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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are there any traits that someone may have that totally turns you off them, despite how gorgeous or hot in bed they are?
For me, it's lying. I absolutely can't stand being lied to. Totally utterly zero tolerance for it.
Anyone else?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the context of the lie.
Lie can be used for various reasons...like the does my bum look good in this type.
And I think a lot tell so called white lies for good intent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. Once I like a guy and find them attractive they can normally be complete bastards and have lots of horrible traits yet they don't seem to put me off, encourage me to try harder if anything! |
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"Are there any traits that someone may have that totally turns you off them, despite how gorgeous or hot in bed they are?
For me, it's lying. I absolutely can't stand being lied to. Totally utterly zero tolerance for it.
Anyone else?
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I'm the same I hate lies with a passion! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Racism, sexism, narrow mindedness, self absorbed and too cocky or just generally being nasty or unkind would all put me off.
No matter how physically attractive someone is if there's a major aspect about their personality that put me off I couldn't bring myself to do anything with them.
For me personality always plays a part in deciding whether I want to get physical with someone.
Of course sometimes we find things out about people after the fact. But say I'd met someone and we'd already had multiple meets that I'd really enjoyed, I would still stop seeing them if I found out something I really didn't like about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Misplaced feminist (yes I know they're lost)
Arrogance
Those who proceed to tell you not to tell them what to do when they were telling you what to do in their first message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I turned someone down when I found out what job he had. The thought of what he did every day, just turned my stomach, couldn't touch him."
Politician?
Estate Agent?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends on the context of the lie.
Lie can be used for various reasons...like the does my bum look good in this type.
And I think a lot tell so called white lies for good intent "
I think there's a big difference between white lies and lies, but I still don't think lying is ok. If my friends ask for my honest opinion, they get it and know there's a risk it won't be what they want to hear, but they asked for my honest opinion, so they deserve it 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we all have traits that annoy, but they're not evident in a daily basis?
I'm sure we all have friends that we tolerate and just accept.
The obvious ones would be rude, arrogant unpleasant people.
People change dependant on circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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poor hygiene - made several excuses after tutning up at someone's house and seeing the state of their bathroom. If they can't even clean a toilet when they know someone's coming for a meet, what does that say about their personal hygiene?
Had this a few times on Fab lately - nice photos of them on site - but on arrival house is a shit tip! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. Once I like a guy and find them attractive they can normally be complete bastards and have lots of horrible traits yet they don't seem to put me off, encourage me to try harder if anything!"
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"Are there any traits that someone may have that totally turns you off them, despite how gorgeous or hot in bed they are?
For me, it's lying. I absolutely can't stand being lied to. Totally utterly zero tolerance for it.
Anyone else?
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thats all well and good but you can't always tell when you're being lied to and not all lies are bad. Inhumanity, cruelty, bigotry,misogyny, racism. Sometimes you'll finfd this all rolled into one...they're usually called tories! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The list is too long for here but as I am generally tolerant (I've had sex with tories ) and no one is interested in me it doesn't matter too much.
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They would have to be really hot if I was ever to have sex with a tory. Does this make me conservitiveist? |
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I have zero tolerance for almost every stupid, pointless and annoying habit any human can posess.
She is alot more tolerant.
The joys of being hyper vigilant and a uncanny habit of telling people to fuck off and grow up before you take a breath |
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"Feminists.
Thats me out then! We are absolutely awful people, wanting all that equality!
Racists, facists or misongynists for me uh huh. Feminists demand equality! And also special treatment ;-/"
and maybe defend islam although it conflicts every one of their beliefs.
You need the word feminism.if you called it man hate no men would help you. (Dick head emoji) |
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"Feminists.
Thats me out then! We are absolutely awful people, wanting all that equality!
Racists, facists or misongynists for me uh huh. Feminists demand equality! And also special treatment ;-/and maybe defend islam although it conflicts every one of their beliefs.
You need the word feminism.if you called it man hate no men would help you. (Dick head emoji)"
Feminism is not about man hating, or about religion. Feminism is purely about the fight for equality whilst recognising and valuing diversity. Most true feminists, including myself, love men....I even own one! Maybe you need to consult a dictionary prior to commenting, or even just google if a dictionary is too difficult.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I simply cant abide self centred narcissistic big ego people.
It has to be ALL about me not them."
Yes narcs, self entitled fuck wits. Their grandiosity is laughable.
Had one gay saying he "wants to fuck my brains out" he was done in 20 minutes.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't like bullies and disrespectful people. I'm a fairly tolerant person, easy going and not up my own arse. Unfortunately a lot of Fab people aren't. I don't like them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are there any traits that someone may have that totally turns you off them, despite how gorgeous or hot in bed they are?
For me, it's lying. I absolutely can't stand being lied to. Totally utterly zero tolerance for it.
Anyone else?
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leaving tissues all over the place after they've blown their hooter  |
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"Are there any traits that someone may have that totally turns you off them, despite how gorgeous or hot in bed they are?
For me, it's lying. I absolutely can't stand being lied to. Totally utterly zero tolerance for it.
Anyone else?
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I hate lying as well, as I explained to ex-president Barack Obama last night at the pub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feminists.
Thats me out then! We are absolutely awful people, wanting all that equality!
Racists, facists or misongynists for me uh huh. Feminists demand equality! And also special treatment ;-/and maybe defend islam although it conflicts every one of their beliefs.
You need the word feminism.if you called it man hate no men would help you. (Dick head emoji)
Feminism is not about man hating, or about religion. Feminism is purely about the fight for equality whilst recognising and valuing diversity. Most true feminists, including myself, love men....I even own one! Maybe you need to consult a dictionary prior to commenting, or even just google if a dictionary is too difficult.
(Bigger dickhead emoji)"
I'm not in any way defending the former poster, but my experience with most who say they don't like feminism/feminists have a misunderstanding of the meaning which is often down to two things.
1. Not knowing it's true origins
2. Their contact has been with misguided feminists who themselves have made it what they want it to be for themselves. Many have a big chip and often come across arrogant and anti- male. (Which will only go one way)
That the reason in my first post I said "mis-placed feminism" which was to differentiate from true feminism.
Many of these terms like racism, mysogony, antisemitism etc etc are often misunderstood and misplaced. IMO. |
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"Feminists.
Thats me out then! We are absolutely awful people, wanting all that equality!
Racists, facists or misongynists for me uh huh. Feminists demand equality! And also special treatment ;-/and maybe defend islam although it conflicts every one of their beliefs.
You need the word feminism.if you called it man hate no men would help you. (Dick head emoji)
Feminism is not about man hating, or about religion. Feminism is purely about the fight for equality whilst recognising and valuing diversity. Most true feminists, including myself, love men....I even own one! Maybe you need to consult a dictionary prior to commenting, or even just google if a dictionary is too difficult.
(Bigger dickhead emoji)
I'm not in any way defending the former poster, but my experience with most who say they don't like feminism/feminists have a misunderstanding of the meaning which is often down to two things.
1. Not knowing it's true origins
2. Their contact has been with misguided feminists who themselves have made it what they want it to be for themselves. Many have a big chip and often come across arrogant and anti- male. (Which will only go one way)
That the reason in my first post I said "mis-placed feminism" which was to differentiate from true feminism.
Many of these terms like racism, mysogony, antisemitism etc etc are often misunderstood and misplaced. IMO."
You are right. Its misandry, not feminism that is the hatred of men! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feminists.
Thats me out then! We are absolutely awful people, wanting all that equality!
Racists, facists or misongynists for me uh huh. Feminists demand equality! And also special treatment ;-/and maybe defend islam although it conflicts every one of their beliefs.
You need the word feminism.if you called it man hate no men would help you. (Dick head emoji)
Feminism is not about man hating, or about religion. Feminism is purely about the fight for equality whilst recognising and valuing diversity. Most true feminists, including myself, love men....I even own one! Maybe you need to consult a dictionary prior to commenting, or even just google if a dictionary is too difficult.
(Bigger dickhead emoji)
I'm not in any way defending the former poster, but my experience with most who say they don't like feminism/feminists have a misunderstanding of the meaning which is often down to two things.
1. Not knowing it's true origins
2. Their contact has been with misguided feminists who themselves have made it what they want it to be for themselves. Many have a big chip and often come across arrogant and anti- male. (Which will only go one way)
That the reason in my first post I said "mis-placed feminism" which was to differentiate from true feminism.
Many of these terms like racism, mysogony, antisemitism etc etc are often misunderstood and misplaced. IMO.
You are right. Its misandry, not feminism that is the hatred of men!"
I mentioned it earlier  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who grovel and agree with another persons views even if they agree with them or not, just to gain favour for whatever reason.
Those sorts really have little or no self respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feminists.
Thats me out then! We are absolutely awful people, wanting all that equality!
Racists, facists or misongynists for me "
And me
Fancy not wanting to live with your parents until you get married, and have our own jobs and be able to do what we want without having to ask for permission from a man
Silly feminists |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feminists.
Thats me out then! We are absolutely awful people, wanting all that equality!
Racists, facists or misongynists for me uh huh. Feminists demand equality! And also special treatment ;-/and maybe defend islam although it conflicts every one of their beliefs.
You need the word feminism.if you called it man hate no men would help you. (Dick head emoji)"
Failing to see what Islam has to do with feminism? |
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