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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all
Me and my partner have been swinging on and off for 4 years. I understand were not going to be everyone's cup of tea but the amount of comments we have been receiving are negative. Can someone tell us where were going wrong? Is it our look? Our pics? Profile? Etc. I would love honesty. Thanks I appreciate anyone's opinions and views  |
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You're being negative about urself
U will be someone cup of tea. Try turning ur profile positive rather than " let's get this one thing straight we ain't barbie and ken"
U may aswell said we ain't all that. U both look lovely. Sell it xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're being negative about urself
U will be someone cup of tea. Try turning ur profile positive rather than " let's get this one thing straight we ain't barbie and ken"
U may aswell said we ain't all that. U both look lovely. Sell it xx"
Thanks guys much appreciated x |
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What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?
I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.
Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?
I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.
Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse."
Well the comments were getting in private is that I'm a fatty even heard the same comment in a swingers club last night. So its done a great deal for my self confidence. And apparently were the odd couple etc. We have had loads of mixed comments us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?
I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.
Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse.
Well the comments were getting in private is that I'm a fatty even heard the same comment in a swingers club last night. So its done a great deal for my self confidence. And apparently were the odd couple etc. We have had loads of mixed comments us "
Unless they are buying your weekly shop or you're sitting on their face, your weight is none of their business.
As a fellow fat chick, it can be really heartbreaking hearing other people's opinions about you. Especially when you've over heard it. Just remember those comments come from some ignorant twit, if manners smacked them in the face, they still wouldn't know how to use them.
As for nasty comments on here block them. Move on from it.
I swung with an ex about 15 years back. He was tall and stocky and me short and fat. We found it hard to find couples where the couple fancied both of us. We always seemed to find that if the male fancied me, the female didn't fancy my ex. (Vice versa) stick with it.
As for you're profile, it gets straight to the point, I'd take out those lines separating each section though. Take out some of the negatives and make yourselves sound a bit more tantalising.
Again ignore the comments.  |
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"What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?
I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.
Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse.
Well the comments were getting in private is that I'm a fatty even heard the same comment in a swingers club last night. So its done a great deal for my self confidence. And apparently were the odd couple etc. We have had loads of mixed comments us "
I see.
People can be extremely rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?
I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.
Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse."
me to I agree with this and remember you can't please all of the people all of the time |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Just read your profile. I am assuming you have made changes already after replies here. There are a couple of negative aspects still but it sounds a lot better than some have suggested above. One thing that stuck out for me is the bit about smoking. I would advise you to change that to we are considerate smokers or sonething similar. I wish you well. |
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By *htcMan
over a year ago
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Cut it shorter. Men won't really read it. Get to the point what you want and looking for. And what you don't do or want. Cut all the rest off.
Anything longer will just get skipped or copy and paste message. |
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