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"Yes I have lol" Sad times x | |||
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"Yes I have lol Sad times x " Was admin after complaints | |||
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" After all, we all know it’s fat bottomed girls that make the rocking world go round!! x" In what way? | |||
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" After all, we all know it’s fat bottomed girls that make the rocking world go round!! x In what way?" Well the fabulous Freddie Mercury said it so it must be true! | |||
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" After all, we all know it’s fat bottomed girls that make the rocking world go round!! x In what way? Well the fabulous Freddie Mercury said it so it must be true! " I think I love you lol | |||
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".After all, we all know it’s fat bottomed girls that make the rocking world go round!! x" You most certainly do. | |||
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"Big girls you are beautiful. " Whatever happened to Mika? | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .." What's a green arrow alert? | |||
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"Gonna get my popcorn out " why? | |||
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"That’s a shame. People need to stop seeing the word fat as a negative one - it’s not the word itself, it’s the way it is perceived. It’s daft that you’ve even got to be PC about describing us fabulous fatties as ‘curvy’ or ‘plus size’ or ‘rubenesque’ just to keep the peace. After all, we all know it’s fat bottomed girls that make the rocking world go round!! x" | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .. What's a green arrow alert?" if you click on the green arrow next to your name it takes you to all the threads you have made or commented on | |||
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" After all, we all know it’s fat bottomed girls that make the rocking world go round!! x In what way? Well the fabulous Freddie Mercury said it so it must be true! " But he never had a eye for the ladies though did he Unlike spinal tap https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YjC0vMIrOAk | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .. What's a green arrow alert? if you click on the green arrow next to your name it takes you to all the threads you have made or commented on " And what's wrong with that? | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .." What does it matter? Loads of people post repeat topics but this one is the only in people bitch about. If you don't like it, don't post on it | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .. What does it matter? Loads of people post repeat topics but this one is the only in people bitch about. If you don't like it, don't post on it " | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .. What does it matter? Loads of people post repeat topics but this one is the only in people bitch about. If you don't like it, don't post on it " It the fact he keeps asking the same thing..it just repetitive | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .. What does it matter? Loads of people post repeat topics but this one is the only in people bitch about. If you don't like it, don't post on it " | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .." So what? Do you have a go at the person who posts Fab a pic threads every day or those who start the good morning or late night threads? | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .. What does it matter? Loads of people post repeat topics but this one is the only in people bitch about. If you don't like it, don't post on it It the fact he keeps asking the same thing..it just repetitive " So are you going to complain on the fuck, kiss avoid threads too | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .. What does it matter? Loads of people post repeat topics but this one is the only in people bitch about. If you don't like it, don't post on it It the fact he keeps asking the same thing..it just repetitive " So do all the kiss fuck avoid, favourite pic threads that are posted by the same person again and again..... I've yet to see you pop up to chastise them. Leave the OP alone! | |||
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"Yes I have lol Sad times x Was admin after complaints " Why did people complain did it turn into a bitch fest | |||
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"Yes I have lol Sad times x Was admin after complaints Why did people complain did it turn into a bitch fest " Some were unnecessarily offended by the use of the word fat | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .." There’s lots of repeated posts by the same OP that occur on a daily basis I don’t see you calling them out on their shit Why do you feel the need to single the OP out for it? | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .. There’s lots of repeated posts by the same OP that occur on a daily basis I don’t see you calling them out on their shit Why do you feel the need to single the OP out for it? " No worries | |||
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"Yes I have lol Sad times x Was admin after complaints Why did people complain did it turn into a bitch fest Some were unnecessarily offended by the use of the word fat " God knows why the OP is never offensive when he uses the word | |||
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"Wow again ..you keep posting the same thing..green arrow alert .. What does it matter? Loads of people post repeat topics but this one is the only in people bitch about. If you don't like it, don't post on it " | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly " I think it's wrong to attribute qualities like that to everyone of a particular physical type. Someone's weight and size has no bearing whatsoever on their personality. I'm fat and like to think I'm genuine and friendly, as are my slim and athletic friends. | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly " See, I find that more patronising than ‘fat’. I call my 2 year old god daughter a ‘big girl’ when she can put her shoes on by herself. This is why it shouldn’t have to be a minefield! It is what it is | |||
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"Here we go again, give me two minutes, I've forgotten me Twix, don't leave without me " | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? " Depends if you're genuine and friendly or not | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? " No. If you wanna be fat, put down the weights & pick up a doughnut & a bottle of wine. You don’t just get a body like this overnight, you have to work at it. | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? No. If you wanna be fat, put down the weights & pick up a doughnut & a bottle of wine. You don’t just get a body like this overnight, you have to work at it." | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? " Are you a girl? If so I don't think the op cares about your body fat percentage | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? No. If you wanna be fat, put down the weights & pick up a doughnut & a bottle of wine. You don’t just get a body like this overnight, you have to work at it." Haha I always say I've invested a fortune in this body | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? Are you a girl? If so I don't think the op cares about your body fat percentage " I feel left out | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly I think it's wrong to attribute qualities like that to everyone of a particular physical type. Someone's weight and size has no bearing whatsoever on their personality. I'm fat and like to think I'm genuine and friendly, as are my slim and athletic friends. " Just my opinion, sorry if it offends just I would not call someone fat unless they preferred it. And what I mean about genuine and friendly is I have had better chats with bigger girls as opposed to the slim lingerie model type of girl, only if it’s a bit of banter. I would not offend anyone I’m not that type of person | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? Are you a girl? If so I don't think the op cares about your body fat percentage " | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? No. If you wanna be fat, put down the weights & pick up a doughnut & a bottle of wine. You don’t just get a body like this overnight, you have to work at it." | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly See, I find that more patronising than ‘fat’. I call my 2 year old god daughter a ‘big girl’ when she can put her shoes on by herself. This is why it shouldn’t have to be a minefield! It is what it is " I’m sorry did not mean to sound patronising, I just would not call anyone fat, that’s just my opinion, sorry if I offended you | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly I think it's wrong to attribute qualities like that to everyone of a particular physical type. Someone's weight and size has no bearing whatsoever on their personality. I'm fat and like to think I'm genuine and friendly, as are my slim and athletic friends. Just my opinion, sorry if it offends just I would not call someone fat unless they preferred it. And what I mean about genuine and friendly is I have had better chats with bigger girls as opposed to the slim lingerie model type of girl, only if it’s a bit of banter. I would not offend anyone I’m not that type of person " I was only commenting on your statement that bigger girls are more genuine and friendly than slim girls. I think that's an unfair statement to make | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly See, I find that more patronising than ‘fat’. I call my 2 year old god daughter a ‘big girl’ when she can put her shoes on by herself. This is why it shouldn’t have to be a minefield! It is what it is I’m sorry did not mean to sound patronising, I just would not call anyone fat, that’s just my opinion, sorry if I offended you" Not at all offended lovely ... and lots of people say it. I was just using it to prove the point of what a minefield it is & why can’t we just call it what it is without people getting upset. Same applies at the other end of the spectrum ‘skinny’ ‘waif-like’ ‘boyish’ ... | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? Are you a girl? If so I don't think the op cares about your body fat percentage I feel left out " Hang on...... | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? No. If you wanna be fat, put down the weights & pick up a doughnut & a bottle of wine. You don’t just get a body like this overnight, you have to work at it. Haha I always say I've invested a fortune in this body " Lol, me too lovely!! x | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly See, I find that more patronising than ‘fat’. I call my 2 year old god daughter a ‘big girl’ when she can put her shoes on by herself. This is why it shouldn’t have to be a minefield! It is what it is I’m sorry did not mean to sound patronising, I just would not call anyone fat, that’s just my opinion, sorry if I offended you Not at all offended lovely ... and lots of people say it. I was just using it to prove the point of what a minefield it is & why can’t we just call it what it is without people getting upset. Same applies at the other end of the spectrum ‘skinny’ ‘waif-like’ ‘boyish’ ... " No problem | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly " haha what a load of bollocks ..next you'll be saying that all fat woman are BBW's..that term is ridiculous you dont say women are SBW's or TBW's so why are fat ones all classed as beautiful ? fat is fat skinny is skinny .. im skinny ..i dont get offeneded when someone says your skinny ..why do people get hung up on it.. be proud of what your are or change if youre not comfortable or ashamed of it . | |||
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"My body fat is 15% Am I fat? No. If you wanna be fat, put down the weights & pick up a doughnut & a bottle of wine. You don’t just get a body like this overnight, you have to work at it. Haha I always say I've invested a fortune in this body Lol, me too lovely!! x" So did I! | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly haha what a load of bollocks ..next you'll be saying that all fat woman are BBW's..that term is ridiculous you dont say women are SBW's or TBW's so why are fat ones all classed as beautiful ? fat is fat skinny is skinny .. im skinny ..i dont get offeneded when someone says your skinny ..why do people get hung up on it.. be proud of what your are or change if youre not comfortable or ashamed of it ." It’s not us that are getting offended ... I think it’s the easily offended PC brigade. We’re all proud fatties on here!! | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly " What a load of utter bollocks: and I'm fat! | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly " So bigger girls are more genuine and friendly? Heap of sh*te | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly I think it's wrong to attribute qualities like that to everyone of a particular physical type. Someone's weight and size has no bearing whatsoever on their personality. I'm fat and like to think I'm genuine and friendly, as are my slim and athletic friends. " Exactly! | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly What a load of utter bollocks: and I'm fat! " No need to be nasty about it. Just stating my terminology | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly So bigger girls are more genuine and friendly? Heap of sh*te " Just quoting how I have found it on here | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly So bigger girls are more genuine and friendly? Heap of sh*te " Some people try too hard to please all and come over disingenuous instead. | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly What a load of utter bollocks: and I'm fat! No need to be nasty about it. Just stating my terminology " You've proven my point: not all fat girls are friendly! | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly So bigger girls are more genuine and friendly? Heap of sh*te " Funniest thing I have read in ages!! Crock of shit!! Wtf does friendliness and genuiness have to do with body size. | |||
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"I don’t like to use the word fat, I prefer to use big or bigger. I must agree with you though bigger girls are best. More genuine and friendly So bigger girls are more genuine and friendly? Heap of sh*te Some people try too hard to please all and come over disingenuous instead. " Don't they just, and it never come across well either | |||
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"Remember.. You are NOT fat. You HAVE fat, but you are not fat. " Nope pretty sure I’m fat. And I’m cool with that my self esteem don’t need to rationalise it any other way to make me feel better about it | |||
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"For those I have offended, I’m sorry no malice intended. I just put what I have found it to be like on here. And for those that say crock of shit and all that bollocks, go and relieve a bit of tension ffs" Not offended me In the slightest just calling it for what it was | |||
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"Remember.. You are NOT fat. You HAVE fat, but you are not fat. " It's used as a descriptive word too. So you can be fat, just like you can be slim. You don't 'have slim'. | |||
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"I will change my opinion in future. I will just say your beautiful and fat, might be appreciated more for it " You really don't have to specify. I like your figure would do for a lot of ladies. | |||
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"I will change my opinion in future. I will just say your beautiful and fat, might be appreciated more for it " It was more the genuine and friendly comment that riled people. Body shape has nothing to do with personality | |||
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"I will change my opinion in future. I will just say your beautiful and fat, might be appreciated more for it You really don't have to specify. I like your figure would do for a lot of ladies." I know I’m just being a knob, rising to people who can only put nasty comments. Sorry | |||
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"I will change my opinion in future. I will just say your beautiful and fat, might be appreciated more for it It was more the genuine and friendly comment that riled people. Body shape has nothing to do with personality " Just what I have found on here so far, but yes I have had slimmer ladies be nice. Sounds contradicting but as a newcomer to the site, the other girls fat big whatever have been more approachable and friendly. Just want to forget it now too many jumping on me. | |||
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"I will change my opinion in future. I will just say your beautiful and fat, might be appreciated more for it " No you shouldn’t change your opinion...if that Is your opinion then it is just that..not fact not absolute just your opinion and we are all entitled to them. No not everyone is friendly - fat, average, slim or what ever you want to call it No not everyone is beautiful - pretty, ascetically pleasing or what ever you want to call it But one things for sure we will never all agree and we will never all have the same opinion...but isn’t that what makes us human? MrsK x and yes I’m chunky | |||
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"For those I have offended, I’m sorry no malice intended. I just put what I have found it to be like on here. And for those that say crock of shit and all that bollocks, go and relieve a bit of tension ffs" I'm not offended or tense. I just find statements like all fatsos are friendly, genuine, "real" women risible...and I'm a fatty! | |||
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"I will change my opinion in future. I will just say your beautiful and fat, might be appreciated more for it It was more the genuine and friendly comment that riled people. Body shape has nothing to do with personality " Exactly! | |||
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"I will change my opinion in future. I will just say your beautiful and fat, might be appreciated more for it No you shouldn’t change your opinion...if that Is your opinion then it is just that..not fact not absolute just your opinion and we are all entitled to them. No not everyone is friendly - fat, average, slim or what ever you want to call it No not everyone is beautiful - pretty, ascetically pleasing or what ever you want to call it But one things for sure we will never all agree and we will never all have the same opinion...but isn’t that what makes us human? MrsK x and yes I’m chunky " Thanks mrs k for your constructive comment. X | |||
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"For those I have offended, I’m sorry no malice intended. I just put what I have found it to be like on here. And for those that say crock of shit and all that bollocks, go and relieve a bit of tension ffs I'm not offended or tense. I just find statements like all fatsos are friendly, genuine, "real" women risible...and I'm a fatty! " Sorry will leave it there. What you doing later you seem to need to let off a bit of steam.. lol ...... I am only joking with you | |||
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"Ha ha the OP posts titled big girls, bigger girls fat girls, big girls give it a rest lad " Why should he | |||
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"The days of fatsos being jolly came to an end when popular culture started telling them they were beautiful. Nowadays, they behave with just as much attitude as conventionally attractive women." Yep we’re all alike. Stuck up birches the lot of us | |||
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"Ha ha the OP posts titled big girls, bigger girls fat girls, big girls give it a rest lad " Why? | |||
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"The days of fatsos being jolly came to an end when popular culture started telling them they were beautiful. Nowadays, they behave with just as much attitude as conventionally attractive women. Yep we’re all alike. Stuck up birches the lot of us " Bloody phone I obviously meant bitches | |||
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"The days of fatsos being jolly came to an end when popular culture started telling them they were beautiful. Nowadays, they behave with just as much attitude as conventionally attractive women." I’ve seen beautiful fat women and ugly skinny women. I’ve seen ugly fat women and beautiful skinny women. Being slim doesn’t make a woman conventionally attractive. | |||
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"The days of fatsos being jolly came to an end when popular culture started telling them they were beautiful. Nowadays, they behave with just as much attitude as conventionally attractive women. I’ve seen beautiful fat women and ugly skinny women. I’ve seen ugly fat women and beautiful skinny women. Being slim doesn’t make a woman conventionally attractive." agree | |||
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"The days of fatsos being jolly came to an end when popular culture started telling them they were beautiful. Nowadays, they behave with just as much attitude as conventionally attractive women. I’ve seen beautiful fat women and ugly skinny women. I’ve seen ugly fat women and beautiful skinny women. Being slim doesn’t make a woman conventionally attractive." Spot on And ugly personalities can fit anyone. Male, female, fat or thin | |||
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"Remember.. You are NOT fat. You HAVE fat, but you are not fat. " It’s this attitude that makes the word ‘fat’ unacceptable. What’s wrong with being called fat? Why shouldn’t that be an appropriate description? I’m happily fat thanks very much & I don’t need to be coached in artificial positivity that actually tells me I shouldn’t be proud of it. It’s the people who say things like this, or ‘you’re not fat, you’re beautiful’ - like it’s an ‘either / or’ option - that actually turn ‘fat’ into a negative word. | |||
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"I love all the bigger girls on here find you so beautiful No not on about height lol" By the way, not only am I fat, I'm tall as well | |||
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"I love all the bigger girls on here find you so beautiful No not on about height lol By the way, not only am I fat, I'm tall as well " Double trouble lol | |||
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"For those I have offended, I’m sorry no malice intended. I just put what I have found it to be like on here. And for those that say crock of shit and all that bollocks, go and relieve a bit of tension ffs" No malice intended by my crock of shit reference and certainly no tension. However I stand by my sentiments. So what exactly makes fat (or insert your favourite) ladies more genuine or friendly? Please enlighten me as I find no link whatsover with body size. | |||
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"Totally agree fat was not an insult it's just a preference I like fat women I think you are beautiful " Sorry OP, didn’t mean to derail your post into a debate about terminology lol!! x | |||
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"Totally agree fat was not an insult it's just a preference I like fat women I think you are beautiful Sorry OP, didn’t mean to derail your post into a debate about terminology lol!! x" No problem I just love seeing everyone chat | |||
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"The days of fatsos being jolly came to an end when popular culture started telling them they were beautiful. Nowadays, they behave with just as much attitude as conventionally attractive women." what nonsense! more ludicrous, baseless generalisations again..... women in past eras, certainly considered beautiful, were much much bigger than what is considered a conventional western view of attractiveness nowadays. | |||
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"Remember.. You are NOT fat. You HAVE fat, but you are not fat. It’s this attitude that makes the word ‘fat’ unacceptable. What’s wrong with being called fat? Why shouldn’t that be an appropriate description? I’m happily fat thanks very much & I don’t need to be coached in artificial positivity that actually tells me I shouldn’t be proud of it. It’s the people who say things like this, or ‘you’re not fat, you’re beautiful’ - like it’s an ‘either / or’ option - that actually turn ‘fat’ into a negative word." You've actually managed against all the odds to turn something positive into something negative.. Well done. I myself have fat.. I'm not fat, I have fat. I also wear glasses, so does that mean I am glasses? People who say 'you're fat' are wrong.. The body's whole molecular structure isn't entirely made up of fat. There's other chemical compositions that make up the human body as well dontcha know? If you have measles, you have measles, you don't suddenly say to someone with measles.. You're measles! Everyone has fat in varying degrees of quantity and I have no issue whatsoever with being called fat or hearing peoples opinions that they think I possess too much fat. If other people's opinions bother you so much, lock yourself in a room and don't come out until you conform to how society wants you to look.. That way we won't all have to suffer incessant self loathing from those of you who have no willpower to become the person you really want to be. Fat is far from negative, unless you make it negative by commenting as you have. | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it." What makes you think we need charity?! | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it." BUt you don’t call it how you see it You have a very biased misogynistic opinion, as you have in your many previous reincarnations on this site Doesn’t matter how many times you try to reinvent yourself you’ll never change | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it. BUt you don’t call it how you see it You have a very biased misogynistic opinion, as you have in your many previous reincarnations on this site Doesn’t matter how many times you try to reinvent yourself you’ll never change " I'm surprised women would want to meet him | |||
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"I love all the bigger girls on here find you so beautiful No not on about height lol By the way, not only am I fat, I'm tall as well Double trouble lol" That's me | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it. I've just looked at your photos and you're far from the body perfect so maybe you should think before you speak... I'm a lot closer to it than you are though, aren't I?" No. You're quite chubby actually | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it. I've just looked at your photos and you're far from the body perfect so maybe you should think before you speak... I'm a lot closer to it than you are though, aren't I? No. You're quite chubby actually" But you're far chubbier, is the point I'm making. You surely don't disagree with that? | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it. I've just looked at your photos and you're far from the body perfect so maybe you should think before you speak... I'm a lot closer to it than you are though, aren't I? No. You're quite chubby actually" Lol | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it. I've just looked at your photos and you're far from the body perfect so maybe you should think before you speak... I'm a lot closer to it than you are though, aren't I? No. You're quite chubby actually But you're far chubbier, is the point I'm making. You surely don't disagree with that? " No that wasn't the point you were trying to make you said you're nearly the body perfect and you're not. You're chubby and you have a bad attitude which makes you even worse. You should think before you speak and grow up a little bit please. Oh and yes I am chubby myself. So what? | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it. I've just looked at your photos and you're far from the body perfect so maybe you should think before you speak... I'm a lot closer to it than you are though, aren't I? No. You're quite chubby actually But you're far chubbier, is the point I'm making. You surely don't disagree with that? No that wasn't the point you were trying to make you said you're nearly the body perfect and you're not. You're chubby and you have a bad attitude which makes you even worse. You should think before you speak and grow up a little bit please. Oh and yes I am chubby myself. So what? " No, I didn't day I was "nearly body perfect", I said that I'ma lot close to it than you - which is objectively true. You also use "chubby" to me as an insult, despite you being twice the size of me. If I'm chubby, you're outright fat. If a slim woman calls me chubby, then it's valid, as I'm chubbier than them, but you don't get to take the very thing you are and use it to insult someone who is less-so than yourself, if doesn't work that way. That's called having your cake and eating it. | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it. I've just looked at your photos and you're far from the body perfect so maybe you should think before you speak... I'm a lot closer to it than you are though, aren't I?" You're closer to it than I am. Fucking brilliant. | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it. I've just looked at your photos and you're far from the body perfect so maybe you should think before you speak... I'm a lot closer to it than you are though, aren't I? No. You're quite chubby actually But you're far chubbier, is the point I'm making. You surely don't disagree with that? No that wasn't the point you were trying to make you said you're nearly the body perfect and you're not. You're chubby and you have a bad attitude which makes you even worse. You should think before you speak and grow up a little bit please. Oh and yes I am chubby myself. So what? No, I didn't day I was "nearly body perfect", I said that I'ma lot close to it than you - which is objectively true. You also use "chubby" to me as an insult, despite you being twice the size of me. If I'm chubby, you're outright fat. If a slim woman calls me chubby, then it's valid, as I'm chubbier than them, but you don't get to take the very thing you are and use it to insult someone who is less-so than yourself, if doesn't work that way. That's called having your cake and eating it." So if a person fatter than me calls me fat does that mean I’m not? Aces! | |||
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"No one is trying to do people favours. I think gay girls are beautiful you don't need to come on here trying to insult the girls just no need for it " Does it matter if the gay girls are fat or slim? | |||
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" So if a person fatter than me calls me fat does that mean I’m not? Aces! " Well it's the same principle as me calling someone with a better job and more money a "skint loser" or someone with a dick twice the size of mine "pin dick" - It would make me look silly. Hence, a 17/18st woman looks silly when she insults the phsique of a 13st man, who is prbably half a foot taller than her. | |||
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"Poor guy tries to make fat women feel about themselves and then gets a load of abuse from the very people he's giving charity. This is why I always prefer to call it like I see it. I've just looked at your photos and you're far from the body perfect so maybe you should think before you speak... " He never said he was the body perfect, just that someone was trying to be charitable to the fat women on here and got it thrown in his face. Quite why he thinks the man was being charitable or why fat women need charity he has not clarified. | |||
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" So if a person fatter than me calls me fat does that mean I’m not? Aces! Well it's the same principle as me calling someone with a better job and more money a "skint loser" or someone with a dick twice the size of mine "pin dick" - It would make me look silly. Hence, a 17/18st woman looks silly when she insults the phsique of a 13st man, who is prbably half a foot taller than her." Sorry but regardless of their size I’d still be fat so they’d be right to call me it You’ve got a Podgey belly youre a bit chubby - deal with it or change it | |||
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" So if a person fatter than me calls me fat does that mean I’m not? Aces! Well it's the same principle as me calling someone with a better job and more money a "skint loser" or someone with a dick twice the size of mine "pin dick" - It would make me look silly. Hence, a 17/18st woman looks silly when she insults the phsique of a 13st man, who is prbably half a foot taller than her." Any one insulting anyone looks a little bit silly do they not? | |||
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"Remember.. You are NOT fat. You HAVE fat, but you are not fat. It’s this attitude that makes the word ‘fat’ unacceptable. What’s wrong with being called fat? Why shouldn’t that be an appropriate description? I’m happily fat thanks very much & I don’t need to be coached in artificial positivity that actually tells me I shouldn’t be proud of it. It’s the people who say things like this, or ‘you’re not fat, you’re beautiful’ - like it’s an ‘either / or’ option - that actually turn ‘fat’ into a negative word. You've actually managed against all the odds to turn something positive into something negative.. Well done. I myself have fat.. I'm not fat, I have fat. I also wear glasses, so does that mean I am glasses? People who say 'you're fat' are wrong.. The body's whole molecular structure isn't entirely made up of fat. There's other chemical compositions that make up the human body as well dontcha know? If you have measles, you have measles, you don't suddenly say to someone with measles.. You're measles! Everyone has fat in varying degrees of quantity and I have no issue whatsoever with being called fat or hearing peoples opinions that they think I possess too much fat. If other people's opinions bother you so much, lock yourself in a room and don't come out until you conform to how society wants you to look.. That way we won't all have to suffer incessant self loathing from those of you who have no willpower to become the person you really want to be. Fat is far from negative, unless you make it negative by commenting as you have. " Your proving my point by trying to disagree. ‘Fat’ as a word is a noun, a verb and an adjective. ‘Measles’ and ‘glasses’ are not, so your analogy makes no sense whatsoever. Common usage of the word ‘fat’ has become pejorative. It is used as an insult far more than it is used as a compliment, or even a neutral word. My statement is nothing to do with opinions or confirming to society or self loathing. It’s to do with the semantics & the way the word has become negative in its connotations ... and that is exacerbated by well meaning people who make comments like ‘you’re not fat, you have fat’ or ‘you’re not fat, you’re lovely’ or similar statements. It reinforces the belief that being fat is not acceptable. So no, I’ve not turned a positive into a negative. I’m sure the positive intention was there, as it is with most people who say it, however telling fat people they aren’t fat is diminishing their value. It’s not a question of image, purely of linguistics. | |||
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"No one is trying to do people favours. I think gay girls are beautiful you don't need to come on here trying to insult the girls just no need for it Does it matter if the gay girls are fat or slim? " Ha ha autocorrect | |||
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" You’ve got a Podgey belly youre a bit chubby - deal with it or change it " Your out doing the lack of self-awareness you showed in the 'Rate Yourself' thread. Congratulations. I am working on it though. | |||
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"I'm a lard arse. I hope you like me " Think you look amazing. | |||
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"I'm a lard arse. I hope you like me " Absolutely | |||
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"Oohh fat bird ere! Hope you are having a good evening everyone! " You too. | |||
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"Oohh fat bird ere! Hope you are having a good evening everyone! You too. " Thanks! I bloody deleted me post my accident so ta for saving it too lol | |||
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"Oohh fat bird ere! Hope you are having a good evening everyone! You too. Thanks! I bloody deleted me post my accident so ta for saving it too lol " Yes look great | |||
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" You’ve got a Podgey belly youre a bit chubby - deal with it or change it Your out doing the lack of self-awareness you showed in the 'Rate Yourself' thread. Congratulations. I am working on it though. " If that’s your opinion of me that’s fine you’re entitled to it Good luck with working on it | |||
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" You’ve got a Podgey belly youre a bit chubby - deal with it or change it Your out doing the lack of self-awareness you showed in the 'Rate Yourself' thread. Congratulations. I am working on it though. If that’s your opinion of me that’s fine you’re entitled to it Good luck with working on it " I'm just curious as to how you are "curvy" and not "obese"... If I am "chubby" when you clearly have about 7stone on me. The mind boggles. | |||
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"Like if a guy is chubby but waaaaaaaaaayyyyy slimmer than you, then surely by definition, you can't be "curvy", as a "curvy" woman would be my female equivalent as a "chubby" guy - and she would certainly have a far slimmer frame than you. Or am I just confused about what scale the words represent?" She's really hit a nerve with you huh. Perhaps you should heed the advice from the slim women thread and not throw negative comments around on a thread celebrating a body type you're not interested in? | |||
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"Like if a guy is chubby but waaaaaaaaaayyyyy slimmer than you, then surely by definition, you can't be "curvy", as a "curvy" woman would be my female equivalent as a "chubby" guy - and she would certainly have a far slimmer frame than you. Or am I just confused about what scale the words represent? She's really hit a nerve with you huh. Perhaps you should heed the advice from the slim women thread and not throw negative comments around on a thread celebrating a body type you're not interested in? " No nerves have been hit. I'm genuinely baffled how the difference between our shapes can possibly equate to her being curvy if I'm chubby. | |||
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" You’ve got a Podgey belly youre a bit chubby - deal with it or change it Your out doing the lack of self-awareness you showed in the 'Rate Yourself' thread. Congratulations. I am working on it though. If that’s your opinion of me that’s fine you’re entitled to it Good luck with working on it I'm just curious as to how you are "curvy" and not "obese"... If I am "chubby" when you clearly have about 7stone on me. The mind boggles." Because that’s how I choose to define myself and it’s my opinion that counts no one else’s You don’t call yourself chubby when you are same Principle | |||
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" You’ve got a Podgey belly youre a bit chubby - deal with it or change it Your out doing the lack of self-awareness you showed in the 'Rate Yourself' thread. Congratulations. I am working on it though. If that’s your opinion of me that’s fine you’re entitled to it Good luck with working on it I'm just curious as to how you are "curvy" and not "obese"... If I am "chubby" when you clearly have about 7stone on me. The mind boggles. Because that’s how I choose to define myself and it’s my opinion that counts no one else’s You don’t call yourself chubby when you are same Principle " Oh right, so you know full well you're quite a lot more than curvy, but "choose to define yourself" as such because it sounds better. That's fine, glad I got to the bottom of it. I'm happy to accept chubby, but if that's the case, there's no way I could have you genuinely believe you were only "curvy" | |||
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"I have an hourglass figure that’s my definition of curvy " You have to be on a wind-up, you can't possibly be this delusional? | |||
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"I have an hourglass figure that’s my definition of curvy You have to be on a wind-up, you can't possibly be this delusional? " Guess I’m fillysuonal then hey If you think you’ve got me running for and crying into the nearest cheescake with that devestating blow think again | |||
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"I have an hourglass figure that’s my definition of curvy You have to be on a wind-up, you can't possibly be this delusional? Guess I’m fillysuonal then hey If you think you’ve got me running for and crying into the nearest cheescake with that devestating blow think again " Delusional god know what my phone thought I was typing then | |||
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"Big girls you are beautiful. Whatever happened to Mika?" He was a guest judge on X Factor at Louis Walsh house!!! | |||
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" You’ve got a Podgey belly youre a bit chubby - deal with it or change it Your out doing the lack of self-awareness you showed in the 'Rate Yourself' thread. Congratulations. I am working on it though. If that’s your opinion of me that’s fine you’re entitled to it Good luck with working on it I'm just curious as to how you are "curvy" and not "obese"... If I am "chubby" when you clearly have about 7stone on me. The mind boggles. Because that’s how I choose to define myself and it’s my opinion that counts no one else’s You don’t call yourself chubby when you are same Principle Oh right, so you know full well you're quite a lot more than curvy, but "choose to define yourself" as such because it sounds better. That's fine, glad I got to the bottom of it. I'm happy to accept chubby, but if that's the case, there's no way I could have you genuinely believe you were only "curvy"" Last time I checked "obese" wasnt an option on here.... but even if it was why should it matter two hoots to you what anyone chooses to use on their own profile description... i use curvy too... its a description that suits me in my eyes... in others it might seem optimistic against other ladies or bang on against others. In other words, let people describe themselves as they see fit, if you think a person doesnt fit your version of a particular description then move on to the next... no harm done! | |||
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"I have an hourglass figure that’s my definition of curvy You have to be on a wind-up, you can't possibly be this delusional? " You're just being a bully now. | |||
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"I have an hourglass figure that’s my definition of curvy You have to be on a wind-up, you can't possibly be this delusional? You're just being a bully now. " Nah he’s got to have someone to victimise in order to be that and I actually pity him, not cower before him | |||
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"He's just a troll. Ignore him. Us fatties/curvies/BBWs can just form a wall of cellulite against his tiny slings and arrows and get on with our night. I hope you're having a lovely weekend ladies." Fabulous weekend if you take the fact I’ve worked out of the equation | |||
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