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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I was musing this topic as I was driving home from work today.
My question is simple - has Fab changed you and why?
Me? Well I realise I was very naive when I joined over a year ago and now I’m not so.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm far more at ease with the whole "You're bit my type" thing.
I really dint worry too much about trying to please others tastes any more.. I am who I am as a result of interaction and chatting here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's given me a bit of insight yes into the choices Ive made . I still don't think I've discovered a latent bi side though,however many lovely bottoms I stare at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was musing this topic as I was driving home from work today.
My question is simple - has Fab changed you and why?
Me? Well I realise I was very naive when I joined over a year ago and now I’m not so.
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Yes.. I thought I wanted to do all these crazy sexual acts and that I wasn't too fussed about who it was with.
Now I realise the person is far more important than the acts themselves.. That provided I'm comfortable with her, that there is trust and mutual physical and mental attraction.. only then am I prepared to do anything.
Sounds like a load of bollocks made up to impress.. but Fab has taught me I'm far more emotional than I realised I was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it has taught me to get a thicker skin and also not to be such a people pleaser.
I can’t respond to all messages, yes it’s polite to reply even with a no but if I did I would get nothing done.
I am also not as naive and I know that a mental connection makes a physical connection so much better |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Oh god, everyone has grown so much as people since they joined. I feel like I have stunted emotional maturity in comparison.
I don’t feel as though it has changed me at all. I still know what I want and I still don’t give myself a hard time if I don’t get it. I still worry about how people view me sometimes (though I’m good at covering it with an irrepressible show of confidence). I still have a habit of turning partners into friends, thus draining the sexual tension. I’m still kinda shit at sex, (though my blowjobs rock).
All in all, I really don’t think I’ve changed in the last couple of years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's helped me to see that having a liberated attitude towards sex is not a bad thing. I was repressed for so many years. Joining fab helped me to see things clearer and not to be ashamed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really."
Not disagreeing with you, but I have to ask.. Why are you still here if you feel that way? I can say with some degree of confidence, not ALL men are that way inclined. Same way not all attractive, young, sexy women are as false, plastic and materialistic as many men seem to think they are.
I'd advise anyone struggling on Fab to give it a rest for a while. It can be a huge blow for your self confidence. That you need to be strong and confident and have a thick skin to be able to brush off the negativity that's in abundance.
I hope things pick up for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really.
Not disagreeing with you, but I have to ask.. Why are you still here if you feel that way? I can say with some degree of confidence, not ALL men are that way inclined. Same way not all attractive, young, sexy women are as false, plastic and materialistic as many men seem to think they are.
I'd advise anyone struggling on Fab to give it a rest for a while. It can be a huge blow for your self confidence. That you need to be strong and confident and have a thick skin to be able to brush off the negativity that's in abundance.
I hope things pick up for you."
I have no interest in meeting anyone hence my profile but I enjoy reading the absolute bullshit on the forums. It makes me realise my real life isn’t that bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really.
Not disagreeing with you, but I have to ask.. Why are you still here if you feel that way? I can say with some degree of confidence, not ALL men are that way inclined. Same way not all attractive, young, sexy women are as false, plastic and materialistic as many men seem to think they are.
I'd advise anyone struggling on Fab to give it a rest for a while. It can be a huge blow for your self confidence. That you need to be strong and confident and have a thick skin to be able to brush off the negativity that's in abundance.
I hope things pick up for you.
I have no interest in meeting anyone hence my profile but I enjoy reading the absolute bullshit on the forums. It makes me realise my real life isn’t that bad "
Fair enough.. It is fun if taken with a pinch of salt. |
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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago
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"It's helped me to see that having a liberated attitude towards sex is not a bad thing. I was repressed for so many years. Joining fab helped me to see things clearer and not to be ashamed. "
I would agree with this. I love how many other people think like me!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really.
Not disagreeing with you, but I have to ask.. Why are you still here if you feel that way? I can say with some degree of confidence, not ALL men are that way inclined. Same way not all attractive, young, sexy women are as false, plastic and materialistic as many men seem to think they are.
I'd advise anyone struggling on Fab to give it a rest for a while. It can be a huge blow for your self confidence. That you need to be strong and confident and have a thick skin to be able to brush off the negativity that's in abundance.
I hope things pick up for you.
I have no interest in meeting anyone hence my profile but I enjoy reading the absolute bullshit on the forums. It makes me realise my real life isn’t that bad
Fair enough.. It is fun if taken with a pinch of salt."
I think it’s very sad. I don’t think it’s fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really.
Not disagreeing with you, but I have to ask.. Why are you still here if you feel that way? I can say with some degree of confidence, not ALL men are that way inclined. Same way not all attractive, young, sexy women are as false, plastic and materialistic as many men seem to think they are.
I'd advise anyone struggling on Fab to give it a rest for a while. It can be a huge blow for your self confidence. That you need to be strong and confident and have a thick skin to be able to brush off the negativity that's in abundance.
I hope things pick up for you.
I have no interest in meeting anyone hence my profile but I enjoy reading the absolute bullshit on the forums. It makes me realise my real life isn’t that bad
Fair enough.. It is fun if taken with a pinch of salt.
I think it’s very sad. I don’t think it’s fun."
So you're only hanging around, using Fab to make yourself feel better.. that you're not like these other idiots? I can assure you, that's not the best way to make yourself a happier person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks to fab my life has literally changed 100%! If I hadn’t if joined, I wouldn’t have met Ads, which means we wouldn’t be getting married next month (eeek!), I wouldn’t live in a new place that has so much to offer, I wouldn’t have a job that I adore so much, I wouldn’t have this amazing new family and I wouldn’t have two brilliant little additions to my life, Ads kiddies. So I have ALOT of time for fab, it changed me for the better!!
Geeky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks to fab my life has literally changed 100%! If I hadn’t if joined, I wouldn’t have met Ads, which means we wouldn’t be getting married next month (eeek!), I wouldn’t live in a new place that has so much to offer, I wouldn’t have a job that I adore so much, I wouldn’t have this amazing new family and I wouldn’t have two brilliant little additions to my life, Ads kiddies. So I have ALOT of time for fab, it changed me for the better!!
Geeky x"
Wow! I love that little tale of happiness.. fingers crossed for me then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks to fab my life has literally changed 100%! If I hadn’t if joined, I wouldn’t have met Ads, which means we wouldn’t be getting married next month (eeek!), I wouldn’t live in a new place that has so much to offer, I wouldn’t have a job that I adore so much, I wouldn’t have this amazing new family and I wouldn’t have two brilliant little additions to my life, Ads kiddies. So I have ALOT of time for fab, it changed me for the better!!
Geeky x
Wow! I love that little tale of happiness.. fingers crossed for me then "
absolutely, we aren’t the only ones of course but without this place I have no idea where I would be, I wasn’t in a fantastic place when I met Ads and I always say he saved me in every way x |
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"Oh god, everyone has grown so much as people since they joined. I feel like I have stunted emotional maturity in comparison.
I don’t feel as though it has changed me at all. I still know what I want and I still don’t give myself a hard time if I don’t get it. I still worry about how people view me sometimes (though I’m good at covering it with an irrepressible show of confidence). I still have a habit of turning partners into friends, thus draining the sexual tension. I’m still kinda shit at sex, (though my blowjobs rock).
All in all, I really don’t think I’ve changed in the last couple of years."
I've heard your blowjobs suck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really.
Not disagreeing with you, but I have to ask.. Why are you still here if you feel that way? I can say with some degree of confidence, not ALL men are that way inclined. Same way not all attractive, young, sexy women are as false, plastic and materialistic as many men seem to think they are.
I'd advise anyone struggling on Fab to give it a rest for a while. It can be a huge blow for your self confidence. That you need to be strong and confident and have a thick skin to be able to brush off the negativity that's in abundance.
I hope things pick up for you.
I have no interest in meeting anyone hence my profile but I enjoy reading the absolute bullshit on the forums. It makes me realise my real life isn’t that bad
Fair enough.. It is fun if taken with a pinch of salt.
I think it’s very sad. I don’t think it’s fun.
So you're only hanging around, using Fab to make yourself feel better.. that you're not like these other idiots? I can assure you, that's not the best way to make yourself a happier person."
I don’t think people are idiots and I never called them idiots. You did.
I just think it’s sad that people get so hung up on having sex with people they don’t give a shit about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really.
Not disagreeing with you, but I have to ask.. Why are you still here if you feel that way? I can say with some degree of confidence, not ALL men are that way inclined. Same way not all attractive, young, sexy women are as false, plastic and materialistic as many men seem to think they are.
I'd advise anyone struggling on Fab to give it a rest for a while. It can be a huge blow for your self confidence. That you need to be strong and confident and have a thick skin to be able to brush off the negativity that's in abundance.
I hope things pick up for you.
I have no interest in meeting anyone hence my profile but I enjoy reading the absolute bullshit on the forums. It makes me realise my real life isn’t that bad
Fair enough.. It is fun if taken with a pinch of salt.
I think it’s very sad. I don’t think it’s fun.
So you're only hanging around, using Fab to make yourself feel better.. that you're not like these other idiots? I can assure you, that's not the best way to make yourself a happier person.
I don’t think people are idiots and I never called them idiots. You did.
I just think it’s sad that people get so hung up on having sex with people they don’t give a shit about."
I can't quote you, you're right, but it sounds like you are very close to saying that. Well you have a right to use Fab however you like. I do worry though, it didn't do a lot for my confidence to begin with. Till I figured out how to attract the right type of person. I see a lot that concerns me on here and I don't like the thought of anyone suffering because of Fab.. which is why I commented. It doesn't seem as if you need or want my concern, so I'll leave you be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really.
Not disagreeing with you, but I have to ask.. Why are you still here if you feel that way? I can say with some degree of confidence, not ALL men are that way inclined. Same way not all attractive, young, sexy women are as false, plastic and materialistic as many men seem to think they are.
I'd advise anyone struggling on Fab to give it a rest for a while. It can be a huge blow for your self confidence. That you need to be strong and confident and have a thick skin to be able to brush off the negativity that's in abundance.
I hope things pick up for you.
I have no interest in meeting anyone hence my profile but I enjoy reading the absolute bullshit on the forums. It makes me realise my real life isn’t that bad
Fair enough.. It is fun if taken with a pinch of salt.
I think it’s very sad. I don’t think it’s fun.
So you're only hanging around, using Fab to make yourself feel better.. that you're not like these other idiots? I can assure you, that's not the best way to make yourself a happier person.
I don’t think people are idiots and I never called them idiots. You did.
I just think it’s sad that people get so hung up on having sex with people they don’t give a shit about.
I can't quote you, you're right, but it sounds like you are very close to saying that. Well you have a right to use Fab however you like. I do worry though, it didn't do a lot for my confidence to begin with. Till I figured out how to attract the right type of person. I see a lot that concerns me on here and I don't like the thought of anyone suffering because of Fab.. which is why I commented. It doesn't seem as if you need or want my concern, so I'll leave you be "
Thanks, it was nice of you to show concern but I’m honestly fine. I’m enjoying real life. This is just to pass time occasionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s made me see that most people despise people who are overweight and they are just seen as an easy fuck.
That men say anything for a fuck and not to trust anyone on this site because everyone lies for sex.
It’s all pretty desperate and pathetic really.
Not disagreeing with you, but I have to ask.. Why are you still here if you feel that way? I can say with some degree of confidence, not ALL men are that way inclined. Same way not all attractive, young, sexy women are as false, plastic and materialistic as many men seem to think they are.
I'd advise anyone struggling on Fab to give it a rest for a while. It can be a huge blow for your self confidence. That you need to be strong and confident and have a thick skin to be able to brush off the negativity that's in abundance.
I hope things pick up for you.
I have no interest in meeting anyone hence my profile but I enjoy reading the absolute bullshit on the forums. It makes me realise my real life isn’t that bad
Fair enough.. It is fun if taken with a pinch of salt.
I think it’s very sad. I don’t think it’s fun.
So you're only hanging around, using Fab to make yourself feel better.. that you're not like these other idiots? I can assure you, that's not the best way to make yourself a happier person.
I don’t think people are idiots and I never called them idiots. You did.
I just think it’s sad that people get so hung up on having sex with people they don’t give a shit about.
I can't quote you, you're right, but it sounds like you are very close to saying that. Well you have a right to use Fab however you like. I do worry though, it didn't do a lot for my confidence to begin with. Till I figured out how to attract the right type of person. I see a lot that concerns me on here and I don't like the thought of anyone suffering because of Fab.. which is why I commented. It doesn't seem as if you need or want my concern, so I'll leave you be
Thanks, it was nice of you to show concern but I’m honestly fine. I’m enjoying real life. This is just to pass time occasionally."
Good That was my main concern x |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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Been on here a very long time, both of us had our own successful single profiles. We met here so that was a massive change for me as id been single (but had lots of fwbs) for over 12 years.
Think ive learnt a lot and my confidence had grown as a result of being on here. Im far more accepting of my faults and willing to see past others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it has,
Never in a million years did I think I would enjoy a 30 year old hottie. I still pick my jaw off the floor when I see him.
On the other hand I really have seen the bad side as well which has made me more guarded. |
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Well i am who i am like me or not in fab as in life i realise i am.not everyones thing but thats cool its taught me a mental connection definatly enhances the physically connection and that an older man is like a fine wine only consumed on non school nights |
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