Being on over a year i would say you know the answer.......personally bringing strangers into your home is a no no......not until you get to know them

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By *hloevtTV/TS over a year ago

norwich

Never at home unless you know them VERY well..forget hotel rooms.. go to a swinging club . Chat and socialise then play in an open room. Or just chill in the lounge and watch.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I’ve only experienced anything remotely scary at a club. None of the meets I’ve had in my home have been scary or weird.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

I won't have someone come to my home unless I know them well and trust them. Aside from the obvious risks to your own wellbeing, you're also opening your home and its contents to someone who may well be using sites such as these to rob people, in the knowledge that the crime will likely go unreported because of the circumstances. I've heard firsthand stories of people having items such as televisions, laptops, cameras, etc., stolen either from their own home, or from properties they'd rented for parties.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I used to meet at home, with a local security measure in place. All but one of these meets went well. The one that didn't was the one time I didn't have security in place and I took a risk.

I have always felt safe at clubs but few men want to meet at clubs. I prefer to meet people I have already vetted at hotels but will occasionally go on to an hotel is a social is going exceptionally well.

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