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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!
Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?
If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!
If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t hate and don’t agree
Nothing is every black and white and this has been done so many times. Keep to the people you want to meet and you’ll be fine  |
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"If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!
Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?
If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!
If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you.."
Totally agree.
Imagine the horror for the innocent spouse if/when they find out. Plus the shame of everybody (family and friends) finding out the reason for the subsequent divorce. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well according to your header I should hate you, and before you say anything I have been on the receiving end of a cheating partner. But life isn’t always so black and white. This subject has been done to death. Some will agree and others won’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither hate you or agree with you. What other people do is their business, and I know first hand how complicated relationships can be. It's not always a case of leave if you aren't getting sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!
Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?
If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!
If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you..
Totally agree.
Imagine the horror for the innocent spouse if/when they find out. Plus the shame of everybody (family and friends) finding out the reason for the subsequent divorce."
No horror on my part, or shame for either of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Part of me agrees and part of me disagrees, I’m a single lady and don’t have a partner at home just a fuck buddy. So I can’t judge others as don’t know the circumstances, I personally couldn’t do it to a partner if they knew nothing of me meeting elsewhere I’m a really bad liar for a start  . But I believe I could do it if the other person knew about my lifestyle and still chose to be with me, I’ll probs get shot for this next comment but I have met with people who are with someone and there partner isn’t aware they are meeting others  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hate? Bit strong really OP.
Agree?
Why is it always a binary option?
I have not walked in the shoes of others, those I know and those I don't.
What gives any of us the right to judge how others live their lives? |
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As has been said on here many times. Not my circus, not my monkeys.
If someone asks for opinion on their marital situation or tries to involve me in some way then I'll give my view otherwise I'm not really interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know the backstories or journeys that people have taken to get to the point that they’ve joined a Fuck site to cheat on their partner. What’s that old saying - don’t judge anyone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.
What I do know is that everyone’s story and reasons for being here will be different, some more legitimate than others, but it’s rarely as black and white as the frequent threads like this suggest.
If you don’t want to meet cheats, then avoid / block them and focus on those you do want to meet. |
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I love my life partner, but he doesn't want to fuck me. I joined Fab with the aim of finding an outlet for my physical needs. Instead, I found a wonderful man who has several playmates as he is poly. He makes me smile and brightens my life. We're never going to want to be together exclusively, so he's not a threat to my primary relationship, but it makes me more settled and kinder in my "normal" life. This won't work forever and it won't work for everyone, but I still feel lucky and satisfied |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some are missing the point! I guessed that the OP is about cheating, not consensual playing around.
Cheating is never right, for whatever reason. Fix it or get out!"
It’s that simple, folks!  |
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"I think some are missing the point! I guessed that the OP is about cheating, not consensual playing around.
Cheating is never right, for whatever reason. Fix it or get out!"
Yes, a few posters have missed the point. |
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"If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!
Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?
If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!
If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you.."
Why does it concern you, what others get up to?
Having an opinion is one thing but dishing out advice is quite another. |
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someones life outside of the scene has nothing to do with us.
We wouldn’t want to know,
We are here to have fun and not judge others.
If your cheating or not, it wouldn’t make any difference to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!
Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?
If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!
If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you.."
SPOT ON!! |
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