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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone seeing a message they sent in sent box with a line through the word deleted with no reply may give them some idea,maybe ?? "
Its in person tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Politely, respectfully, gently and clearly.
How would you put that into words then?? "
Well it depends on the degree we’ve interacted before, obviously. As if we’ve had extensive interaction I may add/amend more info according to what has transpired between us.
But to an unsolicited message received from someone I’ve had no interaction with I might say something like:
What a lovely message, appreciated. It’s a polite and respectful thank you but no thank you from me though. I do wish you all the best with Fab. Enjoy. x
If it was a rude or crass message, I might omit the first sentence.
If you mean how to let someone down who you’re friends with I’d need more context, as it’d be a very personal and individual conversation in order to attempt gentleness for their specific situation/history with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Politely, respectfully, gently and clearly.
How would you put that into words then??
Well it depends on the degree we’ve interacted before, obviously. As if we’ve had extensive interaction I may add/amend more info according to what has transpired between us.
But to an unsolicited message received from someone I’ve had no interaction with I might say something like:
What a lovely message, appreciated. It’s a polite and respectful thank you but no thank you from me though. I do wish you all the best with Fab. Enjoy. x
If it was a rude or crass message, I might omit the first sentence.
If you mean how to let someone down who you’re friends with I’d need more context, as it’d be a very personal and individual conversation in order to attempt gentleness for their specific situation/history with me. "
I'd be pretty chuffed if I got that refusal.. not something I'd ever expect - given the AMOUNT of messages most women are sent. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"Say thanks but you don't think you can offer them what they need."
I use this but then they try and backtrack to fit what you say. Which is annoying.
So I rarely get back to those who I don’t think I would potentially match well with. |
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