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A forum challenge for Lent
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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Lent starts on Wednesday, also Valentine's Day, and I have a challenge for you all.
Instead of giving up chocolate, crisps, cake, sex etc. give up complaining. They're doing it on the Archers and I thought it would be perfect for the Fab fora.
Who's in?
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over a year ago
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"Lent starts on Wednesday, also Valentine's Day, and I have a challenge for you all.
Instead of giving up chocolate, crisps, cake, sex etc. give up complaining. They're doing it on the Archers and I thought it would be perfect for the Fab fora.
Who's in?
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Great idea, I’m in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a sterling idea. I shall endeavour.
Great. You can’t complain when I beat you. "
It’s got to happen first. I like your positive, mental attitude though, it’s cute. |
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"Lent starts on Wednesday, also Valentine's Day, and I have a challenge for you all.
Instead of giving up chocolate, crisps, cake, sex etc. give up complaining. They're doing it on the Archers and I thought it would be perfect for the Fab fora.
Who's in?
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I’ll try....... but I can’t promise!
P.S do you think Nick Grundy is going to loose her job at The Bull after her public row with Emma? |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Lent starts on Wednesday, also Valentine's Day, and I have a challenge for you all.
Instead of giving up chocolate, crisps, cake, sex etc. give up complaining. They're doing it on the Archers and I thought it would be perfect for the Fab fora.
Who's in?
I’ll try....... but I can’t promise!
P.S do you think Nick Grundy is going to loose her job at The Bull after her public row with Emma?"
I hope so, I can’t stand her or Will - smug gits |
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I like that. I try not to complain too much but we all do it to an extent.
I was using a Daily Happiness Journal at one point and as a result tried to be more positive in life and it was such a nice way to be. Then I went back to work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m giving up lending....I’ve lent enough already!
I’m giving up leaning.....I’ve bean leant on far to often.
I’m giving up cleaning my belly button....I’m going to collect all the lint. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Lent starts on Wednesday, also Valentine's Day, and I have a challenge for you all.
Instead of giving up chocolate, crisps, cake, sex etc. give up complaining. They're doing it on the Archers and I thought it would be perfect for the Fab fora.
Who's in?
I’ll try....... but I can’t promise!
P.S do you think Nick Grundy is going to loose her job at The Bull after her public row with Emma?"
It looks likely.
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"Lent starts on Wednesday, also Valentine's Day, and I have a challenge for you all.
Instead of giving up chocolate, crisps, cake, sex etc. give up complaining. They're doing it on the Archers and I thought it would be perfect for the Fab fora.
Who's in?
I’ll try....... but I can’t promise!
P.S do you think Nick Grundy is going to loose her job at The Bull after her public row with Emma?
It looks likely.
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Had to laugh at Wills response..... borderline Rob Titchener. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I will endeavour to stop complaining. Not being very religious (and not remembering my Sunday school teachings) will this be for 40 days? "
It's actually 46 if you don't take off Sundays and other holy days during the period.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in but don’t feel it will be too much of a challenge as I rarely complain on here. However if I extend that to my life outside then it is probably worth doing. I’ll report on progress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hang on. Does this mean we get to have one huge splurge on pancake day, before we give up?
It can do. It could be hellish here for the next two days. "
Rant Thursday will become rant Monday and Tuesday |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m in but don’t feel it will be too much of a challenge as I rarely complain on here. However if I extend that to my life outside then it is probably worth doing. I’ll report on progress "
I am intending to extend it to my life. I have a, generally, blessed life so don't have a real reason to complain.
It is going to be tricky to deal with Thames Water and the leak they caused and a couple of other service providers but I'm up for the challenge.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Does this also including flopping down onto the sofa going "Ooh my poor bleeding feet!"?"
That's tricky, but probably not for the forum and yes if you're applying this more generally.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can we also add an absence of bitchiness, sarkiness and ill-will towards newbie single guys?
That would really be a game changer for the forums!"
If they are shaped as complaining then they are covered. It might be a bit much adding them more generally.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m having building work done so too much to complain / moan about!!! Still in disbelief I managed dry January!!
B x "
There is a reason that 'May you have builders' is a curse. I feel for you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m in but don’t feel it will be too much of a challenge as I rarely complain on here. However if I extend that to my life outside then it is probably worth doing. I’ll report on progress
I am intending to extend it to my life. I have a, generally, blessed life so don't have a real reason to complain.
It is going to be tricky to deal with Thames Water and the leak they caused and a couple of other service providers but I'm up for the challenge.
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That’s not complaining- it’s giving constructive feedback |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easter Sunday will be a right bitch god help the poor newbie that signs up that day
I'm in, shall do my best. Great idea op.
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Would it work in the Irish forum? |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"Easter Sunday will be a right bitch god help the poor newbie that signs up that day
I'm in, shall do my best. Great idea op.
Would it work in the Irish forum? "
Duct tape and blindfolds would be sold out |
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"Easter Sunday will be a right bitch god help the poor newbie that signs up that day
I'm in, shall do my best. Great idea op.
Would it work in the Irish forum?
Duct tape and blindfolds would be sold out "
Is that an offer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easter Sunday will be a right bitch god help the poor newbie that signs up that day
I'm in, shall do my best. Great idea op.
Would it work in the Irish forum?
Duct tape and blindfolds would be sold out "
Business opportunity |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"Easter Sunday will be a right bitch god help the poor newbie that signs up that day
I'm in, shall do my best. Great idea op.
Would it work in the Irish forum?
Duct tape and blindfolds would be sold out
Business opportunity "
On eBay bulk buying |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Easter Sunday will be a right bitch god help the poor newbie that signs up that day
I'm in, shall do my best. Great idea op.
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The Easter Bunny and the chocolate dispensed will make things easier. Or, everyone will be so chilled and out of the habit of mithering that this place will be full of sunshine and daffodils.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm trying to remember the last time I gave anything up for lent and what it was.....soda, maybe?
Anyway, since I don't really do the lent thing, I'll continue complaining. Otherwise I'd just complain about not being able to complain |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
C'est moi Boudoir |
"Easter Sunday will be a right bitch god help the poor newbie that signs up that day
I'm in, shall do my best. Great idea op.
The Easter Bunny and the chocolate dispensed will make things easier. Or, everyone will be so chilled and out of the habit of mithering that this place will be full of sunshine and daffodils.
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Beats giving up sex
Fingers crossed |
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"I’m having building work done so too much to complain / moan about!!! Still in disbelief I managed dry January!!
B x
There is a reason that 'May you have builders' is a curse. I feel for you.
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Not through choice either - 2 leaks over Xmas caused a lot of damage in 5 rooms |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I’m having building work done so too much to complain / moan about!!! Still in disbelief I managed dry January!!
B x
There is a reason that 'May you have builders' is a curse. I feel for you.
Not through choice either - 2 leaks over Xmas caused a lot of damage in 5 rooms "
Eek! A chance to focus on what you have and are grateful for as you improve what was there before.
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"I’m having building work done so too much to complain / moan about!!! Still in disbelief I managed dry January!!
B x
There is a reason that 'May you have builders' is a curse. I feel for you.
Not through choice either - 2 leaks over Xmas caused a lot of damage in 5 rooms
Eek! A chance to focus on what you have and are grateful for as you improve what was there before.
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Definitely! Time for Frank to put his mark on our home xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I complain enough to give it up...
Apparently I complain enough for the entire forum."
Hahahaha I’m pretty sure if you do then you’re not alone! |
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Im out.
Jesus. What's to say if there's no complaining ?
Oh hi I like your hair.
That's lovely.
Shall I plump up the cushions for you?
This driving hail and icy wind does wonders for my complexion ?
Having the shits is such fun.
NO ...... Im NOT in. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Im out.
Jesus. What's to say if there's no complaining ?
Oh hi I like your hair.
That's lovely.
Shall I plump up the cushions for you?
This driving hail and icy wind does wonders for my complexion ?
Having the shits is such fun.
NO ...... Im NOT in."
Let it out.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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Lent started today.
How are you doing? I have failed at the first hurdle as my morning started with a moan (of pain, which led to moany moments).
I'll try and do better from now on.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Lent started today.
How are you doing? I have failed at the first hurdle as my morning started with a moan (of pain, which led to moany moments).
I'll try and do better from now on.
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No moaning yet this end. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Lent started today.
How are you doing? I have failed at the first hurdle as my morning started with a moan (of pain, which led to moany moments).
I'll try and do better from now on.
No moaning yet this end."
I aim to be more like you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lent starts on Wednesday, also Valentine's Day, and I have a challenge for you all.
Instead of giving up chocolate, crisps, cake, sex etc. give up complaining. They're doing it on the Archers and I thought it would be perfect for the Fab fora.
Who's in?
" Fuck that . i love a good moan |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like this..... i complained about how cold i was today... but I came home to a house I could heat up.... there are people on the streets who dont have this luxury.
Count me in (a day late!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m steering away from Lent challenges this year
Haha 2017 was an interesting year then Swing??
Yes - I gave up wanking for Lent
We were Lenten buddies last year.
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We were although you were more aware of the real length of Lent |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I like this..... i complained about how cold i was today... but I came home to a house I could heat up.... there are people on the streets who dont have this luxury.
Count me in (a day late!)"
Exactly! Save the moans for something worth a moan.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m steering away from Lent challenges this year
Haha 2017 was an interesting year then Swing??
Yes - I gave up wanking for Lent
We were Lenten buddies last year.
We were although you were more aware of the real length of Lent "
Oh yes there was me thinking it was 30 days, durrrrr |
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This is Britain . We couldn't give up complaining and moaning even if we tried . That's like saying give up Tea for a week , or give up saying sorry if someone bumps into you . But good luck to anyone trying this |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This is Britain . We couldn't give up complaining and moaning even if we tried . That's like saying give up Tea for a week , or give up saying sorry if someone bumps into you . But good luck to anyone trying this "
A couple of years ago I challenged myself to go a week without saying sorry. I didn't even make it to 7 hours, let alone 7 days.
Today has been moan free, even when I had to deal with a utility company.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I’ve had a moan today. It’s been pretty crappy x
Shake it off and start again. Being tested is what Lent is about.
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I’ll be ok tomorrow, today was just a blip x |
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"Sorry I’ve had a moan today. It’s been pretty crappy x
Shake it off and start again. Being tested is what Lent is about.
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Thankyou lickety this is going well for me...I've even had a few positive compliments about the impact I'm having. Cheesy I kniw but it's working!! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Sorry I’ve had a moan today. It’s been pretty crappy x
Shake it off and start again. Being tested is what Lent is about.
Thankyou lickety this is going well for me...I've even had a few positive compliments about the impact I'm having. Cheesy I kniw but it's working!!"
Giving positivity begets positivity. I hope it becomes a useful habit.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can I start when my tonsils are better? People keep asking how I am and I don't want to lie."
Telling people how you are isn't moaning. Moaning would be kvetching that they didn't feel sorry enough for you when you told them.
Start whenever you like. It's not a competition, just Lent.
Feel better soon.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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I had a blessed day with no complaints.
The sun was glorious. I found the thing my sister wanted. Lychees were abundant. I've avoided rising to Clem's forum bait. My new car registration came through. My skin feels like the finest soft, buttery leather and I lost just over 2kgs this week.
I expect the last to be reversed as soon as I have a proper meal again but, for now, it's good. |
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"I had a blessed day with no complaints.
The sun was glorious. I found the thing my sister wanted. Lychees were abundant. I've avoided rising to Clem's forum bait. My new car registration came through. My skin feels like the finest soft, buttery leather and I lost just over 2kgs this week.
I expect the last to be reversed as soon as I have a proper meal again but, for now, it's good. "
Brilliant loss. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"How are you all doing a week in?
Fine. I had someone at work ask where that whistling was coming from earlier and I realised it was me. It was tuneful."
I doubt their comment was based on it being tuneful. I like it when people notice the unusual.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've been ill most of it. I haven't been too miserable but I moaned about the weather. "
Not too miserable when ill is good. The weather is going to get very cold but it will also be sunny. I hope that lifts your spirits and that you are feeling better soon.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I had a blessed day with no complaints.
The sun was glorious. I found the thing my sister wanted. Lychees were abundant. I've avoided rising to Clem's forum bait. My new car registration came through. My skin feels like the finest soft, buttery leather and I lost just over 2kgs this week.
I expect the last to be reversed as soon as I have a proper meal again but, for now, it's good.
Brilliant loss. "
I haven't checked whether it's an ongoing loss but my clothes are feeling comfortable so I'm happy.
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"Lent starts on Wednesday, also Valentine's Day, and I have a challenge for you all.
Instead of giving up chocolate, crisps, cake, sex etc. give up complaining. They're doing it on the Archers and I thought it would be perfect for the Fab fora.
Who's in?
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What a rediculous idea! I certainly don't want any part of this nonsense! I'm fed up of people banging on about the constant complaining on the Fab forum. Count me OUT!!!
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I like that idea. Being positive and not complaining for lent. Time to give it a go, might be a bit tough at work. Or they might think I need councelling."
Only two and a half weeks to go. I hope it works well for you.
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