"It was probably a bloke ?!
Were they well verified, did you swap numbers and speak on the phone before arranging the meet ?"
I’m a single woman who meets regularly and never once, in all my years on here have I ever spoken to anyone on the phone beforehand.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should have a look at your selection process, and whether your profile is attractive to reliable people who are serious about meeting. No it’s not just you, but it’s not everybody who experiences this either.
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over a year ago
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"It was probably a bloke ?!
Were they well verified, did you swap numbers and speak on the phone before arranging the meet ?
I’m a single woman who meets regularly and never once, in all my years on here have I ever spoken to anyone on the phone beforehand.
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That's fair enough, some don't, was just curious if the OP had and how the meet was arranged. |
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over a year ago
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"Just messaged on here. I made the first move tho"
I didn't imagine that it was the "her" making initial contact with a cockshot, the silhouette and a couple of lines of text on your profile tbh.
If you didn't speak on the phone = probably a bloke pissing about. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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I've never had a "no show". Ive had people cancel on the day, in plenty of time.
I can't recall ever phoning them beforehand, but I often WhatsApp or text because signal is often too bad to get fabs when I'm out and about...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe, but we messaged quite extensively beforehand. A lot of trouble for someone to go to"
That’s why I won’t meet someone straight from here. I like to chat elsewhere for a bit or on the phone. |
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over a year ago
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"Is it just me it happens to? Do women get a kick out of this?"
ive just had the same... feel your pain! Not just women who do it. felt like a right twonk waiting in the pub!  |
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"It was probably a bloke ?!
Were they well verified, did you swap numbers and speak on the phone before arranging the meet ?
I’m a single woman who meets regularly and never once, in all my years on here have I ever spoken to anyone on the phone beforehand.
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Would my effeminate squeaky voice have put you off though Topsy? |
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Use your experience to refine who you meet with as well as your process. I generally refuse to meet with someone who won't give a number and speak on the phone - it's surprising how many just think they can swap a kik username and you'll all meet up, on a dark night. And I've generally found that if I've just started chatting and someone expects a meet within a day, that they aren't as reliable as taking more time. |
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"It was probably a bloke ?!
Were they well verified, did you swap numbers and speak on the phone before arranging the meet ?
I’m a single woman who meets regularly and never once, in all my years on here have I ever spoken to anyone on the phone beforehand.
Would my effeminate squeaky voice have put you off though Topsy?"
Gawd yeah, shocking voice, a bit like Kenneth Williams.
Mind you, I have the vocal timbre of Barry White... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me it happens to? Do women get a kick out of this? Are we to believe a woman agreed to meet an empty profile.."
I have. I ended up seeing him for nearly four years haha  |
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"It was probably a bloke ?!
Were they well verified, did you swap numbers and speak on the phone before arranging the meet ?
I’m a single woman who meets regularly and never once, in all my years on here have I ever spoken to anyone on the phone beforehand.
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I didn't until I met a man that looked like Daniel Craig but unfortunately sounded like Joe Pasquale!  It was almost a physical blow when he opened his mouth: his voice grated on my last nerve.
The fact he kept banging on about his mother nearly made me lose the will.
From that moment on always speak on the phone. |
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Love how a high percentage of peeps on this thread cannot believe it was a female and again try to tar males with the naughty brush,I have had no shows from females who ARE female,it's not exclusive to males just accept it. |
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"Love how a high percentage of peeps on this thread cannot believe it was a female and again try to tar males with the naughty brush,I have had no shows from females who ARE female,it's not exclusive to males just accept it."
I’ve no doubt women mess about just as much as men. However, I do not believe that a woman would be particularly interested in the OPs profile. I suspect that is why people are saying it was a man. And in addition these sites are known for men posing as women preying on naiive men.
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"Love how a high percentage of peeps on this thread cannot believe it was a female and again try to tar males with the naughty brush,I have had no shows from females who ARE female,it's not exclusive to males just accept it.
I’ve no doubt women mess about just as much as men. However, I do not believe that a woman would be particularly interested in the OPs profile. I suspect that is why people are saying it was a man. And in addition these sites are known for men posing as women preying on naiive men.
Mrs"
This.  |
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By *arshark OP Man
over a year ago
Burnley |
"Love how a high percentage of peeps on this thread cannot believe it was a female and again try to tar males with the naughty brush,I have had no shows from females who ARE female,it's not exclusive to males just accept it.
I’ve no doubt women mess about just as much as men. However, I do not believe that a woman would be particularly interested in the OPs profile. I suspect that is why people are saying it was a man. And in addition these sites are known for men posing as women preying on naiive men.
Mrs"
We spoke for weeks before the scheduled meeting and swapped various photographs. She had veri’s which Seemed to check out. |
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"Love how a high percentage of peeps on this thread cannot believe it was a female and again try to tar males with the naughty brush,I have had no shows from females who ARE female,it's not exclusive to males just accept it.
I’ve no doubt women mess about just as much as men. However, I do not believe that a woman would be particularly interested in the OPs profile. I suspect that is why people are saying it was a man. And in addition these sites are known for men posing as women preying on naiive men.
Mrs We spoke for weeks before the scheduled meeting and swapped various photographs. She had veri’s which Seemed to check out."
What exactly happened ? Did you swap contact details and arrange a place to meet ? I'm assuming you travelled to the agreed meeting place only for her to not turn up with no contact or excuse. Is she still on here, are you still in contact ? |
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"Love how a high percentage of peeps on this thread cannot believe it was a female and again try to tar males with the naughty brush,I have had no shows from females who ARE female,it's not exclusive to males just accept it.
I’ve no doubt women mess about just as much as men. However, I do not believe that a woman would be particularly interested in the OPs profile. I suspect that is why people are saying it was a man. And in addition these sites are known for men posing as women preying on naiive men.
Mrs We spoke for weeks before the scheduled meeting and swapped various photographs. She had veri’s which Seemed to check out."
Maybe she decided last minute not to meet someone who'd been on here over a year with no veris? Whatever happened, if you arranged a meet and she no showed with no communication then it's out of order but happens sadly. Better luck next time hun. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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"Love how a high percentage of peeps on this thread cannot believe it was a female and again try to tar males with the naughty brush,I have had no shows from females who ARE female,it's not exclusive to males just accept it.
I’ve no doubt women mess about just as much as men. However, I do not believe that a woman would be particularly interested in the OPs profile. I suspect that is why people are saying it was a man. And in addition these sites are known for men posing as women preying on naiive men.
Mrs We spoke for weeks before the scheduled meeting and swapped various photographs. She had veri’s which Seemed to check out."
Is she still on here? Have you tried asking?
Maybe something came up?
Maybe she just bottled it? |
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By *arshark OP Man
over a year ago
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"Love how a high percentage of peeps on this thread cannot believe it was a female and again try to tar males with the naughty brush,I have had no shows from females who ARE female,it's not exclusive to males just accept it.
I’ve no doubt women mess about just as much as men. However, I do not believe that a woman would be particularly interested in the OPs profile. I suspect that is why people are saying it was a man. And in addition these sites are known for men posing as women preying on naiive men.
Mrs We spoke for weeks before the scheduled meeting and swapped various photographs. She had veri’s which Seemed to check out.
Maybe she decided last minute not to meet someone who'd been on here over a year with no veris? Whatever happened, if you arranged a meet and she no showed with no communication then it's out of order but happens sadly. Better luck next time hun."
Thanks, I’ve since an apology and excuse about falling asleep, phone not working yadda, yadda. |
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