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over a year ago
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How far would you travel for a FWB? I already have a long distance which works just fine. Would you consider another distance or concentrate on closer to home? |
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I travel a lot so driving for an hour or two doesn’t bother me like it does other people.
Other people will say that too long and want someone closer that they can call upon when they want.
I think general availability can be more of a barrier than location itself |
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over a year ago
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We would say 30 mins radius from where we are.
We are FWB, and for us, we need to be able to get to one another and spending an age travelling would restrict the time we get to spend together.
Without wanting to use the word convenient, we don’t want the travel aspect to be inconvenient. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I travel a lot so driving for an hour or two doesn’t bother me like it does other people.
Other people will say that too long and want someone closer that they can call upon when they want.
I think general availability can be more of a barrier than location itself "
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I think I possibly agree this could be the major factor. Having got a full time job, a FWB and a life availability may be more the issue than the distance. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in Worcester. I’ve two long term about 20 mins away. Seem to have potentially “collected” another one about 30 mins away in Bearwood/Quinton ..... think that’s far enough for regular stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My FWB lives near Ipswich and I live in Sheffield - but she is worth it.
I once drove there from Aberdeen for a night in a hotel with her.
Worth every minute x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m in Worcester. I’ve two long term about 20 mins away. Seem to have potentially “collected” another one about 30 mins away in Bearwood/Quinton ..... think that’s far enough for regular stuff."
That's just greedy..... but well done |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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An fwb would need to be local for me. Ive only had the 1 in the true sense. Going out boozing, cinema and all the friends type stuff as well as the nookie. I have travelled further afield for people that I have met more than once but i consider them playmates who I was chatty and friendly with as opposed to a proper fwb. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it feels right the distance can always be overcome..."
I disagree. If you want to meet regularly it's impossible. I work full time and have a family, like most, and when I meet I like to have plenty of time to make it worth it. The guy who lives in my wardrobe agrees completely ! |
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"If it feels right the distance can always be overcome...
I disagree. If you want to meet regularly it's impossible. I work full time and have a family, like most, and when I meet I like to have plenty of time to make it worth it. The guy who lives in my wardrobe agrees completely ! "
Hello Miss Narnina...
I didn't say it was ideal. And I am geographically challenges anyway so the travel is something I have to overcome no matter what the situation..
I'm off to see if I can find someone local hidden in the back of my wardrobe  |
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I regularly meet someone who lives well over a hundred miles away - we just meet more or less in the middle, and yes, it's worth it! Mind you, my idea of regular probably isn't what you meant  I can see distance would become an issue - obviously - if you wanted to meet more frequently and/or didn't drive etc. |
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"If it feels right the distance can always be overcome...
I disagree. If you want to meet regularly it's impossible. I work full time and have a family, like most, and when I meet I like to have plenty of time to make it worth it. The guy who lives in my wardrobe agrees completely !
Hello Miss Narnina...
I didn't say it was ideal. And I am geographically challenges anyway so the travel is something I have to overcome no matter what the situation..
I'm off to see if I can find someone local hidden in the back of my wardrobe "
A faun, or a white witch maybe ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"About an hour away x
Perfick 
Im sure if I drove really fast I could get to Leeds in an hour x"
Hmmmm just googled...... can we negotiate on the hour? |
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"About an hour away x
Perfick
Im sure if I drove really fast I could get to Leeds in an hour x
Hmmmm just googled...... can we negotiate on the hour? "
Or meet in the middle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It depends on how often you agree. A couple of hours either way for a fun day has been my limit, but do do that more than every week becomes tricky and doesn't allow spontaneity... |
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I've done long distance (2.5 hours) in the past, and it gets to be a pain in the arse.
It's ok if you are happy with the occasional planned meet but if you want anything more frequent or more spontaneous then it starts to grate.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"About an hour away x
Perfick
Im sure if I drove really fast I could get to Leeds in an hour x
Hmmmm just googled...... can we negotiate on the hour?
Or meet in the middle "
Oh that’s a given lol xx |
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"It depends on how often you agree. A couple of hours either way for a fun day has been my limit, but do do that more than every week becomes tricky and doesn't allow spontaneity..."
Without a "sleep-over", or a couple of days allocated to the visit, yes the distance has to be accounted for, and a limit drawn.
But even more so for the spontaneity aspect. Though for some of the people on here with more complex lives (not looking at you Morpork Watch!), I imagine spontaneity is going to be tricky even if they live two doors away... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it feels right the distance can always be overcome...
I disagree. If you want to meet regularly it's impossible. I work full time and have a family, like most, and when I meet I like to have plenty of time to make it worth it. The guy who lives in my wardrobe agrees completely !
Hello Miss Narnina...
I didn't say it was ideal. And I am geographically challenges anyway so the travel is something I have to overcome no matter what the situation..
I'm off to see if I can find someone local hidden in the back of my wardrobe
A faun, or a white witch maybe ?"
Trogladyes always seek the magical... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it feels right the distance can always be overcome...
I disagree. If you want to meet regularly it's impossible. I work full time and have a family, like most, and when I meet I like to have plenty of time to make it worth it. The guy who lives in my wardrobe agrees completely !
Hello Miss Narnina...
I didn't say it was ideal. And I am geographically challenges anyway so the travel is something I have to overcome no matter what the situation..
I'm off to see if I can find someone local hidden in the back of my wardrobe
A faun, or a white witch maybe ?
Trogladyes always seek the magical..."
Unnecessary.
I just prefer spending my time with a yummy man than driving in less than comfortable underwear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How far would you travel for a FWB? I already have a long distance which works just fine. Would you consider another distance or concentrate on closer to home? "
Had a girlfriend in Chicago once. Not sure I'd travel that far again, mind. |
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I spend a lot of time driving, it's about 4hrs each way to visit my mum & family up north & I do it at least twice a month, more if work allows.
I regularly drive an hour/90 minutes to visit certain friends.
Stick some good tunes on & the journey is over before I know it. |
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"I spend a lot of time driving, it's about 4hrs each way to visit my mum & family up north & I do it at least twice a month, more if work allows.
I regularly drive an hour/90 minutes to visit certain friends.
Stick some good tunes on & the journey is over before I know it.
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Yes, the individual's daily experience of travel adds to the mix.
I drove 5 hours for a two hour meeting the other day. Then the same home again.
An hour's drive to me is virtually popping next door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couple of hours depending on the person and how much we click on here! What does fwb mean? I'm a bit of a clueless noob haits a fuck wench buddy"
thanking you bro
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"Couple of hours depending on the person and how much we click on here! What does fwb mean? I'm a bit of a clueless noob haits a fuck wench buddy thanking you bro "
No no no......... we never use the word “bro”  |
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"Couple of hours depending on the person and how much we click on here! What does fwb mean? I'm a bit of a clueless noob haits a fuck wench buddy thanking you bro
No no no......... we never use the word “bro” "
sorry won't use it again ha |
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"Couple of hours depending on the person and how much we click on here! What does fwb mean? I'm a bit of a clueless noob haits a fuck wench buddy thanking you bro
No no no......... we never use the word “bro” sorry won't use it again ha"
Thank you |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Couple of hours depending on the person and how much we click on here! What does fwb mean? I'm a bit of a clueless noob haits a fuck wench buddy thanking you bro
No no no......... we never use the word “bro” sorry won't use it again ha"
Use it all you want bro |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couple of hours depending on the person and how much we click on here! What does fwb mean? I'm a bit of a clueless noob haits a fuck wench buddy thanking you bro
No no no......... we never use the word “bro” sorry won't use it again ha"
he is a bro i actually come from middleton, langley. Not been back in years though |
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"Couple of hours depending on the person and how much we click on here! What does fwb mean? I'm a bit of a clueless noob haits a fuck wench buddy thanking you bro
No no no......... we never use the word “bro” sorry won't use it again hahe is a bro i actually come from middleton, langley. Not been back in years though"
small world |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Couple of hours depending on the person and how much we click on here! What does fwb mean? I'm a bit of a clueless noob haits a fuck wench buddy thanking you bro
No no no......... we never use the word “bro” sorry won't use it again ha
Use it all you want bro "
Rebellion in the ranks |
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