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OK ladies.... How do you make the move on a guy?
Thanks ks to the actions of an ex (no, not that one  ) I find it very hard to make the move on a guy for fear of rejection how find myself in a situation where I may need to instigate a bit more currently.
I need tips on what to do... And not just pounce. I'm not a pouncer and I may kill him if I jump on him lol |
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"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind  "
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms...... |
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"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms...... "
That sounds very enticing, your on the right track there. |
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"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms......
That sounds very enticing, your on the right track there. "
Didn't bloody work though lol |
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"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms......
That sounds very enticing, your on the right track there.
Didn't bloody work though lol "
What? Given me a semi just reading it and I'm at my desk in work.  |
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"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms...... "
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms......
That sounds very enticing, your on the right track there.
Didn't bloody work though lol "
If that didnt work he MUST be gay or impotent. 
Maybe he just doesnt see you like that? |
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"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms......
That sounds very enticing, your on the right track there.
Didn't bloody work though lol
If that didnt work he MUST be gay or impotent.
Maybe he just doesnt see you like that?"
It sounds that you are both nervous probably because you like each other. If you didn’t you wouldn’t care |
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"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms......
That sounds very enticing, your on the right track there.
Didn't bloody work though lol
If that didnt work he MUST be gay or impotent.
Maybe he just doesnt see you like that?"
He does. When we go to bed he's all over me lol but I like a bit of fun all over haha |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms......
That sounds very enticing, your on the right track there.
Didn't bloody work though lol
If that didnt work he MUST be gay or impotent.
Maybe he just doesnt see you like that?
He does. When we go to bed he's all over me lol but I like a bit of fun all over haha "
Im confused 
So youve already done the deed and now you want to instigate more?
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"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms......
That sounds very enticing, your on the right track there.
Didn't bloody work though lol "
Would have worked for me Evie...did before...although as I remember that was more a mutual pounce at the same time sort of thing lol |
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Depends really... I’m not active these days but I think my most brave moment was at a social in Wales.
I saw this guy and as soon as I saw him I wanted to kiss him. I watched him for a while and then I just went over and said ‘hi, I think you have beautiful lips, please can I kiss them’
He took me home with him.
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Cuddle up on the sofa. Head on chest kind of position so you are lying against each other (sort of).
Put your hand on his chest on top of his clothes and absent mindedly stroke. Don't do it too long as it gets annoying.
Then casually put your hand on his chest UNDER his clothes. This should get him thinking "aye aye!!!" And stroke. Trace your fingers all over his chest (still pretending to be all innocent and casual) and make contact with his nipples. If he likes his nipples touched then tease them. This should get his cock twitching.
So gently move you hand down to his cock and rub it through his trousers. This should get his attention. If he gets hard, pounce! If he doesn't get hard tell him you're feeling hot and remove your top and bra. Place his hand on your chest. Casually. He should not be able to resist giving a tweak.
Sex should commence shortly. |
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Genuine ways in which women have approached me first:
Women who know me have asked for advice before steering the conversation around to more interesting topics.
I have been approached by a woman who watched what I was drinking and came over with one for me.
Most previously unknown ladies have, after exchanging some eye contact, simply comd and asked for a dance or said 'Hi' followed by an embarrassed giggle.
One just came up behind me and put her arms around me.
They all worked. Enjoy.  |
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"Lol I was going to say jump on him
So
Move in stealthily from behind
Haha I've tried suggestively draping a leg over his lap as we sit in the sofa, teasingly stroking the back of his neck and arms......
That sounds very enticing, your on the right track there.
Didn't bloody work though lol
If that didnt work he MUST be gay or impotent.
Maybe he just doesnt see you like that?
He does. When we go to bed he's all over me lol but I like a bit of fun all over haha
Im confused
So youve already done the deed and now you want to instigate more?
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Yes. We have had sex twice a Ince meeting but the only sexual attention he pays me is in bed lol I like a bit of a fumble on the sofa... Wandering hands, a snog etc but I understand he may be shy so think I should try to instigate more but have this mental block about it due to previous experiences.
But more generally, I am never any good at making the first move so looking for tips. |
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I'm non too subtle and just place a hand where I want it. If you sit up against him, his arm round you, he can either have his hand in your top, or down your trousers and yours can rest nicely in his crotch. only problem you can't see when they've fallen asleep,so a gentle elbow in the ribs if you hear snoring might be in order  |
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Have you tried as your sitting next to him start nuzzling his ears and neck and put his hands where you want them, I’m sure once he gets encouragement from you that he’s doing it right the rest will follow x |
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"Radical concept i know but have you tried just telling him what you like? Communication is definitely key"
I said this 
And the neck nuzzling
And give me a snog sexy arse
Etc etc etc |
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"Radical concept i know but have you tried just telling him what you like? Communication is definitely key
I said this
And the neck nuzzling
And give me a snog sexy arse
Etc etc etc "
We did talk....on text lol and it looked promising! But didn't materialise.
I'm not as confident as you, not a neck nuzzler.
I did try talking about sex toys though. |
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"Radical concept i know but have you tried just telling him what you like? Communication is definitely key
I said this
And the neck nuzzling
And give me a snog sexy arse
Etc etc etc
We did talk....on text lol and it looked promising! But didn't materialise.
I'm not as confident as you, not a neck nuzzler.
I did try talking about sex toys though. "
Get stuck in girl xx he’ll love it I guarantee |
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I usually make a funny comment about something that is going on nearby, to get a reaction, then once talking I ask how they feel about older women...I don't chat guys up often but that one has not failed me yet  |
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"Cuddle up on the sofa. Head on chest kind of position so you are lying against each other (sort of).
Put your hand on his chest on top of his clothes and absent mindedly stroke. Don't do it too long as it gets annoying.
Then casually put your hand on his chest UNDER his clothes. This should get him thinking "aye aye!!!" And stroke. Trace your fingers all over his chest (still pretending to be all innocent and casual) and make contact with his nipples. If he likes his nipples touched then tease them. This should get his cock twitching.
So gently move you hand down to his cock and rub it through his trousers. This should get his attention. If he gets hard, pounce! If he doesn't get hard tell him you're feeling hot and remove your top and bra. Place his hand on your chest. Casually. He should not be able to resist giving a tweak.
Sex should commence shortly."
I’m going to need a little “me time”, I’ll just take this with me |
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Maybe try the playful approach. Bring in a drink whilst he’s sitting on the couch and deliberately get in the way of the telly, when you’ve put the drinks down get in the way again saying something like sorry am i in the way again?. Straddle his lap (its helps if you have a skirt on) ‘am i still in the way?’ Lean in and kiss him, move his hands to your breasts then just simply whisper in his ear ‘take me right here’
Never fails. |
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"Be nice to find a man I want to make a move on...
I'm sure there's a few you've got your eye on
Most of the good ones are in Ireland tho  "
the little devils |
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"Be nice to find a man I want to make a move on...
I'm sure there's a few you've got your eye on
Most of the good ones are in Ireland tho
Oh dear "
I didn't say ALL though |
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"Love is a losing game ,oh what a mess we made
Love isn't holding hands
More than I could stand "
Oh my!! Please stop using such offensive 4 letter words |
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"Love is a losing game ,oh what a mess we made
Love isn't holding hands
More than I could stand
Oh my!! Please stop using such offensive 4 letter words "
made?? |
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"Be nice to find a man I want to make a move on...
I'm sure there's a few you've got your eye on
Most of the good ones are in Ireland tho
Oh dear
I didn't say ALL though "
True. Maybe focus on those closer to home lol |
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"Be nice to find a man I want to make a move on...
I'm sure there's a few you've got your eye on
Most of the good ones are in Ireland tho
Oh dear
I didn't say ALL though
True. Maybe focus on those closer to home lol "
There's very few good 'uns in my neck of the woods sadly... But hey ho... |
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