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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some girl has said said she wants to be used and abused. She mentioned she wants to play rough.
Does anyone have any ideas what else i can do so i can go in there with confidence. Its all new to me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best person to ask is her - be clear what her limits are and what she’s particularly in to rather than rely on others who may well have different kinks and preferences.
Have you known her long? Verified her identity? You’re definitely sure it isn’t a guy on the other end pretending to be a lass?
Have fun and enjoy the ride!  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"She wants to be fucked hard, hair pulling, spanked and covered in scratches and bite marks"
And you know that how exactly? You don't know the person in question so how can you have the slightest clue as to what "used and abused" means to them?!  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"She wants to be fucked hard, hair pulling, spanked and covered in scratches and bite marks. But ask her first what she wants from you."
Good to see you had second thoughts about your original post, although even with the qualifier you added at the end the replacement one isn't much better!! |
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"She wants to be fucked hard, hair pulling, spanked and covered in scratches and bite marks
And you know that how exactly? You don't know the person in question so how can you have the slightest clue as to what "used and abused" means to them?! "
He’s a spanker. It says on his profile.  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"She wants to be fucked hard, hair pulling, spanked and covered in scratches and bite marks
And you know that how exactly? You don't know the person in question so how can you have the slightest clue as to what "used and abused" means to them?!
He’s a spanker. It says on his profile. "
I prefer a spinnaker myself or perhaps a good old fashioned top sail |
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"Some girl has said said she wants to be used and abused. She mentioned she wants to play rough.
Does anyone have any ideas what else i can do so i can go in there with confidence. Its all new to me..."
Simple. Give her a job on zero hours and no holiday entitlement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask her properly what she will like. if you are both new to it, I will give you one word of advice. Once finished, make sure you spend an appropriate amount of time holding her. Rough play like that sometimes requires aftercare  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the first thing you need to ask yourself is this: is it something you also want, have you thought about doing something like this before etc?
I know when Ads and I first got together I had experienced some rougher play than he was used to and it’s something that has happened over time, we’ve gone at his pace what he feels comfy with.
Also I second the communication thing.
Geeky x |
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"Ask her properly what she will like. if you are both new to it, I will give you one word of advice. Once finished, make sure you spend an appropriate amount of time holding her. Rough play like that sometimes requires aftercare
Saturday for spanking Sunday for spooning "
Beatiiful x |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Some girl has said said she wants to be used and abused. She mentioned she wants to play rough.
Does anyone have any ideas what else i can do so i can go in there with confidence. Its all new to me..."
This kind of play requires; clear communication, time to build a 'relationship', a lot of trust from both parties.
Dont rush into it first meet. |
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