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"Just get rid of the shite ones. Hahaha, only joking xx
I don't know. I'm not sure if that is the answer. "
I agree that there’s some arseholes on here and it must be hell for women sometimes but the numbers do seem to be so uneven |
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over a year ago
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"I am interested to see if woman think this would be a good idea"
Woman who on any other site get no attention hold the cards on here. The only reason for guys to be on is because they either lack confidence or they like a challenge |
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"Why does it matter how many men there are?
100 men for every woman does make it great"
Makes it great for the woman lol. Don't you like a bit of competition?  |
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"I am interested to see if woman think this would be a good idea"
No...it's a free world.....and from vaguely scientific studies we worked out its about 10 to 1 men to women.... I'm sure we can cope  |
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"Why does it matter how many men there are?
100 men for every woman does make it great
Makes it great for the woman lol. Don't you like a bit of competition?
It’s a pain sometimes lol"
Why, if it was easy it'd get boring |
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"Why does it matter how many men there are?
100 men for every woman does make it great
Makes it great for the woman lol. Don't you like a bit of competition?
It’s a pain sometimes lol"
The answer is a different site then I like the challenge |
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"I am interested to see if woman think this would be a good idea
No...it's a free world.....and from vaguely scientific studies we worked out its about 10 to 1 men to women.... I'm sure we can cope "
Lol ok, guess so  |
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"Why does it matter how many men there are?
100 men for every woman does make it great
Makes it great for the woman lol. Don't you like a bit of competition?
It’s a pain sometimes lol
Maybe but easier would be nicer
Why, if it was easy it'd get boring "
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"Admin could get rid of all the hot,gorgeous, fit men to give the rest a chance.
That would even things up a bit."
Yep leave us ugly buggers to have a little bit of fun as life is far too short hahahaha |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive. |
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"Admin could get rid of all the hot,gorgeous, fit men to give the rest a chance.
That would even things up a bit.
Yep leave us ugly buggers to have a little bit of fun as life is far too short hahahaha"
Us ugly women, who don't get any attention on any other site, would have no other option than to fuck the average or ugly men.
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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Haha...so are we now discussing a quota system for blokes that do well...once you've reached your quota per month or per quarter, you then have to refrain from accepting meets until your next quarter begins....lol |
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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Really you sound like children.......
Mummy can you get one for us all please? And can mine have titties on top ?
What makes you think that if there is an equal amount of men and women that one of the women is going to want YOU ?
What you are actually saying is....... These women wouldn't get a man anywhere else so i'm really annoyed that these women can say no to me..... If there were less men they'd have to let me fuck them. |
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"Admin could get rid of all the hot,gorgeous, fit men to give the rest a chance.
That would even things up a bit.
Yep leave us ugly buggers to have a little bit of fun as life is far too short hahahaha
Us ugly women, who don't get any attention on any other site, would have no other option than to fuck the average or ugly men.
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Is that good or bad? |
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"Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Really you sound like children.......
Mummy can you get one for us all please? And can mine have titties on top ?
What makes you think that if there is an equal amount of men and women that one of the women is going to want YOU ?
What you are actually saying is....... These women wouldn't get a man anywhere else so i'm really annoyed that these women can say no to me..... If there were less men they'd have to let me fuck them. "
What she said |
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This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. |
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers."
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? |
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"Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Really you sound like children.......
Mummy can you get one for us all please? And can mine have titties on top ?
What makes you think that if there is an equal amount of men and women that one of the women is going to want YOU ?
What you are actually saying is....... These women wouldn't get a man anywhere else so i'm really annoyed that these women can say no to me..... If there were less men they'd have to let me fuck them. "
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive."
Exactly this. |
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?"
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month. |
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"Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Really you sound like children.......
Mummy can you get one for us all please? And can mine have titties on top ?
What makes you think that if there is an equal amount of men and women that one of the women is going to want YOU ?
What you are actually saying is....... These women wouldn't get a man anywhere else so i'm really annoyed that these women can say no to me..... If there were less men they'd have to let me fuck them.
Did you ever know that you're my hero? "
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month."
Does that guarantee sex ? |
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"If you only count the genuine decent guys who know how to string a sentence together it's about even actually lol "
Or maybe they are just shocked your willing to listen so they get uptight |
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month.
Does that guarantee sex ?"
Nope |
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"Why does it matter how many men there are?
100 men for every woman does make it great"
It's not high. On the basis of a few surveys I have done the breakdown is roughly 75% men and 5% women. So 15 to 1. |
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"Why does it matter how many men there are?
100 men for every woman does make it great
It's not high. On the basis of a few surveys I have done the breakdown is roughly 75% men and 5% women. So 15 to 1. "
Where did the 20% go ? |
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"Why does it matter how many men there are?
100 men for every woman does make it great
It's not high. On the basis of a few surveys I have done the breakdown is roughly 75% men and 5% women. So 15 to 1.
Where did the 20% go ?"
Couples. So looked at another way, it's 85/15. |
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"Why does it matter how many men there are?
100 men for every woman does make it great
It's not high. On the basis of a few surveys I have done the breakdown is roughly 75% men and 5% women. So 15 to 1.
Where did the 20% go ?"
Couples probably |
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month."
I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all? |
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month.
I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all?"
Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ? |
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month.
I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all?
Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ?"
Nope |
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month.
I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all?
Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ?
Nope"
So. For £100 a month ( more than my T.V. and mobile together ) More than I pay for Gas come to think of it.
I can do exactly what I am doing now - for free ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month.
I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all?
Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ?
Nope
So. For £100 a month ( more than my T.V. and mobile together ) More than I pay for Gas come to think of it.
I can do exactly what I am doing now - for free ?"
What exactly are you doing now for free? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a couple who are only interested in men who are swingers as a lifestyle choice, and have no interest in men looking for an easy shag, we feel that once we’ve eliminated the latter group, there are actually very few men left in our geographical area. There are enough to keep us happy, but we do need the fish pond replenished from time to time. If men were no longer allowed to join Fab, that would not make us go out and meet someone unsuitable for our needs just because we’d run out of men who are suitable. I think if we ran out of men we’d go to another site rather than settle for what we don’t want.
Mrs |
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month.
I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all?
Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ?
Nope
So. For £100 a month ( more than my T.V. and mobile together ) More than I pay for Gas come to think of it.
I can do exactly what I am doing now - for free ?"
Exactly which is why paying more for the site doesn't stack up in my opinion. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned.
That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!! |
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"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned.
That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!! "
I agree, but sometimes the nice ones are still overlooked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned.
That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!!
I agree, but sometimes the nice ones are still overlooked "
Should the same not apply to woman, then? |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned.
That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!!
I agree, but sometimes the nice ones are still overlooked
Should the same not apply to woman, then? "
Well, obviously. Equality and all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you only count the genuine decent guys who know how to string a sentence together it's about even actually lol "
But if you only count the genuine decent men AND women who know how to string a sentence together the ratio would be about the same as it is now, but the site membership would be massively diminished ... |
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy? 
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol"
It's a different kind of struggle for women on fab.
The ratio might be 100 men for every woman but how many of those 100 men would anyone actually choose to meet?
Out of 100 messages from men there are only ever 2 or 3 that i would consider replying to. Out of these i may fancy one of them but possibly won't be physically attracted to any.
The vast majority are the "fuck now?" or "need my balls emptying" type of message.
Out of those 100 men the majority will have made no effort at all to write their profile and will have multiple photos of their cock from every conceivable angle and nothing else.
When you take out all the dross the numbers even up considerably. We just have to wade through piles of shit to discover the rare gem that is a single man we would actually meet. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
It's a different kind of struggle for women on fab.
The ratio might be 100 men for every woman but how many of those 100 men would anyone actually choose to meet?
Out of 100 messages from men there are only ever 2 or 3 that i would consider replying to. Out of these i may fancy one of them but possibly won't be physically attracted to any.
The vast majority are the "fuck now?" or "need my balls emptying" type of message.
Out of those 100 men the majority will have made no effort at all to write their profile and will have multiple photos of their cock from every conceivable angle and nothing else.
When you take out all the dross the numbers even up considerably. We just have to wade through piles of shit to discover the rare gem that is a single man we would actually meet."
So much sense!! |
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive."
Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? |
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"As a couple who are only interested in men who are swingers as a lifestyle choice, and have no interest in men looking for an easy shag, we feel that once we’ve eliminated the latter group, there are actually very few men left in our geographical area. There are enough to keep us happy, but we do need the fish pond replenished from time to time. If men were no longer allowed to join Fab, that would not make us go out and meet someone unsuitable for our needs just because we’d run out of men who are suitable. I think if we ran out of men we’d go to another site rather than settle for what we don’t want.
Mrs"
To be honest, i would do exactly the same.
As a guy on here i don't feel or even notice competition from other guys. Because like most i just get on with talking and meeting with couples that i want to talk and meet with. I't rarely causes any problems and certainly dosn't stop me from wanting to be on here.
From conversations i have had with couples from the first time i joined here until i re-joined this time, the underlying thing that always came up was a guy/guys thinking it was a god driven right for them to meet anyone they fancied. Well guys, it isn't and never has been. It's guys desperation to meet someone/anyone, that really does turn couples and ladies just to delete/ignore.
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By *ineMan
over a year ago
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"Why does it matter how many men there are?
100 men for every woman does make it great
But there aren’t 100 men for every woman! There are around 10! Granted that’s still a lot! X"
I'll get my coat.... that should reduce it by 0.001%
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive.
Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? "
..as summed up very succinctly in your current status  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned.
That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!! "
And the women, tvs and couples who do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive.
Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads??
..as summed up very succinctly in your current status "
I like short and direct!! Ha |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive.
Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads??
..as summed up very succinctly in your current status
I like short and direct!! Ha"
Actually quite eloquent too...maybe you need to extend your current upper age limit by just a few years |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned.
That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!!
And the women, tvs and couples who do the same. "
Obviously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This might upset some people...
Is Fab too cheap?
If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted).
We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers.
This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?
If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month."
If it cost £20 a month to be a member here I'd be long gone, think that would decrease the number of women members even more. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive.
Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? "
I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately |
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"If you only count the genuine decent guys who know how to string a sentence together it's about even actually lol "
I'd say the women outweight the men if we are looking at it like that. Well that is certainly my experience. Just because there maybe 100 men to one woman doesn't mean she fancies any of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive.
Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads??
I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately "
No, there isn’t. I paid £10 a month for a different site but the standards were higher and I didn’t get any obscene or FAF messages. It was worth it just for that.
I got called a ‘time wasting cunt’ the other night by two guys looking for a girl to join them. I politely said no and imformed them that I was actually on my way back from LA anyway. It’s made me chuckle now but it’s not acceptable really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive."
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By (user no longer on site)
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1) No I don't think single men should be stopped joining for a while, definitely not. Women like fresh faces too.
2) No I don't agree with raising subs, if I had to pay more I would leave and find men on the other sites I,m on that are free.
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive.
Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads??
I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately
No, there isn’t. I paid £10 a month for a different site but the standards were higher and I didn’t get any obscene or FAF messages. It was worth it just for that.
I got called a ‘time wasting cunt’ the other night by two guys looking for a girl to join them. I politely said no and imformed them that I was actually on my way back from LA anyway. It’s made me chuckle now but it’s not acceptable really. "
Now look here you know you're not supposed to do stuff like going abroad, you're meant to be available at all times! Lol XXX |
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"I dunno about the pay thing. The more people pay maybe the will feel even more entitled to something "
I agree. I've been on sites where men have to pay and their attitudes were dreadful. |
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol"
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive.
Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads??
I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately
No, there isn’t. I paid £10 a month for a different site but the standards were higher and I didn’t get any obscene or FAF messages. It was worth it just for that.
I got called a ‘time wasting cunt’ the other night by two guys looking for a girl to join them. I politely said no and imformed them that I was actually on my way back from LA anyway. It’s made me chuckle now but it’s not acceptable really. "
I that is why I just ignore messages that don’t hold my interest, I’ve had too many abusive messages over the year ( tell me the name of this nice site that have nice guys on it) |
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So many people of both genders use the site for different things, some only for chatting and checking in. This is up to them and are entitled to use site as they choose. In an ideal world id like to see something in place that can stop repeat timewasters and the one line fuck now brigade from continuing to bother others. But unfortunately i dont think there is anything that can be done about this. Maybe drastically reducing the amount of first time messages allowed to be used, especially for newbies, might stop blancket mail sent out but no obvious answer to out those that in some cases spoil for others. G |
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here! "
Yaaaaas! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place.
I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive.
Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads??
I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately
No, there isn’t. I paid £10 a month for a different site but the standards were higher and I didn’t get any obscene or FAF messages. It was worth it just for that.
I got called a ‘time wasting cunt’ the other night by two guys looking for a girl to join them. I politely said no and imformed them that I was actually on my way back from LA anyway. It’s made me chuckle now but it’s not acceptable really.
Now look here you know you're not supposed to do stuff like going abroad, you're meant to be available at all times! Lol XXX"
Better quit my job then just to please the guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here! "
So do men with high standards |
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here!
So do men with high standards "
Amen to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here!
So do men with high standards "
What about us with no standards whatsoever? Even so, I still can’t even get a sniff of pussy  |
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