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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have to say I’d never really contemplated (and perhaps scoffed somewhat) at the thought of phone sex.
I’m fine on work phone calls, but personal phone calls can feel uncomfortable and panicky for me (completely linked with my own self esteem, I’m sure) and I dread them - when on them my mind whirrs and worries to the point of my talking too fast or not being able to really listen and concentrate fully.
I’ve got much better at this and will chat on the phone more readily now. And I do love to hear a voice.
But phone sex. I wasn’t so sure. How false?! How “put on”?! No, this wasn’t for me. I was certain.
Then I had phone sex for the first time a month or two ago. It was pretty much an accident as we just tumbled into it off another conversation. It was hot! I was confused.
I’ve had phone sex this evening. Deliberately planned phone sex after a day of teasing. It was super, super hot!
It’s probably hugely determined by the who of course, but I’ve discovered a new thing that I’d never had thought I’d enjoy....
Who knew?!
What do you think, cringey nightmare or interesting way to stay connected? |
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over a year ago
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I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to say I’d never really contemplated (and perhaps scoffed somewhat) at the thought of phone sex.
I’m fine on work phone calls, but personal phone calls can feel uncomfortable and panicky for me (completely linked with my own self esteem, I’m sure) and I dread them - when on them my mind whirrs and worries to the point of my talking too fast or not being able to really listen and concentrate fully.
I’ve got much better at this and will chat on the phone more readily now. And I do love to hear a voice.
But phone sex. I wasn’t so sure. How false?! How “put on”?! No, this wasn’t for me. I was certain.
Then I had phone sex for the first time a month or two ago. It was pretty much an accident as we just tumbled into it off another conversation. It was hot! I was confused.
I’ve had phone sex this evening. Deliberately planned phone sex after a day of teasing. It was super, super hot!
It’s probably hugely determined by the who of course, but I’ve discovered a new thing that I’d never had thought I’d enjoy....
Who knew?!
What do you think, cringey nightmare or interesting way to stay connected?"
I've had some enjoyable phone sex but also some pretty gross phone sex... But at least you can terminate the call |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have hearing loss so don't really do it any more. It can just sound like lots of heavy breathing to me and I already have an unknown phone pest who calls for that.
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Yes, I can imagine if it was just heavy breathing it’d be a little less stimulating.
You know me though, Lickety, I’ve got plenty to say when you get me going!
(Phone pest though, yikes) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe."
Exactly this! In fact this is why I suddenly think it’s been such a revelation for me. I have (as someone once said) a “rich interior landscape” and so many things to say. It’s all in the detail too, and build up. Ooooft, it’s fun controlling someone like that - or vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've had some enjoyable phone sex but also some pretty gross phone sex... But at least you can terminate the call "
Hahahaha!! Now that *is* a good point! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Phone sex sounds like a role play to me, it would be hard to stay in character without breaking laughing "
It could be, I suppose.
I like the giggling and real stuff though, I had thought (previously) exactly this, that it had to be serious and perfect! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Phone sex is not my thing  "
Fair enough. And it’s certainly not my open invite to phone sex with everyone!
I was just surprised to have enjoyed it for a thing in its own right, when I was previously so adamant it wasn’t for me. It really does depend on the partner perhaps. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Phone sex has never been my thing. I get shy talking dirty in person, let alone remotely. But the regular squeeze knows me well enough to know that and has been known to take the lead and do all the talking at me until I orgasm over the phone. Only occasionally and only him but by golly gosh, it was a revelation the first time he did it!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Phone sex has never been my thing. I get shy talking dirty in person, let alone remotely. But the regular squeeze knows me well enough to know that and has been known to take the lead and do all the talking at me until I orgasm over the phone. Only occasionally and only him but by golly gosh, it was a revelation the first time he did it! "
Exactly this! But I have found my voice, and I have a filthsome mouth.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hope you used something Blanche darling.
Can’t be too careful these days, you don’t know what filth it could of gotten up too before you...
Promise me you’ll dial 1471 before next time, just for piece of mind like ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Phone sex sounds like a role play to me, it would be hard to stay in character without breaking laughing
It could be, I suppose.
I like the giggling and real stuff though, I had thought (previously) exactly this, that it had to be serious and perfect! "
Yeah I suppose so, but I don't think I could keep it serious enough to go all the way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I hope you used something Blanche darling.
Can’t be too careful these days, you don’t know what filth it could of gotten up too before you...
Promise me you’ll dial 1471 before next time, just for piece of mind like !"
It was who we spoke about!!
And yes, I had a condom over the phone, don’t worry.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Phone sex sounds like a role play to me, it would be hard to stay in character without breaking laughing
It could be, I suppose.
I like the giggling and real stuff though, I had thought (previously) exactly this, that it had to be serious and perfect!
Yeah I suppose so, but I don't think I could keep it serious enough to go all the way "
Also I'm horrible at dirty talking  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Phone sex sounds like a role play to me, it would be hard to stay in character without breaking laughing
It could be, I suppose.
I like the giggling and real stuff though, I had thought (previously) exactly this, that it had to be serious and perfect!
Yeah I suppose so, but I don't think I could keep it serious enough to go all the way "
Wanna try?
I’ll put Ed on in the background to help tip you over.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Phone sex sounds like a role play to me, it would be hard to stay in character without breaking laughing
It could be, I suppose.
I like the giggling and real stuff though, I had thought (previously) exactly this, that it had to be serious and perfect!
Yeah I suppose so, but I don't think I could keep it serious enough to go all the way
Also I'm horrible at dirty talking "
Hahahaha, then let me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Phone sex sounds like a role play to me, it would be hard to stay in character without breaking laughing
It could be, I suppose.
I like the giggling and real stuff though, I had thought (previously) exactly this, that it had to be serious and perfect!
Yeah I suppose so, but I don't think I could keep it serious enough to go all the way
Wanna try?
I’ll put Ed on in the background to help tip you over.... "
Oh that's a different case, he'll make me feel like a Galway girl |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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I have to say I’m the same. It was never my thing and still isn’t. I also hate talking on the phone and amongst friends this is universally acknowledged, I feel awkward and self conscious.
However about 18 months ago there was one person I had several very stimulating phone conversations with it took me totally by surprise  and I enjoyed it immensely, however I’ve not done it again with anyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good God no. Cringe
I don’t believe that for a second.
That I have phone sex?
I'm better in person."
Yep! Well it’s not really about comparing the two. But good for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Phone sex sounds like a role play to me, it would be hard to stay in character without breaking laughing
It could be, I suppose.
I like the giggling and real stuff though, I had thought (previously) exactly this, that it had to be serious and perfect!
Yeah I suppose so, but I don't think I could keep it serious enough to go all the way
Wanna try?
I’ll put Ed on in the background to help tip you over....
Oh that's a different case, he'll make me feel like a Galway girl "
There we go.  |
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"I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though "
I think th build up via text is so much more fun. Gives you plenty of time to compose a suitably filthy reply. |
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"Good God no. Cringe
I don’t believe that for a second.
That I have phone sex?
I'm better in person.
Yep! Well it’s not really about comparing the two. But good for you "
Oh I wasn't comparing, I was merely implying that I am not good at phone sex therefore I don't indulge in it.
I sound like someone having an asthma attack down a phone and I'm not very instructive at all.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have to say I’m the same. It was never my thing and still isn’t. I also hate talking on the phone and amongst friends this is universally acknowledged, I feel awkward and self conscious.
However about 18 months ago there was one person I had several very stimulating phone conversations with it took me totally by surprise and I enjoyed it immensely, however I’ve not done it again with anyone else."
Exactly this!
Some people draw stuff out of you. It was quite a big deal to me, and I’m really pleased to have been able to do so again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Phone sex is not my thing
Fair enough. And it’s certainly not my open invite to phone sex with everyone!
I was just surprised to have enjoyed it for a thing in its own right, when I was previously so adamant it wasn’t for me. It really does depend on the partner perhaps. "
If it's hot man you know that is different |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hope you used something Blanche darling.
Can’t be too careful these days, you don’t know what filth it could of gotten up too before you...
Promise me you’ll dial 1471 before next time, just for piece of mind like !
It was who we spoke about!!
And yes, I had a condom over the phone, don’t worry. "
Off course you would, you’re so streetwise !
That’s ace, well done you, smileyface.
Did he have a proper accent an all ?
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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My voice sounds ridiculous when I attempt phone sex sadly. Hopefully when I get over myself I might enjoy it.
Good to read that such filth was enjoyed by yourself - I hope that whoever they are, they keep on bringing out your sexualness. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though "
Nods, I can relate. Well, once I feel safe with someone I can unleash my innermost thoughts, but it’s a vulnerable position and I’ve regretted it when it’s been abused or not realised to have not been a common occurrence. I think I always thought phone sex would be disposable and seedy (not in a good seedy way either), but in the right situation it can be amazing. Anyway, I’m probably just a bit lightheaded. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though
I think th build up via text is so much more fun. Gives you plenty of time to compose a suitably filthy reply. "
I’m not knocking the text. It’s my weapon of choice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Good God no. Cringe
I don’t believe that for a second.
That I have phone sex?
I'm better in person.
Yep! Well it’s not really about comparing the two. But good for you
Oh I wasn't comparing, I was merely implying that I am not good at phone sex therefore I don't indulge in it.
I sound like someone having an asthma attack down a phone and I'm not very instructive at all.
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You should get that checked out. |
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"I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though
I think th build up via text is so much more fun. Gives you plenty of time to compose a suitably filthy reply.
I’m not knocking the text. It’s my weapon of choice "
Oh I can do the text just not the live stuff. I get shy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Em has had it once. Was hot listening to her with someone else  "
Oh I’ve had fun texting with someone whilst someone else went down on me. Now you’ve given me ideas.  |
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"Good God no. Cringe
I don’t believe that for a second.
That I have phone sex?
I'm better in person.
Yep! Well it’s not really about comparing the two. But good for you
Oh I wasn't comparing, I was merely implying that I am not good at phone sex therefore I don't indulge in it.
I sound like someone having an asthma attack down a phone and I'm not very instructive at all.
You should get that checked out. "
I shall endeavour to do so, but someone might be into star wars and enjoy it.
Anyone into star wars? Phone sex with Darth? Call me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Phone sex is not my thing
Fair enough. And it’s certainly not my open invite to phone sex with everyone!
I was just surprised to have enjoyed it for a thing in its own right, when I was previously so adamant it wasn’t for me. It really does depend on the partner perhaps.
If it's hot man you know that is different "
So true!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hate phonesex
Last time my ear got all wet!
Seriously it’s too Percy and doesn’t do anything for me"
Oh I don’t like a wet ear! How did that happen?! It’s my pet hate anyone licking my ear, vomit yuck, I hate a wet ear!
Percy? |
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"I hope you used something Blanche darling.
Can’t be too careful these days, you don’t know what filth it could of gotten up too before you...
Promise me you’ll dial 1471 before next time, just for piece of mind like !
It was who we spoke about!!
And yes, I had a condom over the phone, don’t worry.
Off course you would, you’re so streetwise !
That’s ace, well done you, smileyface.
Did he have a proper accent an all ?
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Yes! Yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though
Nods, I can relate. Well, once I feel safe with someone I can unleash my innermost thoughts, but it’s a vulnerable position and I’ve regretted it when it’s been abused or not realised to have not been a common occurrence. I think I always thought phone sex would be disposable and seedy (not in a good seedy way either), but in the right situation it can be amazing. Anyway, I’m probably just a bit lightheaded. "
I think it's good that you've found someone to trust and you've enjoyed the experience. |
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"I hope you used something Blanche darling.
Can’t be too careful these days, you don’t know what filth it could of gotten up too before you...
Promise me you’ll dial 1471 before next time, just for piece of mind like !
It was who we spoke about!!
And yes, I had a condom over the phone, don’t worry.
Off course you would, you’re so streetwise !
That’s ace, well done you, smileyface.
Did he have a proper accent an all ?
Yes! Yes! "
What kind of accent do you go for? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My voice sounds ridiculous when I attempt phone sex sadly. Hopefully when I get over myself I might enjoy it.
Good to read that such filth was enjoyed by yourself - I hope that whoever they are, they keep on bringing out your sexualness."
Thanks Melimeister. That’s a lovely thing to say, appreciate it.
He seemed to like my voice, but more importantly his was amazing. So *grins*
I’ll practice with you sometime x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though
I think th build up via text is so much more fun. Gives you plenty of time to compose a suitably filthy reply.
I’m not knocking the text. It’s my weapon of choice
Oh I can do the text just not the live stuff. I get shy "
True story.
Hard to believe I know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It can be quite erotic with the right person. Not with someone I haven't or will never meet. "
Yes, I would never have done it if there wasn’t intent to meet. Or have met. |
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"I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though
Nods, I can relate. Well, once I feel safe with someone I can unleash my innermost thoughts, but it’s a vulnerable position and I’ve regretted it when it’s been abused or not realised to have not been a common occurrence. I think I always thought phone sex would be disposable and seedy (not in a good seedy way either), but in the right situation it can be amazing. Anyway, I’m probably just a bit lightheaded.
I think it's good that you've found someone to trust and you've enjoyed the experience. "
Thank you. That’s very kind. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I hope you used something Blanche darling.
Can’t be too careful these days, you don’t know what filth it could of gotten up too before you...
Promise me you’ll dial 1471 before next time, just for piece of mind like !
It was who we spoke about!!
And yes, I had a condom over the phone, don’t worry.
Off course you would, you’re so streetwise !
That’s ace, well done you, smileyface.
Did he have a proper accent an all ?
Yes! Yes!
What kind of accent do you go for?"
Gidurlogian |
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"I hope you used something Blanche darling.
Can’t be too careful these days, you don’t know what filth it could of gotten up too before you...
Promise me you’ll dial 1471 before next time, just for piece of mind like !
It was who we spoke about!!
And yes, I had a condom over the phone, don’t worry.
Off course you would, you’re so streetwise !
That’s ace, well done you, smileyface.
Did he have a proper accent an all ?
Yes! Yes!
What kind of accent do you go for?
Gidurlogian "
Bless you |
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I always see phone sex as a prime example of the most powerful sex organ, the mind. The fact that you can make each other cum without even touching each other.
I'm a long convert to phone sex. I have had some really good phone sex where it really felt I was there. I think it needs a mixture of good connection, great verbal communication (sounds and words) and most of all great imagination on both sides. Its especially a great skill and experience if you cant be together physically much.
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"I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though
Nods, I can relate. Well, once I feel safe with someone I can unleash my innermost thoughts, but it’s a vulnerable position and I’ve regretted it when it’s been abused or not realised to have not been a common occurrence. I think I always thought phone sex would be disposable and seedy (not in a good seedy way either), but in the right situation it can be amazing. Anyway, I’m probably just a bit lightheaded. "
perhaps I should brave it and give it a try |
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"I always see phone sex as a prime example of the most powerful sex organ, the mind. The fact that you can make each other cum without even touching each other.
I'm a long convert to phone sex. I have had some really good phone sex where it really felt I was there. I think it needs a mixture of good connection, great verbal communication (sounds and words) and most of all great imagination on both sides. Its especially a great skill and experience if you cant be together physically much.
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Yes, it certainly shows you if you’re in tune with each other. |
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"I have to say I’d never really contemplated (and perhaps scoffed somewhat) at the thought of phone sex.
I’m fine on work phone calls, but personal phone calls can feel uncomfortable and panicky for me (completely linked with my own self esteem, I’m sure) and I dread them - when on them my mind whirrs and worries to the point of my talking too fast or not being able to really listen and concentrate fully.
I’ve got much better at this and will chat on the phone more readily now. And I do love to hear a voice.
But phone sex. I wasn’t so sure. How false?! How “put on”?! No, this wasn’t for me. I was certain.
Then I had phone sex for the first time a month or two ago. It was pretty much an accident as we just tumbled into it off another conversation. It was hot! I was confused.
I’ve had phone sex this evening. Deliberately planned phone sex after a day of teasing. It was super, super hot!
It’s probably hugely determined by the who of course, but I’ve discovered a new thing that I’d never had thought I’d enjoy....
Who knew?!
What do you think, cringey nightmare or interesting way to stay connected?"
Oh god I wouldn’t even talk dirty, then I met mr and at times we started getting a bit naughty on the phone, and now phone sex is a semi regular thing between us to keep things going when he’s working long hours. He just has this way of saying certain things that just have my heart racing in the best of ways. I couldn’t do it with just anyone but mr brings out my inner sexual being x |
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"I really don't like talking sex, unless very very in the moment and only then a whisper. Added to a hatred of talking on a phone I don't think I could. I'll text you all the filth you want though
Nods, I can relate. Well, once I feel safe with someone I can unleash my innermost thoughts, but it’s a vulnerable position and I’ve regretted it when it’s been abused or not realised to have not been a common occurrence. I think I always thought phone sex would be disposable and seedy (not in a good seedy way either), but in the right situation it can be amazing. Anyway, I’m probably just a bit lightheaded.
perhaps I should brave it and give it a try "
To be honest, I just let go and gave up all the worry and relaxed. Epic. |
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"I have to say I’d never really contemplated (and perhaps scoffed somewhat) at the thought of phone sex.
I’m fine on work phone calls, but personal phone calls can feel uncomfortable and panicky for me (completely linked with my own self esteem, I’m sure) and I dread them - when on them my mind whirrs and worries to the point of my talking too fast or not being able to really listen and concentrate fully.
I’ve got much better at this and will chat on the phone more readily now. And I do love to hear a voice.
But phone sex. I wasn’t so sure. How false?! How “put on”?! No, this wasn’t for me. I was certain.
Then I had phone sex for the first time a month or two ago. It was pretty much an accident as we just tumbled into it off another conversation. It was hot! I was confused.
I’ve had phone sex this evening. Deliberately planned phone sex after a day of teasing. It was super, super hot!
It’s probably hugely determined by the who of course, but I’ve discovered a new thing that I’d never had thought I’d enjoy....
Who knew?!
What do you think, cringey nightmare or interesting way to stay connected?
Oh god I wouldn’t even talk dirty, then I met mr and at times we started getting a bit naughty on the phone, and now phone sex is a semi regular thing between us to keep things going when he’s working long hours. He just has this way of saying certain things that just have my heart racing in the best of ways. I couldn’t do it with just anyone but mr brings out my inner sexual being x "
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe."
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man  was nice though at the time. |
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe.
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man was nice though at the time. "
How come it was such a challenge, too many eeee by gums, or was the whippet whimpering? |
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe.
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man was nice though at the time.
How come it was such a challenge, too many eeee by gums, or was the whippet whimpering? "
I've got a strong Scouse accent so don't think I'd do very well with phone sex. Lar |
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe.
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man was nice though at the time.
How come it was such a challenge, too many eeee by gums, or was the whippet whimpering? "
Challenge because of how certain words were pronounced, being called lass etc but once I took the lead and embraced it, all was fine. I am used to Yorkshire men as I’m from Yorkshire but hearing them in phone sex is something else. Wondering now how a southern man would sound. You’ve got my brain whirring now |
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe.
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man was nice though at the time.
How come it was such a challenge, too many eeee by gums, or was the whippet whimpering?
I've got a strong Scouse accent so don't think I'd do very well with phone sex. Lar "
Nah it wouldn’t work! I laugh when I hear a Scouse accent.... |
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe.
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man was nice though at the time.
How come it was such a challenge, too many eeee by gums, or was the whippet whimpering?
I've got a strong Scouse accent so don't think I'd do very well with phone sex. Lar
Nah it wouldn’t work! I laugh when I hear a Scouse accent.... "
Thanks. I'll just shut the fuck up. |
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe.
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man was nice though at the time.
How come it was such a challenge, too many eeee by gums, or was the whippet whimpering?
I've got a strong Scouse accent so don't think I'd do very well with phone sex. Lar "
Voices are lovely. Don’t rule it out. |
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe.
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man was nice though at the time.
How come it was such a challenge, too many eeee by gums, or was the whippet whimpering?
Challenge because of how certain words were pronounced, being called lass etc but once I took the lead and embraced it, all was fine. I am used to Yorkshire men as I’m from Yorkshire but hearing them in phone sex is something else. Wondering now how a southern man would sound. You’ve got my brain whirring now "
You should run a survey and report back |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I have hearing loss so don't really do it any more. It can just sound like lots of heavy breathing to me and I already have an unknown phone pest who calls for that.
Yes, I can imagine if it was just heavy breathing it’d be a little less stimulating.
You know me though, Lickety, I’ve got plenty to say when you get me going!
(Phone pest though, yikes)"
I think this is a positive step for you and you'll soon find ordinary personal calls easier.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
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"I hope you used something Blanche darling.
Can’t be too careful these days, you don’t know what filth it could of gotten up too before you...
Promise me you’ll dial 1471 before next time, just for piece of mind like !
It was who we spoke about!!
And yes, I had a condom over the phone, don’t worry. "
Have I told you my safer sex HIV leaflet translation story? It got very confusing having people ask why they needed a condom to speak to someone. |
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"I have hearing loss so don't really do it any more. It can just sound like lots of heavy breathing to me and I already have an unknown phone pest who calls for that.
Yes, I can imagine if it was just heavy breathing it’d be a little less stimulating.
You know me though, Lickety, I’ve got plenty to say when you get me going!
(Phone pest though, yikes)
I think this is a positive step for you and you'll soon find ordinary personal calls easier.
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Yes. I concur. You know me well x |
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"I hope you used something Blanche darling.
Can’t be too careful these days, you don’t know what filth it could of gotten up too before you...
Promise me you’ll dial 1471 before next time, just for piece of mind like !
It was who we spoke about!!
And yes, I had a condom over the phone, don’t worry.
Have I told you my safer sex HIV leaflet translation story? It got very confusing having people ask why they needed a condom to speak to someone."
Hahaha, no! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I get asked for phone sex pretty often. It doesn't do anything for me if it's a randomer but if it's someone I like the look of and could or have met then why not?
I used to meet a guy fairly regularly but he's not local so he used to ring me. He was very good at all that stuff, always made me reach orgasm! |
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe.
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man was nice though at the time.
How come it was such a challenge, too many eeee by gums, or was the whippet whimpering?
I've got a strong Scouse accent so don't think I'd do very well with phone sex. Lar
Nah it wouldn’t work! I laugh when I hear a Scouse accent....
Thanks. I'll just shut the fuck up. "
Yes shhuush |
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"I like it and it can work in some situations. The person or persons need to be quite eloquent and have a decent imagination, or even have had some erotic experiences. Umming and erring just doesn’t work. It’s a bit of a niche art form I believe.
I’ve had phone sex which is a bit of a challenge with a Yorkshire man was nice though at the time.
How come it was such a challenge, too many eeee by gums, or was the whippet whimpering?
I've got a strong Scouse accent so don't think I'd do very well with phone sex. Lar
Nah it wouldn’t work! I laugh when I hear a Scouse accent....
Thanks. I'll just shut the fuck up.
Yes shhuush "
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Me and hubby have dirty phone calls when I'm at work on nights.. its the next best thing.. can be frustrating when I know he's wanking in bed and I'm at work! |
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