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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends if you have a legitimate reason to find them."
divorce, he needs to be served financial papers and is not on the electoral roll
i just want to find him before the courts do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends if you have a legitimate reason to find them.
divorce, he needs to be served financial papers and is not on the electoral roll
i just want to find him before the courts do "
A bailiff service can if they have a legal reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how do you go about finding someone in the uk who isn't on the electoral roll?
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Just keep an eye out on the 'looked at me' page... if stories I hear are right, there are plenty of ex's on here keeping an eye on peeps  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you know where in the country he stays?
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yeah, i phoned up the district council and he isnt listed on the electoral roll though so no name came up on the database
the address i had for him doesn't have anyone living there and the courts have already been |
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"Never been served any sort of court papers, so forgive my question...but why do you want to find them before the court does?"
Because if the court gets to the money first, you've lost your chance. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Never been served any sort of court papers, so forgive my question...but why do you want to find them before the court does?
Because if the court gets to the money first, you've lost your chance."
Ok another dumb question, what money? Do you get paid to get divorced now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As suggested, I would google any info you have about him... Mobile numbers, car registrations, anything.
Someone on here ages ago, hoaxed pals of ours who had lost their dog.... googled his username and he had an identical profile on another site with a MOBILE number on.... Googled his mobile number to find adverts on Gumtree for cars and home address....
Google is a powerfull tool 
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"Never been served any sort of court papers, so forgive my question...but why do you want to find them before the court does?
Because if the court gets to the money first, you've lost your chance.
Ok another dumb question, what money? Do you get paid to get divorced now? "
'Fraid not ruggers, you'll have to put up with hubby for a while yet.
But if the court is after someone for money regarding something else, say unpaid tax for example, the court gets its cut first.
So if you are chasing someone for money, you need to get it before the court gets it's paws on it.
(and, for clarity, many men on here would argue that yes, women do get paid for divorce. Handsomely. But let's not get into THAT one) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As suggested, I would google any info you have about him... Mobile numbers, car registrations, anything.
Someone on here ages ago, hoaxed pals of ours who had lost their dog.... googled his username and he had an identical profile on another site with a MOBILE number on.... Googled his mobile number to find adverts on Gumtree for cars and home address....
Google is a powerfull tool
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Car registration number, mobile phone even if its PYAG are enough to trace someone but that’s not available to the general public so you will need to have a legal reason for trying to do so. That or call in the A team |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Never been served any sort of court papers, so forgive my question...but why do you want to find them before the court does?
Because if the court gets to the money first, you've lost your chance.
Ok another dumb question, what money? Do you get paid to get divorced now?
'Fraid not ruggers, you'll have to put up with hubby for a while yet.
But if the court is after someone for money regarding something else, say unpaid tax for example, the court gets its cut first.
So if you are chasing someone for money, you need to get it before the court gets it's paws on it.
(and, for clarity, many men on here would argue that yes, women do get paid for divorce. Handsomely. But let's not get into THAT one)"
Ah I see, thanks for that xx
Damn, thought I would get a few bob then for divorcing Mr Ruggers, I might have to keep him now.  |
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Damn, thought I would get a few bob then for divorcing Mr Ruggers, I might have to keep him now. "
Assuming normal married situation etc, you'll get half of everything once all debts/mortgages etc are paid off. So if you've been married for yonks and paid £2500 for your house in 1952(!), you'd be doing quite nicely.
Failing that, his life will be insured for a healthy sum, so if you need him to have a 'canoeing accident' PM me.
(But I'll need a cut of the money. And a fuck) |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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Damn, thought I would get a few bob then for divorcing Mr Ruggers, I might have to keep him now.
Assuming normal married situation etc, you'll get half of everything once all debts/mortgages etc are paid off. So if you've been married for yonks and paid £2500 for your house in 1952(!), you'd be doing quite nicely.
Failing that, his life will be insured for a healthy sum, so if you need him to have a 'canoeing accident' PM me.
(But I'll need a cut of the money. And a fuck)"
How about two fucks and no money? I can throw in a BJ too? |
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"i basically want to find my dad to warn him just how serious thing could get if he doesnt stop piss balling around.
jail sentence
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If he's old enough to be your Dad, he's old enough to know how much trouble he's in.
Maybe, just maybe, not being able to find him is a good thing. If you can't, neither can anyone else. |
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How about two fucks and no money? I can throw in a BJ too?"
NO!
(got your PM, thanks. Check with the Insurer re whether they need a body or not though. In the meantime just act normal with me on the forums. We'll be together soon, darling.xxx) |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"i basically want to find my dad to warn him just how serious thing could get if he doesnt stop piss balling around.
jail sentence
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Cute.. Really, google IS your friend. As someone else said earlier.. Any details, no matter how small and you can find almost anyone you want! I did it with my name and then added date of birth and what I do... I was shocked at how much came up on the search.
Any phone numbers, old address details and the like. Would he have left a forwarding address with the post office. Silly things but any of them could hit!
Sadly, I think you may be wasting your time, because if he is being chased and he has moved without any contact with anyone, he already knows he is for the high jump! If he does, I think it is unlikely that he will change anytime soon.
I wish you very good luck with your quest and hope you get a satisfactory conclusion xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"baliffs found my ex but you could try facebook or friends reunited "
That's how my sister found her son's dad. Never paid a penny towards his son, didn't have any money apparently, was single and posted on Facebook Auto Trader is crap as he couldn't find a decent car for his wife! |
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"i basically want to find my dad to warn him just how serious thing could get if he doesnt stop piss balling around.
jail sentence
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Stupid question but do the family know he cud be in shit, sometimes people keep in touch on the quiet.
If you have tried that are there any old friends you cud contact?
Hope u succeed, but if you dont remember you tried to do the right thing. |
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