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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you ever feel like you've had too much sex and the appeal of it is starting to die out a bit lol. Think I might go cold turkey for few weeks 
Why do I not believe you?  "
Why would you not  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you bragging  "
No  was just wondering if other people lose their desire for it after having a fair amount lol. Yeah this post comes across as bragging doesn't it. I didn't mean it that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you bragging
No was just wondering if other people lose their desire for it after having a fair amount lol. Yeah this post comes across as bragging doesn't it. I didn't mean it that way "
Aww don't be sad. I can get a bit sexed out yes, if that helps. X |
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When you’ve been on fab a while you (sometimes) come to realise that it really is about quality- not quantity!!
Yes - sex for its own sake leaves me feeling empty and cheap - so it’s not something I’ve done for a long time!
I only ‘sleep ‘ with people I genuinely like and find attractive - so you can almost guarantee that the sex will be great and you’ll both leave smiling/happy!
I’m also no longer particularly interested in one-offs for the same reason (except occasionally in a club if I really click with someone/a couple etc!) as the sex/friendship tends to get better every time!
Sometimes it’s not a matter of stopping/taking a break from swinging - it’s about looking at how you swing and finding out what works for you/makes you feel good!!
Sending huge hugs as you’re someone I care about!
You know where I am if you need to chat!
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No, though it's normal for sexual desire levels to fluctuate, as much as I hate the 'normal' word.
I take each day as it comes, there are usually good surprises and it's possible to change the sexual adventures, so that there's lots of variety to explore and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s an addiction then I think it can do more harm than good. You just see it as a means to cum or the excitement of a new conquest rather than the joy that it can be. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you ever feel like you've had too much sex and the appeal of it is starting to die out a bit lol. Think I might go cold turkey for few weeks "
Can’t say I’ve ever had that feeling. Maybe I’m not having it enough?  |
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"No, never. The more we have, the more we want
This is the same for me"
You’re in a loving couple though so I think it’s very different! You already have everything you really need from each other - so sex with others is just the cherry on top!
I do think swinging as a single is far more complex - and as us ‘old timers’ have seen over the years - it’s something some can handle and some definitely can’t! It’s a quandary - you don’t always just want shallow, meaningless fucks with total strangers - but you don’t want to get hurt either!
For those who can cope on here - who manage to make great connections and have mind-blowing sex - you need to develop mechanisms to enable yourself to have an amazing time without letting it screw you up! It’s a fine balance! |
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