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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, recently split with my long term girlfriend of 5 years, so now I'm fabbing alone. Iv been out if they game for a while.
Anybody want to show me the ropes? Lookin for friends and posibly more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that fella, it must be tough but time is a great healer.
On here you’re going to join the ranks of all the other lone males looking for action now, hopefully there will be some ladies looking to be a ‘rebound shag’ but it might not be the best marketing approach to be honest, but I wish you all the best. Good luck my friend.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to be blunt, but you'll find that the last thing most women will be here for is to be a rebound shag. Not do they want to 'show you (or anyone else) the ropes'. They won't really be interested in knowing about your previous relationship.
You're far better projecting a confident and approachable you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to be blunt, but you'll find that the last thing most women will be here for is to be a rebound shag. Not do they want to 'show you (or anyone else) the ropes'. They won't really be interested in knowing about your previous relationship.
You're far better projecting a confident and approachable you. "
he could tie a bungy around you both and have a momentum shag  |
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"I'm not lookin for a rebound shag, more just people to talk to and chat, "
Don't make it about her then. Just get chatting to people. Sorry to hear your relationship has ended. I went through the same last year and its a bit shitty for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by "show you the ropes"? You seem to have been on here a while so just curious as to what you need to learn? "
how to talk to women without getting his head bit off ........i need tips on that too |
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"Maybe 'fabbing' isn't the best thing for you right now. That in itself can often open up new emotions, especially after coming out of a long relationship. Good luck "
When my last relationship ended, after a similar length of time to the op's fab was my sanctuary. Not to meet people but to chat shit, laugh and vent (maybe too much at times) this place is so much more than putting naughty bits together |
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"Hi all, recently split with my long term girlfriend of 5 years, so now I'm fabbing alone. Iv been out if they game for a while.
Anybody want to show me the ropes? Lookin for friends and posibly more "
Go on other vanilla site...plenty of women on there after just sex.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe this is not the best site then? Maybe a dating website might be more appropriate?
Why? "
He just wants to chat not shag? I just feel that being on a swingers site implies that sex would be involved for one or more of the people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guy's asking to be friends with people, possibly more. It would be nice if he could be welcomed and shown the same sensitivity that a woman in a similar situation would be shown."
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