 |
By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
There is no "best" way OP other than what you and your prospective meet agree beforehand - you need to understand and agree between you if it's just a social meet first, with no plans to play, or a social meet that if all goes well play may be involved if You're both happy to take that step.
Or if it's a play meet, whether you want to have a drink first or get straight to it.
Either way only you and your meet can decide what's "best"  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It entirely depends on the both of you or the three of you if you’re meeting a couple.
I often find that relaxed folks who aren’t jumping straight into the sex stuff as though they’re machines to be the best and easiest to talk to... it also depends on how comfortable you each are about sharing your own experiences and stuff.
Sometimes I can manage a good conversation about what it is I do in life, where I enjoy travelling, how naughty American taxi drivers can be whilst visiting California... and it flows like a great convo but doesn’t give away too much detail I.e. your job title or where it is you work etc. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *hris 62 OP Man
over a year ago
HEREFORD |
"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here
"
im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell , |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here
im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell ,"
You don't need to apologise. Please continue to post in the forums.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
There is no best way OP. All of those are valid meet options. Do whatever you both/all feel comfortable with. A first meet can be a little nerve wracking. If you have discussed perhaps having sex straight away, try not to expect it. Chemistry cannot be truly gaged until you meet facertain to face. Therefore you are both well within your rights to change your mind. Good luck OP |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There is no best way OP. All of those are valid meet options. Do whatever you both/all feel comfortable with. A first meet can be a little nerve wracking. If you have discussed perhaps having sex straight away, try not to expect it. Chemistry cannot be truly gaged until you meet facertain to face. Therefore you are both well within your rights to change your mind. Good luck OP "
Agreed. Social meet ups are designed to see if you click or not... and also allows people a chance to less awkwardly and politely say thanks but no thanks. Plus it gets a lot of nerves out the way too. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
Decide amongst yourselves what you both want from the first meet.
Social meets are good to see if the chemistry is there but sometimes the attraction is clear, (im thinking if maybe you've chatted a while and cammed etc)in which case get straight down to it
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *hris 62 OP Man
over a year ago
HEREFORD |
"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here
im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell ,
Thank you ,i know poeple laugth about it ,its something i had to put up all my life ,and happy fabbing to all that can undtamd and not
You don't need to apologise. Please continue to post in the forums. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here
im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell ,"
Hey you don't have to apologise to anyone Hun
It's the others who should be apologising to you
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Posts removed. As I said above, please stick to answering the op."
Someone with autism or aspergers for example may have commented about the poor spelling, then if you'd have removed that you'd have discriminated against another affliction /illness by removing the comment.
Defending against dyslexia because O.P may or may not have it at the expense of a comment potentially made by someone with aspergers is a little hypoctitical I think.
I hope all comments made by members with other unseen illnesses that don't conform to moderator ideologies don't get removed in future. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Whatever you both or all decide as everyone is different and needs or even fantasy can change so someone may want a social first where they may just want a quick meet and go the next , so as said just discuss it before and have fun |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *acy69Woman
over a year ago
Letterkenny |
Well you wouldn't walk straight up to a woman in a bar and straight off put ur hand in her panties or up her jumper... ud expect a hard slap.... well if ur not going to at least offer her a drink well she's gone.... it's no different in here ladies deserve respect xxx Tea for me x (see not even an expensive drink) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here
im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell ,
Thank you ,i know poeple laugth about it ,its something i had to put up all my life ,and happy fabbing to all that can undtamd and not
You don't need to apologise. Please continue to post in the forums. "
Some of the greatest minds were dyslexic OP. Please don't let it put you off posting in the forums. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
K