or technique to it cos I'd love to learn how to do it. (WW) x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In my experience its more unusual (and frustrating) for men nit to cum when I suck their cock "
How d'you do it? Is there a technique to it or just a skill that can't be taught? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve always found it very hard to cum from oral sex. I don’t think it’s just down to technique."
Some men (not necessarily you) are inhibited about it - sometimes from having had a partner who was disgusted by the idea. |
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"In my experience its more unusual (and frustrating) for men nit to cum when I suck their cock
How d'you do it? Is there a technique to it or just a skill that can't be taught? xx"
It's different for each guy really. Just got to chandelier things up and find what works for the one you're sucking. Lots of tongue action, don't forget the balls and shaft, some like a hard grip. They'll let you know what works and what doesn't. |
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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago
Guisborough |
I've found it depends on the man, some I have no trouble making them blow from just oral, some no matter what I do just can't cum that way. I really don't think I have a special technique
Mrs S x |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"In my experience its more unusual (and frustrating) for men nit to cum when I suck their cock
How d'you do it? Is there a technique to it or just a skill that can't be taught? xx"
Years of practice and reading your partners moans and body x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's an amazing thing to watch. Couple of bobs of her head and she's got him well on the way.
It's got to be a skill. As I said it causes no problem between us and he's always relaxed and never tries to bring up who was better but I would love to learn whatever it is other women can do. (WW) xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best technique I ever experienced was from a bloke. He had me cumming very quickly, but I’ve never known anyone use it since. Only two other women made me cum though oral. In both cases it was the combination of technique and enthusiasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally think it's hard .. might just be me .. don't cum very often from them. There needs to be ranking involved as well can't gum off just being sucked on its own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally think it's hard .. might just be me .. don't cum very often from them. There needs to be ranking involved as well can't gum off just being sucked on its own. "
Ranking..gum...geez forget my technique i wanna hear more about this lol |
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Id say it depends on your subject and your technique. Try different things, listen closly to his breathing and pay attention to how his whole body reacts. Does he melt into you when you take long slow flat tongue licks or does he moan when you speed things up and flick your tongue over his tip? Is he a pulled back or a pushed forward lover? Use your hands as well and don’t be afraid to gently play with his balls and the insides of his thighs. Eye contact can also be a game changer. Position yourself so that when you reach his tip you can glance up at him and a wet sloppy (use lota of saliva) jas always gone down very well when im honing mu skills ;£ |
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I've made lots of guys cum from oral alone.
I think a lot is to do with enjoying what you are doing and not "trying" to make them cum. Variation in technique, coupled with stimulation of other areas helps too  
Though some men simply do not cum from oral.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My boyfriend always comes from me sucking him off , I think if you really enjoy doing it and have your technique right any guy will come from a blow job .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've made lots of guys cum from oral alone.
I think a lot is to do with enjoying what you are doing and not "trying" to make them cum. Variation in technique, coupled with stimulation of other areas helps too
Though some men simply do not cum from oral.
Nita"
Using other stimuli is cheating, it's oral not handjob  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t say it’s down to technique alone, more a combination of being turned on, relaxed & just in the right moment to cum.
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But a good technique helps to relax me, turn me on and puts me in the right frame of mind to cum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s ages since I’ve cum from a blow job. Think 2007 was the last time.
Pretty much the same here. As much as I love it, I can't seem to get over the edge as it were. "
I rarely get a bj |
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"It’s ages since I’ve cum from a blow job. Think 2007 was the last time.
Pretty much the same here. As much as I love it, I can't seem to get over the edge as it were.
I rarely get a bj "
I'll send Alice Winger round with full bj lippy |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;) |
I’ve always found regardless of the technique or relationship with the lady, that unless I really concentrate and will myself to cum a BJ alone isn’t enough.
Maybe I’m greedy and want all the lady has to offer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s ages since I’ve cum from a blow job. Think 2007 was the last time.
Pretty much the same here. As much as I love it, I can't seem to get over the edge as it were.
I rarely get a bj
I'll send Alice Winger round with full bj lippy "
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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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"The best technique I ever experienced was from a bloke. He had me cumming very quickly, but I’ve never known anyone use it since. Only two other women made me cum though oral. In both cases it was the combination of technique and enthusiasm "
Are guys better at a BJ? |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
I've only been with a handful of women who have been able to make me come from oral alone and in my experience it is definitely down to technique....The strange thing is that in no way could I explain what it is that they are doing differently. I have also experienced women who are so comfortable with deep throat that I can throat fuck them until I cum, but that is an entirely different skill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its definitley a skill but its dependant on the guy different guys like blowjobs a different way. Ive had blowjobs that've made other men cum in minutes that i couldnt cum from and vice versa. So as with all things sex communication is key |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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alot of tip action with her tongue
sucking it deep and wanking it simultaneously at the same time
ball sucking
spitting
most importantly and what does it most for me is her looking straight into my eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The best technique I ever experienced was from a bloke. He had me cumming very quickly, but I’ve never known anyone use it since. Only two other women made me cum though oral. In both cases it was the combination of technique and enthusiasm
Are guys better at a BJ?"
Don’t know, just this particular guy was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only done it with two men but I didn't have problems making them cum. Hands, teasing, enthusiasm and most of all genuine enjoyment for the task at hand is my 'technique.' |
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"I've only done it with two men but I didn't have problems making them cum. Hands, teasing, enthusiasm and most of all genuine enjoyment for the task at hand is my 'technique.'"
What works for one, may not work for another though, it also depends on the guy's mood or situation? |
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By *AD1068Man
over a year ago
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I have no problems in cumming from oral. The one time I found oral awkward was when the lady's teeth were cutting into my penis as she was going up and down. She was not "nibbling" on it if you know what I mean. When I explained it to her she changed it and was a great bj.
So I guess there is some technique, but possibly subject to the individual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the guy for me, sometimes I can sometimes I can't. Generally thought don't want to, oral is foreplay for me so don't want it to be finished before the main event lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i've never cum from just oral. only time i've been close is when i hadn't nutted in 3 weeks... i probably could've but she ended up getting tired. Nothing beats the pussoir for me anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve never not cum from oral unless I’ve chosen not to so as to finish elsewhere!
I’ve akways been quite vocal and forward in saying what works for me and been lucky enough to always have a willing person whose sucking to follow my lead! |
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Personally its all about how interested she is in the act. If someone looks like they're just going through the motions then i find myself trying to cum which is counterproductive. If you can see someone is enjoying the act and is even turned on by it then it makes the whole experience so much more fluid. As always sexual arousal is brewed in the brain. |
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"Personally its all about how interested she is in the act. If someone looks like they're just going through the motions then i find myself trying to cum which is counterproductive. If you can see someone is enjoying the act and is even turned on by it then it makes the whole experience so much more fluid. As always sexual arousal is brewed in the brain."
I completely agree. Only 2 girls have ever made me come from a BJ and one of them really did know how to suck cock! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him  "
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies |
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies "
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually came |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The one thing I can do that I’ve been told a lot of guys can’t is cum n then keep it hard and cum again!
So you could suck my cock n make me cum and then fuck me all without stopping!ha
If you ever feel like a shot let me know lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually came"
don't tell me you've only got one hand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No chance I couldn’t stop! Best thing going having a girl cum on your tounge!
Then after a slight break slide your cock inside and make them cum all over again! God I’m getting horny now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies "
I would rather they did tbh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually came"
What's the breakdown time wise?
You receive oral for longer or shorter than you give? |
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
You need a couple who believe in don't stop till you pop. Tag team.
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually came"
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand "
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lol |
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually came
What's the breakdown time wise?
You receive oral for longer or shorter than you give?"
They normally go down on me first so take a guess lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lol"
omg a finisher can I help buff |
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lolomg a finisher can I help buff "
What's your CV like I want a good one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've only been with a handful of women who have been able to make me come from oral alone and in my experience it is definitely down to technique....The strange thing is that in no way could I explain what it is that they are doing differently. I have also experienced women who are so comfortable with deep throat that I can throat fuck them until I cum, but that is an entirely different skill "
Someone done that to me once and the cum almost came out of my nose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lolomg a finisher can I help buff
What's your CV like I want a good one "
oh I haven't updated for two years but I'm second to none on cunniligus verification |
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lolomg a finisher can I help buff
What's your CV like I want a good one oh I haven't updated for two years but I'm second to none on cunniligus verification "
Am I meant to take your word for that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lolomg a finisher can I help buff
What's your CV like I want a good one oh I haven't updated for two years but I'm second to none on cunniligus verification
Am I meant to take your word for that? "
no my tongue is my bond |
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lolomg a finisher can I help buff
What's your CV like I want a good one oh I haven't updated for two years but I'm second to none on cunniligus verification
Am I meant to take your word for that? no my tongue is my bond "
Oh nice lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lolomg a finisher can I help buff
What's your CV like I want a good one oh I haven't updated for two years but I'm second to none on cunniligus verification
Am I meant to take your word for that? no my tongue is my bond
Oh nice lol "
lol james |
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lolomg a finisher can I help buff
What's your CV like I want a good one oh I haven't updated for two years but I'm second to none on cunniligus verification
Am I meant to take your word for that? no my tongue is my bond
Oh nice lol lol james "
Quite smooth aren't ya lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the only time I haven't made a guy cum whilst giving him a blowjob is when I have stopped cause I wanted to fuck him
Typical selfish move!
Imagine if all the blokes stopped half way giving oral to ladies
I can count on one hand the number of guys who carried on till I actually camedon't tell me you've only got one hand
Two I need the other hand to finish what they started lolomg a finisher can I help buff
What's your CV like I want a good one oh I haven't updated for two years but I'm second to none on cunniligus verification
Am I meant to take your word for that? no my tongue is my bond
Oh nice lol lol james
Quite smooth aren't ya lol "
shaken not stirred |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".....to be able to make a man cum just from oral sex??
We've had a couple of meets with a mutual friend who as of yet we are unable to convince to join the site, but play is always fun so she's under no pressure in that sense.
However, I've noticed that she can make him cum just from sucking his cock!
Can other women do this and how d'you do it??
It's a great sight to see her make him finish in her mouth in just a couple of minutes and relationship wise it's not causing any problems but I'm curious as hell if tuners a knack or technique to it cos I'd love to learn how to do it. (WW) x"
Ask your friend to show you? That might be the easiest way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The OP makes it sound like the exception to the rule if someone can make a guy come from oral alone, if you think about it a warm wet mouth and skilled tongue can do a lot more to a penis than a vagina can (it’s the tongue that can make all the difference!)
Having said that the standard of BJ varies from person to person, some are woeful at it, others sublime.
Personally I’m not a fan of those aggressive wanking BJs, you know where she frantically wanks you with her hand while she has the tip of the cock in her mouth.
My preference is for hands free, slow, sensual, wet sloppy ones with the tongue doing its thing around the head of the penis, even better if she’s looking right into your eyes with a seductive look as she’s doing it! Heaven!  |
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