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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I frequent another site that is nothing to do with swinging and was in the chatroom on their minding my own business  and a black guy asked if I've dated black guys I stated no. He then asked if I'd ever slept with black guys to which I told him it was really none of his business and that I have no preference for black guys. He then decides because I didn’t disclose to him if I had slept with black guys that made me racist 
Thoughts on if you think having preferences for on guys skin colour would deem you racist |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it's racist. You should go back on there, get his number and fuck him before sundown."
he is a known troll on the other site and I don't fuck trolls
To be clear I have slept with a few black guys but they aren't my preference but I wouldn't tell them to fuck off if I was attracted to them |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
In the circumstances you describe the guy has no right to call you a racist and is obviously just looking for an insult to throw back at you because you refused to answer his question, so best ignored.
I also don't personally think having a preference not to have sex with people because of the colour of their skin is necessarily racist - although it would depend on the underlying reason for that preference, although personally it's the person and not their skin that I am attracted to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it's racist. You should go back on there, get his number and fuck him before sundown.
he is a known troll on the other site and I don't fuck trolls
To be clear I have slept with a few black guys but they aren't my preference but I wouldn't tell them to fuck off if I was attracted to them "
I was joking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it's racist. You should go back on there, get his number and fuck him before sundown.
he is a known troll on the other site and I don't fuck trolls
To be clear I have slept with a few black guys but they aren't my preference but I wouldn't tell them to fuck off if I was attracted to them
I was joking."
Oh good lol |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
He’s just one of these guys who’s egos are so big that they hate rejection in any form and as a come back they use insults or in this case the race card. It’s pretty typical across all races no matter what Colour or creed. I could ask you all the same questions but just replace the colour with religious type and give you the same back. Or indeed sexual preference , have you , would you sleep with a transvestitie you say no and I call you a homophobe or whatever.
These guys are all over I would report him in the other site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it's racist. You should go back on there, get his number and fuck him before sundown.
he is a known troll on the other site and I don't fuck trolls
To be clear I have slept with a few black guys but they aren't my preference but I wouldn't tell them to fuck off if I was attracted to them "
I too have slept with a few black guys all of whom I met in clubs, work, pubs, school and was attracted to them by their personality. However, I have never once looked at a pic on here and been attracted to a black man. I don’t doubt that I’d like some of them if I actually met them but I’m not going to meet anyone I’m not attracted to just to find out if they’re nice or not. Btw I apply the same logic to white men however there is a small percentage of white guys pics I am attracted to.
I also HATE the opening line , are you attracted to black/Asian guys!! This is an instant turn off for me as is are you attracted to tall guys, guys with beard, hung guys etc (funny I’ve never been asked are you attracted to white guys!!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it's racist. You should go back on there, get his number and fuck him before sundown.
he is a known troll on the other site and I don't fuck trolls
To be clear I have slept with a few black guys but they aren't my preference but I wouldn't tell them to fuck off if I was attracted to them
I was joking.
Oh good lol "
Sorry... x
I think he was being a dick to try and 'shame' you into fucking him. You don't need to justify your reasons for not wanting to fuck anyone, ever. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you enter into conversation with a known troll. I'd have ignored him  "
It was after I had decided to stop engaging with him that someone told me as I hadn't been in for a while due to work and stuff |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it's racist. You should go back on there, get his number and fuck him before sundown.
he is a known troll on the other site and I don't fuck trolls
To be clear I have slept with a few black guys but they aren't my preference but I wouldn't tell them to fuck off if I was attracted to them
I was joking.
Oh good lol
Sorry... x
I think he was being a dick to try and 'shame' you into fucking him. You don't need to justify your reasons for not wanting to fuck anyone, ever. "
That I know and most if not all the guys on there who know me thru engaging with me or seen me chatting actually told him I had not been racist towards him in anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it's racist. You should go back on there, get his number and fuck him before sundown.
he is a known troll on the other site and I don't fuck trolls
To be clear I have slept with a few black guys but they aren't my preference but I wouldn't tell them to fuck off if I was attracted to them "
Why are you explaining yourself to him or anyone else.
It's no one's business but your own who you choose to Fuck.
And as for being labelled racist,I think the racism lies with himself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it's racist. You should go back on there, get his number and fuck him before sundown.
he is a known troll on the other site and I don't fuck trolls
To be clear I have slept with a few black guys but they aren't my preference but I wouldn't tell them to fuck off if I was attracted to them
I too have slept with a few black guys all of whom I met in clubs, work, pubs, school and was attracted to them by their personality. However, I have never once looked at a pic on here and been attracted to a black man. I don’t doubt that I’d like some of them if I actually met them but I’m not going to meet anyone I’m not attracted to just to find out if they’re nice or not. Btw I apply the same logic to white men however there is a small percentage of white guys pics I am attracted to.
I also HATE the opening line , are you attracted to black/Asian guys!! This is an instant turn off for me as is are you attracted to tall guys, guys with beard, hung guys etc (funny I’ve never been asked are you attracted to white guys!!) "
I meant attracted to them thru having engaged in conversation with them |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
My thoughts:
I give absolutely no shits for what a stranger thinks of what I do. Even more so when that stranger is on the net. I do not feed trolls... and I carry on with whatever I was doing.
Cause life is too short. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I frequent another site that is nothing to do with swinging and was in the chatroom on their minding my own business and a black guy asked if I've dated black guys I stated no. He then asked if I'd ever slept with black guys to which I told him it was really none of his business and that I have no preference for black guys. He then decides because I didn’t disclose to him if I had slept with black guys that made me racist
Thoughts on if you think having preferences for on guys skin colour would deem you racist "
Another inferior person using their colour of their skin for their weak mindset. People like that carry years of baggage that is not their own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you are giving him and it far too much thought space. Let him think what he likes. Makes no difference to what you know is true. "
He hasn't been seen since everyone ignored him  |
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