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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On a scale of 1-10 how attractive am i? 10 being very. Be honest. I'm asking cos i have no idea and i would like to know what league of women i should be interested in.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On a scale of 1-10 how attractive am i? 10 being very. Be honest. I'm asking cos i have no idea and i would like to know what league of women i should be interested in. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A woman you think is beautiful might rate you an 8. Someone you think is ugly might rate you a 2. Who do you message?"
I would probably message the one i fancied in hope |
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"You should aim for women you're attracted to. There are no scales.
Im attracted to a lot of women but i have to be realistic "
Read their profiles as some will describe what they're looking for or not looking for, Men 6ft plus, Gym type bodies or Men without beards etc,
I tend to look at their previous meets and try and make a guess from that,
But I have been surprised on a few occasions on the type of Women who say they like me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What 'league of woman', bless you. Just start with the ones you fancy and go from there  "
I've been out of the game for 12 or so years as i was in a relationship. So i was just wondering what level i came out at haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a tough one, but I am being totally honest with you I think you are probably going to be disappointed but I have to say that this post lowered my opinion by a point, self confidence is not the biggest thing but it does count so your 5 becomes a 4 sorry  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"You guy's really have to stop asking these kind of questions,just message who you like if you get a reply then great if you don't well then you don't."
No. They need to entertain by posting threads.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a tough one, but I am being totally honest with you I think you are probably going to be disappointed but I have to say that this post lowered my opinion by a point, self confidence is not the biggest thing but it does count so your 5 becomes a 4 sorry "
Quite the opposite I'm far too confident for my own good and need knocking down a peg or two |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You guy's really have to stop asking these kind of questions,just message who you like if you get a reply then great if you don't well then you don't."
Can i message you then?  |
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Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer. "
I'm afraid we don't capitalise nouns in English - it's "dom" and never "Dom". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A woman you think is beautiful might rate you an 8. Someone you think is ugly might rate you a 2. Who do you message?
I would probably message the one i fancied in hope "
So, it doesn't matter where someone thinks you are on a scale. |
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"Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer.
I'm afraid we don't capitalise nouns in English - it's "dom" and never "Dom". "
Unless it's dynamic. Especially it's dynamic, it's always Dom. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A woman you think is beautiful might rate you an 8. Someone you think is ugly might rate you a 2. Who do you message?
I would probably message the one i fancied in hope
So, it doesn't matter where someone thinks you are on a scale. "
Yes attraction is important |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer.
I'm afraid we don't capitalise nouns in English - it's "dom" and never "Dom".
Unless it's dynamic. Especially it's dynamic, it's always Dom."
No, it isn't - unless his name is "Dominic". Perhaps you should learn German. |
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"Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer.
I'm afraid we don't capitalise nouns in English - it's "dom" and never "Dom".
Unless it's dynamic. Especially it's dynamic, it's always Dom.
No, it isn't - unless his name is "Dominic". Perhaps you should learn German. "
D/s. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer.
I'm afraid we don't capitalise nouns in English - it's "dom" and never "Dom".
Unless it's dynamic. Especially it's dynamic, it's always Dom.
No, it isn't - unless his name is "Dominic". Perhaps you should learn German.
D/s."
Has no bearing on English grammar, as much as it's followers would like it to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A woman you think is beautiful might rate you an 8. Someone you think is ugly might rate you a 2. Who do you message?
I would probably message the one i fancied in hope
So, it doesn't matter where someone thinks you are on a scale.
Yes attraction is important "
If we rated you a 3, would you only message women you thought were a 3? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A woman you think is beautiful might rate you an 8. Someone you think is ugly might rate you a 2. Who do you message?
I would probably message the one i fancied in hope
So, it doesn't matter where someone thinks you are on a scale.
Yes attraction is important
If we rated you a 3, would you only message women you thought were a 3? "
I would probably go for a little lower than previously id still have to find them attractive though. I cant just 'fuck' anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer.
I'm afraid we don't capitalise nouns in English - it's "dom" and never "Dom".
Unless it's dynamic. Especially it's dynamic, it's always Dom.
No, it isn't - unless his name is "Dominic". Perhaps you should learn German.
D/s.
Has no bearing on English grammar, as much as it's followers would like it to. "
Incredibly boring debate you two are having there, which is completely off topic. Cant you continue it privately?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though."
You're a tough lady to please. You really dont want to see my proper smile |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer.
I'm afraid we don't capitalise nouns in English - it's "dom" and never "Dom".
Unless it's dynamic. Especially it's dynamic, it's always Dom.
No, it isn't - unless his name is "Dominic". Perhaps you should learn German.
D/s.
Has no bearing on English grammar, as much as it's followers would like it to.
Incredibly boring debate you two are having there, which is completely off topic. Cant you continue it privately? "
No. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is nothing but an ego feeding post. Sorry OP but it’s right down the scale off me. Plus.... you shouldn’t be putting us women in leagues. We are all beautiful inside and out. Remember one mans tea is another mans coffee..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer.
I'm afraid we don't capitalise nouns in English - it's "dom" and never "Dom".
Unless it's dynamic. Especially it's dynamic, it's always Dom.
No, it isn't - unless his name is "Dominic". Perhaps you should learn German.
D/s.
Has no bearing on English grammar, as much as it's followers would like it to.
Incredibly boring debate you two are having there, which is completely off topic. Cant you continue it privately?
No. "
Told! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not for me but I'll give you a tip for free - your profile pic is fine but nearly all the others are taken from unflattering angles - get some new ones!"
Women moan about all cock pics on profiles and i put on all face pics and still not good enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not for me.
Too many tick box "no's. Some being beard, and newbie = begging for pussy.
Big hate is punctuation. Dom not dom. Attention to detail, a small thing. I can't spell to save my life. However basic grammer.
I'm afraid we don't capitalise nouns in English - it's "dom" and never "Dom".
Unless it's dynamic. Especially it's dynamic, it's always Dom.
No, it isn't - unless his name is "Dominic". Perhaps you should learn German.
D/s.
Has no bearing on English grammar, as much as it's followers would like it to.
Incredibly boring debate you two are having there, which is completely off topic. Cant you continue it privately? "
Too high brow for you, mate? Don't understand it?
Thought so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not for me but I'll give you a tip for free - your profile pic is fine but nearly all the others are taken from unflattering angles - get some new ones!
Women moan about all cock pics on profiles and i put on all face pics and still not good enough"
Don't put all anything pics. Have a mixture of different ones. Be creative with your camera. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not for me but I'll give you a tip for free - your profile pic is fine but nearly all the others are taken from unflattering angles - get some new ones!
Women moan about all cock pics on profiles and i put on all face pics and still not good enough"
Well why don’t you put a couple of each? And try having something called ... a conversation! It’s not all just about the sex and how sexy you need to feel. There needs to be a connection there! |
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though.
You're a tough lady to please. You really dont want to see my proper smile "
I'm not I just like to see a nice smile on a guy. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Not for me but I'll give you a tip for free - your profile pic is fine but nearly all the others are taken from unflattering angles - get some new ones!
Women moan about all cock pics on profiles and i put on all face pics and still not good enough"
Having all face pics is nearly as bad as having all cock pics tbh.
Your new pic is the only face one you need and you do look better with a (slight) smile.
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"Not for me but I'll give you a tip for free - your profile pic is fine but nearly all the others are taken from unflattering angles - get some new ones!
Women moan about all cock pics on profiles and i put on all face pics and still not good enough"
It's no skin off my nose, I am just telling you they are not good pics, they do not make you look good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though.
You're a tough lady to please. You really dont want to see my proper smile
I'm not I just like to see a nice smile on a guy."
You'll get the proper smile in person if you're lucky enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a tough one, but I am being totally honest with you I think you are probably going to be disappointed but I have to say that this post lowered my opinion by a point, self confidence is not the biggest thing but it does count so your 5 becomes a 4 sorry "
I'd say self confidence is the biggest thing. Maybe not online, where you're judged more on your photo, but in the real world, confidence is all. |
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though.
You're a tough lady to please. You really dont want to see my proper smile
I'm not I just like to see a nice smile on a guy.
You'll get the proper smile in person if you're lucky enough "
Whereabouts in Stockport are you from? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you related to the one with the gigantic forhead out of pj an Duncan? "
The one with loads of money and a bag full of sniff in his pocket. Yes mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You do look a bit miserable in your pics. Do you never smile like this
God no not for a picture!!
But, why not?
Cos then I'll be a 1"
You sound like a woman, dude. Pull yourself together. You shouldn't give a shit what a woman "rates" you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though.
You're a tough lady to please. You really dont want to see my proper smile
I'm not I just like to see a nice smile on a guy.
You'll get the proper smile in person if you're lucky enough
Whereabouts in Stockport are you from?"
Messaged you privately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you related to the one with the gigantic forhead out of pj an Duncan?
The one with loads of money and a bag full of sniff in his pocket. Yes mate"
Ha ha
No one's topping that reply tonight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though."
Haha! I know how the Op feels. I can never take selfies either. No matter what I do, my smile always ends up looking forced and mildly tragic
To the Op... There are no leagues mate. The ones that think there are, are the ones best avoided anyway! Read profiles and message the women that are looking for what you're offering. If they are interested you'll hear back. If not, you won't. Don't take it personally, and don't let it knock your confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though.
Haha! I know how the Op feels. I can never take selfies either. No matter what I do, my smile always ends up looking forced and mildly tragic
To the Op... There are no leagues mate. The ones that think there are, are the ones best avoided anyway! Read profiles and message the women that are looking for what you're offering. If they are interested you'll hear back. If not, you won't. Don't take it personally, and don't let it knock your confidence. "
He thinks there's leagues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the last thing you need to do is post a thread like this. In my opinion, it comes across as needy, attention seeking and a little sad to be honest.
That’s just my opinion though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You do look a bit miserable in your pics. Do you never smile like this
God no not for a picture!!
But, why not?
Cos then I'll be a 1"
Have you got black or no teeth? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though.
Haha! I know how the Op feels. I can never take selfies either. No matter what I do, my smile always ends up looking forced and mildly tragic
To the Op... There are no leagues mate. The ones that think there are, are the ones best avoided anyway! Read profiles and message the women that are looking for what you're offering. If they are interested you'll hear back. If not, you won't. Don't take it personally, and don't let it knock your confidence.
He thinks there's leagues. "
Ever heard the phrase out of my league. I know there's not actual league tables where theres relegation battles and champions league places up for grabs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You do look a bit miserable in your pics. Do you never smile like this
God no not for a picture!!
But, why not?
Cos then I'll be a 1
Have you got black or no teeth?"
I have teeth, slightly yellowing from smoking mind you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the last thing you need to do is post a thread like this. In my opinion, it comes across as needy, attention seeking and a little sad to be honest.
That’s just my opinion though. "
Says mr chest hair with no face pic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though.
Haha! I know how the Op feels. I can never take selfies either. No matter what I do, my smile always ends up looking forced and mildly tragic
To the Op... There are no leagues mate. The ones that think there are, are the ones best avoided anyway! Read profiles and message the women that are looking for what you're offering. If they are interested you'll hear back. If not, you won't. Don't take it personally, and don't let it knock your confidence.
He thinks there's leagues. "
He really does...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, the only score that matters is the one you give yourself. If you think you're awesome, then you're awesome. Don't ask a bunch of strangers with more opinions than sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok updated my profile pic to a 'smiley' pic is that better?
Yes it is better,I'm not sure I'd call it a smiley pic though.
Haha! I know how the Op feels. I can never take selfies either. No matter what I do, my smile always ends up looking forced and mildly tragic
To the Op... There are no leagues mate. The ones that think there are, are the ones best avoided anyway! Read profiles and message the women that are looking for what you're offering. If they are interested you'll hear back. If not, you won't. Don't take it personally, and don't let it knock your confidence.
He thinks there's leagues.
Ever heard the phrase out of my league. I know there's not actual league tables where theres relegation battles and champions league places up for grabs"
There are no leagues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the last thing you need to do is post a thread like this. In my opinion, it comes across as needy, attention seeking and a little sad to be honest.
That’s just my opinion though.
Says mr chest hair with no face pic "
Why does not having a face pic matter on this topic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no scale, or league.
Think positive, make an effort, and see what happens.
He who dares, my son."
well there is, to a degree, natural selection out there. Beautiful people tend, mostly, to gravitate to other beautiful people.
But I agree with your sentiment.
“Aim for the stars, and you might just reach the moon”.
When I was here previously I was fortunate enough to meet a few ladies I would definitely have assumed “out of my league” and never spoken to based on the OPs initial assumption. |
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"Not for me but I'll give you a tip for free - your profile pic is fine but nearly all the others are taken from unflattering angles - get some new ones!
Women moan about all cock pics on profiles and i put on all face pics and still not good enough"
The face pics are not appealing. Key word is ‘grumpy’.
Ffs sell yourself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no scale, or league.
Think positive, make an effort, and see what happens.
He who dares, my son.
well there is, to a degree, natural selection out there. Beautiful people tend, mostly, to gravitate to other beautiful people.
But I agree with your sentiment.
“Aim for the stars, and you might just reach the moon”.
When I was here previously I was fortunate enough to meet a few ladies I would definitely have assumed “out of my league” and never spoken to based on the OPs initial assumption."
You met a few ladies that you assumed were out of your league, because there is no league.
I think beautiful people gravitate to other beautiful people because they seem confident. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so what you consider beautiful, may not be to me. Hence no league could possibly exist, as we all score the game differently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't think about leagues, think about mutual attraction. There's no rhyme or reason to it"
Totally off topic, but your gallery is fantastic! As well as you haven't an amazing body, the photography is really good!
Sorry everyone... Back on track.  |
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"Don't think about leagues, think about mutual attraction. There's no rhyme or reason to it
Totally off topic, but your gallery is fantastic! As well as you haven't an amazing body, the photography is really good!
Sorry everyone... Back on track. "
You’re saying she hasn’t an amazing body? Goodness |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think about leagues, think about mutual attraction. There's no rhyme or reason to it
Totally off topic, but your gallery is fantastic! As well as you haven't an amazing body, the photography is really good!
Sorry everyone... Back on track.
You’re saying she hasn’t an amazing body? Goodness "
Oops! I'm all thumbs today, or my predictive text is broken!?! Haha! *Having!!!! |
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"Don't think about leagues, think about mutual attraction. There's no rhyme or reason to it
Totally off topic, but your gallery is fantastic! As well as you haven't an amazing body, the photography is really good!
Sorry everyone... Back on track.
You’re saying she hasn’t an amazing body? Goodness
Oops! I'm all thumbs today, or my predictive text is broken!?! Haha! *Having!!!! "
That's OK - I figured/hoped it was a typo! |
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