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Ok so you've heard of premature ejaculation but I have the total opposite issue. It takes me a while to cum. I've been with women who moan at me after 30-45 mins of sex to "cum already" which adds pressure and makes me less able to cum. Often i have to use my hands and then cum that way.
Is this a weird thing to have? I mean some women love that I can go a while and I'm a multiple cummer anyway but is it me or the women I'm with thats the issue? |
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"Ok so you've heard of premature ejaculation but I have the total opposite issue. It takes me a while to cum. I've been with women who moan at me after 30-45 mins of sex to "cum already" which adds pressure and makes me less able to cum. Often i have to use my hands and then cum that way.
Is this a weird thing to have? I mean some women love that I can go a while and I'm a multiple cummer anyway but is it me or the women I'm with thats the issue?"
I don't think it's weird. Only you can answer your second question. |
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"Ok so you've heard of premature ejaculation but I have the total opposite issue. It takes me a while to cum. I've been with women who moan at me after 30-45 mins of sex to "cum already" which adds pressure and makes me less able to cum. Often i have to use my hands and then cum that way.
Is this a weird thing to have? I mean some women love that I can go a while and I'm a multiple cummer anyway but is it me or the women I'm with thats the issue?"
Your just enjoying yourself so much you don't want it to end!!  |
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I read about an issue where guys who masturbate with quite a firm grip can get used to the tightness of their hand and find it hard to cum from vaginal sex.
If you google “masturbation death grip” there’s loads of information. |
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My former FWB suddenly stopped being able to come inside a female. It was after he split with wife and started wanking every night to porn . I wouldn't say it was weird, it's just one of those things. XXX |
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First, don’t worry about it, everyone is different and people change too.
Second, if you’re wanking more than fucking then you get used to that sensation. It could also be stress, medication or lots of other things.
Tell the lucky lady before you start and she’ll either accept it with a smile or she’s perhaps not the right one for you. Some women want a bloke to cum at the right time, others don’t as long as you both enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so you've heard of premature ejaculation but I have the total opposite issue. It takes me a while to cum. I've been with women who moan at me after 30-45 mins of sex to "cum already" which adds pressure and makes me less able to cum. Often i have to use my hands and then cum that way.
Is this a weird thing to have? I mean some women love that I can go a while and I'm a multiple cummer anyway but is it me or the women I'm with thats the issue?"
I had this problem. I found that it was because I was masturbating too much with porn. And had a fleshlight. If you control most of your orgasms yourself a woman is gonna feel different. I went cold turkey from porn then next time I had sex I found myself cumming easily from bjs and sex. Also she's a bitch for putting pressure on you to cum |
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You say that you have to finish yourself off with your hands which suggests what others have said. Your masturbating too much.
That said 30-45 mins shouldn't be a problem as long as your giving variety and concentrating on her needs as opposed to just yours.
It's only boring if your selfish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This has sometimes been an issue with me. I think it's due to the amount I masturbating. Bit hard not to masturbate when you are single and might get called up for national duty at short notice 
However, even when I do masturbate, I find myself cumming a lot quicker while watching porn if I also do a little fantasising, so it might have the same results with sex. |
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"30 mins? I can wind up 2 hours at times and still need a wank after.  "
Would that be 2 hours of just pure pumping...? Or overall including oral & teasing? |
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"30 mins? I can wind up 2 hours at times and still need a wank after.
Would that be 2 hours of just pure pumping...? Or overall including oral & teasing?
Not including foreplay  "
Ohh that is a marathon!
Good grief |
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"30 mins? I can wind up 2 hours at times and still need a wank after.
Would that be 2 hours of just pure pumping...? Or overall including oral & teasing?
Not including foreplay
Ohh that is a marathon!
Good grief "
Why should it be wasted? If you're going to have sex it's got to be one of 3 things. Worthwhile, interesting and enjoyable.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"30 mins? I can wind up 2 hours at times and still need a wank after.
Would that be 2 hours of just pure pumping...? Or overall including oral & teasing?
Not including foreplay
Ohh that is a marathon!
Good grief
Why should it be wasted? If you're going to have sex it's got to be one of 3 things. Worthwhile, interesting and enjoyable. "
Who said anything about wasted?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok so you've heard of premature ejaculation but I have the total opposite issue. It takes me a while to cum. I've been with women who moan at me after 30-45 mins of sex to "cum already" which adds pressure and makes me less able to cum. Often i have to use my hands and then cum that way.
Is this a weird thing to have? I mean some women love that I can go a while and I'm a multiple cummer anyway but is it me or the women I'm with thats the issue?
Your just enjoying yourself so much you don't want it to end!! "
Lol might be it |
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"I read about an issue where guys who masturbate with quite a firm grip can get used to the tightness of their hand and find it hard to cum from vaginal sex.
If you google “masturbation death grip” there’s loads of information. "
This is interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve had the same problem recently. I don’t know what the issue is. But when I’ve used a condom I’ve just faked it because I knew t wasn’t going to happen.
But now, I put pressure on myself before I’ve even started which obviously makes it more difficult! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I also suffer the same. Its so frustrating and the presuure of not doing makes it worse. I can come cum quite quicky with the mrs but anyone else it takes along time. Must be anxiety  "
I’m single now, but when I was with my ex I was the same, no problem. I suppose at least I can get it up. That’s probably worse than not cumming! |
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Listening to others I think masturbation is the issue here. I wank daily and ALOT because I'm a hypersexual. I wank at least 2-4 times a day and do it with speed but obviously when fucking i can't pump with the same speed so I've gotten used to the grip of my hand with the speed. I think i need to go cold turkey from wanking and that should sort it.
I'm a multiple cummer so cumming early has never been an issue because after 30 secs I'm ready for round 2. Its only when the woman is lubed up and her pussy is getting raw and i still havent cum. Weirf situation but i think I've cracked it now |
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