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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey everybody. We're pretty new to this. But some of the stuff I see on here baffles me. We all want to meet clean and respectful people we expect that. The only thing I can't understand is people who are saying they are really fussy!! Can you be fussy on here? After all you have come on here to meet people to have sex  . Anyway hello everyone  xx |
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" Hey everybody. We're pretty new to this. But some of the stuff I see on here baffles me. We all want to meet clean and respectful people we expect that. The only thing I can't understand is people who are saying they are really fussy!! Can you be fussy on here? After all you have come on here to meet people to have sex . Anyway hello everyone xx"
Of course you can be fussy.... You aren't going to fuck everyone who asks are you?! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Interested to know why you think you can't be fussy about who you might want to have sex with?
We all have criteria that make up what attracts us to another person, regardless of whether that be in the context of a relationship, or that of a swinging/NSA environment. I know I wouldn't and couldn't find satisfaction sexually with people I didn't have some level of connection, chemistry with and attraction to - if that makes me fussy, then long may it continue  |
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I'm extremely fussy too and this is why I don't meet a lot of people. Everything has to be a particular standard or what's the point meeting? If in real life we wouldn't be a match then online we won't be. I think people presume just because you're online you will go with anyone. This may be acceptable for most but not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 weeks you are on here and you haven't met anyone...you must be fussy somehow"
They are seeking a single female only to play with. That may explain their lack of meets. You know how damn 'fussy' us single women are  |
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I don't consider myself 'fussy' .... I just try to ensure that the people who I'm going to get up close and personal with tick all my boxes. Otherwise, what'd be the point? The aim is to try and have the best time possible, not set yourself (and the other party/parties) up for a fall by not bothering to check you're compatible in all the areas important to you beforehand  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here?? |
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??"
Nope.... Still don't get it. |
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??"
To sleep with ppl you are attracted to |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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What the hell?!?!
Do you happily just fuck any old cock or pussy that happens to pass by?
Swinging isn't about getting as many notches on your bed post as possible! I'm kinda nipped at your "can you be fussy?"
Swinging is mainly a social adventure with like minded individuals and those you find attractive or have a connection to means you can enjoy a physical side to that aspect of your relationship/friendship.
Your comment OP sums up entirely what is wrong with the swinging generation now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??"
So because we are on here we have to drop our standards and fuck anyone who asks? No thanks like i said before id go without rather than fucking just anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might be on a sex/swinging site looking for sex but I sure as hell will not lower my standards because of this.
I am fussy outside this site and if anything maybe more fussier on here than I normally would be.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??"
Personally speaking OP. I have a hectic home life, which doesn't afford me the time to go out regularly socially... And never on a weekend. This is the next best thing. I could easily pull on a night out, I just can't get out on a night out to pull |
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??"
I think you will find out exactly how fussy the single fems are on here. Good luck. |
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I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??
I think you will find out exactly how fussy the single fems are on here. Good luck."
Give them time. Theyll find out
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??"
I'll continue to be picky then.
Having sex with someone I'm attracted to......mental. I should be fucking anybody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them. "
i'm not sure where 'inhibitions' figure in the OP..or in whether people are 'fussy' or not. Aren't they a completely different thing to sexual preferences?..because they certainly are too me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??"
Of course we're bloody picky. If you're happy with the opening your legs for anyone, or sticking your cock in anything with a pulse, then good for you.
Just happens a lot of us have higher standards and won't just settle for that will do, for the sake of a fuck.
I wouldn't fuck just anyone away from here, why the hell would that change just because I'm on a site that has people who share a similar lifestyle  |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them. "
No it isn't a sex site! Think before you type! To have sex with someone you need to be attracted to them. So yes people are fussy and have standards. Mine are higher than if I were dating. Yes the mystery of what's under the clothes is gone but you still need to have that attraction.
If you want an NSA fuck with whom youve no desire for try a hooker! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them. "
What has inhibitions got to do with physical attraction?? I have next to no inhibitions, doesn't mean I'm going to fuck someone I have zero attraction to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 weeks you are on here and you haven't met anyone...you must be fussy somehow
They are seeking a single female only to play with. That may explain their lack of meets. You know how damn 'fussy' us single women are "
Too fussy we’re yet to find one too why won’t you just let us use your body how we want? We’re only slight pervs
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them. "
But inhibitions and standards are two separate things |
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them.
But inhibitions and standards are two separate things "
Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and just one more thing I learned after several years of hedonism. You play often with some people in clubs you will never meet on 1 to 1. Alcohol and the atmosphere I suppose . "
That is the pleasure of a club and group sex but I still choose who I have sex with x |
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Personally I wouldn’t want to shag someone who would have sex with just anyone just because they have a cock or vagina.
If there’s no connection you may as well just have a wank. Selecting your partners wisely is always a good thing on fab or in the real world. Sex is an intimate act and taking time to get to know what someone’s about is the way to go imo.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not that fussy where body, race, religion or political views are concerned, but I have to be attracted to the face and the character of the man. "
Exactly my point. When some one says 'fussy' that what I automatically assume. |
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them.
No it isn't a sex site! Think before you type! To have sex with someone you need to be attracted to them. So yes people are fussy and have standards. Mine are higher than if I were dating. Yes the mystery of what's under the clothes is gone but you still need to have that attraction.
If you want an NSA fuck with whom youve no desire for try a hooker! "
this is indeed a sex site people do not join up to "fabswingers" because they aren't looking for sex just looking for friends are they? |
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"2 weeks you are on here and you haven't met anyone...you must be fussy somehow
They are seeking a single female only to play with. That may explain their lack of meets. You know how damn 'fussy' us single women are "
Ahh so now the OP is a hypocrite too
Asking why are people “fussy” but them themselves are only after single females |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you can be extremely fussy if you want to, especially as a female or a couple.
You can sometimes be too fussy, and you end up never meeting anyone "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you can be extremely fussy if you want to, especially as a female or a couple.
You can sometimes be too fussy, and you end up never meeting anyone "
I’d rather wait and meet the right person than be desperate to shag anyone just cos they ask |
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them.
No it isn't a sex site! Think before you type! To have sex with someone you need to be attracted to them. So yes people are fussy and have standards. Mine are higher than if I were dating. Yes the mystery of what's under the clothes is gone but you still need to have that attraction.
If you want an NSA fuck with whom youve no desire for try a hooker!
this is indeed a sex site people do not join up to "fabswingers" because they aren't looking for sex just looking for friends are they?"
In some cases yes. |
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them.
No it isn't a sex site! Think before you type! To have sex with someone you need to be attracted to them. So yes people are fussy and have standards. Mine are higher than if I were dating. Yes the mystery of what's under the clothes is gone but you still need to have that attraction.
If you want an NSA fuck with whom youve no desire for try a hooker!
this is indeed a sex site people do not join up to "fabswingers" because they aren't looking for sex just looking for friends are they?"
Of course people are looking for sex on a sex site but that doesn't mean the women or blokes have to drop standards or have to have a connection first.
Appreciate to some men any holes a goal but most of us want attraction as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them.
No it isn't a sex site! Think before you type! To have sex with someone you need to be attracted to them. So yes people are fussy and have standards. Mine are higher than if I were dating. Yes the mystery of what's under the clothes is gone but you still need to have that attraction.
If you want an NSA fuck with whom youve no desire for try a hooker!
this is indeed a sex site people do not join up to "fabswingers" because they aren't looking for sex just looking for friends are they?"
Swinging is not just about sex but the social side too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately the 'fussy' protagonists aren't quite as diligent as they make out when saying they need a connection and 'fancy' someone first as decisions are often made in the back of one face photo ... not exactly the way to work out if they have a connection. The reality is just skin deep ... |
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"seriously?
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I think I know what they mean.
We're here to meet people for sex in the main. We're not looking for a kidney donor or life partner: simply someone we find hot as fuck...to fuck.
Some profiles do read as if the writer is God's gift: we're not here to fuck the whole site, we're not hardened swingers, we only meet exceptional people...you know the ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very selective and if that makes me fussy so be it.
I have turned down a lot of men and as a consequence haven't had a lot of meets but pretty much like everyone else has said I won't have sex with just anyone or for the sake of it.
Very random first post methinks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fussy has such perjorative connotations as a word. I think discerning is a better word to describe what people mean by it. There are a number of factors that most people who use the word take into consideration before deciding to have sex with anyone. Even those that don’t use the word still use differing degrees of discernment in making their decision. However, at its simplest it boils down to physical and mental attraction. Some have quite a brad range of what they find attractive others have a narrower range. Add to that the likelihood that individuals are on here to fulfill fantasies as well, then it is hardly surprising that they are discerning in making their choices.
Is that not the case for you? |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
Even as a mere man,, I wouldn't and haven't gone with every one that approaches me, I know what I like and don't. I know my mind and its the one that makes the decisions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"seriously?
I think I know what they mean.
We're here to meet people for sex in the main. We're not looking for a kidney donor or life partner: simply someone we find hot as fuck...to fuck.
Some profiles do read as if the writer is God's gift: we're not here to fuck the whole site, we're not hardened swingers, we only meet exceptional people...you know the ones. "
Yes this is exactly what I mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"seriously?
I think I know what they mean.
We're here to meet people for sex in the main. We're not looking for a kidney donor or life partner: simply someone we find hot as fuck...to fuck.
Some profiles do read as if the writer is God's gift: we're not here to fuck the whole site, we're not hardened swingers, we only meet exceptional people...you know the ones.
Yes this is exactly what I mean "
Why would you be any less than fussy? I am very fussy about who gets to swap cum with me! |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"I think the OP has genuine points on this topic,obviously the "this isn't dial a ride" brigade will be lighting their torches and sharpening their pitchforks as I type but primarily this site is a NSA sex site,I can almost hear the gasps of faux indignation from the "it's a swingers site nt a sex site" brigade, if you want to just swing get to the nearest playground and have at it. Obviously we can all be a choosy who we have sex with but sites like this should lower inhibitions not increase them.
No it isn't a sex site! Think before you type! To have sex with someone you need to be attracted to them. So yes people are fussy and have standards. Mine are higher than if I were dating. Yes the mystery of what's under the clothes is gone but you still need to have that attraction.
If you want an NSA fuck with whom youve no desire for try a hooker!
this is indeed a sex site people do not join up to "fabswingers" because they aren't looking for sex just looking for friends are they?"
Yes some do.... I rarely meet cos I'm fussy! Proud to be as well and I've made lots of friends whom I've met from fab and they've never had their bits in me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interested to know why you think you can't be fussy about who you might want to have sex with?
We all have criteria that make up what attracts us to another person, regardless of whether that be in the context of a relationship, or that of a swinging/NSA environment. I know I wouldn't and couldn't find satisfaction sexually with people I didn't have some level of connection, chemistry with and attraction to - if that makes me fussy, then long may it continue "
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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Wouldn't it be ironic if all the profiles twisting about not getting replies/meets etc all gave the OP some opportunities they could be 'fussy' about 
Yes we want nsa sex (and in some cases sex with swinging friends), hell yeah we get to pick who we do that with.
OP do you suggest that all offers on here should be taken up? Just because we've joined this site and waived our consent rights? Your classification pay didn't really help me understand the difference from your OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m a right fussy bitch... the amount of times mr beast has said what about this person and I’m like hell no!! I know what I like, if people don’t meet that then there is no chance, we may prefer to meet single ladies but we don’t lower our standards to get that meet.
Also if there is attraction all round and then also the personalities all work well together then you get the most amazing sex which is what we are all here for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m a right fussy bitch... the amount of times mr beast has said what about this person and I’m like hell no!! I know what I like, if people don’t meet that then there is no chance, we may prefer to meet single ladies but we don’t lower our standards to get that meet.
Also if there is attraction all round and then also the personalities all work well together then you get the most amazing sex which is what we are all here for. "
That's the thing isn't it? It must be more difficult for you, as you probably have different tastes. Finding someone who fits you both, must be very difficult |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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" Hey everybody. We're pretty new to this. But some of the stuff I see on here baffles me. We all want to meet clean and respectful people we expect that. The only thing I can't understand is people who are saying they are really fussy!! Can you be fussy on here? After all you have come on here to meet people to have sex . Anyway hello everyone xx"
Damn right I'm fussy I don't let anyone have set with me that I don't have an attraction too whether that's male or female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m a right fussy bitch... the amount of times mr beast has said what about this person and I’m like hell no!! I know what I like, if people don’t meet that then there is no chance, we may prefer to meet single ladies but we don’t lower our standards to get that meet.
Also if there is attraction all round and then also the personalities all work well together then you get the most amazing sex which is what we are all here for.
That's the thing isn't it? It must be more difficult for you, as you probably have different tastes. Finding someone who fits you both, must be very difficult "
It can be and vice Versa as it’s important that she likes us both too and not just putting up with me to get to mr or putting up with him to get with me. . |
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??"
Yes, I'm That fussy. I have a type and anyone I've met from here has been that type.
Why shouldn't anyone fussy be on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am fussy and proud
I refuse to lower my standards or compromise, as our profile states we do this for fun, and if I don't think it will be fun - I won't do it quite simply.
I need someone to engage my brain, without that doesn't matter how hot someone is, I do not remove my undies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another proud fussy person here!
The thought of just hooking up with anyone and everyone for sex makes me wanna vomit 
I need a connection with someone, that spark, the glint in the eye and naughty smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another proud fussy person here!
The thought of just hooking up with anyone and everyone for sex makes me wanna vomit
I need a connection with someone, that spark, the glint in the eye and naughty smile. "
Couldn't agree more. Everyone should be fussy. |
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Most of us don't have revolving doors where unknown anonymous shags stream in and out. There's a good number of us that look a little deeper than the surface and often have long term connections with people who we shag with.
We make our own rules and have our own tastes - some are more catholic than others. There's nothing wrong with a revolving door approach, where almost any physical body would do but I don't think that's close to what people do.
A final reason to state that one is fussy, is because a lot of people can get push/desperate - it can possibly filter out some less appropriate people ot reassure yourself that you aren't an easy |
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I didn't see the op as an attack as most have: but an observation.
I saw a profile from a couple who, in their words, were exceptional and were looking for the same. They further added they were gym fit, in fact they went to great pains to inform how often they went to the gym and only wanted to meet the same: no oompah lumpas as they only wanted to meet people who took care of their bodies.
I have absolutely no problem with that: their body, their rules, their right. What made me smile was they were into barebacking: one could argue that was hardly taking care of yourself.
I think it's that kind of thing the op means. We all have preferences. "Standards" to me imply some are better than others. My preference is for tall men: 6ft and above. It doesn't mean those who meet men 5ft 8 don't have standards: there preference differs to mine.
I'm not putting words in the ops mouth, but I don't think they were implying we should spread em for whoever asks.
Okie dokie as you were...I'm back to the Brothers Grimsby on Netflix. |
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"Another proud fussy person here!
The thought of just hooking up with anyone and everyone for sex makes me wanna vomit
I need a connection with someone, that spark, the glint in the eye and naughty smile. "
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"I didn't see the op as an attack as most have: but an observation.
I saw a profile from a couple who, in their words, were exceptional and were looking for the same. They further added they were gym fit, in fact they went to great pains to inform how often they went to the gym and only wanted to meet the same: no oompah lumpas as they only wanted to meet people who took care of their bodies.
I have absolutely no problem with that: their body, their rules, their right. What made me smile was they were into barebacking: one could argue that was hardly taking care of yourself.
I think it's that kind of thing the op means. We all have preferences. "Standards" to me imply some are better than others. My preference is for tall men: 6ft and above. It doesn't mean those who meet men 5ft 8 don't have standards: there preference differs to mine.
I'm not putting words in the ops mouth, but I don't think they were implying we should spread em for whoever asks.
Okie dokie as you were...I'm back to the Brothers Grimsby on Netflix. "
Yeh exactly what I mean. We all have preferences we would not just sleep with anyone. But just in my opinions if I was reading through a profile and I saw the words 'I'm very fussy' I would stop reading there thinking I don't have a chance. |
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"I didn't see the op as an attack as most have: but an observation.
I saw a profile from a couple who, in their words, were exceptional and were looking for the same. They further added they were gym fit, in fact they went to great pains to inform how often they went to the gym and only wanted to meet the same: no oompah lumpas as they only wanted to meet people who took care of their bodies.
I have absolutely no problem with that: their body, their rules, their right. What made me smile was they were into barebacking: one could argue that was hardly taking care of yourself.
I think it's that kind of thing the op means. We all have preferences. "Standards" to me imply some are better than others. My preference is for tall men: 6ft and above. It doesn't mean those who meet men 5ft 8 don't have standards: there preference differs to mine.
I'm not putting words in the ops mouth, but I don't think they were implying we should spread em for whoever asks.
Okie dokie as you were...I'm back to the Brothers Grimsby on Netflix.
Yeh exactly what I mean. We all have preferences we would not just sleep with anyone. But just in my opinions if I was reading through a profile and I saw the words 'I'm very fussy' I would stop reading there thinking I don't have a chance."
I’ve been gobsmacked by the number of ‘fussy’ people who have been interested in me. Don’t read too much into the word, for some it means they won’t fuck a silhouette |
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"We obviously have a different definition of 'fussy'. That in my opinion means your extremely picky who it is you sleep with, certain look certain body etc. Your on a site which is basically to sleep with people. If you were that fussy would you be on here??"
Ohhh so you can be fussy as long as you're not after a certain look or body type ? |
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