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Oh dear!!!, what have you done darling, listen if I ever thought for one second I look anything like as good as the g/girls on here I would have died and gone to hell, we do our best, hugz n things, Ruby, xxxxx |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies).  "
Have to agree that some of tvs do look sexy and are very pretty.
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over a year ago
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"*pulls up chair, tucks in to popcorn, sits back and waits to see what unfolds*
Don`t forget to stir your bowels. "
Ha ha no one will have a clue what you mean by that. It was delicious by the way  |
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over a year ago
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"*pulls up chair, tucks in to popcorn, sits back and waits to see what unfolds*
Pass the M&Ms could you sugar???
Peanut or chocolate?
surprise me!!!!!, "
"BOO!" |
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To be a little serious though, don't forget some t-girls here are actually transgender and going through a very difficult time correcting natures little joke on then, we are all imperfect beings at the end of the day, love each other , hugz n things, Ruby, xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies). "
I wouldn't disagree with you but my other half has a theory on that.He thinks that women dont have to make an effort here to get a meet so if they put poor or no pictures up at all they will still get a meet. However its harder for makes and TVs so they put more effort into a profile and the pictures.
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Each to their own but I can usually tell. Some do look like women but not curvy ones with hips and feminine lines... more like the ladies who are very slim and never really developed womanly lines. They do make more effort than some woman though! Admit to sexually liking women to look like women and men to look like men but think its great that we all have a choice and that there is such a variety on Fab. Someone for everyone I guess! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"*pulls up chair, tucks in to popcorn, sits back and waits to see what unfolds*
Don`t forget to stir your bowels.
Ha ha no one will have a clue what you mean by that. It was delicious by the way "
I do, just don't forget the cheese! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies).
I wouldn't disagree with you but my other half has a theory on that.He thinks that women dont have to make an effort here to get a meet so if they put poor or no pictures up at all they will still get a meet. However its harder for makes and TVs so they put more effort into a profile and the pictures.
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A valid point, wise words, your a lucky woman. |
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies). "
Was saying the same thing to wife lastnight and we had noticed similar while at clubs on fetish nights (though that was more to do with the TV/Ts wearing the right size corsets) |
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies).
I wouldn't disagree with you but my other half has a theory on that.He thinks that women dont have to make an effort here to get a meet so if they put poor or no pictures up at all they will still get a meet. However its harder for makes and TVs so they put more effort into a profile and the pictures.
A valid point, wise words, your a lucky woman. "
I disagree hun, sorry but I have no trouble getting meets, I take my time to look as good as I possibly can irrespective of whether I am attempting to capture a man lol, xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies).
I wouldn't disagree with you but my other half has a theory on that.He thinks that women dont have to make an effort here to get a meet so if they put poor or no pictures up at all they will still get a meet. However its harder for makes and TVs so they put more effort into a profile and the pictures.
A valid point, wise words, your a lucky woman.
I disagree hun, sorry but I have no trouble getting meets, I take my time to look as good as I possibly can irrespective of whether I am attempting to capture a man lol, xxx"
You can`t hide class Ruby. xxx |
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies).
I wouldn't disagree with you but my other half has a theory on that.He thinks that women dont have to make an effort here to get a meet so if they put poor or no pictures up at all they will still get a meet. However its harder for makes and TVs so they put more effort into a profile and the pictures.
A valid point, wise words, your a lucky woman.
I disagree hun, sorry but I have no trouble getting meets, I take my time to look as good as I possibly can irrespective of whether I am attempting to capture a man lol, xxx
You can`t hide class Ruby. xxx"
I try my best to hide my ugly mug but hey, 2 hours of work and they still recognise me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never shagged a bloke that looks like a woman, but I've shagged a few women that look like blokes  "
You said you loved me in my doc martins and dungarees.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies).
I wouldn't disagree with you but my other half has a theory on that.He thinks that women dont have to make an effort here to get a meet so if they put poor or no pictures up at all they will still get a meet. However its harder for makes and TVs so they put more effort into a profile and the pictures.
A valid point, wise words, your a lucky woman.
I disagree hun, sorry but I have no trouble getting meets, I take my time to look as good as I possibly can irrespective of whether I am attempting to capture a man lol, xxx"
I wasn't saying TV's do not get offers i was saying they will get less than a single woman as not all men would play with a TV but the majority would with a woman and that a woman only has to flash her boobs to get a mans interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never shagged a bloke that looks like a woman, but I've shagged a few women that look like blokes
You said you loved me in my doc martins and dungarees. "
I do, I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes I do agree there are some good looking tvs, but rather than compare them with less good looking women why not just compare them with less good looking tvs? Because there are some pretty rough looking tvs/ts that are never going to create the look, I feel.
I also feel its the subtle ways of women that can never be replicated and men rarely manage those nuances.
Women can scrub up to look better women but if men retain their manly features then all they're ever going to be is a man 'dressing up' in some peoples eyes.
Women are women and inimitable, in my honest opinion. |
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"Yes I do agree there are some good looking tvs, but rather than compare them with less good looking women why not just compare them with less good looking tvs? Because there are some pretty rough looking tvs/ts that are never going to create the look, I feel.
I also feel its the subtle ways of women that can never be replicated and men rarely manage those nuances.
Women can scrub up to look better women but if men retain their manly features then all they're ever going to be is a man 'dressing up' in some peoples eyes.
Women are women and inimitable, in my honest opinion."
Totally agree...... |
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As some have said, some of us are just women, but born into the wrong form. My parents gave me a girl's name as I was growing up, as I always wanted to dress in female clothes - I was lucky to have such a lovely family to grow up in.
As for now, I still dress for myself, to express who I am and to look good for me - if others appreciate this, all the better. That's not to say that if someone expressed an interest in specific clothing that I wouldn't cater to their needs, of course.
Swingers can be lovely and open minded - if they choose - and this is refreshing, though I've only had the occasional problem in the wider world. We're sexual creatures, so it seems natural to me that we express some of our sexual selves within our attire. I'm not sure how I'll be dressing when I'm in my 70's, but imagine it'll still be stockings and hot clothes, rather than older lady gear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh dear!!!, what have you done darling, listen if I ever thought for one second I look anything like as good as the g/girls on here I would have died and gone to hell, we do our best, hugz n things, Ruby, xxxxx "
my dear sweet Ruby you look fabulous hunny
some look amazing some not so great but the same can be said or women
some i want to take shopping as i think their dress sense is shocking and some want to take me shopping as they think my dress is shocking
i guess its all just subjective |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As some have said, some of us are just women, but born into the wrong form. My parents gave me a girl's name as I was growing up, as I always wanted to dress in female clothes - I was lucky to have such a lovely family to grow up in.
As for now, I still dress for myself, to express who I am and to look good for me - if others appreciate this, all the better. That's not to say that if someone expressed an interest in specific clothing that I wouldn't cater to their needs, of course.
Swingers can be lovely and open minded - if they choose - and this is refreshing, though I've only had the occasional problem in the wider world. We're sexual creatures, so it seems natural to me that we express some of our sexual selves within our attire. I'm not sure how I'll be dressing when I'm in my 70's, but imagine it'll still be stockings and hot clothes, rather than older lady gear. "
oh i do hope so, i love the idea of growing old disracefully be good to know i won't be alone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ms here. I used to meet a tv when I was playing alone and was gutted the first time we both stripped off to find that A she'd got a very similar basque on and B it looked better on her than it did on me!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some look convincing, others look so obviously like a man dressing as a woman.
The thing I don't get is why the exagerated personality?
When you listen to some of them it's as though the only way they can communicate their femininity is via a high pitched unnatural voice - and are far more indignant than a real woman would ever be when it's mentioned. |
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I know some gorgeous cd/tvs but one guy was about 6ft 3 and over twenty stone and he hada wig on that looked like straw and some stupid skirt and trainers and he reckoned he had driven from his house to where the party was like that.
He looked just like giant haystacks in a wig |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are indeed some great looking TVs and certainly have nicer clothes and take good care of themselves than some women do.
All the TVs on here seem to have long slim shapely legs I'd bloody kill for (ooo sorry can I say that still or do I have to now go post on the Would you kill thread lol).
Some of the TVs on here have some lovely lingerie and I love all that girly dress up stuff so I can identify |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies). "
better clean my specs I guess then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone else on here think some of the tv/ts`s look more like women than some of the women on here.
*Him* btw.
(off to eat me stovies).
better clean my specs I guess then"
Yup, prepare to be amazed.  |
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I just don't want you to forget the minority in the t-girl community that are actually transgendered and they go through a lifetime of depression, anxiety, despair and often are marginalised by their family, friends and work when they eventually "come out", they then go through a minimum of five years psychiatric tests and endless waiting lists for surgery as well as other aspects of gender reassignment such as hormone treatment, voice coaching and deportment, I have many friends at various stages of this part in their lives, and I am being honest when I say I wouldn't have the courage to walk ten paces in their shoes let alone the rest of their lives, please remember, we are not all men dressed as women, take care, hugz to everyone, mwah, xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I do agree there are some good looking tvs, but rather than compare them with less good looking women why not just compare them with less good looking tvs? Because there are some pretty rough looking tvs/ts that are never going to create the look, I feel.
I also feel its the subtle ways of women that can never be replicated and men rarely manage those nuances.
Women can scrub up to look better women but if men retain their manly features then all they're ever going to be is a man 'dressing up' in some peoples eyes.
Women are women and inimitable, in my honest opinion.
Totally agree......"
Nods in agreement also. |
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"To be a little serious though, don't forget some t-girls here are actually transgender and going through a very difficult time correcting natures little joke on then, we are all imperfect beings at the end of the day, love each other , hugz n things, Ruby, xxxx "
U saved me saying it and getting another bollocking for being pc.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes certainly transgendered people have a lot to go through and face many hurdles in their lives.
My friend is having gender reassignment surgery next year. At the moment going through some quite painful electrolysis down below. All the genital area has to be permanently free of hair as when the surgery is performed and the male genitalia tucked inside to create female genitalia, then of course there can't be ingrowing hair inside the newly created vagina.
Of course the way she feels about her penis and the fact that its becoming increasingly difficult for her to even look at it, she gets very stressed when she gets erections or feels aroused, she would not willingly have sex.
She would not advertise herself on a swinging site as she wouldn't ever let another person see her penis or take pleasure from it as it disgusts her.
I would imagine this is a very common reaction for pre op transexuals. And of course with the female hormones that are prescribed and the changes these cause, leads me to assume that there aren't too many pre op transexuals on the site and mainly transvestites.
Of course my knowledge is limited to only my friends current experiences, but she is unable to take pleasure from her penis. In fact she's also om anti-depressants because of the risk of self harm, I imagine many are mentally unstable and do not have a positive self image so would therefore be unlikely to swing.
Transvestites are not woman, whilst male to female transexuals are, so therefore are very happy with their male lives alongside their desire to dress as women.
Very interesting and complicated subject is transgender.
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What I find very interesting is that my friend is very judgemental regarding transvestites. she says that there are various different styles that men prefer and she has far less tolerance and not pc in relation to transvestism.
I don't understand the terms surrounding transvestites, hairy panty wearers, shemales, t-girls, what does all this mean? |
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"What I find very interesting is that my friend is very judgemental regarding transvestites. she says that there are various different styles that men prefer and she has far less tolerance and not pc in relation to transvestism.
I don't understand the terms surrounding transvestites, hairy panty wearers, shemales, t-girls, what does all this mean?"
I would be very happy to give you my interpretation of the terms used in our little community, but please note that they are only my views..........
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