"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out"
yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week) |
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"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out
yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"
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"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out
yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"
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"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out
yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"
Eek |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be funny and confident without being cheesy and cocky.
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What’s the best thing about Switzerland?
I don’t know, but the flag is a big plus!
Fancy a coffee? 
That sort of thing?  |
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"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out"
Know yourself well and be articulate enough to put it into words. In short, be yourself, not the false version you think people want you to be.
That way, when the time comes, you can be confident in everything you say and do.. Confident, not arrogant.
Spelling, grammar, face pics, creativity, humour and honesty still go a long way.. with the kind of women I like to meet at least.
Stick to your own standards and be respectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Given that many women look at a man's profile, before opening a message, you already stand out OP. I think it's difficult to give message advice, because so many want different approaches. I would go with the basics... Funny, respectful and showing signs that you've read a profile, are usually positive things  |
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"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out
yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"
Owned! Brutal!  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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You have had quite a bit of success looking at your verifications. Keep going to club's and meeting people that way.
Write polite, friendly messages and mention something from the person's profile to show you are interested in meeting them, not just any woman will do.  |
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"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out
Know yourself well and be articulate enough to put it into words. In short, be yourself, not the false version you think people want you to be.
That way, when the time comes, you can be confident in everything you say and do.. Confident, not arrogant.
Spelling, grammar, face pics, creativity, humour and honesty still go a long way.. with the kind of women I like to meet at least.
Stick to your own standards and be respectful."
Boom got it in one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Always attach a good face pic with your message. Some guys spend a lot of time creating a nice message but don't attach a pic. Most women will then look at the profile and if there is nothing there visually... the delete button usually is hit.
It's not easy for guys on here to get meets because of the number ratio. This week I've deleted hundreds and hundreds of messages, some lovely ones, but only communicated with 2 new people. Unfortunately we only have one body and limited time, we can't meet you all. |
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"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out
yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"
And i for one love that fact! But there's no need to troll the op just because he doesn't like big women. He's allowed a preference just like anyone else. |
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