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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are people's thoughts on this:
As a guy, you message a woman and your message remains unopened.
Is it a good idea to message again, even though the site says not to?
I ask this because women get so many messages it's very possible that your original message got overlooked in the mass of others?
Of course, I wouldn't advise endlessly spamming someone in the desperate attempt to get a response!
Thoughts please... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to resend the message. women get so many messages it could have dropped off the bottom of the page never to be seen again. I would leave it a few days though and dont send the same message |
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I've had people send a message, only to realise there was a previous message maybe a few days or even weeks earlier I'd never seen or read, and it's ended with us chatting.
But ones that send multiple messages, on the same day adter the first deleted will get a block.
If I've read, not replied & deleted is an obvious not intrested and no amount of messages is going to change my mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's thoughts on this:
As a guy, you message a woman and your message remains unopened.
Is it a good idea to message again, even though the site says not to?
I ask this because women get so many messages it's very possible that your original message got overlooked in the mass of others?
Of course, I wouldn't advise endlessly spamming someone in the desperate attempt to get a response!
Thoughts please..."
Not this again! |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to resend the message. women get so many messages it could have dropped off the bottom of the page never to be seen again. I would leave it a few days though and dont send the same message"
This happens to me all the time. If out a new pic up or play a game in the forum, my messages go up and some older ones drop off the bottom. I do try to answer ones that pop up again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gods I rarely have the courage to send one message, never mind repeats 
The ones that get on my nerves are when I've already politely declined and then they write again a week later.
If I ignore a message and they send another then that's fair enough I guess. I would just reply with a polite no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Assume a no thank you.
Someone pestering me with several messages when I’ve either not read them, said no thanks or simply deleted them is not going to make me respond. Quite the opposite. "
this i agree with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me "
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode "
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was "
Explain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was
Explain "
Intrigued too. I use it a lot sometimes. |
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was "
What do you mean?! *checks settings* |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was
What do you mean?! *checks settings* "
Say what?!!!! |
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By *arksMan
over a year ago
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"Definately re-message. Who cares what the site advises, just do it.
It shows you're keen. Woman like that. "
This  send a pic of your cock next to a sky remote as well it drives them wild |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definately re-message. Who cares what the site advises, just do it.
It shows you're keen. Woman like that.
This send a pic of your cock next to a sky remote as well it drives them wild "
You're know the score mate. Keep up the good fight. They'll wear down eventually. |
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"I used to resend the message. women get so many messages it could have dropped off the bottom of the page never to be seen again. I would leave it a few days though and dont send the same message"
Yes this ... I wipe all of mine sometimes.... too many to answer ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm confused now about the "stealth" thingy.
I'm certain it must be working as I'm not receiving any "Hey you looked at my profile" messages, so I don't know what it means if stealth is "not like it was".
Probably the wrong thread for this sorry : ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused now about the "stealth" thingy.
I'm certain it must be working as I'm not receiving any "Hey you looked at my profile" messages, so I don't know what it means if stealth is "not like it was".
Probably the wrong thread for this sorry : )"
Maybe people just aren't fussed for messaging you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused now about the "stealth" thingy.
I'm certain it must be working as I'm not receiving any "Hey you looked at my profile" messages, so I don't know what it means if stealth is "not like it was".
Probably the wrong thread for this sorry : )
Maybe people just aren't fussed for messaging you?
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I wouldn't be at all surprised
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was
What do you mean?! *checks settings* "
i have noticed if i look at someone within a few mins they look at me,
local updates tell me they viewed my profile and they arent on my hotlist
so if it was stealth why would they vist me within seconds at times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was
What do you mean?! *checks settings*
i have noticed if i look at someone within a few mins they look at me,
local updates tell me they viewed my profile and they arent on my hotlist
so if it was stealth why would they vist me within seconds at times "
If stealth isn’t working can you see I viewed your profile about 10 minutes ago? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was
What do you mean?! *checks settings*
i have noticed if i look at someone within a few mins they look at me,
local updates tell me they viewed my profile and they arent on my hotlist
so if it was stealth why would they vist me within seconds at times
If stealth isn’t working can you see I viewed your profile about 10 minutes ago?"
tends to work on local updates more than visits |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was
What do you mean?! *checks settings*
i have noticed if i look at someone within a few mins they look at me,
local updates tell me they viewed my profile and they arent on my hotlist
so if it was stealth why would they vist me within seconds at times
If stealth isn’t working can you see I viewed your profile about 10 minutes ago?
tends to work on local updates more than visits"
That’s what I was wondering.... hmmm |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was
What do you mean?! *checks settings*
i have noticed if i look at someone within a few mins they look at me,
local updates tell me they viewed my profile and they arent on my hotlist
so if it was stealth why would they vist me within seconds at times "
I’ve noticed that too, I just assumed it was because I was online and they were using that search option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused now about the "stealth" thingy.
I'm certain it must be working as I'm not receiving any "Hey you looked at my profile" messages, so I don't know what it means if stealth is "not like it was".
Probably the wrong thread for this sorry : )"
Yes it does work just got signal back on train and I have only had 2 views today both from men so must work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was
What do you mean?! *checks settings*
i have noticed if i look at someone within a few mins they look at me,
local updates tell me they viewed my profile and they arent on my hotlist
so if it was stealth why would they vist me within seconds at times
If stealth isn’t working can you see I viewed your profile about 10 minutes ago?
tends to work on local updates more than visits
That’s what I was wondering.... hmmm"
Ok I’ve changed my postcode, so have I appear on your local updates as having viewed you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused now about the "stealth" thingy.
I'm certain it must be working as I'm not receiving any "Hey you looked at my profile" messages, so I don't know what it means if stealth is "not like it was".
Probably the wrong thread for this sorry : )
Yes it does work just got signal back on train and I have only had 2 views today both from men so must work "
I just stealthed you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't send again tbh I've only sent about 6, 5 were deleted without reading or visiting profile and 1 was you are not my type so obviously not at all interested in me
I’ve just looked at your profile but you wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t told you.
Lots of women look at profiles in stealth mode
actually wrong as Stealth mode isnt like it was
What do you mean?! *checks settings*
i have noticed if i look at someone within a few mins they look at me,
local updates tell me they viewed my profile and they arent on my hotlist
so if it was stealth why would they vist me within seconds at times
If stealth isn’t working can you see I viewed your profile about 10 minutes ago?
tends to work on local updates more than visits
That’s what I was wondering.... hmmm
Ok I’ve changed my postcode, so have I appear on your local updates as having viewed you?"
No no new views still only the 2 guys in last 24 hours |
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