How do you define a timewaster?
Someone who says they’ll meet you but doesn’t show up?
Or someone you think you’ve clicked with, who you think should want to meet you, but they resist setting a date? |
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"Interesting thoughts and views on the subject people thanks,
may I ask what you mean by your processes
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I'm assuming that they'll mean what specific things you do here and how you do them.
Eg. How you select people, your searching and filtering, your expectations, how you communicate, arrange to meet etc.
Also, I'm curious about people's definition of time waster, what percentage of people they're chatting with they expect to meet, how quickly they expect to meet etc? Do their views match those that they're chatting with?
There's a fair bit on this thread and others on this topic but not much from the op. |
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"Not so many time wasters but so many fakes. Fab needs to restrict messaging to combat them"
Really ...
And how would that work?
Or do you think fab has a secret list of profiles that have signed up as fake...
Love a logic deficit.  |
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I'm not a time waster I turn up to all my arranged meets yet I have just been called one by some bloke because he we had been talking for a day and he was reluctant to send a photo even though I have sent him a face photo quite early on, eventually he sent me a face photo to which I wasn't attracted to him so I politely decline but offered to still chat at which point he has become overly aggressive and abusive because he considers it a waste of his time  |
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"I'm not a time waster I turn up to all my arranged meets yet I have just been called one by some bloke because he we had been talking for a day and he was reluctant to send a photo even though I have sent him a face photo quite early on, eventually he sent me a face photo to which I wasn't attracted to him so I politely decline but offered to still chat at which point he has become overly aggressive and abusive because he considers it a waste of his time "
Well of coarse from his point of view you have wasted his time but have you? He didn't send a face photo until he had to so actually he wasted his own time as you would have pulled the plug much sooner in the process had he sent a photo sooner. Either way there is no reason or excuse to be aggressive or rude when a person your communicating with decides to not meet. |
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"Not so many time wasters but so many fakes. Fab needs to restrict messaging to combat them
Really ...
And how would that work?
Or do you think fab has a secret list of profiles that have signed up as fake...
Love a logic deficit. "
Simple really. Restrict messages to 2 a day for sending or recieving if they arnt at least pic varied. Hard to pose as a couple or a femail if no picture sent into fab. Also most fakes wont be site supported. Restictions. True swingers will stick to rules. |
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