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Flirting - can you read the signals and are you any good at it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Quite often I can’t see even if it comes up and slaps me around the face! 
How good is your flirting game?
Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a school of thought for women that suggests that if we’re approached by a guy for a chat, that isn’t related to something they need from us, that it’s a flirt. Guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not very good at reading signals, I tend to think people are just being friendly.
I can be quite good at it when I try and actually realise what's going on m |
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"There’s a school of thought for women that suggests that if we’re approached by a guy for a chat, that isn’t related to something they need from us, that it’s a flirt. Guys? "
No, sometimes it’s just for a chat and a laugh. Women aren’t much different to men, some of them are a real laugh to talk to |
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"If I don't fancy them yes. If I do no.
I think it's probably down to lack of confidence and assuming they won't fancy me back  "
But once you’ve discounted the 4 blokes on the planet that don’t fancy you, it must be easier?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I don't fancy them yes. If I do no.
I think it's probably down to lack of confidence and assuming they won't fancy me back
But once you’ve discounted the 4 blokes on the planet that don’t fancy you, it must be easier? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often I can’t see even if it comes up and slaps me around the face!
How good is your flirting game?
Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you?? "
I’m cheeky and chatty, but can’t really flirt,
Never had the confidence to chat someone up. Same as you, wouldn’t have a clue if someone was into me unless they wore a sign saying so !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s a school of thought for women that suggests that if we’re approached by a guy for a chat, that isn’t related to something they need from us, that it’s a flirt. Guys?
No, sometimes it’s just for a chat and a laugh. Women aren’t much different to men, some of them are a real laugh to talk to"
If a guy is chatting to me and touching my arm occasionally etc, it’s a blatantly obvious signal. I’m pretty good at picking up signals I think, also if a guy is taking the mick out of me etc, I know really they wouldn’t say no if I was to give them the nod  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Totally hopeless unless a flirt comes up and introduces itself as Flirty McFlirtface, of Flirty Towers, Flirt Avenue, Flirtsville and uses about 20  's I'm oblivious
As for DOING the actual flirting....equally hopeless!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally hopeless unless a flirt comes up and introduces itself as Flirty McFlirtface, of Flirty Towers, Flirt Avenue, Flirtsville and uses about 20 's I'm oblivious
As for DOING the actual flirting....equally hopeless!!"
True story x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I talk to everyone and anyone when I'm out. Been surprised a few times when people have asked for my number. I'm a bit WTF we were only having a bit of banter not realising how they see it. Just politely decline and enjoy the rest of the night x |
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"There’s a school of thought for women that suggests that if we’re approached by a guy for a chat, that isn’t related to something they need from us, that it’s a flirt. Guys?
No, sometimes it’s just for a chat and a laugh. Women aren’t much different to men, some of them are a real laugh to talk to
If a guy is chatting to me and touching my arm occasionally etc, it’s a blatantly obvious signal. I’m pretty good at picking up signals I think, also if a guy is taking the mick out of me etc, I know really they wouldn’t say no if I was to give them the nod "
Saying no if you give them the nod is different, try it with me just to check  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be really quite an excellent flirt, and equally pretty good at picking up the signs.
Im now desperately out of practise, much older and probably more likely to induce panic from my intended flirtee. |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I'm crap at spotting the signs, I need obvious not hints. I'm also crap at spotting that I'm flirting! I think I'm just being nice and then I get comments from others about how much I was flirting when I didn't realise I was flirting at all!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm so bad at recognising anyone flirting with me that I'll never get it not even if it came in me in lights or skywriting 
Maybe that's why I'm no good at doing the flirting...and why I live in a cave...im just..
Flirtless in the firmament
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"I used to be really quite an excellent flirt, and equally pretty good at picking up the signs.
Im now desperately out of practise, much older and probably more likely to induce panic from my intended flirtee. "
Yes, panic, sweaty palms and looking frantically around for the emergency exit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good during conversation in real life im naturally a chatty cheeky fella so im quite prepared to fire of the odd flirty comment to a beautiful woman and see if she can keep up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alas wouldn't recognise flirting if it slapped me in the face and unfortunately a couple of times when I thought I had I rather embarrassed myself and the ladies in question! |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I'm crap at spotting the signs, I need obvious not hints. I'm also crap at spotting that I'm flirting! I think I'm just being nice and then I get comments from others about how much I was flirting when I didn't realise I was flirting at all! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m terrible. I had a woman stroking my chest in the queue on my lunch hour at McDonalds once. My female colleague was in tears of laughter.
Unless they make it really obvious. I’m clueless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m terrible. I had a woman stroking my chest in the queue on my lunch hour at McDonalds once. My female colleague was in tears of laughter.
Unless they make it really obvious. I’m clueless. "
That's foreplay, not flirting!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crap at spotting signs, but I'm told i flirt without knowing I'm doing it.
You just need someone to practise with "
Now I think the was flirting Or was it just a friendly piece of advise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crap at spotting signs, but I'm told i flirt without knowing I'm doing it.
You just need someone to practise with
Now I think the was flirting Or was it just a friendly piece of advise "
If you don't know I won't bother anymore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to be really quite an excellent flirt, and equally pretty good at picking up the signs.
Im now desperately out of practise, much older and probably more likely to induce panic from my intended flirtee.
Yes, panic, sweaty palms and looking frantically around for the emergency exit "
We've obviously met |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often I can’t see even if it comes up and slaps me around the face!
How good is your flirting game?
Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you?? "
Off Fab.. I'm the same as you.. I need clubbing round the head.
On Fab.. I'm much quicker  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crap at spotting signs, but I'm told i flirt without knowing I'm doing it.
You just need someone to practise with
Now I think the was flirting Or was it just a friendly piece of advise
If you don't know I won't bother anymore "
Wait.... that was all flirting  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Crap at spotting signs, but I'm told i flirt without knowing I'm doing it.
You just need someone to practise with
Now I think the was flirting Or was it just a friendly piece of advise
If you don't know I won't bother anymore
Wait.... that was all flirting "
You need 8 legs for this one Scarlet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck knows anymore. The guys I fancy don't respond much to my subtle hints, and in person, I'm not very confident and probably appear standoffish?
You get to the point, when you've tried and failed to just accept you're past the age of actually being capable of it.  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crap at spotting signs, but I'm told i flirt without knowing I'm doing it.
You just need someone to practise with
Now I think the was flirting Or was it just a friendly piece of advise
If you don't know I won't bother anymore
Wait.... that was all flirting
You need 8 legs for this one Scarlet "
I'll leave you to it then. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Crap at spotting signs, but I'm told i flirt without knowing I'm doing it.
You just need someone to practise with
Now I think the was flirting Or was it just a friendly piece of advise
If you don't know I won't bother anymore
Wait.... that was all flirting
You need 8 legs for this one Scarlet
I'll leave you to it then. "
It was a joke |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess it’s easy to flirt in here.
Just stick the the ‘fluttering eyelashes’ emoji at the end of your posting.
It doesn’t quite have the same impact when I try that in public! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess it’s easy to flirt in here.
Just stick the the ‘fluttering eyelashes’ emoji at the end of your posting.
It doesn’t quite have the same impact when I try that in public! "
just makes me look creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Flirting on here just comes across as creepy and false to me."
Yeah I get what you’re saying. But if the ultimate aim is to get yourself a NSA Shag then it’s a means to an end really. In past incarnations on here a flirt in the forum, however cheesy it may seem to others, has been the precursor to some nice meets for me. So it can work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a potential work colleague insinuate I had naughty pics on my Google account and how it was a shame he couldn't see them.
Think he thought it was flirting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always been told I'm a natural flirt but i really don't see it.
I think it's down to the fact i don't go into a conversation expecting anything and can pretty much talk to anyone.
Got myself into a few awkward situations before with people mistaking my friendliness for flirtiness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can always tell when I'm being flirted with. Unfortunately though, not until about two or three days later, when I suddenly have one of those
".........oh,! She was totally flirting with me, shit, I should have said......."
Moments.
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Quite often I can’t see even if it comes up and slaps me around the face!
How good is your flirting game?
Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you?? "
Ive always been a ( call a bucket a bucket ) tipe.
So probably not to arnsar your question op.
Ladies.
If you want me. Make it blunt obvious. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I'm a shameless flirt by nature. I'll always begin with innocent, good natured flirting and progress or not depending on the responses.
I think i've become quite good at it and knowing when to spot it. It's fun and just creates a good, positive vibe when done well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A woman will tip her head to one side and play with her hair when flirting
Not just women
You definitely do this! You have perfected the skill "
Throw in a flick and that's my flirting done. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"A woman will tip her head to one side and play with her hair when flirting
Not just women
You definitely do this! You have perfected the skill
Throw in a flick and that's my flirting done. "
No need to change something that works so well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A woman will tip her head to one side and play with her hair when flirting
Not just women"
Wish I could. I just look like a lopsided egg if I do that and the only hair on my head I can play with is eyebrow, ear or nostril hair.
Maybe I should grow my nostril hair long enough to flick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A woman will tip her head to one side and play with her hair when flirting
Not just women
Wish I could. I just look like a lopsided egg if I do that and the only hair on my head I can play with is eyebrow, ear or nostril hair.
Maybe I should grow my nostril hair long enough to flick "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I assume everyone is flirting and only after one thing. And then ignore it so even if they are flirting, I like them and they could possibly want more than sex I shut them down pretty quick... no wonder I'm single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got a Nobel peace prize in body language..I spot it like a tiger spots lunch "
From behind bushes. Like the footballers you know where all live stalk your prey like a Tiger |
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