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By *ausonbou OP Man
over a year ago
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There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. |
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over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. "
give up and join another site its the only way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. give up and join another site its the only way "
That's to easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. give up and join another site its the only way
That's to easy "
sometimes easy is easy |
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80%!!!!?
Your doing something right then.
I'd say around 95% of mine are ignored regardless of whether it's a copy n paste message or well constructed and tailored to them.
I have found that in clubs that I don't even need to try as ladies tend to take a liking to me in person so that's the way I've been going
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. give up and join another site its the only way
That's to easy sometimes easy is easy "
Yea but that's to easy  |
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I actually struggle quite a bit trying to figure out what to write in a first message and always get a bit concerned it will seem like a copy and paste I’m never 100% sure what someone is looking for I just try anyway haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. give up and join another site its the only way
That's to easy sometimes easy is easy
Yea but that's to easy "
make it easy on yourself cos breaking up is so very hard to dooooo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. give up and join another site its the only way
That's to easy sometimes easy is easy
Yea but that's to easy make it easy on yourself cos breaking up is so very hard to dooooo "
Naaaaaaaa just text them ..... easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. "
I'm not telling  I used to explain it, but I don't bother now . I figured it out on my own, so can others lol. It's not rocket science to not have a message that's instantly deleted or not even read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whenever I've read a profile and wanted to message them, it's been something that relates to the profile.
I think I may have been guilty of a few "Hi! How are you?"'s when I first joined. But I quickly learned that a bespoke message, if read, will be recieved positively in most cases.
But then I joined in on the forum not long after and messaging anyone new is not that common an occurrence anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sensible side says-
Be selective in who you message, put some thought into what you write. Do you meet their needs? Do they meet your needs?
If you are only after a fuck, be honest about it. If you are after fun with friends, make it clear.
No one has time for games so be clear about what you can offer.
I rarely send first messages, those that I do send are rarely deleted unread.
My competitive side says -
Cut and paste the same message to everyone...
#lookingoutformyself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. give up and join another site its the only way
That's to easy sometimes easy is easy
Yea but that's to easy make it easy on yourself cos breaking up is so very hard to dooooo
Naaaaaaaa just text them ..... easy "
he wants the secret to my success but its like a recipe that my mamma used to bake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My sensible side says-
Be selective in who you message, put some thought into what you write. Do you meet their needs? Do they meet your needs?
If you are only after a fuck, be honest about it. If you are after fun with friends, make it clear.
No one has time for games so be clear about what you can offer.
I rarely send first messages, those that I do send are rarely deleted unread.
My competitive side says -
Cut and paste the same message to everyone...
#lookingoutformyself "
Part two is where I'm sliding towards right now as well.. I try to help the utterly hopeless.. but it usually backfires and they take it as me slagging them off.. rather than good advice.. or theyr e doing it for attention... or it's a forumites taking the piss and I've not caught on quick enough |
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Tbh I try my best to reply involving bits in their profile, proving I have actually read it and try and tailor it too them! Previously, when I first joined, it was more or less a copy and paste kinda job with small alterations! But that definitely wasn’t working, so tried the personal touch, worked once, near enough a year ago... not worked properly since! I really don’t get it... fuck.. it’s obviously me   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh I try my best to reply involving bits in their profile, proving I have actually read it and try and tailor it too them! Previously, when I first joined, it was more or less a copy and paste kinda job with small alterations! But that definitely wasn’t working, so tried the personal touch, worked once, near enough a year ago... not worked properly since! I really don’t get it... fuck.. it’s obviously me "
I was going to earn some karma and send you one tip to ensure your message is at least read. You've blocked men though, like I also have.. so I can't 
Fate is telling me to keep my secrets |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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You don't need send first messages. Be creative in your life ( after all, your profile is just your showroom) and people will contact you.
Women know exactly who they want. No need to flood their inbox rolling dice... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh I try my best to reply involving bits in their profile, proving I have actually read it and try and tailor it too them! Previously, when I first joined, it was more or less a copy and paste kinda job with small alterations! But that definitely wasn’t working, so tried the personal touch, worked once, near enough a year ago... not worked properly since! I really don’t get it... fuck.. it’s obviously me
I was going to earn some karma and send you one tip to ensure your message is at least read. You've blocked men though, like I also have.. so I can't
Fate is telling me to keep my secrets
Fuck aha and I only blocked it again yesterday my luck ahah have studied your profile and not gunna lie, is pretty genius! Took a lot to not steal it "
Don't steal it.. be inspired by it . I'm sure you can do just as good if not better.. cheers |
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"Tbh I try my best to reply involving bits in their profile, proving I have actually read it and try and tailor it too them! Previously, when I first joined, it was more or less a copy and paste kinda job with small alterations! But that definitely wasn’t working, so tried the personal touch, worked once, near enough a year ago... not worked properly since! I really don’t get it... fuck.. it’s obviously me
I was going to earn some karma and send you one tip to ensure your message is at least read. You've blocked men though, like I also have.. so I can't
Fate is telling me to keep my secrets
Fuck aha and I only blocked it again yesterday my luck ahah have studied your profile and not gunna lie, is pretty genius! Took a lot to not steal it
Don't steal it.. be inspired by it . I'm sure you can do just as good if not better.. cheers"
Aha i wouldn’t steal it dude! I will use it in my own way, will just have sit and think it through aha fingers crossed aha ...cough... inbox is now open ...cough... cheers for the inspiration though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh I try my best to reply involving bits in their profile, proving I have actually read it and try and tailor it too them! Previously, when I first joined, it was more or less a copy and paste kinda job with small alterations! But that definitely wasn’t working, so tried the personal touch, worked once, near enough a year ago... not worked properly since! I really don’t get it... fuck.. it’s obviously me
I was going to earn some karma and send you one tip to ensure your message is at least read. You've blocked men though, like I also have.. so I can't
Fate is telling me to keep my secrets
Fuck aha and I only blocked it again yesterday my luck ahah have studied your profile and not gunna lie, is pretty genius! Took a lot to not steal it
Don't steal it.. be inspired by it . I'm sure you can do just as good if not better.. cheers"
Informative, clever and witty profie - damn wish I'd thought of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks. Just come up with a theme and work all the information around it.. If you like mine.
I've used Pirate, Viking.. all sorts.. this one's my favourite.
I get bored and change it up a fair bit when I am.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. give up and join another site its the only way
That's to easy "
Yes but constantly banging your head against a brick wall gets repetitive and painful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. give up and join another site its the only way
That's to easy
Yes but constantly banging your head against a brick wall gets repetitive and painful."
Then change what you're doing. Can I ask you something personal? What kind of person do you want most of all, what is it that you want to do with them? |
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"There are many threads on this. But what is your thoughts on this.
First message. Brainless. Copy paste. No effort.
First message. Well constructed and obviously read profile
Guys which do you do. Working on the principal that in 80% of cases your message gets read deleted or just ignored.
What do you do. "
If it's not in classical latin we ain't interested. |
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