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Only woman on here not getting 100 messages a day
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I don't. Rarely more than a handful. And I'm far from bemoaning that fact, hundreds of messages sounds like an admin chore I can be doing without. Sometimes it's good to be unpopular when it comes with a serene inbox as a silver lining. |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"I don't. Rarely more than a handful. And I'm far from bemoaning that fact, hundreds of messages sounds like an admin chore I can be doing without. Sometimes it's good to be unpopular when it comes with a serene inbox as a silver lining."
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"I don't get a hundred messages a day I get two hundred.
Anyone that doesn't get at least that is just so unpopular...
Don't rub it in bitch!   "
I don't really I hardly get a fraction of that and when I say a fraction I mean a fraction and my filters are all open
In fact now I'm depressed it appears I'm sooo not popular,it's a good job I'm bothered it's all such effort isn't it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't. Nowhere near that
That can't be right......is it closer to 200!??"
Nope. I'm just an acquired taste. I don't even need the filters that some do |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I don't get a hundred messages a day I get two hundred.
Anyone that doesn't get at least that is just so unpopular...
Don't rub it in bitch!
I don't really I hardly get a fraction of that and when I say a fraction I mean a fraction and my filters are all open
In fact now I'm depressed it appears I'm sooo not popular,it's a good job I'm bothered it's all such effort isn't it "
I'm in the 'meh' section as well, I'm only wanted if I will go and fuck them now, so I'll continue being in the 'meh' |
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After reading this thread I thought I'd try an experiment. My profile usually has all the filters on plus it's the worst profile ever, extremely unattractive  so I usually get maybe one message a week sneak through somehow. I took all the filters off 90 minutes ago and since then have received 30, nope there's another, 31 messages. I doubted the 100s of messages per day that some claim to get, I was wrong, if my vague, unattractive profile can get a message every 3 minutes then I can certainly see how an attractive profile can receive 100s per day.
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By *arryklMan
over a year ago
Hinckley |
I average about 15 messages a day it has only been that last 12 months that I’ve got that average but then I do message and make a point of communicating with folks
It’s somewhat surprising that when you do more often than not you get a response back
Harrykl |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"I average about 15 messages a day it has only been that last 12 months that I’ve got that average but then I do message and make a point of communicating with folks
It’s somewhat surprising that when you do more often than not you get a response back
Harrykl "
 15 messages a day?! For a single fella?! Mate you are a hero! Whats the secret?! |
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"I average about 15 messages a day it has only been that last 12 months that I’ve got that average but then I do message and make a point of communicating with folks
It’s somewhat surprising that when you do more often than not you get a response back
Harrykl "
Do you send out 400 though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all know what to do ladies..... Open a new account, no pics, no blurb, no filters and the hundreds of messages will come flying in!!! 
The more effort I make, the more messages I get. As I can't be bothered as I'm too busy with life, I end up with bugger all messages. That's fine by me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I normally get around 1000 messages every 48hours. It is a pain. Loads of women just message 1 liners like "want to fuck?" Or "look at how big my tits are"
It is so wearing to be honest. And if I get another unsolicited pussy shot I am gonna loose it. Ffs.
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
I never used to either on my single profile. I took all my filters off and advertised the fact it was my birthday for that one day last year and got the grand total of 64 messages
Guess I must be a munter 
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"I average about 15 messages a day it has only been that last 12 months that I’ve got that average but then I do message and make a point of communicating with folks
It’s somewhat surprising that when you do more often than not you get a response back
Harrykl
15 messages a day?! For a single fella?! Mate you are a hero! Whats the secret?! "
Still want to know what this guy is doing as a single guy to get 15 messages a day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I put a new pic up I get a fair few but most days around 10-15 depending if I'm online or not. Sadly most are deleted as I don't have the time to reply everyday and they build up |
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"I average about 15 messages a day it has only been that last 12 months that I’ve got that average but then I do message and make a point of communicating with folks
It’s somewhat surprising that when you do more often than not you get a response back
Harrykl
15 messages a day?! For a single fella?! Mate you are a hero! Whats the secret?!
Still want to know what this guy is doing as a single guy to get 15 messages a day."
Location often helps; built-up areas have more people to message in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I average about 15 messages a day it has only been that last 12 months that I’ve got that average but then I do message and make a point of communicating with folks
It’s somewhat surprising that when you do more often than not you get a response back
Harrykl
15 messages a day?! For a single fella?! Mate you are a hero! Whats the secret?!
Still want to know what this guy is doing as a single guy to get 15 messages a day.
Location often helps; built-up areas have more people to message in the first place "
Yes my messages increase whenever I am in London/change my location |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I average about 15 messages a day it has only been that last 12 months that I’ve got that average but then I do message and make a point of communicating with folks
It’s somewhat surprising that when you do more often than not you get a response back
Harrykl
15 messages a day?! For a single fella?! Mate you are a hero! Whats the secret?!
Still want to know what this guy is doing as a single guy to get 15 messages a day."
Maybe he's messaging himself. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
I have 38 in my inbox unread. That’s enough to trigger a panic “delete all”. My filters are tight. I get a couple a day if I’m lucky. More if my status is particularly funny but mainly from the people I have as friends.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters. |
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters."
Really ? But if you have filters on but still get loads off messages , what do you class that as then ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters.
Really ? But if you have filters on but still get loads off messages , what do you class that as then ? "
Looking at your profile I note that you've put three new pictures up in the last week.
Single women, new pictures....I would class that as someone who wants a surge in interest, lots of messages or is attention seeking.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with either and I mean no disrespect. I just think its the new or attention seeking single women who get inundated. Filters have seen to that. |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
A box at end of your bed |
"I get excited when we get a message "
Ditto
Last message I got was from admin thanking me for renewing my membership. It was a bit of a let down needless to say I don't get many messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I allow single men and I don’t near that. Not even when I first registered -though I was inundated - but I always think that it’s a wee bit over inflated when you hear it. |
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters.
Really ? But if you have filters on but still get loads off messages , what do you class that as then ?
Looking at your profile I note that you've put three new pictures up in the last week.
Single women, new pictures....I would class that as someone who wants a surge in interest, lots of messages or is attention seeking.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with either and I mean no disrespect. I just think its the new or attention seeking single women who get inundated. Filters have seen to that."
I'm sorry this reply had me rolling , putting up pics is attention seeking ?
I get messages with or without pics so I'm good, i don't need the attention. If people update there pics or update there profile is cause they can and it's not for attention...... dam if you do, dam if you don't
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters.
Really ? But if you have filters on but still get loads off messages , what do you class that as then ?
Looking at your profile I note that you've put three new pictures up in the last week.
Single women, new pictures....I would class that as someone who wants a surge in interest, lots of messages or is attention seeking.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with either and I mean no disrespect. I just think its the new or attention seeking single women who get inundated. Filters have seen to that.
I'm sorry this reply had me rolling , putting up pics is attention seeking ?
I get messages with or without pics so I'm good, i don't need the attention. If people update there pics or update there profile is cause they can and it's not for attention...... dam if you do, dam if you don't
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If you get loads of messages 'with or without pics' then why would you bother putting new pictures up? Surely that's only going to increase message flow?
If it's not to increase message flow, what is it for??
There's nothing wrong with attention seeking, we all do it to some degree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters."
This is incorrect. I don't use filter simply because even though I state my preferred age is upto 40 I may get a message from a guy who is 41 who I'm attracted to and who I get on with, If I have my filters on then that would be a missed opportunity.
Same with single men right now, I'm looking to meet any new guys but if one messaged me and I liked him I would be open to meet him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters.
This is incorrect. I don't use filter simply because even though I state my preferred age is upto 40 I may get a message from a guy who is 41 who I'm attracted to and who I get on with, If I have my filters on then that would be a missed opportunity.
Same with single men right now, I'm looking to meet any new guys but if one messaged me and I liked him I would be open to meet him"
I'm sorry, I don't understand the point you're making or how it makes my previous post incorrect.
Are you saying that you're overwhelmed by messages? Because you want to keep your options open? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters.
This is incorrect. I don't use filter simply because even though I state my preferred age is upto 40 I may get a message from a guy who is 41 who I'm attracted to and who I get on with, If I have my filters on then that would be a missed opportunity.
Same with single men right now, I'm looking to meet any new guys but if one messaged me and I liked him I would be open to meet him
I'm sorry, I don't understand the point you're making or how it makes my previous post incorrect.
Are you saying that you're overwhelmed by messages? Because you want to keep your options open?"
I'm saying that just because a woman doesn't have filters on doesn't mean she "wants" to be overwhelmed.
As you stated in your previous post |
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters.
Really ? But if you have filters on but still get loads off messages , what do you class that as then ?
Looking at your profile I note that you've put three new pictures up in the last week.
Single women, new pictures....I would class that as someone who wants a surge in interest, lots of messages or is attention seeking.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with either and I mean no disrespect. I just think its the new or attention seeking single women who get inundated. Filters have seen to that.
I'm sorry this reply had me rolling , putting up pics is attention seeking ?
I get messages with or without pics so I'm good, i don't need the attention. If people update there pics or update there profile is cause they can and it's not for attention...... dam if you do, dam if you don't
If you get loads of messages 'with or without pics' then why would you bother putting new pictures up? Surely that's only going to increase message flow?
If it's not to increase message flow, what is it for??
There's nothing wrong with attention seeking, we all do it to some degree."
It's cause I want to update my profile like I said , so you think us women put pics up for attention? And for loads off messages ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters.
Really ? But if you have filters on but still get loads off messages , what do you class that as then ?
Looking at your profile I note that you've put three new pictures up in the last week.
Single women, new pictures....I would class that as someone who wants a surge in interest, lots of messages or is attention seeking.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with either and I mean no disrespect. I just think its the new or attention seeking single women who get inundated. Filters have seen to that.
I'm sorry this reply had me rolling , putting up pics is attention seeking ?
I get messages with or without pics so I'm good, i don't need the attention. If people update there pics or update there profile is cause they can and it's not for attention...... dam if you do, dam if you don't
If you get loads of messages 'with or without pics' then why would you bother putting new pictures up? Surely that's only going to increase message flow?
If it's not to increase message flow, what is it for??
There's nothing wrong with attention seeking, we all do it to some degree.
It's cause I want to update my profile like I said , so you think us women put pics up for attention? And for loads off messages ?
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Some women absolutely do.
As I keep saying, there's nothing wrong with it. Why are you being so defensive? |
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"Clearly, as this thread shows, the only women who are overwhelmed by messages (apart from brand new profiles) are those that want to be overwhelmed and choose not to use filters.
Really ? But if you have filters on but still get loads off messages , what do you class that as then ?
Looking at your profile I note that you've put three new pictures up in the last week.
Single women, new pictures....I would class that as someone who wants a surge in interest, lots of messages or is attention seeking.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with either and I mean no disrespect. I just think its the new or attention seeking single women who get inundated. Filters have seen to that.
I'm sorry this reply had me rolling , putting up pics is attention seeking ?
I get messages with or without pics so I'm good, i don't need the attention. If people update there pics or update there profile is cause they can and it's not for attention...... dam if you do, dam if you don't
If you get loads of messages 'with or without pics' then why would you bother putting new pictures up? Surely that's only going to increase message flow?
If it's not to increase message flow, what is it for??
There's nothing wrong with attention seeking, we all do it to some degree.
It's cause I want to update my profile like I said , so you think us women put pics up for attention? And for loads off messages ?
Some women absolutely do.
As I keep saying, there's nothing wrong with it. Why are you being so defensive?"
I'm just saying , hmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they do, but I guess the ling and shirt is nine of us care about other people's inboxes...only our own, and constant bleating about it can unfortunately appear a little....tiresome? |
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