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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you think verifications are good or bad?
Do you read them?
Personal experience it would be nice if it marked when you actually met the person because I have had two left on one day yet I met both posters days apart 
What’s your view? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think they are part of my evaluation process but not the while thing.
I would like there to be a distinction between social and play meets though "
If I leave one I always state whether it was a social or play meet |
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"Do you think verifications are good or bad?
Do you read them?
Personal experience it would be nice if it marked when you actually met the person because I have had two left on one day yet I met both posters days apart
What’s your view? "
I don't really bother with veris anymore as anyone I'm meeting I know a looooong time. But I know what you mean about the timing... I ended up getting 3 veris in one day a couple of years ago when friends of mine from another site found me on fab and all verified me... Two were play verifications and one was social... But I'd met them all at different times. I got a text from my fwb that night asking wtf I'd been up to since he had left my house that the morning loooool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think verifications are good or bad?
Do you read them?
Personal experience it would be nice if it marked when you actually met the person because I have had two left on one day yet I met both posters days apart
What’s your view? "
I read them.. I hope mine are read as they are quite dear to me. Not too bothered about how many days apart they are.. because we all know it's when they are written, not necessarily when it happened. Personally I don't see anything wrong with days apart from one another. |
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I think they can indicate an underlying trend off what someone’s like or the type of meets they have. Sometimes it matches what you’re after, other times not. But on the whole I like them and take them into account.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they can indicate an underlying trend off what someone’s like or the type of meets they have. Sometimes it matches what you’re after, other times not. But on the whole I like them and take them into account. "
Exactly this, mine help to attract the type of women I want to meet, reassures them it's not all an act.. I hope. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I think they can indicate an underlying trend off what someone’s like"
This bit rings true for me. I don't often read verifications until after I've met someone (the fact they are verified is good enough and that way I don't go down the comparison/second guessing route that is counter productive to a good fab time for me) and find that the above statement also rings true in retrospect. I also admit to reading those of people I am not interested in because they often make me laugh, even when they weren't written for a humorous purpose. I like mine anyway, even if no one else ever reads them. |
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"I think they can indicate an underlying trend off what someone’s like or the type of meets they have. Sometimes it matches what you’re after, other times not. But on the whole I like them and take them into account.
Exactly this, mine help to attract the type of women I want to meet, reassures them it's not all an act.. I hope. "
Yes I only had to read 3 of yours to know that if I was meeting, you’d be a person of interest. They don’t even have to be explicit to tell you what you want to know.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they can indicate an underlying trend off what someone’s like or the type of meets they have. Sometimes it matches what you’re after, other times not. But on the whole I like them and take them into account.
Exactly this, mine help to attract the type of women I want to meet, reassures them it's not all an act.. I hope.
Yes I only had to read 3 of yours to know that if I was meeting, you’d be a person of interest. They don’t even have to be explicit to tell you what you want to know. "
Interest? Orangutans in the zoo are "Interesting" I can live with being compared to an Orang. Thank you  |
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"I think they can indicate an underlying trend off what someone’s like or the type of meets they have. Sometimes it matches what you’re after, other times not. But on the whole I like them and take them into account.
Exactly this, mine help to attract the type of women I want to meet, reassures them it's not all an act.. I hope.
Yes I only had to read 3 of yours to know that if I was meeting, you’d be a person of interest. They don’t even have to be explicit to tell you what you want to know.
Interest? Orangutans in the zoo are "Interesting" I can live with being compared to an Orang. Thank you "
Interest as in i profile people and best likely victims. Mwahahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they can indicate an underlying trend off what someone’s like or the type of meets they have. Sometimes it matches what you’re after, other times not. But on the whole I like them and take them into account.
Exactly this, mine help to attract the type of women I want to meet, reassures them it's not all an act.. I hope.
Yes I only had to read 3 of yours to know that if I was meeting, you’d be a person of interest. They don’t even have to be explicit to tell you what you want to know.
Interest? Orangutans in the zoo are "Interesting" I can live with being compared to an Orang. Thank you
Interest as in i profile people and best likely victims. Mwahahaha "
I used to profile people, but been pleasantly surprised a number of times and shocked at how badly I've got it wrong.
Victim.. I'm never a victim.. only a willing volunteer |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I think its a good way of finding out what people like dislike do they go over the top im also a nosey cunt so thats another reason "
Last bit sums it up I think lol. Aren't we all nosey to some extent? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally love them. It's like following breadcrumbs. I also like to look at the profiles of the ones they've met. It does play a part in my vetting process. Sometimes a piece may spring up on their meet veris too. The possibilities are endless... That and I'm a nosy sod  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally love them. It's like following breadcrumbs. I also like to look at the profiles of the ones they've met. It does play a part in my vetting process. Sometimes a piece may spring up on their meet veris too. The possibilities are endless... That and I'm a nosy sod "
I liked your old name better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer making my own decisions by getting to know some one as much as is possible here before meeting.
After all if two or more people meet and comment on that meet its relevant only to them and no indication how I may interact with them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer making my own decisions by getting to know some one as much as is possible here before meeting.
After all if two or more people meet and comment on that meet its relevant only to them and no indication how I may interact with them..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't do them anymore. Never know what to say
You could just say 'Adam is hung like a horse and is definitely the best fuck in the world'.
That sort of thing."
Some people have obviously no imagination |
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We always read them and take them into consideration but don’t make a complete judgement on them. Like to think others treat ours the same.
I think that following the veris trails back and seeing their previous meets, gives more of an insight into someone though. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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When I first started on fab I was very anti verifications. I didn't want to recieve them or give them.
Who I meet is my business and I found it tacky.
While I still find them tacky at times, I'm now not as against them.
I don't think the content of them influences my decision to meet. I choose which ones I show, I imagine others do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem with veris is you don’t see crap ones and even if they’d been left, they wouldn’t be displayed. It’s the veris that aren’t left that really are the most relevant. So in a way , they don’t work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally love them. It's like following breadcrumbs. I also like to look at the profiles of the ones they've met. It does play a part in my vetting process. Sometimes a piece may spring up on their meet veris too. The possibilities are endless... That and I'm a nosy sod "
For me my veris show I am genuine and hopefully as they build will provide validation about my personality and what I offer sexually.
Reading veris tells you a lot about the person, especially when you read the profiles of the people they are meeting. One person I am messaging has great veris that make her much more attractive to me. |
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"Do you think verifications are good or bad?
Do you read them?
Personal experience it would be nice if it marked when you actually met the person because I have had two left on one day yet I met both posters days apart
What’s your view? "
We quite like verifications. They provide some evidence that people are who they say they are, and give a small window into potential compatibility.
They also provide you with other potential playmates to target |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cant say they bother me, i have never asked for a veri and also only give them when someone REALLY makes an impression on me. The only thing that REALLY puts me off is if there high numbers of them on a profile that are not organised social related.
But as with everything it's each to their own isn't it? |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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They’re just there for us to have a nosey at aren’t they?
I have mixed thoughts on them ... I like reading them but generally don’t like displaying them. It leads to too many questions in my experience and I also don’t like the aspect of people contacting you because of who you have met.
Still like reading them though, as long as they’re not graphic ... |
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We think its nice for people to read about your meets and experiences and yes we do read others to get a insight as to what they like and their experiences
The only verifications we take no notice of is by webcam i mean anybody can do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem with veris is you don’t see crap ones and even if they’d been left, they wouldn’t be displayed. It’s the veris that aren’t left that really are the most relevant. So in a way , they don’t work. "
They're pointless. I could have 4 lovely veri's on show but hide 20,000 that say I'm a fucking nightmare.. |
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I tend to finish up skipping from one profile to another via verifications 
