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I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?  |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!? "
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I’m big of my feminism and would welcome the experience just to know what it feels like to be a single woman on sites like this to be honest.
I’d probably try, given my nature, to reply politely to every message and even call out problematic behaviour. Men often don’t know how to react when women treat us like pieces of meat. Put us all in a flesh market and see how bashful some of us will get x |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!? "
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched! |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched! "
I suppose you want cake too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m big of my feminism and would welcome the experience just to know what it feels like to be a single woman on sites like this to be honest.
I’d probably try, given my nature, to reply politely to every message and even call out problematic behaviour. Men often don’t know how to react when women treat us like pieces of meat. Put us all in a flesh market and see how bashful some of us will get x "
You know I’m probably on this about 8 hours a day and probably reply to about 10% and that takes up my whole time. Obviously that’s me trying to search too and getting into conversations with people I like and going on the forums. I don’t know how I’d find the time to reply to the other 90%. ( truth is I don’t want to because they don’t deserve a reply as they clearly haven’t read my profile, treat other how you expect to be treated)  |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched! "
I like fussy xx |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
I suppose you want cake too "
Cake?!!... must... resist!!... |
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I wouldn't meet anyone I didn't know first. I respect woman as human beings and equal too myself. I actually have never had a one night stand before as I've always believed in loving someone before intimacy. So this is all bew too me. But After I lost the love of my life over a year ago (she's still alive) I don't want another relationship. They hurt too much. I wouldn't expect too meet anyone on here without getting too know them first and I except that the ladies on here feel the same.
I know some people think sex is just sex.. A fuck is just a fuck. But its the most intimate thing 2 people can do. I really need to know if I like the person and get on with her before I can do anything else. Just the way i am. I would never treat a woman as a piece of meat!! I love women so why would i?
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched! "
And also WOW! That is all |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
And also WOW! That is all "
 why thank you Ma'am |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
And also WOW! That is all
why thank you Ma'am "
You two get a room |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too? "
We have met Hatter, he hasn't  |
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I’d have a list of hoops that the ladies would have to jump through and key words in my profile to even warrant me opening any mail I get sent.
I’d punch hugely above my weight in terms of physical characteristics and looks I’m looking for (well as perceived by the bitter ladies that I reject anyway based on the number of ‘I wouldn’t even look at you twice in a pub you prick’ messages they’d send me ) and spend half my time on the forums becrying all the shit messages I get from the ladies and how I was stood up by a timewaster.
It’s ok though as a plethora of other women would come to my aid and tell me how crazy they were and there’s NO WAY they’d stand up a hottie like me, even though they’ve never seen what I look like.
Yep, I think I could enjoy it y’know! |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
And also WOW! That is all
why thank you Ma'am
You two get a room "
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't "
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’d not change much at all if my personality, values and circumstances were the same.
I’d still be getting ready to go to the gym in a few minutes to burn off the extra calories I’ve eaten today  |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then! "
His hair really is like spun gold |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then! "
I already am  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d have a list of hoops that the ladies would have to jump through and key words in my profile to even warrant me opening any mail I get sent.
I’d punch hugely above my weight in terms of physical characteristics and looks I’m looking for (well as perceived by the bitter ladies that I reject anyway based on the number of ‘I wouldn’t even look at you twice in a pub you prick’ messages they’d send me) and spend half my time on the forums becrying all the shit messages I get from the ladies and how I was stood up by a timewaster.
It’s ok though as a plethora of other women would come to my aid and tell me how crazy they were and there’s NO WAY they’d stand up a hottie like me, even though they’ve never seen what I look like.
Yep, I think I could enjoy it y’know! "
Sound like a perfect plan to find who you’re after |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
And also WOW! That is all
why thank you Ma'am
You two get a room "
Sorry Miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
His hair really is like spun gold "
I believe I stroked it  |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am "
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d have a list of hoops that the ladies would have to jump through and key words in my profile to even warrant me opening any mail I get sent.
I’d punch hugely above my weight in terms of physical characteristics and looks I’m looking for (well as perceived by the bitter ladies that I reject anyway based on the number of ‘I wouldn’t even look at you twice in a pub you prick’ messages they’d send me) and spend half my time on the forums becrying all the shit messages I get from the ladies and how I was stood up by a timewaster.
It’s ok though as a plethora of other women would come to my aid and tell me how crazy they were and there’s NO WAY they’d stand up a hottie like me, even though they’ve never seen what I look like.
Yep, I think I could enjoy it y’know!
Sound like a perfect plan to find who you’re after "
AND... I’d always be a ‘Fuck’ on fuck, snog, avoid threads! |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
His hair really is like spun gold
I believe I stroked it "
Yes, it feels beautiful doesn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies? "
A recently unlos'd Fabber would have suggested 42 |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me "
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face. |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
His hair really is like spun gold
I believe I stroked it
Yes, it feels beautiful doesn't it?"
It does. I don't think I plaited it though? |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me "
Yep just munters near you |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
His hair really is like spun gold
I believe I stroked it
Yes, it feels beautiful doesn't it?
It does. I don't think I plaited it though? "
We could do one side each |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
His hair really is like spun gold
I believe I stroked it
Yes, it feels beautiful doesn't it?
It does. I don't think I plaited it though?
We could do one side each "
Yes! I'm sure we could share nicely |
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies? "
A lot less than 1% in my opinion. I may get 300 messages a day and some days not one is well written 
But we digress, wasn’t wanting thing to be a guy bashing thread wanted to know how men would think they’d deal with all the attention  |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face. "
lucky you x |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!? "
Geography. It's all about geography |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography "
I thought it was Chemistry - all about chemistry |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face.
lucky you x"
Well, to be fair he's a bit 'bobfoc' and it as the only way I could shut him up.  |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography "
So anyone will do as long as they’re near you? |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!? "
Lets find out ,If all you lovely ladies & couples want to message me then meet & play with me i will tell you after |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face.
lucky you x
Well, to be fair he's a bit 'bobfoc' and it as the only way I could shut him up. "
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography
I thought it was Chemistry - all about chemistry "
Chemistry is the ideal, but geography is the reality  |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face.
lucky you x
Well, to be fair he's a bit 'bobfoc' and it as the only way I could shut him up. "
I don’t even know what a bobfoc is but it did make me laugh xx |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face.
lucky you x
Well, to be fair he's a bit 'bobfoc' and it as the only way I could shut him up.
I don’t even know what a bobfoc is but it did make me laugh xx"
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography
I thought it was Chemistry - all about chemistry
Chemistry is the ideal, but geography is the reality "
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography
So anyone will do as long as they’re near you? "
Not at all, I'm prepared to travel, but the majority of women won't |
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies?
A lot less than 1% in my opinion. I may get 300 messages a day and some days not one is well written
But we digress, wasn’t wanting thing to be a guy bashing thread wanted to know how men would think they’d deal with all the attention "
300 messages a day?!?? Fuck me that’s awful and basically no wonder women are very selective about who they reply to...
Of course we are just rehashing all the usual problems but I also don’t like how a lot of men on here check their sent box continuously and send abuse to women who don’t reply or delete messages. |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography
So anyone will do as long as they’re near you?
Not at all, I'm prepared to travel, but the majority of women won't "
So you’re prepared to travel so does that mean just anyone regardless then? |
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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Lets find out ,If all you lovely ladies & couples want to message me then meet & play with me i will tell you after"
Was going to suggest that, are you game OP? |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face.
lucky you x
Well, to be fair he's a bit 'bobfoc' and it as the only way I could shut him up.
I don’t even know what a bobfoc is but it did make me laugh xx
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography
So anyone will do as long as they’re near you?
Not at all, I'm prepared to travel, but the majority of women won't
So you’re prepared to travel so does that mean just anyone regardless then? "
Ahh right! I see what you've done now; you've switched roles already and become a 'pushy guy'...... |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography
So anyone will do as long as they’re near you?
Not at all, I'm prepared to travel, but the majority of women won't
So you’re prepared to travel so does that mean just anyone regardless then?
Ahh right! I see what you've done now; you've switched roles already and become a 'pushy guy'...... "
I may not be anywhere near you and you don’t fancy me but I’m a nice person give me a chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get jealous over veris and the guy you slept with had a bigger cock!
I could go on lol "
No way.... guys on here actually do that?
They don't own you ffs. |
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies? "
Tried that..... didn't work so i must be a minger lol. |
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"Get jealous over veris and the guy you slept with had a bigger cock!
I could go on lol "
We wouldn’t have any other cocks we’d be moaning that we can’t get a meet and why don’t men reply to our wanna fuck message even though our profile only says “fill in later”. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I honestly wouldn't change a single thing about the way I use the site and how often I meet etc - personally I'm more than happy with the level of interaction I have as a solo male profile on here and don't expect that would change a great deal if the roles were reversed |
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"I honestly wouldn't change a single thing about the way I use the site and how often I meet etc - personally I'm more than happy with the level of interaction I have as a solo male profile on here and don't expect that would change a great deal if the roles were reversed "
But the point is it would change, in this scenario. So what would you do or not do if you had hundreds of wanna fuck messages every day and close up of pussies? |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography
So anyone will do as long as they’re near you?
Not at all, I'm prepared to travel, but the majority of women won't
So you’re prepared to travel so does that mean just anyone regardless then?
Ahh right! I see what you've done now; you've switched roles already and become a 'pushy guy'......
I may not be anywhere near you and you don’t fancy me but I’m a nice person give me a chance "
I'm quite a bit beyond your 20 minute drive limit from Manchester city centre I'm afraid |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!? "
What do you mean by 'roles'?
Surely everyone has the opportunity to act on a website in whatever way they feel appropriate to them, just as in any other part of their lives.
The differences between the perceived actions of [single] men and women on here are as a result socialisation and the fact that there are a greater number of men than women.
Women do not have to have a 'role' I would I have thought that most would relish the opportunity to search through a few profiles and message a few men. In other words, seize some control over the way try use the site.
This thread, the continued use of the forum in order for women to portray themselves of victims of the attention they crave and the white Knights who reinforce these views are evidence of the problem.
what would I do? Probably not much different to now. If you treat everyone with the same respect online as you would face to face you won't go far wrong. I may have a few more meets, but really the restriction for me is my time. This has to be something that adds a bit of excitement to your life, not rules your life. Ultimately friends family and hobbies have more of a draw on your free time and no change in 'role' will change that. |
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I would do exactly what I do now. Sit quietly in the man cave talk to those who want to talk or meet with me and I with them. Hide in the shadows and wait until someone contacted me in the main; at least that way I know there is something that made them make an approach even if I don't know what. And wander in my usual bemused fashion around the forums hoping that I may find....
Why would the reversal of numbers ever be a consideration. It may open more opportunities but in the end it doesn't change what anyone may be looking for... |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Geography. It's all about geography
So anyone will do as long as they’re near you?
Not at all, I'm prepared to travel, but the majority of women won't
So you’re prepared to travel so does that mean just anyone regardless then?
Ahh right! I see what you've done now; you've switched roles already and become a 'pushy guy'......
I may not be anywhere near you and you don’t fancy me but I’m a nice person give me a chance
I'm quite a bit beyond your 20 minute drive limit from Manchester city centre I'm afraid "
You can come to me even though I don’t accommodate, we can have sex on the back of my bicycle?? |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
What do you mean by 'roles'?
Surely everyone has the opportunity to act on a website in whatever way they feel appropriate to them, just as in any other part of their lives.
The differences between the perceived actions of [single] men and women on here are as a result socialisation and the fact that there are a greater number of men than women.
Women do not have to have a 'role' I would I have thought that most would relish the opportunity to search through a few profiles and message a few men. In other words, seize some control over the way try use the site.
This thread, the continued use of the forum in order for women to portray themselves of victims of the attention they crave and the white Knights who reinforce these views are evidence of the problem.
what would I do? Probably not much different to now. If you treat everyone with the same respect online as you would face to face you won't go far wrong. I may have a few more meets, but really the restriction for me is my time. This has to be something that adds a bit of excitement to your life, not rules your life. Ultimately friends family and hobbies have more of a draw on your free time and no change in 'role' will change that."
First by roles I meant if there was more women than men and it was the men being bombarded with messages from women.
Secondly my question is what would you do. you have stated you wouldn’t do anything different so does that mean you’d just ignore all the messages you received? |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
What do you mean by 'roles'?
Surely everyone has the opportunity to act on a website in whatever way they feel appropriate to them, just as in any other part of their lives.
The differences between the perceived actions of [single] men and women on here are as a result socialisation and the fact that there are a greater number of men than women.
Women do not have to have a 'role' I would I have thought that most would relish the opportunity to search through a few profiles and message a few men. In other words, seize some control over the way try use the site.
This thread, the continued use of the forum in order for women to portray themselves of victims of the attention they crave and the white Knights who reinforce these views are evidence of the problem.
what would I do? Probably not much different to now. If you treat everyone with the same respect online as you would face to face you won't go far wrong. I may have a few more meets, but really the restriction for me is my time. This has to be something that adds a bit of excitement to your life, not rules your life. Ultimately friends family and hobbies have more of a draw on your free time and no change in 'role' will change that.
First by roles I meant if there was more women than men and it was the men being bombarded with messages from women.
Secondly my question is what would you do. you have stated you wouldn’t do anything different so does that mean you’d just ignore all the messages you received?"
There are more men than women. That's a fact. It doesn't have to mean that defines your role. You still act in whatever way you want.
But. If I was being bombarded with messages I would probably either decide not to use the site, or not to complain about it. Hell, if I got that pissed off with it I might even go so far as messaging a few people I liked the look of and stopping the rest from contacting me. |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face.
lucky you x
Well, to be fair he's a bit 'bobfoc' and it as the only way I could shut him up.
I don’t even know what a bobfoc is but it did make me laugh xx
Body off Baywatch
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"I would do exactly what I do now. Sit quietly in the man cave talk to those who want to talk or meet with me and I with them. Hide in the shadows and wait until someone contacted me in the main; at least that way I know there is something that made them make an approach even if I don't know what. And wander in my usual bemused fashion around the forums hoping that I may find....
Why would the reversal of numbers ever be a consideration. It may open more opportunities but in the end it doesn't change what anyone may be looking for..."
It doesn’t change anything, as you say most of us have an idea what we are looking for and if we have an abundance of offers to choose from we’ll always choose the one most appealing to us. A lot of men don’t understand this, as said hundreds of times, they think a message should equate to an instant shag |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face.
lucky you x
Well, to be fair he's a bit 'bobfoc' and it as the only way I could shut him up.
I don’t even know what a bobfoc is but it did make me laugh xx
Body off Baywatch
Face off Crimewatch
Don't encourage her! "
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
What do you mean by 'roles'?
Surely everyone has the opportunity to act on a website in whatever way they feel appropriate to them, just as in any other part of their lives.
The differences between the perceived actions of [single] men and women on here are as a result socialisation and the fact that there are a greater number of men than women.
Women do not have to have a 'role' I would I have thought that most would relish the opportunity to search through a few profiles and message a few men. In other words, seize some control over the way try use the site.
This thread, the continued use of the forum in order for women to portray themselves of victims of the attention they crave and the white Knights who reinforce these views are evidence of the problem.
what would I do? Probably not much different to now. If you treat everyone with the same respect online as you would face to face you won't go far wrong. I may have a few more meets, but really the restriction for me is my time. This has to be something that adds a bit of excitement to your life, not rules your life. Ultimately friends family and hobbies have more of a draw on your free time and no change in 'role' will change that.
First by roles I meant if there was more women than men and it was the men being bombarded with messages from women.
Secondly my question is what would you do. you have stated you wouldn’t do anything different so does that mean you’d just ignore all the messages you received?
There are more men than women. That's a fact. It doesn't have to mean that defines your role. You still act in whatever way you want.
But. If I was being bombarded with messages I would probably either decide not to use the site, or not to complain about it. Hell, if I got that pissed off with it I might even go so far as messaging a few people I liked the look of and stopping the rest from contacting me."
No one said we had to act a certain way, it’s just a lighthearted thread asking what men would do. Ie. Shag 20 women a night or go and hide in a cave |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
Would you carry on making the ladies jealous by constantly flirting with Hatter too?
We have met Hatter, he hasn't
Ooooh. Let's make him jealous then!
I already am
Had to go back for a second look all the fit ones are nowhere near me
He wasn't near me either but I still sat on his face.
lucky you x
Well, to be fair he's a bit 'bobfoc' and it as the only way I could shut him up.
I don’t even know what a bobfoc is but it did make me laugh xx
Body off Baywatch
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Don't encourage her! "
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
What do you mean by 'roles'?
Surely everyone has the opportunity to act on a website in whatever way they feel appropriate to them, just as in any other part of their lives.
The differences between the perceived actions of [single] men and women on here are as a result socialisation and the fact that there are a greater number of men than women.
Women do not have to have a 'role' I would I have thought that most would relish the opportunity to search through a few profiles and message a few men. In other words, seize some control over the way try use the site.
This thread, the continued use of the forum in order for women to portray themselves of victims of the attention they crave and the white Knights who reinforce these views are evidence of the problem.
what would I do? Probably not much different to now. If you treat everyone with the same respect online as you would face to face you won't go far wrong. I may have a few more meets, but really the restriction for me is my time. This has to be something that adds a bit of excitement to your life, not rules your life. Ultimately friends family and hobbies have more of a draw on your free time and no change in 'role' will change that.
First by roles I meant if there was more women than men and it was the men being bombarded with messages from women.
Secondly my question is what would you do. you have stated you wouldn’t do anything different so does that mean you’d just ignore all the messages you received?
There are more men than women. That's a fact. It doesn't have to mean that defines your role. You still act in whatever way you want.
But. If I was being bombarded with messages I would probably either decide not to use the site, or not to complain about it. Hell, if I got that pissed off with it I might even go so far as messaging a few people I liked the look of and stopping the rest from contacting me.
No one said we had to act a certain way, it’s just a lighthearted thread asking what men would do. Ie. Shag 20 women a night or go and hide in a cave "
Well hopefully whichever way wouldn't lead to being 'bitter about being treated like a piece of meat' |
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I'd like to say that if he a bit more reserved if inundated with offers... yet my male brain won't let me do that.
I'd keep to my same standards. It's a long way to fall off that pedestal |
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Right, new rule, you can’t say I’d do the same as now, after all at the very least your be bulk deleting or reading dozens of messages so it can’t be the same so what would you do about those messages or with/to the women sending.... you get the drift not explained as well as I like  |
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I didn't know first. I respect woman as human beings and equal too myself. I actually have never had a one night stand before as I've always believed in loving someone before intimacy. So this is all bew too me. But After I lost the love of my life over a year ago (she's still alive) I don't want another relationship. They hurt too much. I wouldn't expect too meet anyone on here without getting too know them first and I except that the ladies on here feel the same.
I know some people think sex is just sex.. A fuck is just a fuck. But its the most intimate thing 2 people can do. I really need to know if I like the person and get on with her before I can do anything else. Just the way i am. I would never treat a woman as a piece of meat!! I love women so why would i?
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"Right, new rule, you can’t say I’d do the same as now, after all at the very least your be bulk deleting or reading dozens of messages so it can’t be the same so what would you do about those messages or with/to the women sending.... you get the drift not explained as well as I like "
Ah! With the messages, I'm sure if be the same as most women/couples on here. Reply to the ones that interest me, delete the rest.
I certainly wouldn't be spending 8 hours going through them! |
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies?
A lot less than 1% in my opinion. I may get 300 messages a day and some days not one is well written
But we digress, wasn’t wanting thing to be a guy bashing thread wanted to know how men would think they’d deal with all the attention "
It would be great to see what too much attention feels like. With the shoe on the other foot how would younfeelntonget none day after day and week after week. ZERO incoming messages.. meanwhile going through profile after profile, mostly with very little description at all and try to introduce yourself and start a bit of polite chat. Also trying to.make every one of those dozens of first chat messages individual and not copy and pasted. As well as this you'd be keeping an eye on your "looked at" page to see that still nobody has looked at you despite all the messages sent... how long would you stick that? Just saying, lol |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I honestly wouldn't change a single thing about the way I use the site and how often I meet etc - personally I'm more than happy with the level of interaction I have as a solo male profile on here and don't expect that would change a great deal if the roles were reversed
But the point is it would change, in this scenario. So what would you do or not do if you had hundreds of wanna fuck messages every day and close up of pussies? "
I didn't say "it" wouldn't change though - I said "I" wouldn't change how I use the site. Sure I might have a bigger mailbox to contend with and possibly get more attention but that doesn't mean to say my underlying way of using the site would have to change in any major way. |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!? "
They would behave like we have come to expect from Patriarchal society.
As opposed to seeing it a little differently as it is in here. |
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies?
A lot less than 1% in my opinion. I may get 300 messages a day and some days not one is well written
But we digress, wasn’t wanting thing to be a guy bashing thread wanted to know how men would think they’d deal with all the attention
It would be great to see what too much attention feels like. With the shoe on the other foot how would younfeelntonget none day after day and week after week. ZERO incoming messages.. meanwhile going through profile after profile, mostly with very little description at all and try to introduce yourself and start a bit of polite chat. Also trying to.make every one of those dozens of first chat messages individual and not copy and pasted. As well as this you'd be keeping an eye on your "looked at" page to see that still nobody has looked at you despite all the messages sent... how long would you stick that? Just saying, lol"
Personally I’d hate it. However, I only ignore those that have clearly not read or ignored my profile. In an ideal world I would prefer a dozen messages or so all from men that have read my profile and are looking for the same thing, given me a few options to shortlist...., but that’s ideally and would never happen |
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"I thought women and men were equal.
Not in any walk of life, but we’re getting there "
The thing that prevents that from actually occurring is women's concerns about what other women will think about them. Largely speaking men don't care. This thread highlights exactly how inequality can in certain circumstances be favourable. |
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"Would anyone go mental and meet all the fit women you can? I was a little bit like that when I first joined years ago, loved the attention!! "
I crave some attention so I probably would |
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"You're all deluded, the majority of men would have sex with many, many more women if the numbers were reversed!!
So why don't the women?"
They need to make sure it’s not too obvious in case their husbands find out |
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Geography. It's all about geography
So anyone will do as long as they’re near you?
Not at all, I'm prepared to travel, but the majority of women won't
So you’re prepared to travel so does that mean just anyone regardless then?
Ahh right! I see what you've done now; you've switched roles already and become a 'pushy guy'......
I may not be anywhere near you and you don’t fancy me but I’m a nice person give me a chance
I'm quite a bit beyond your 20 minute drive limit from Manchester city centre I'm afraid
You can come to me even though I don’t accommodate, we can have sex on the back of my bicycle??"
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"You're all deluded, the majority of men would have sex with many, many more women if the numbers were reversed!!
So why don't the women?"
Social conditioning.
Hormones.
Commitments
Taste. |
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"You're all deluded, the majority of men would have sex with many, many more women if the numbers were reversed!!
So why don't the women?
Social conditioning.
Hormones.
Commitments
Taste."
I’d have it everyday but for me it’s definitely down to two things you have highlighted. conditioning, I assume by that you mean how we are supposed to behave and what is socially acceptable, I don’t want to be perceived as a slut and definitely taste. I want someone I fancy and find interesting. It’s so funny how I read on men’s profiles all the time, I don’t have a preference for age, size, race etc but yet I’ve never seen that on a woman’s profile. I do think on the whole men are more accepting of flaws like extra pounds, stretch marks etc that us women worry about but surely they must have some preferences?! |
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"You're all deluded, the majority of men would have sex with many, many more women if the numbers were reversed!!
So why don't the women?
Social conditioning.
Hormones.
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Taste.
I’d have it everyday but for me it’s definitely down to two things you have highlighted. conditioning, I assume by that you mean how we are supposed to behave and what is socially acceptable, I don’t want to be perceived as a slut and definitely taste. I want someone I fancy and find interesting. It’s so funny how I read on men’s profiles all the time, I don’t have a preference for age, size, race etc but yet I’ve never seen that on a woman’s profile. I do think on the whole men are more accepting of flaws like extra pounds, stretch marks etc that us women worry about but surely they must have some preferences?!"
For gods sake please accept my apologies for the grammatical errors, I was going back to amend and correct and it posted by mistake and now I can’t be bother rewriting |
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"You're all deluded, the majority of men would have sex with many, many more women if the numbers were reversed!!
So why don't the women?
They lack the stamina "
I have never met a man that can keep up with me despite all the promises |
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"They wouldn’t cope with that amount of admin...
Ah we’d just bulk delete every other week. Job done!
You’d upset a hell of a lot of women "
I do that now |
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"You're all deluded, the majority of men would have sex with many, many more women if the numbers were reversed!!"
Nah I couldn’t - far too much like hard work - I need to preserve my energy at my age |
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In terms of stamina it depends on what.... Oral absolutely, penetration, well it is harder for a man to do penetration for extended periods than it is for a woman to take it. Our biology is different. Even when I was 16 I could cum maybe 5 times. I have been with women who could cum at least 5 times that in the same time!
In term of how men would behave - unfortunately we have been socialised a certain way, as have you ladies and however much we have fought against it - that socialisation runs very deep. As far as I am concerned I think it is the quality of the encounter and not the frequency of them that matters. |
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Don't think I'd do it any different until the hormones kicked in... But I can't say as I've not experienced that...so I'll be open minded about it and say...I'd still be fussy. |
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"You're all deluded, the majority of men would have sex with many, many more women if the numbers were reversed!!
So why don't the women?
Social conditioning.
Hormones.
Commitments
Taste.
I’d have it everyday but for me it’s definitely down to two things you have highlighted. conditioning, I assume by that you mean how we are supposed to behave and what is socially acceptable, I don’t want to be perceived as a slut and definitely taste. I want someone I fancy and find interesting. It’s so funny how I read on men’s profiles all the time, I don’t have a preference for age, size, race etc but yet I’ve never seen that on a woman’s profile. I do think on the whole men are more accepting of flaws like extra pounds, stretch marks etc that us women worry about but surely they must have some preferences?!"
Preferences for me: be able to chat an communicate, then we might click.
I've had a life of pretty women of all shapes and sizes and all sexy in there own different ways including the wonderful ts girls, but let's get on and get to know each other. And yes, genuinely please stop worrying about any flaws you think you might have |
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"I’m big of my feminism and would welcome the experience just to know what it feels like to be a single woman on sites like this to be honest.
I’d probably try, given my nature, to reply politely to every message and even call out problematic behaviour. Men often don’t know how to react when women treat us like pieces of meat. Put us all in a flesh market and see how bashful some of us will get x
You know I’m probably on this about 8 hours a day and probably reply to about 10% and that takes up my whole time. Obviously that’s me trying to search too and getting into conversations with people I like and going on the forums. I don’t know how I’d find the time to reply to the other 90%. ( truth is I don’t want to because they don’t deserve a reply as they clearly haven’t read my profile, treat other how you expect to be treated) "
Your on here 8 hours a day lmfao hahaha x |
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I didn't know first. I respect woman as human beings and equal too myself. I actually have never had a one night stand before as I've always believed in loving someone before intimacy. So this is all bew too me. But After I lost the love of my life over a year ago (she's still alive) I don't want another relationship. They hurt too much. I wouldn't expect too meet anyone on here without getting too know them first and I except that the ladies on here feel the same.
I know some people think sex is just sex.. A fuck is just a fuck. But its the most intimate thing 2 people can do. I really need to know if I like the person and get on with her before I can do anything else. Just the way i am. I would never treat a woman as a piece of meat!! I love women so why would i?
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"I’m big of my feminism and would welcome the experience just to know what it feels like to be a single woman on sites like this to be honest.
I’d probably try, given my nature, to reply politely to every message and even call out problematic behaviour. Men often don’t know how to react when women treat us like pieces of meat. Put us all in a flesh market and see how bashful some of us will get x
You know I’m probably on this about 8 hours a day and probably reply to about 10% and that takes up my whole time. Obviously that’s me trying to search too and getting into conversations with people I like and going on the forums. I don’t know how I’d find the time to reply to the other 90%. ( truth is I don’t want to because they don’t deserve a reply as they clearly haven’t read my profile, treat other how you expect to be treated)
Your on here 8 hours a day lmfao hahaha x"
I’d say so yes, I do a little work in between but am totally addicted and find it a problem atm I have been on over 6 years and have periods when I don’t come on but currently the Boredom of work is driving me back here more often than I’d like |
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies?
A lot less than 1% in my opinion. I may get 300 messages a day and some days not one is well written
But we digress, wasn’t wanting thing to be a guy bashing thread wanted to know how men would think they’d deal with all the attention
It would be great to see what too much attention feels like. With the shoe on the other foot how would younfeelntonget none day after day and week after week. ZERO incoming messages.. meanwhile going through profile after profile, mostly with very little description at all and try to introduce yourself and start a bit of polite chat. Also trying to.make every one of those dozens of first chat messages individual and not copy and pasted. As well as this you'd be keeping an eye on your "looked at" page to see that still nobody has looked at you despite all the messages sent... how long would you stick that? Just saying, lol"
I'd love an experiment where men couldn't mail anyone and women and couples were forced to go looking. Site meltdown!! |
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"I’m big of my feminism and would welcome the experience just to know what it feels like to be a single woman on sites like this to be honest.
I’d probably try, given my nature, to reply politely to every message and even call out problematic behaviour. Men often don’t know how to react when women treat us like pieces of meat. Put us all in a flesh market and see how bashful some of us will get x
You know I’m probably on this about 8 hours a day and probably reply to about 10% and that takes up my whole time. Obviously that’s me trying to search too and getting into conversations with people I like and going on the forums. I don’t know how I’d find the time to reply to the other 90%. ( truth is I don’t want to because they don’t deserve a reply as they clearly haven’t read my profile, treat other how you expect to be treated)
Your on here 8 hours a day lmfao hahaha x
I’d say so yes, I do a little work in between but am totally addicted and find it a problem atm I have been on over 6 years and have periods when I don’t come on but currently the Boredom of work is driving me back here more often than I’d like "
Get a group chat with your pals or something cos that's no right x |
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"You're all deluded, the majority of men would have sex with many, many more women if the numbers were reversed!!
So why don't the women?
They lack the stamina
I have never met a man that can keep up with me despite all the promises "
Must be all that bicycling you do..... |
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"You're all deluded, the majority of men would have sex with many, many more women if the numbers were reversed!!
So why don't the women?
They lack the stamina
I have never met a man that can keep up with me despite all the promises
Must be all that bicycling you do....."
It’s gathering dust in the garage |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
I suppose you want cake too
Cake?!!... must... resist!!... "
Can I have chocolate cake please and ice cream.....and chocolate sauce drizzled over the top |
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies?
A lot less than 1% in my opinion. I may get 300 messages a day and some days not one is well written
But we digress, wasn’t wanting thing to be a guy bashing thread wanted to know how men would think they’d deal with all the attention
It would be great to see what too much attention feels like. With the shoe on the other foot how would younfeelntonget none day after day and week after week. ZERO incoming messages.. meanwhile going through profile after profile, mostly with very little description at all and try to introduce yourself and start a bit of polite chat. Also trying to.make every one of those dozens of first chat messages individual and not copy and pasted. As well as this you'd be keeping an eye on your "looked at" page to see that still nobody has looked at you despite all the messages sent... how long would you stick that? Just saying, lol
I'd love an experiment where men couldn't mail anyone and women and couples were forced to go looking. Site meltdown!! "
Hahaha see how important men are |
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies?
A lot less than 1% in my opinion. I may get 300 messages a day and some days not one is well written
But we digress, wasn’t wanting thing to be a guy bashing thread wanted to know how men would think they’d deal with all the attention
It would be great to see what too much attention feels like. With the shoe on the other foot how would younfeelntonget none day after day and week after week. ZERO incoming messages.. meanwhile going through profile after profile, mostly with very little description at all and try to introduce yourself and start a bit of polite chat. Also trying to.make every one of those dozens of first chat messages individual and not copy and pasted. As well as this you'd be keeping an eye on your "looked at" page to see that still nobody has looked at you despite all the messages sent... how long would you stick that? Just saying, lol
I'd love an experiment where men couldn't mail anyone and women and couples were forced to go looking. Site meltdown!!
Hahaha see how important men are "
I am pro active anyway.
Wouldn't make much difference to me. |
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All this comes down too is people don't like rejections. See I really Dont care if I get a meet or not. I'm having a laugh with this forum. I've done a profile if ladies on here like me then message me. If you dont... No worries. Just be happy and carefree. A lot less fortunate people in the world. There's people out there with no food so I think going without a shag is quiet achievable without moaning about it.
It nice just too have a chat and laugh with new people on here. Some friend request would be good but not the end of the world. (Not a hint
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Live life, enjoy life, stop complaining |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
I suppose you want cake too
Cake?!!... must... resist!!...
Can I have chocolate cake please and ice cream.....and chocolate sauce drizzled over the top "
If it's chocolate cake you have a to fight me for it! |
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"I wonder what men would do it the roles were reversed on here. Would they meet as many as they could, choose the women they find attractive and interesting, become bitter for being treated like a piece of meat, reply to every message, or any others you wish to add?!?
Nah. I'll keep on being the fussy bugger that I have always been. If anyone fancies a nice cup of tea or coffee though... I'm parched!
I suppose you want cake too
Cake?!!... must... resist!!...
Can I have chocolate cake please and ice cream.....and chocolate sauce drizzled over the top
If it's chocolate cake you have a to fight me for it! "
Then a fight is what you've got ha ha
I've just had pancakes lol |
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I'd love an experiment where men couldn't mail anyone and women and couples were forced to go looking. Site meltdown!! "
You can always start that experiment by yourself and not accept mail from men. Think of all the admin time you'd save!! |
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"How many men on here actually bother themselves to send intelligent, legible and engaging messages in your opinions ladies?
A lot less than 1% in my opinion. I may get 300 messages a day and some days not one is well written
But we digress, wasn’t wanting thing to be a guy bashing thread wanted to know how men would think they’d deal with all the attention
It would be great to see what too much attention feels like. With the shoe on the other foot how would younfeelntonget none day after day and week after week. ZERO incoming messages.. meanwhile going through profile after profile, mostly with very little description at all and try to introduce yourself and start a bit of polite chat. Also trying to.make every one of those dozens of first chat messages individual and not copy and pasted. As well as this you'd be keeping an eye on your "looked at" page to see that still nobody has looked at you despite all the messages sent... how long would you stick that? Just saying, lol
I'd love an experiment where men couldn't mail anyone and women and couples were forced to go looking. Site meltdown!! "
I’ve suggested it on previous threads a number of times but it tends to be shot down. I wonder why? |
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